Topic: Watching me
Member # 41522
| Posted: 6:48 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014|
Does anyone else WS constantly watch them? My husband is always looking at me, as if I might disappear. It starting to drive me crazy.
Kids ages: 2 and 5
Married: 8 years
DDAY: Dec 1 2013
Affair: 2 months EA and PA
Status: Separted. Sigh...I wish I could forgive 😞
Update: attempting to reconcile
Posts: 248 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Canada
Member # 35812
| Posted: 10:08 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014|
Yeah, it can be horribly irritating, can't it! Mine did, until he felt more secure that I would not just pack up and disappear. How is it between the two of you? Are you both in a more stable place?
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 5100 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 44136
| Posted: 10:28 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014|
Hi andreal-yes, to see how I reacted on the things he said.
Posts: 102 | Registered: Jul 2014
Member # 41192
| Posted: 10:41 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014|
We are separated in the same home right now, his choice, but yeah I catch him staring at me constantly and it's driving me nuts. What??
Me: 33 BS 2 boys (2yr & 5yr)
Him: 33 WH, sex addict, then 12 mos EA/2 mos PA with co-worker whore
Together 15yrs, married 7yrs
Dday 9/17/2013, more discovered 1/26/14
NC broken 7/28/14- pathetic piece of crap PA began.
Separated, R during divor
Posts: 507 | Registered: Nov 2013
Member # 33523
| Posted: 11:21 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014|
Mine wouldn't, but he would riffle thru my office when I was at work. Caught him reading my journal and trying to get into my phone & email.
Is he trying to make you uncomfortable enough that you just leave?
Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
Everything is as it should be.
Posts: 773 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Member # 43568
| Posted: 12:08 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014|
Yes, mine is always watching me, checking to see what I am thinking. Also checking what I am doing on my computer. Afraid I will find some evidence.
Me 54, WS 49
17 yrs tog, no children.
DD 4/14 - OW wrote to me
Posts: 121 | Registered: May 2014
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