Topic: Hamster alert
Member # 29322
| Posted: 11:25 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014|
Looked in the mirror this morning and saw the reflection of a fucking hamster on a wheel running his ass off through this in house separation bullshit, looking for a way off the damn wheel.
Looked at the reflection of the pathetic soul in bath behind me and saw a broken creature too afraid to look into her own shadow, who'd rather jump from distraction to dstraction and OM to OM rather than facing the shame and fixing the damage within.
Wasn't sure which reflection was more disturbing.
Sons 16 and 8 Daughters 11, 7, 5.
Ex and STBX both cheated, thinking of getting a dog as a companion after D. At least they're loyal.
Posts: 967 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: MidWest
Member # 42967
| Posted: 11:47 AM, August 1st (Friday), 2014|
broken creature too afraid to look into her own shadow, who'd rather jump from distraction to dstraction and OM to OM rather than facing the shame and fixing the damage within.
^^^^^^^^^ FAR MORE DISTURBING.
Hamster may be running in circles but it isn't hurting anyone or destroying something of value like say a marriage.
Hang in there H&L. This too shall pass.
ME - BH 45
Her - XWS 30
D - April 2010 - never looked back and good riddance.
Though much is taken, much abides; and though we are not now that strength which in old days
moved earth and heaven, that which we are, we are
Posts: 163 | Registered: Apr 2014
Member # 43418
| Posted: 12:14 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014|
Yeah, I'd go with the second one as being the more disturbing.
Me: BH - 30s
Her: WW - 30s
Married - 2008
PA with boss for at least 5 months in 2013, possibly longer.
DDay - Feb 2014
Separated, heading to D
At this stage, I'm pretty much bulletproof.
Posts: 271 | Registered: May 2014 | From: USA
Member # 34767
| Posted: 12:55 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014|
In house separation is a hell all on it's own. I agree with the others, her reflection is far more disturbing. Things will get better once the in house separation is over. It all just sucks right now, go easy on yourself.
Life is meant to be lived, not numbed!
In his quest for freedom, he set me free!
Posts: 112 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Dallas, TX
Member # 40115
| Posted: 2:40 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014|
Personally, I think you're doing great to be a hamster during IHS.
Oh, Harvey, Harvey
Harvey the Wonder Hamster
He doesn't bite and he doesn't squeal
He just runs around on his hamster wheel
Harvey The Wonder Hamster
--Weird Al Yankovic
Edited to correct stupid typos.
Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.
Posts: 1748 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
Member # 20150
| Posted: 9:23 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014|
Bathroom sharing is a couple thing.
It stops during in - house. Just so you know....
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 17387 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Member # 32810
| Posted: 9:34 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014|
At least the hamster is making an effort to get somewhere. As soon as that wheel moves, he'll be off and running.
[This message edited by Amazonia at 9:34 AM, August 2nd (Saturday)]
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Posts: 13733 | Registered: Jul 2011
Member # 40306
| Posted: 10:24 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014|
In house definitely deserves it's own special level in hell.
And I agree with the others...you shouldn't be sharing bathroom time anymore. Hell no.
It's in house separation. SEPARATE.
Hang in there. It gets better. Sometimes it takes a long fucking time though.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
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Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
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