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User Topic: Lost for words. In a good way.
Twitchy
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Member # 25393
Default  Posted: 7:12 AM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have to admit, I never read the "I love SI" posts. I come here daily. I'm probably addicted to this site. But I never felt the need to do read those types of posts because I knew its a great place and they just aren't my style. The fact that I'm writing one right know stuns me.

I just read a series of post in the Wayward forum that blew me away. The level of insight the poster showed, and the time and effort that must have gone into those insights, was staggering.

Where did they come from? From a total stranger. Someone who, through shared pain, reached out from no where to help someone else. And if he's right, may have just given them roadmap to find real healing.

SI is amazing. You people are amazing.

Bravo


BH(me)-49, FWW-43,
D-Day #1 - Oct 2007 - On-Line EA leading to a failed rendez-vous
D-Day #2 - Nov 2008 - In person EA caught early.

Away you will go, sailing in a race among the ruins.
If you plan to face tomorrow, do it soon. Gordon Lightfoot


Posts: 636 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Ontario - Canada
BtraydWife
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Member # 42581
Default  Posted: 7:34 AM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The people who help in the wayward forum are incredible.

I wish that somehow all waywards would have to post there for a while. To just be exposed to those who know all their "tricks", call them out on their behavior, and explain the appropriate response they should be working towards.

I'm grateful they are willing to help like that.


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 1758 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37168 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
PrtyInPink
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Member # 44148
Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are all here for a common, unfortunate bond. We all hold hands and march on this journey together. Such a great place to be, yet so unfortunate.


Me: 30ish Him: 30ish (99% sure he has NPD)
Together 14 yrs, Married 9 yrs
His #1 EA D-day 10/20/09
His #2 PA/EA d-day 7/11/14
My EA Dday 10/21/09
My brain says leave, my heart says stay

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