about 9-10 days.
When I first found out I was absolutely disgusted at the thought of him sticking his dick in someone else. But I finally got the story out of him and I almost felt more connected with him after he opened up to me. I was so afraid that I'd have a trigger in the middle of sex and not be able to finish. But honestly, it was the most incredible sex I've had in a LONG time. The next day we went on a date to a city which was about an hour away. We had a very romantic dinner and then proceeded to get a hotel room just because we couldn't keep our hands off each other. I wonder if part of me was feeding into his sexual need that I supposedly wasn't giving him (which is why he continued on with an EA). I guess I have no idea why I did it. I have read an article in the healing library that talks about how sex can be a very enjoyous thing after dday. Funny how that works.