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User Topic: xwh showed up at my house this morning
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Geteven thank you for that feedback. That makes a lot of sense given his brain injury.

When it happens, does she knows it is happening? Or is she oblivious to it?


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3496 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 1:28 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The X had a very severe head injury in 1986; he still has residual effects from it. For the first few years I could not leave DS alone with him for fear something would happen. The one time I did, I came home to then 14 month old DS smiling at me while eating something from one his toy trucks. I asked the X "What is the baby eating." Without ever turning away from the TV, he said "Nothing." It turned out to be dog kibble.

Watch him carefully.


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GetEvenInAZ
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Default  Posted: 2:03 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She is aware after the fact, but not while the episode is actually occrring. She thinks she is perfectly fine and s unaware of everything around her. When she has an episide, we treat her asif she were drunk: water, iboprofin, sleep.

Its scary knowing she has these episodes, but time and better selfcare (esp getting enough sleep and exercising to relieve stress) have helped tremendously.


Me: BW (44)
now xH (44)
20 yrs, 2 wonderful kids, and up to 5 - make it 6 DDays

Posts: 287 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: gilbert AZ
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really think the past brain injury is it! OMG!


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


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