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Wantslove
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Default  Posted: 7:25 AM, July 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How do you trust again? How do you stop obsessing? How do you breathe? When do the tears stop? When do the dreams stop? When do you feel normal again?


Posts: 2 | Registered: Jul 2014
devasted30
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Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, July 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's different for everyone. It depends on you and your WS. Is he remorseful and trying to help you heal? Are in in IC? There is no answer, but if your WS is working to help you etc., then the only thing that will get you through this is HARD work and time.

Posts: 1172 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
limbohurts
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Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, July 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is different for everyone. It took about 3 months for me to calm down. I am still up and down and the tears flow here and there but it is less severe. Letting go of what the future holds and taking it one day at a time has helped me too.


Me BW
Him WH LTA
Married 18 years
2 kids
Separated March 2014
Divorcing

Posts: 71 | Registered: Jun 2014
heme
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Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, July 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It took almost 6 months from DDay 1 until I started being able to function almost normally.. Then DDay 2 happened. Its going to take a long, long time this time.


BS: Me (30)
WS: Husband (31)
Married 8 years, together 9
D-Day: Sept 10, 2013
D-Day2: May 31, 2014
Children: 5, ages 7, 5, 3, 1 and due in September

Leaning towards leaving, no one deserves this pain.


Posts: 205 | Registered: Sep 2013
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