The fact that it escalates to arguing, is a very telling sign. You have what seem very valid concerns, she replies with anger...
FUCK HER and her non empathetic, it's all about me ass. Yep, just that bluntly. I have been there, and it will rip your soul apart if you stand for it. I hope you find anger, resolve, whatever it takes to get away from this situation. D sometimes is not a choice, it is the only option by virtue of circumstance. Good luck friend! D-Day spring 2012
Me BS 47
One DD 19
Married 23 years
Divorced 12/23/13 Fu*king A!
The cruel, the unkind, those without honor, feast on the tender heart...