If my WW had just D me either before or even during her LTA I would have been really hurt. But I think by now I would be long over it. I think a clean break would have been easier to heal from than years of continued lying, TT, and blaming. But thats just me.
Where would I be now? probably back home where I grew up.
I agree with the above. I am only staying for the children at this point. But I think of divorce daily.
I think it would have been easier if my wayward had left for the OW.
I think they are both very similar, and I would likely be happier on my own.
I am not interested in remarrying at this point.
There are far too many people who condone affairs out there and it is too difficult to know who people really are behind their mask.
I thought my husband was a great guy, faithful and loyal. I was so wrong.