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User Topic: Sympathy For the OW?
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Default  Posted: 3:32 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry but mom didn't know best on this one Feel sorry for her crappy childhood if you want but the A..hell no. She betrayed you, she was basically part of your family. She knew he had a gf, she didn't care. Her choice, her consequences. Your mom is really asking you of too much on this one
Been with him over half my life
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank

Posts: 5242 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
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Default  Posted: 7:44 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad to read your responses. I was worried you believed your mother's opinion was justified. You aren't a doormat and it's great to hear you say you'll speak up about it. Hang in there!

DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.

Posts: 2416 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, wow, I couldn't imagine telling my betrayed daughter that she wasn't sympathetic enough toward the ow regardless of what position the ow had in my family. That is jacked up & more then just a little dysfunctional! The ow is lucky to be alive, that she didn't have her barely beating black heart ripped from her chest. As your Mother I would want ow out of your life all together. Seeing you suffering because of the affair would be very painful for me as your mother & my mama bear protectiveness would have kicked into high gear. I am hurt by your mothers response to your trauma.

Me BS 58yo, Him WS 55yo, sex addict
DD#1 1/28/14 co-worker#1 1991
DD#2 2/8/14 co-worker#2 9/13 - 4/14,moved in with OW 3/9/14,moved out from OW 4/8/14
DD#3 4/10/14 22+ anonymous sex OW
Full disclosure 7/30/14 30+ sex parteners

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