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User Topic: Perfect song for BS facing D
mhca
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Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shoot, forgot one that I've been playing over and over lately:

"Take The Long Way Home"
Supertramp, 1979
Billboard Hot 100 #10

---

So you think you're a Romeo
playing a part in a picture-show
Take the long way home
Take the long way home

Cos you're the joke of the neighborhood
Why should you care if you're feeling good
Take the long way home
Take the long way home

But there are times that you feel you're part of the scenery
all the greenery is comin' down, boy
And then your wife seems to think you're part of the
furniture oh, it's peculiar, she used to be so nice.

When lonely days turn to lonely nights
you take a trip to the city lights
And take the long way home
Take the long way home

You never see what you want to see
Forever playing to the gallery
You take the long way home
Take the long way home

And when you're up on the stage, it's so unbelievable,
unforgettable, how they adore you,
But then your wife seems to think you're losing your sanity,
oh, calamity, is there no way out?

Does it feel that you life's become a catastrophe?
Oh, it has to be for you to grow, boy.
When you look through the years and see what you could
have been oh, what might have been,
if you'd had more time.

So, when the day comes to settle down,
Who's to blame if you're not around?
You took the long way home
You took the long way home...


Roger Hodgson was one of the writers, here are his comments:

'Long Way' uses its protagonist's commute as a metaphor for the universal journey of self-discovery, as well as a vehicle for reflection on the many ways in which the often disappointing realities of our adult lives can reflect poorly on the hopeful idealism of our youth.

"It says a lot," mused [lyricist] Hodgson in the previously referenced interview. "To me, the home can be translated in a number of ways ó you can literally take the long way home driving, or to our true home, ourselves. Where weíre all heading in this journey called life. It was again another angle on a question that ran deep inside me, which is: Where is my home? Where is peace? It feels like Iím taking a long way to find it."

He expounded further in a different interview, adding, "Itís a fun lyric, because itís a real multi-level lyric. For me, 'Take the Long Way Home' means take the long way home to who we truly are. Take the long way home to our heart, to finding our selves again.

But itís intermingled with all kinds of other stuff; your wife thinking youíre part of the furniture ó lifeís crazy, but take the long way home. We do get caught up in so many trips in life, but ultimately, I believe why weíre here is to try and find our true home, which is our true self, and getting back in touch with our heart and our soul. That is a song that really talks about the journey of life."


http://ultimateclassicrock.com/supertramp-take-the-long-way-home-weekend-songs

[This message edited by mhca at 5:02 PM, August 1st (Friday)]


Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing

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Posts: 600 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
bravegirl19
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for this post!

I just posted about how I wanted to be able to listen to music again without being reminded of WH and OW

I can make a playlist with all of your suggestions, thanks!


Me (BS) Ė 36
WS Ė 35
Dday Ė 5/25/14
Together since 2003, married 6 1/2 years
EA and PA with COW for at least 3 months WHILE I WAS PREGNANT (still donít know the truth of the length of this affair or possibly others)
He doesnít want to be married

Posts: 47 | Registered: May 2014
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love the Foo Fighter's Pretender as well, played it over and over after DD2. I also respectfully submit "These Days"

One of these days the ground will drop out from beneath your feet*
One of these days your heart will stop and play its final beat
One of these days the clocks will stop and time won't mean a thing
One of these days their bombs will drop and silence everything

But it's alright
Yeah it's alright
I said it's alright

Easy for you to say
Your heart has never been broken
Your pride has never been stolen
Not yet not yet

One of these days
I bet your heart'll be broken
I bet your pride'll be stolen
I bet I bet I bet I bet
One of these days
One of these days

One of these days your eyes will close and pray you'll disappear
One of these days you will forget to hope and learn to fear

But it's alright
Yeah it's alright
I said it's alright

Easy for you to say
Your heart has never been broken
Your pride has never been stolen
Not yet not yet

One of these days
I bet your heart'll be broken
I bet your pride'll be stolen
I bet I bet I bet I bet
One of these days
One of these days


Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


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mhca
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OK, here's another one. Clearly I'm a square for going back so far, but this one hits the mark too:

Operator (That's not the way it feels)
Jim Croce
Billboard Hot 100 #19, 1972

Operator, well, could you help me place this call?
See, the number on the matchbook is old and faded
She's living in L.A. with my best old ex-friend Ray
Guy, she said she knew well and sometimes hated

Isn't that the way they say it goes?
But lets forget all that
And give me the number if you can find it
So I can call just to tell them I'm fine and to show

I've overcome the blow, I've learned to take it well
I only wish my words could just convince myself
That it just wasn't real but that's not the way it feels

Operator, oh, could you help me place this call?
Cause I cant read the number that you just gave me
There's something in my eyes, you know it happens every time
I think about the love that I thought would save me

But isn't that the way they say it goes?
Well, let's forget all that
And give me the number if you can find it
So I can call just to tell them I'm fine and to show

I've overcome the blow, I've learned to take it well
I only wish my words could just convince myself
That it just wasn't real but that's not the way it feels
No, no, no, no, that's not the way it feels

Operator, well, let's forget about this call
There's no one there I really wanted to talk to
Thank you for your time
Oh, you've been so much more than kind
You can keep the dime

But isn't that the way they say it goes?
Well, let's forget all that
And give me the number if you can find it
So I can call just to tell them I'm fine and to show

I've overcome the blow, I've learned to take it well
I only wish my words could just convince myself
That it just wasn't real but that's not the way it feels

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zaE-sBJQixg


Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing

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Posts: 600 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
Virginiagirl
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Default  Posted: 11:16 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Such a good thread! I agree with Black Crowes, "Seeing Things", so on point. I have a great "angry song", was very apropos for me because I caught WH with OW right around our D-day anniversary-in June no less.

ZZ Ward
365 Days

"365 Days"

Your clothes out on the blacktop
Scattered suits on the street
Frames and broken pictures in the mid-September heat
We set these nights on fire
So hot, we burned it down
Now all that's left of us is ashes on the ground

I told you back in June
You knew damn well what I would do

Three hundred sixty five days
You been making me wait
So keep your two-timing games
It's a lot of too late
The summer's over, over, over
Over, over, over

Drop your keys from six stories
Shout out, "It's raining green!"
Don't tell lies in heaven or an angel will get mean
Diamonds and white gold watches
Watch how fast they will soar
You always said you wanted to give back to the poor

I told you back in June
You knew damn well what I would do

Three hundred sixty five days
You been making me wait
So keep your two-timing games
It's a lot of too late
The summer's over, over, over
Over, over, over

I won't be your debutante
Won't be the fool to your savant
I can't fix your cracked up dreams
While the leaves fall off these trees
I won't spend the winter nights
Holding on to what ain't right
You might break your words real fast
But mine are made to last

Three hundred sixty five days
You been making me wait
So keep your two-timing games
It's a lot of too late
The summer's over, over, over
Over, over, over

Three hundred sixty five days
You been making me wait
So keep your two-timing games
It's a lot of too late
The summer's over, over, over
Over, over, over now

Over now

[This message edited by Virginiagirl at 11:17 PM, August 4th (Monday)]


Me- BS-43
Him-WS-42
Married 15 years, living together 20
DDay May 2013
TT ongoing
2 kids, 10 & 15
OW- old girlfriend from High School, and now umpteen stupid groupie local ho-bags

We are done.


Posts: 169 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: utah
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 11:28 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@jagged---
Don't you think that you've done enough?
Why are you still here?
Amen, dude. This song is totally *you*.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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Default  Posted: 11:39 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My all time fave is Toni Braxton's, "Let it Flow."

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Lost15
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Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for this post!

I just posted about how I wanted to be able to listen to music again without being reminded of WH and OW

I can make a playlist with all of your suggestions, thanks!

I agree listening to music would just upset me. Although after a year I've gotten a little better the divorce isn't over yet. I'm going to check these out. Thanks.


me(BS)-34 him(WS)-32 DS-15
Married 15 years
Blindsided with divorce 07-12-13
DD-08-1-13 OW-40ish,married 20 yrs, with 4 kids she abandoned
Divorcing and trying to move one tiny step forward at a time.

Posts: 114 | Registered: Oct 2013
Hopeful74
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I always turn this up and rock out!


Listen to "Done."
"DONE."

You've been wearing that crown and tearing me down
It's been a while since you've treated me right
You strung me along for far too long cause I never gave up the fight
Until now

It's gonna hit you hard 'til you see stars
Itís gonna put you through a world of hurt
Oh, I don't believe in getting even but giving what you deserve
Oh my, oh my, huh.

Mama always told me that I should play nice
She didn't know you when she gave me that advice
I'm through with you
You're one bridge I'd like to burn
Bottle up the ashes, smash the urn
I'm through with you, la dee da

I don't wanna be your "just for fun",
Don't wanna be under your thumb
All I wanna be is done
Done

You crossed the line too many times,
I'm gonna put you in your place
You play with dynamite, don't be surprised
When I blow up in your face
Oh my, oh my, huh.

Mama always told me that I should play nice
But she didn't know you when she gave me that advice
I'm through with you
You're one bridge I'd like to burn
Bottle up the ashes, smash the urn
I'm through with you, la dee da

I don't wanna be part of your fun,
Don't wanna be under your thumb
All I wanna be is done

(Done) with your selfish ways
(Done) and all the games you play
I'm through with you and everything you say

Ta!

Mama told me that I should play nice
She didn't know you when she gave me that advice

Mama always told me that I should play nice
But she didn't know you when she gave me that advice
I'm through with you
You're one bridge I'd like to burn
Scatter the ashes, smash the urn
I'm through with you, la dee da

I don't wanna be your "just for fun",
Don't wanna be under your thumb
All I wanna be is done
All I wanna be is done
Ugh!

Hey, hey, hey , hey ooh,
I wanna be done (so done)
So done (so done)
So done


Thanks to shannon hav, Kirby, ziva David, BobbiJo, Christine Bianco for correcting these lyrics.


Me: BW 39 Him:WH 37 (M)12 years; (T)18 years -2 DD: 16; 3; 1 DS: 9
Separated, headed for Divorce-he's not strong enough for me
'Everytime you get up and get back in the race, one more small piece of you starts to fall into place.' -

Posts: 302 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Hampton, VA
Hopeful74
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I heard this one in the drive home the day after DDay and turned it up and screamed and cried driving on the interstate. I'm sure people thought I was nuts!!


PASSENGER LYRICS
"Let Her Go"

Well you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when youíre missin' home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go

Staring at the bottom of your glass
Hoping one day you'll make a dream last
But dreams come slow and they go so fast

You see her when you close your eyes
Maybe one day you'll understand why
Everything you touch surely dies

But you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missin' home
Only know you love her when you let her go

Staring at the ceiling in the dark
Same old empty feeling in your heart
'Cause love comes slow and it goes so fast

Well you see her when you fall asleep
But never to touch and never to keep
'Cause you loved her too much
And you dived too deep

Well you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missin' home
Only know you love her when you let her go

And you let her go (oh, oh, ooh, oh no)
And you let her go (oh, oh, ooh, oh no)
Will you let her go?

'Cause you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missin' home
Only know you love her when you let her go

'Cause you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go

Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missin' home
Only know you love her when you let her go

And you let her go


Me: BW 39 Him:WH 37 (M)12 years; (T)18 years -2 DD: 16; 3; 1 DS: 9
Separated, headed for Divorce-he's not strong enough for me
'Everytime you get up and get back in the race, one more small piece of you starts to fall into place.' -

Posts: 302 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Hampton, VA
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Hair of the dog"

When POS ex cheater started in on even more crazy outright lies, nastiness, and complete foot dragging during the D process, she found out that:

"Now your messing with a son of a bitch."

Before D, and after D-day, I was fond of Phil Collins:

"I Dont Care Anymore"


D-Day spring 2012
Me BS 47
Xcheater 44
One DD 19
Married 23 years
Divorced 12/23/13 Fu*king A!

The cruel, the unkind, those without honor, feast on the tender heart...


Posts: 652 | Registered: Sep 2012
mhca
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, August 20th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Must have listened to this song 100 times over the years but it came on this morning and somehow never seemed so poignant. Gorgeous melody and brilliant performance.

Wasted Time
The Eagles, 1976

Well baby, there you stand
With your little head down in your hand
Oh my God, you can't believe
It's happening again
Your baby's gone and you're all alone
And it looks like the end

You're back out on the street
And you're tryin' to remember
How will you start it over?
You don't know what became
You don't care much for a stranger's touch
But you can't hold your man

You never thought you'd be alone
This far down the line
And I know what's been on your mind
You're afraid it's all been wasted time

The autumn leaves have got you thinking
About the first time that you fell
You didn't love the boy too much, no, no
You just loved the boy too well, farewell

So you live from day to day
And you dream about tomorrow
And the hours go by like minutes
And the shadows come to stay
So you take a little something
To make them go away

And I could have done so many things, baby
If I could only stop my mind
From wonderin' what I left behind
And from worrying 'bout this wasted time

Another love has come and gone
And the years keep rushing on
I remember what you told me
Before you went out on your own
"Sometimes to keep it together
We got to leave it alone"

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find
That it wasn't really wasted time


Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing

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Posts: 600 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, August 20th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kelly Clarkston had a couple of anthems right around the time of my D. Stronger was cranked more than once.

Stronger

You know the bed feels warmer
Sleeping here alone
You know I dream in color
And do the things I want

You think you got the best of me
Think you had the last laugh
Bet you think that everything good is gone
Think you left me broken down
Think that I'd come running back
Maybe you don't know me, cause you're dead wrong

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone
What doesn't kill you makes a fighter
Footsteps even lighter
Doesn't mean I'm over cause you're gone

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stronger
Just me, myself and I
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone

You heard that I was starting over with someone new
They told you I was moving on; over you

You didn't think that I'd come back
I'd come back swinging
You tried to break me
But you see

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone
What doesn't kill you makes a fighter
Footsteps even lighter
Doesn't mean I'm over cause you're gone

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stronger
Just me, myself and I
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone

Thanks to you I got a new thing started
Thanks to you I'm not a broken hearted
Thanks to you I'm finally thinking bout me
You know in the end, the day you left was just my beginning

In the end

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone
What doesn't kill you makes a fighter
Footsteps even lighter
Doesn't mean I'm over cause you're gone

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stronger
Just me, myself and I,
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone x2
I'm not alone


I will also cop to some angry songs, most notably two very different songs that share a title, "I Hope You Die"

Bloodhound Gang https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wmKHHdqwVes

John Wing https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8JYAo1giBU


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Teabelly
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Default  Posted: 2:24 AM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm literally about to tell my WH that I want a D today. I'm feeling super pissed off with him and his blame shifting, his detachment from the me and the kids, his stupid affair, his disrespect, etc etc etc etc grrrrrrrrrrrr

So this song seems pretty appropriate!

Thorn in my side by the Eurythmics

Thorn in my side.
You know that's all you ever were.
A bundle of lies.
You know that's all that it was worth
I should have known better
But I trusted you at first.
I should have known better
But I got what I deserved

To run away from you
Was all that I could do.
To run away from you
Was all that I could do.

Thorn in my side.
You know that's all you'll ever be.
So don't think you know better
'Cause that's what you mean to me
I was feeling complicated.
I was feeling low.
Now everytime I think of you
I shiver to the bone

[Chorus]


Me BS - 43
Him WH (Coffeebelly) - 49
Married 19 years, together 20
3 kids, 15, 13, 8
DD 21st Jan 2014. 2 year EA/ PA with old flame from teen years
Still unsure of what's going to happen next, living as an expat in the Far East away from hom

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Default  Posted: 4:16 AM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hopeful, I also cry and listen to let her go... Except that i wished that's what he was thinking, but I dunno if he is thinking that

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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love this song!! But I like orange, too!
"Stripes" By Brandy Clark

Woah, woah, woah, woah

[VERSE 1:]
You were lyin' there with nothing on
But a goofy little grin and a platinum blonde
I can't believe you'd do that on our bed
I got a pistol and I got a bullet
And a pissed off finger just'a itchin' to pull it
The only thing keepin' me from losin' my head

[CHORUS:]
Is I hate stripes and orange ain't my color
And if I squeeze that trigger tonight
I'll be wearin' one or the other
There's no crime of passion worth a crime of fashion
The only thing savin' your life
Is that I don't look good in orange and I hate stripes

Woah, woah, woah

[VERSE 2:]
I could fall in love with the prison guard
I could sell cigarettes in the prison yard
Don't think hard time would be that hard on me
I could pick up trash on the side of the road
But I'd die if I saw someone I know
Ain't the chains, it's the clothes that's stoppin' me

[CHORUS:]
I hate stripes and orange ain't my color
And if I squeeze that trigger tonight
I'll be wearin' one or the other
There's no crime of passion worth a crime of fashion
The only thing savin' your life
Is that I don't look good in orange and I hate stripes

[BRIDGE:]
Oh, and one shot ain't worth a bad mugshot
God knows I wouldn't be caught holdin' up a number
While the whole town's starin' at the picture
In the paper of me wearin' stripes

[FINAL CHORUS:]
There's no crime of passion worth a crime of fashion
The only thing savin' your life
Is that I don't look good in orange and I hate stripes
And orange ain't my color
And if I squeeze that trigger tonight
I'll be wearin' one or the other
There's no crime of passion worth a crime of fashion
The only thing savin' your life
Is that I don't look good in orange and I hate stripes

Woah, woah, woah, woah


The world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are stronger at the broken places. -Ernest Hemingway

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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Virginmarys

"Just A Ride"

Thereís traffic on the northern line
We say goodbye the final time
Pretend that we meant something more than this
When the memories you left behind
Remind me you were never mine
The lonely train you left without a kiss

The golden girl, the silver spoon
The eyes like pearls that wept too soon
Haunt me up until the day I die
I climb aboard the sinking ship
Biting on my bottom lip
And wait for time to heal my pride
But time was never on my side
Me and you were just a ride

Seven weeks have come to pass
I stumble on the photograph
To see the lucky man to take my place
Cloak and dagger from the start
You twist the knife into my heart
Watch my eyes bleed tracks upon my face

Me who lost the will to live
When you who lost the will to give
Taking with the little left inside
I climb aboard the sinking ship
Biting on my bottom lip
And wait for time to heal my pride
But time was never on my side
Me and you were just a ride
Me and you were just a ride
Me and you were just a ride

You lied, you lied, you lied, you liar
You lied, you lied, you lied, you liar
You lied, you lied, you lied, you liar
You lied, you lied, you lied, you liar

The golden girl, the silver spoon
The eyes like pearls that wept too soon
Haunt me up until the day I die
I climb aboard the sinking ship
Biting on my bottom lip
And wait for time to heal my pride
Iíll love you Ďtil the day I die
Me and you were just a ride


BH (me) 44 yrs
WW 42 yrs
Together over 23 yrs
Married Aug 1994
Two boys 18 and 12 yrs
D-Day 1 June 11, 2009
D-Day 2 Aug 6, 2009
TT Summer 2010?
D-Day 3 April 19, 2011
Separated (in-house) Aug 23, 2014
R???

Posts: 57 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: ND
Hopeful74
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Betrayedpregnant, I lived that song when it came out. I thought it was a beautiful song, but now I listen to it differently now. 😢


Me: BW 39 Him:WH 37 (M)12 years; (T)18 years -2 DD: 16; 3; 1 DS: 9
Separated, headed for Divorce-he's not strong enough for me
'Everytime you get up and get back in the race, one more small piece of you starts to fall into place.' -

Posts: 302 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Hampton, VA
mhca
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, September 16th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's one I hope my next love won't want to sing:

Trisha Yearwood
The Woman Before Me

I can see you turn away
When I ask what for
You say it isn't anything
But I'm not sure

Somethin' underneath the skin
Won't let you be
And you try to keep it in
But I can see

The woman before me
Must have been hard on you
'Cause that hurt in your eyes
I never put you through
Sometimes I think
You must be talking to
The woman before me and you

Sometimes in an argument
It will show
When you go a little farther than
You meant to go

I know you don't mean the things
That you say
I just wanna ease the pain
That's in your way

The woman before me
Must have been hard on you
'Cause that hurt in your eyes
I never put you through
Sometimes I think
You must be talking to
The woman before me and you

If there are sorrows that bring back a tear
Don't let them keep us apart
You ought to know you've got nothing to fear
Here in my heart

'Cause you and I will never be
Like the past
Whatever kind of memories
That you have

Nothin's gonna hurt you now
Can't you see
I already made a vow
That I can keep

But the woman before me
Must have been hard on you
'Cause that hurt in your eyes
I never put you through
Sometimes I think
You must be talking to
The woman before me and you
Sometimes I think
You must be talking to
The woman before me and you

[This message edited by mhca at 7:14 PM, September 16th (Tuesday)]


Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing

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Posts: 600 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
dragon1128
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Default  Posted: 11:59 PM, September 16th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kasey cubero


It's Alright

I'm gonna turn out the light tonight
Ignite a mountain full of fire
Gonna leave you at the bedside
My ring, along with the fight
It's come time to give up
And it's alright
I'm gonna drive you clear into history
And leave behind everything you ever promised me
Gonna find some comfort in a lover's clutch
Lend the whell to another's touch
And take a good long ride
And it's alright
CHORUS
You can't run; you can't hide
Damage done, you'll pay the price
My old friend, whatever dreams we had have died
And it's alright

I'm gonna wet my lips with something more
And toast a glass to your low-rent whore
Explore the menu of my appetite
Taste what's fresh on the other side
I'm gonna even the score
Yeah, it's alright
I'm gonna play house, your little game of fantasy
And let a stranger live inside of me
Relieve this body of a heavy heart
Ease the tension underneath the scars
Yeah, it's easy when it's hard
It's alright
CHORUS

Hey, I'm gonna cleanse myself of her disease
Throw out whatever leftovers ya'll left for me
Yeah, I'm gonna squeeze the boil that been festering within
The blod and puss of all your sins
Hey, I'm gonna expel you of your copyright
Take back everything that's mine
Hey, I'm gonna break the vows that escaped your breath
Turn out the light and open my legs
I'm gonna turn out the light
And it's alright...Yeah
CHORUS
CHORUS

[This message edited by dragon1128 at 12:02 AM, September 17th (Wednesday)]


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