I just read a few of your old posts. He broke NC, and refused to stop contact. So chances are, he is still in contact with his whore.
I'm not sure if you've considered it yet, but he has most likely been sharing your posts with OW.
And he has the nerve to ask you if there is something you'd like to tell him? Why, it almost sounds as if he feels you have betrayed him somehow by posting here.
I saw in your profile that you are inching towards divorce. Stop inching. RUN.
M: June 2001
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.