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User Topic: 28 years ago today
Notmetoo2011
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Default  Posted: 5:28 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

we got married. I was 21, he was 23.

I thought we were soul mates.

I never dreamed then that he had already cheated on me, a few weeks before we got married.

I never dreamed then that 24 years and 51 weeks later my world would be blown apart when I found out about his As and SA.

I never dreamed then that I would even consider staying with him if I found out he cheated on me, but here I am three years later.

Today I am hoping no one remembers this is the day we got married. I want to forget it. I don't want to smile at people's congratulations and pretend it is a celebration. I feel like crying. I wish I could turn the clock back and never have met him.


Me-BW 49
SAWH 51
Married 27 years.
4 children
D-Day 26/07/11
Multiple PAs, ONS, Porn
In limbo land

Posts: 271 | Registered: Jul 2011
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:24 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Notmetoo2011)))


Posts: 35919 | Registered: Mar 2011
Questioningall
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Default  Posted: 6:37 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Notmetoo2011))))

I didn't want to celebrate our anniversary this year, either. I hope you have a totally ordinary day.


Me-BS 50
Him-WS 50 Sorrowfulmate
Married 26 years, 5 kids
Dday #1 12/12 He made up a ONS
Dday #2. 3/14 EAs, 2 ONS, 1 LTA
TT until 7/14 Timeline given

Buttercup: We'll never survive.
Westley: Nonsense. You're only saying that because


Posts: 62 | Registered: Jul 2014
crazynot
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Default  Posted: 6:52 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's not too late to change your life. My 29th wedding anniversary is in a few days time, and my divorce is not yet final but the last few years without him have been some of the happiest of my life. And my kids are doing great too.


Me - 50
Him - 51
DDay 21 March 2009
Divorcing and delighted!

Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it.


Posts: 873 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
devasted30
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Default  Posted: 6:53 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I, too, hope you have a very good ORDINARY day.


And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

Posts: 1325 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
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