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User Topic: How long did you refuse sex with your WS after D-Day?
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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

About a month later. We had sex once, it was awkward and I felt dirty. I never let him touch me again. Uhggg, he is completely disgusting to me. If you saw what he fornicated with you would totally understand.

I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2501 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

about 9-10 days.

When I first found out I was absolutely disgusted at the thought of him sticking his dick in someone else. But I finally got the story out of him and I almost felt more connected with him after he opened up to me. I was so afraid that I'd have a trigger in the middle of sex and not be able to finish. But honestly, it was the most incredible sex I've had in a LONG time. The next day we went on a date to a city which was about an hour away. We had a very romantic dinner and then proceeded to get a hotel room just because we couldn't keep our hands off each other. I wonder if part of me was feeding into his sexual need that I supposedly wasn't giving him (which is why he continued on with an EA). I guess I have no idea why I did it. I have read an article in the healing library that talks about how sex can be a very enjoyous thing after dday. Funny how that works.

Me: 30ish Him: 30ish (99% sure he has NPD)
Together 14 yrs, Married 9 yrs
His #1 EA D-day 10/20/09
His #2 PA/EA D-day 7/11/14
My PA D-day 10/21/09
My brain says leave, my heart says stay

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