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User Topic: 10 Toxic Relationship Mistakes Mentally Strong People Avoid
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I found this helpful today.

http://themindunleashed.org/2014/07/10-toxic-relationships-mentally-strong-people-avoid.html


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WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." ó Daenerys Targaryen


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ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, July 31st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"When someone youíre in a relationship with continues to blame you for your past mistakes, your relationship is toxic."

Sound familiar?


Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).

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Default  Posted: 2:39 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for posting this....interesting read, and sadly I can identify with a lot of those traits with my xh.


"Sometimes on the way to the dream, you get a lost and find a better one"

Divorcing - at last!


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Default  Posted: 6:08 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If youíre covering up your tracks in any way, itís only a matter of time before the truth is revealed and trust in the relationship is broken.

Amen !!!!!!! I also liked #9 the emotional blackmail part. I see it here over and over again where the WS emotionally blackmails the BS into allowing A behaviors to be tolerated.


You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

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phmh
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Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great article! And then at the end I saw it was written by one of the creators of marcandangel.com. No wonder I liked it so much!

These definitely are things that I will strive to do in my next relationship, and things that I have been doing with my friend relationships.

Thanks for sharing!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


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