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User Topic: Married man tried to pick me up
Karmita
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Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


So, I'm at a work conference and this married man was giving me a lot of compliments, meanwhile hinting at how unhappy his marriage was.

I gave him enough rope to hang himself. Gave him a sympathetic ear and near the end of our "deep" discussion, I offered to call his wife and help them out with their problems.
I never saw a man run off so fast.

I guess he thought I'd console him in my hotel room as opposed to letting his wife know how unhappy he is the marriage.


Posts: 74 | Registered: Aug 2013
Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Every time I see these, I think "I wonder if it was my wh hitting on one of you here"..... I could only wish because what you did was LOVELY! I wish I could have been there to witness it! Proud of you girl!


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012

Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong


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mhca
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I offered to call his wife and help them out with their problems. I never saw a man run off so fast.

That is priceless. Superb.


Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing

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Posts: 642 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ick. Next time just ask to borrow his phone...maybe so you can input the number. Then call the wife instead and tell the poor woman her pig is trolling.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11197 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
seethelight
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I offered to call his wife and help them out with their problems.
I never saw a man run off so fast.

Karmita:

Excellent response and I will use it next time a married man hits on me.

Typically, I just give them a stern look, and hold up my wedding ring hand.

But your response has so much more impact.

It not only says no, but it says no way, don't even think about it.


ďIf two people truly have feelings for one another then they donít have an affair. They get a divorce and they sort out their feelings. You are accountable for the people you hold hostage in a marriage when your mind and heart refuse to fully commit

Posts: 1213 | Registered: May 2014
Karmita
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Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I scared the poop out of this trolling cheater. Sadly, some women fall for this.

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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hah! Love it!


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

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Jeaniegirl
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Since my XH met his OW while attending a
conference, I LOVE THIS. Sadly some women like the OW in my case - TROLL conferences for men.

Only once this has happened to me (being approached by obviously married man.) When he told me his name and where he was from, I said ...."what a small world! I think I know your wife!"

Good for you!

[This message edited by Jeaniegirl at 3:50 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday)]


"Because I deserve better"

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TheIrishGirl
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is perfection. I am going to file it away for futur reference should it ever be needed.


Me: 31, BW Him: 38, WH
2 children (ours) 7/11 & 3/14
D-day 4/18/14 I saw his 'other' email

Posts: 471 | Registered: May 2014
brkn_heartd
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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a wonderful response! Priceless!


Me-51 BS
Him 58-WS
Married 31 yrs, together 34
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

Posts: 1618 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 10:14 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would contact his wife and give her your sympathies for being in such an *unhappy* marriage....


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8023 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Melian40
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Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Excellent Karmita!
You are one of my favorite members.


BW-me:40
BH-him:41
DD-age 9
Together 7 years, married 17 years
DD1:8/12/2013 -OW1-PA 1.5 months in 2009
DD2:8/17/2013 - OW2-EA Spring 2013- He tried to hit on her but she denied.

"You can't fix a broken man, but he can break you"


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