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User Topic: Can't do it anymore
Jls0320
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Default  Posted: 11:42 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH and I have been sort of separated for over a week now in house while he "figures out his head", which I find out today means breaking NC with his EAP and visiting her at work at 6:30 am for the past 2 days. He just needed to talk....supposedly had maintained NC since February but just this week went to see her. He is not remorseful and has done nothing for months to repair our marriage. Thank goodness I had a tracker and looked it up today since he planned to not tell me, I am so thankful for my gut that doesn't believe his never ending lies and bullshit. Meeting with lawyer tomorrow, done done done :(


Me: 33 BS 2 boys (2yr & 5yr)
Him: 33 WH, too much too list, drowning in his sex addiction
Together 15yrs, married 7yrs
Dday 9/17/2013, more discovered 1/26/14
NC broken 7/28/14- pathetic piece of crap
Separated, divorce filed, he loves his whore lol

Posts: 453 | Registered: Nov 2013
mhca
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Member # 41920
Default  Posted: 11:53 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He can figure out his head far away from you. What bullshit. Unbelievable.

Fuck that guy. Good luck with the lawyer.


Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing

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Posts: 788 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jls0320)))

Stay strong, girl. We've got your back.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17846 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
FixYou71
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Member # 42654
Default  Posted: 3:33 AM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jls0320)))
Clearly he doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve his BS.
I'm sorry. Take care of you.


BS: 43
H: 49
Dday #1 Oct 2007 (Porn for 2 yrs)
Dday #2 May 2013 (Porn for 5 more yrs))
Dday#3 May 2014 (finally admitted to drunk kissing OW in 1994: the 2nd drunken kiss with another woman during our M)
DD 21 and DS 17
Married 1993

Posts: 451 | Registered: Mar 2014
SMSA925
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Member # 43955
Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

{{{Jls0320}}}

He had a choice, which alot of WS dont get. He made the wrong choice. Thats on him. Good luck with the lawyer, and with your future


Me: BS; 55
Him: WH 61
Together 32 yrs, Married 20
DDay April 17, 2014

Posts: 108 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Phila. PA
Jls0320
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I asked him if he thought about the choice he was making and that I would most likely find out, he said yes it was a risk he was willing to make :(. He's a manipulative, self absorbed, pathological liar. He's already trying to Hoover me, I've just pretended he doesn't exist until I can get him out. OW has nothing on me, but if he wants someone just like him, he found her! I'm so disgusted in him, sad I could have already been divorced but believed his lies earlier this year, not anymore....


Me: 33 BS 2 boys (2yr & 5yr)
Him: 33 WH, too much too list, drowning in his sex addiction
Together 15yrs, married 7yrs
Dday 9/17/2013, more discovered 1/26/14
NC broken 7/28/14- pathetic piece of crap
Separated, divorce filed, he loves his whore lol

Posts: 453 | Registered: Nov 2013
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