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User Topic: In One Word
seethelight
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Member # 43513
Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

-On Day--- in a word: embarrassed.

-Later:

annoyed, arrogant, trickle truthing, minimizing, blameshifting, denying, rewriting marital history

-After I put his cloths outside in garbage bags:

sad but still blameshifting, scared, but still blameshifting, suddenly showing true remorse and regret most of the time, but not always.

-Two plus years out:

Split, Sometimes Seemingly remorseful ,and appears to understand the damage done, but other times he still acts seemingly resentful, that he no longer has my trust and the freedom that trust afforded him.


If two people truly have feelings for one another then they dont have an affair. They get a divorce and they sort out their feelings. You are accountable for the people you hold hostage in a marriage when your mind and heart refuse to fully commit

Posts: 1516 | Registered: May 2014
wildbananas
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Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Entitled


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15435 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
99lawdog99
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Member # 42615
Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can't just be one word as so many apply. The way I see it

Sad, Selfish, Liar, Heartless, Cheater, Delusional, SelfCentered, Baby, And finally----Used.


Me 54
WW 45
Married 25 years, together 27 WW's first and only til A
In R
"Sometimes we have to be knocked down to our lowest point so that we can reach our highest Level"

Posts: 151 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: pa
99lawdog99
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Member # 42615
Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry, duplicate post

[This message edited by 99lawdog99 at 12:14 PM, August 6th (Wednesday)]


Me 54
WW 45
Married 25 years, together 27 WW's first and only til A
In R
"Sometimes we have to be knocked down to our lowest point so that we can reach our highest Level"

Posts: 151 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: pa
bent44
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Member # 31386
Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On dday: @#$%&-+&%$*$@&$=$%%#
Present: Insignificant


"If you marry a chicken, don't expect an eagle."


I don't know if my chicken will ever become an eagle. But rest assured, I'm going to be a phoenix. Nevermind that I am still in the ashes stage of the process.

Update...he


Posts: 730 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: California
Arden
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Member # 44285
Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dead.

Applies to how I felt inside, how I wanted him...and her.


Me - BGF 30
Him - WBF 31
Together 7 years
Dday 7/21/13 ("Mostly" EA)
Got TT, but both trying to R

Posts: 80 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: United States
AmSoDone
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Member # 43871
Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I need 2 as well:

Broken

Lyingcheatingscumbag

Does that count? (or I can't count )


BP(me) 50
WP (scumbag) 52
On-off for 32 years
1DD
1 DGD
Too many D Days to count. Same with OW.

Posts: 131 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: UK
caregiver9000
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Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't know it at the time, but

IRRELEVANT


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5918 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

D-day til D-day + 8 months.....Broken

Post...........................Remorseful


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3173 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
OutoftheDeep
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Member # 42601
Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Evil.


Me - maybe BW 40s
He - maybe WH 40s
My mother was always the OW
ExWH in first M had lta.
Current marriage:
2/'13 out all night with an ow
2/'13 busted at strip club
4/'14-? bad boundaries w/howorker

Posts: 380 | Registered: Feb 2014
justme1264
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Member # 42890
Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fucktard


Me 30s = BS
Her 20s= WW
She had two affairs between 2012-2014 that are confirmed. DD#1 3/2014. DD#2 11/2014.
Divorcing 11/2014
R? = I am still trying to figure that out.

Posts: 469 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: California
Shayna71
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Member # 42105
Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stranger


Me: BW 46
Him: WH 42
3 month EA and PA w/a mutual friend
DDay 09/20/2013
Married over 20 years
DS 26, DS, 19 DD, 18
Currently in R

Posts: 130 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Indiana
Amazingyetlost
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Member # 43745
Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have to make a word up for that one:

"Whothehellareyou?!?!?!"


ME: 58 BW
HIM: 57 EA & PA, ten months (madboomer)
Married: December 24th, 2013; Together: 4 years
D/Day: June 3rd 2014 (karma allowed that it happened on OW birthday); NC June 4th 2014
"Once in a while you get shown the light..."

Posts: 218 | Registered: Jun 2014
Brentwood
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Member # 27465
Default  Posted: 11:44 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unremorseful.


Me BW (59) What?!?!
Him BH (59)

Posts: 177 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: S. California
SorryInSac
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Member # 44108
Default  Posted: 11:48 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shit


Me - 47-PoS
BW Gabybaby. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

Posts: 62 | Registered: Jul 2014
Brandon808
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Member # 35619
Default  Posted: 12:02 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crazy


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 4103 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
outtanowhere
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Member # 39001
Default  Posted: 12:03 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Busted


BS - 58
SAWH - 61 multiple encounters with prostitutes and other sex workers
Married 38 years
Dday - 2/19/13 - found the emails
He promised me Heaven then put me thru hell

Posts: 780 | Registered: Apr 2013
shatteredapart
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Member # 41978
Default  Posted: 7:01 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Liar, Manipulative


Me-BS
Him-WS
EA(PA?) 10 months with COW
3 ddays-Sept '13, Oct '13, Dec '13
Attempting Reconciliation...time and actions will tell

Posts: 123 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: USA
SparrowSoul
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Member # 44223
Default  Posted: 12:04 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sisyphus.


Me: BGF, 29
Him: WBF, 35 (RMarred)
D-Day: 7/5/2014, seared into my memory like a brand.

"Dum spiro, spero." - "While I breathe, I hope."
The cure to all of life's problems is salt water; Sweat, tears, or the Sea.


Posts: 131 | Registered: Jul 2014
Littleleaf
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Member # 37752
Default  Posted: 5:37 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

one word ??

disappointing


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