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User Topic: Is it really better to disclose all?
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^^ this

Trickle truth destroys your credibility. There is an assumption there is more after you have repeatedly assured your betrayed that they have it all there is still the lingering thought in their head that says "you said that last time"

Don't put yourself in that situation.

Me-WS 50
Her-BS 50 Questioningall
5 kids
Dday 1 12/12
Dday 2 - 3/14 EAs, 2 ONS, 1 LTA
TT until 7/14 when I gave a timeline
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BW Roberts

Posts: 208 | Registered: May 2014
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, July 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all. I didn't post and run - I just limit my online time at home and over the weekend I was off the computer. I'm sure you all understand.

Now that I'm back at work I read the rest of the replies. I have to say I'm convinced I need to tell the full truth and prepare for the consequences. I appreciate all of your words of advice, particularly the advice on how to prepare for the conversation. It may still be a while until I tell (meaning a week or two) due to some things coming up, but I do plan to tell all. I make myself sick and I wish I was someone else, but this will be the start of that new person.

Thank you all, sincerely.

Me: WW
2 young kids
DDay - Dec 2013 (EA), TT
DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
(All the same A)

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