What a POS. Gonna, I'm sorry you ever met the monster. D-bag doesn't deserve any appellation other than Monster.
As a Dad, as a Father, hell as a man, I was jealous of the 9 months my kids spent developing inside my spouses womb. I couldn't wait for them to finish breast feeding so that I could take over. From the moment they were on the bottle, EVERY night feeding became mine.
Really can't tolerate men who refuse to acknowledge their responsibilities. Gives the rest of us a bad name.
(BTW, yep, working 45-50 hour weeks, it's called responsibility.)