Topic: 10 Toxic Relationship Mistakes Mentally Strong People Avoid
Member # 34533
| Posted: 11:23 AM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014|
I found this helpful today.
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." ó Daenerys Targaryen
Posts: 817 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
Member # 37468
| Posted: 12:01 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014|
"When someone youíre in a relationship with continues to blame you for your past mistakes, your relationship is toxic."
Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).
Posts: 846 | Registered: Nov 2012
Member # 32558
| Posted: 2:39 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014|
Thank you for posting this....interesting read, and sadly I can identify with a lot of those traits with my xh.
"Sometimes on the way to the dream, you get a lost and find a better one"
Divorcing - at last!
Posts: 94 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Uk
Member # 16953
| Posted: 6:08 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014|
If youíre covering up your tracks in any way, itís only a matter of time before the truth is revealed and trust in the relationship is broken.
Amen !!!!!!! I also liked #9 the emotional blackmail part. I see it here over and over again where the WS emotionally blackmails the BS into allowing A behaviors to be tolerated.
You cant eat soup with chopsticks.
Posts: 5831 | Registered: Nov 2007
Member # 34146
| Posted: 6:55 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014|
Great article! And then at the end I saw it was written by one of the creators of marcandangel.com. No wonder I liked it so much!
These definitely are things that I will strive to do in my next relationship, and things that I have been doing with my friend relationships.
Thanks for sharing!
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
Posts: 3488 | Registered: Dec 2011
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