Married 27 years. Together 29.
3 children 24, 21, 14
OW sex addict and romance addict according to MC.
I wish I had advice. All I can say is how much will you put up with? Do you feel you can ever get the trust back? Do you want to live as the relationship police forever if you can't?
People can change...I really believe that. But they have to WANT to.