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User Topic: I recently read that when a man
Itstoohard
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Finds his wife has cheated they will divorce within a year. A woman will divorce 5 years after dd. (these were averages).
Does that sound about right?


BS 64
fWH 64
PA 22 yrs ago
Started as EA for 2 yrs then ONS CORRECTION Started as an EA for 8 years
Trustismyissue

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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nope


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What he said.^^^^^


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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Allornothing
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with these ^^^ two.


Me- BS 43
Him- FWH 43
Married 19 years, Together 26
Kids- 23,21,15,14
D Day- 7 Sept 2013
OW- Irrelevant

Posts: 192 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Australia
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 2:35 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I only have anecdotal evidence from this specific forum, but I guess my general impression is that men are actually more likely to stay. Maybe I am assuming that based on the number of women in the S/D forum? But there may be more women on the site, or women may be more active posters, or I may notice my own gender and follow their stories more closely on a subconscious and unintentional level. There are a lot of explanations.

Why are the averages important to you?

Even when every other story you read here feels familiar, each situation and each pair of people is unique - there are rarely generalizations or averages that can help us heal or move forward.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 2:50 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On SI, I don't think so but people I know IRL, the men D sooner than the women. However those women WS, left for the om.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5171 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Didact
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Default  Posted: 5:44 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I suspect that SI isn't a true sample - for example many would simply divorce wihouth reaching out for online support. However those 1y and 5y numbers make no sense.


No matter how painful, life either adapts or it dies.

BH (Me) 49
WW 48
Married 1985
D-Day Mar 19, 2014
1 year passionate EA/PA, ended by me on d-day.
Attempting to R


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somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..I guess my take is..'don't believe everything you read!"..

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


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