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User Topic: Anniversary anxiety
deena04
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Default  Posted: 2:03 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Our wedding anniversary on paper is approaching. I don't want to acknowledge it at all. I've told him that, but he may pull something because he still is proud of us getting married. My take is I wouldn't have if I had all the information (read my bio or tag line to see why). My stomach turns at thinking about this day. Do I tell him again to not do anything or just let it go? I'm planning on leaving town that day to completely get away from him. If he gets a gift for me, it may end up meeting his breakfast on the way out if you know what I mean. Just don't want to deal with this!

[This message edited by deena04 at 2:03 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday)]


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want out!

Posts: 1000 | Registered: Dec 2013
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:20 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hopefully he will respect your wishes and give you some space on that day. I didn't want to celebrate it... actually I still struggle with the actual day.

Making plans to leave town is not a bad idea if it's what you really want - are you planning something for yourself? Maybe a spa day or something...

(((deena04)))


If life is just a series of ridiculous attempts to be alive, you're a hero. - J. Winger

Posts: 17564 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
deena04
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Member # 41741
Default  Posted: 3:33 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not really sure of what I will do yet other than getting out of here. Maybe I'll visit relatives farther away or my best friend from high school. I don't know yet other than either leaving the night before or very early morning of the day and taking a couple days away. My hopes are to relax and unwind a bit while gone.


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want out!

Posts: 1000 | Registered: Dec 2013
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