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krsplat
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Content  Posted: 7:47 AM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is just a shout out to the hardworking admins, mods and guides who give up their time to make this website a safe space for us all to be, to talk, and to heal. Those who run this site put up with alot of ridiculous crap in order to make sure that there is a protected place here for all parties -- BSs, WSs and APs alike-- to let go of garbage we carry, without fear of being slammed (gentle, corrective 2x4s notwithstanding ). That is not the case on every infidelity website.

I was realizing this morning what "safe haven" SI is for me, and want to make my gratitude public. So Deeply Scared, Meta, MangledHeart, authenticnow, jo2love, wifehad5, Jrazz, LosferWords, Moo and nowiknow23, thanks for being our SI angels.


Me & WH: 48, married 22 years, 4 kids
DDay: 3/5/14, 7 yr LTA plus multiple ONS
Status: Back on the coaster. Who knows?

Posts: 373 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Virginia
deena04
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Member # 41741
Default  Posted: 8:00 AM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want...I have no idea

Posts: 1129 | Registered: Dec 2013
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you krsplat and deena


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52761 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
solus sto
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Member # 30989
Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This really is a soul- and sanity-saving site. Not to be too alliterative about it

I am grateful for it every day.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8888 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Ascendant
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Member # 38303
Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woot woot!


I keep my mind on my future/and my eyes on the sky/I don't really smile much/If you were there you'd know why.

Posts: 2185 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: City in the Midwest/Best In The Whole Wide World
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you!! That's really nice of you


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198448 | Registered: May 2002
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you - that is so sweet.

I know we all feel lucky to be here and be able to help in this capacity.

(((krsplat)))


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17905 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

True story!

Thanks guys.


Posts: 3423 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
sisoon
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Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm always amazed at the loving quality of SI.

I've seen some other infidelity recovery sites, and the quality of the forums doesn't come close to SI. I can't believe their members are any better or worse than SI members are. The big difference between SI and the other sites, IMO, is the moderation and guidance.

DS and MH set SI up based on loving values and guidelines, and 'the staff' uses them to bring out the best in almost all of us.

Thanks, guys.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10430 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll quintuple that!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you. I love that SI is truly one big, caring, we've got your back, no matter what the hour you are never alone, cry/laugh with you (got to love SPF), awesome family.


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