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User Topic: Anniversary anxiety
deena04
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Default  Posted: 2:03 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Our wedding anniversary on paper is approaching. I don't want to acknowledge it at all. I've told him that, but he may pull something because he still is proud of us getting married. My take is I wouldn't have if I had all the information (read my bio or tag line to see why). My stomach turns at thinking about this day. Do I tell him again to not do anything or just let it go? I'm planning on leaving town that day to completely get away from him. If he gets a gift for me, it may end up meeting his breakfast on the way out if you know what I mean. Just don't want to deal with this!

[This message edited by deena04 at 2:03 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday)]


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
L-I-B-E-R-A-T-I-N-G ME

Posts: 1210 | Registered: Dec 2013
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:20 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hopefully he will respect your wishes and give you some space on that day. I didn't want to celebrate it... actually I still struggle with the actual day.

Making plans to leave town is not a bad idea if it's what you really want - are you planning something for yourself? Maybe a spa day or something...

(((deena04)))


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18283 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
deena04
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Default  Posted: 3:33 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not really sure of what I will do yet other than getting out of here. Maybe I'll visit relatives farther away or my best friend from high school. I don't know yet other than either leaving the night before or very early morning of the day and taking a couple days away. My hopes are to relax and unwind a bit while gone.


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
L-I-B-E-R-A-T-I-N-G ME

Posts: 1210 | Registered: Dec 2013
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