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User Topic: Wish I knew how to send her here
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was driving to visit a home care client and had just turned on his road when something caught my eye. There was a sign taped to a mailbox, and when I was leaving I got a closer look.

I don't know how to edit out the guy's name.

They were plastered all over the place.

His car, the house, the front door, the stop sign was leading into the neighborhood.

Boy, do I understand the pain behind this. But I have to kind of admire the balls to pull this off.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2776 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
GonnaGetThru
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, I gotta admire somebody with the balls (ovaries? Lol) to pull that off!


BW (me): 30
WH (him): 31
Taking R one day at a time

"Every decision you make indicates what you believe you are worth."


Posts: 99 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: North Carolina
3kids30years
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Default  Posted: 6:56 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I kinda like the idea - maybe I'll post a few of OW at the next soccer game. So all the parents can be on the look out for her. I'd laugh so hard!

Make me feel better, but then she'll just call the police again. (she has called them 3 times on me - for NOTHING!!!)

Never mind. - But I love the idea!


BS - mid 50's
WH - mid 50's
DDay - 3/2/13 - 2:07pm
TT until 9/02/13
NC broken 4/15/14
2year+ "passionate" EA/PA

Married 30+ years and here I am. Heartbroken.
4/14 Trying to make it thru each day
9/14 - getting better. we


Posts: 217 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Nor Cal
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonder if you could write the info for SI on a sign or two.

Thought about doing so,etching similar at the new condo xOw2 bought right before d-day. Like a pic of MrH and one of her and a note saying "If you've met xOw2, your newest neighbor in 1234B, know that her 'BF' is a married man and she's "thankful for the time [he] takes away from his children to be with her." So welcome "Harlot" if you want but be cautious around her.

What actually held me back was a few things:
The drive- 45 mins or worse in traffic.
Nobody to watch the kids as I did that.
Knowing that xOw2 is a vindictive and litigious b!tch.

[This message edited by Holly-Isis at 7:05 PM, August 1st (Friday)]


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11216 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 2:39 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He comes up right away on Pipl. Anyone with a Spokeo account could easily get contact info for his relatives. Four women on his facebook profile with the same last name - could easily be a wife and three relatives, or Been Verified has a woman with a different last name listed as his spouse.

The internet. Remarkable.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 2:42 AM, August 2nd (Saturday)]


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13791 | Registered: Jul 2011
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dang, Ama. I didn't even think of that. Something to think about. Thanks!


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2776 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ps - if you open those pics in Microsoft Paint you can easily black out his name and face, since this is the internet... you would just need to save them to your photobucket again.

ETA: or if you're on a Mac without Paint, download Skitch, you'll find it very useful.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 9:44 AM, August 2nd (Saturday)]


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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