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User Topic: Delivery Room 3cm
BrokenDoe
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Default  Posted: 11:44 PM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

9:45 pm
19 inches
9lbs 1 oz
Healthy baby Buck.

Husband stayed in room. As did grandma and friend.

Thank you everyone for warm wishes and prayers.


BW 32
WH 32
Married 6 together 10, friends 20
DDay July 2 2014
Children DD 3yr & 1DS 1month

Planing on giving birth, then sorting things out.
*update* perfect little boy born


Posts: 50 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Ontario
RippedSoul
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Default  Posted: 11:54 PM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!! I'm so, so excited for you and Baby Doe. :)


BW: 49; SLAWH: 46; M: 23 yrs
DD#1--11/30/12 (prostitute #1)
DD#2--1/29/13 (AP, escorts #1 & #2)
DD#3--9/13 (trolling MILF site)
DD#4--10/8/13 (EA with AP cont'd)
DD: 20; DD: 18; DS: 16; DS: 14
PS: I've NEVER NOT edited my posts

Posts: 474 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: California
Hopeful74
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Default  Posted: 12:07 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!!


Me: BW 39 Him:WH 37 (M)12 years; (T)18 years -2 DD: 16; 3; 1 DS: 9
Separated, headed for Divorce-he's not strong enough for me
'Everytime you get up and get back in the race, one more small piece of you starts to fall into place.' -

Posts: 302 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Hampton, VA
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 12:54 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8991 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
momentintime
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Default  Posted: 1:08 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All the best to you and yours. Enjoy this time and make decisions later. Welcome new little person to this great big world.

[This message edited by momentintime at 1:09 AM, August 8th (Friday)]


BS-me FWS - him
D-day 8/04
R'd

"Global editing disclaimer - I edit almost everything I post, and I am not going to post why every time."...re: Bionical girl


Posts: 3003 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: New York
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 2:38 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations your new wonderful baby!!!


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3250 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
Waiting4Daylite
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Default  Posted: 3:07 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!!!!!

Posts: 1856 | Registered: Jul 2012
Rubix
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Default  Posted: 4:43 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! :D.


BW: (25) WH (29-RemorsefulHubby)
kids: mine:DD 5 ours:DS new born.
R... apparently
D-Day: 13/06/2014 - craigslist account and other dating profiles he won't admit to. Secret hotmail account.
D-Day 2: 9/8/2014- admitted to ONS.

Posts: 233 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Northamptonshire
knutz
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Default  Posted: 5:41 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


Together 23 years
Married 20 Years
BW (me) 48
FWH: 49 (rSA)
2 children, 9 & 12
DDay: December 27, 2009
"Life is not what it is supposed to be. It is what it is. The way we cope with it is what makes the difference". Virginia Satir

Posts: 235 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: New England
childofcheater
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Default  Posted: 6:04 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


Me: 37 yo, him 36
Married 14 years together 18
3 kids: DD10, DD7, DS4
DDay 2/9/12 found suspicious text to coworker
Status: in R, work in progress

Posts: 310 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: East Coast
devasted30
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Default  Posted: 6:16 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is wonderful news BrokenDoe. Sounds like a good weight etc. I hope you are doing well and that your future becomes so much brighter. Hugs to you.


And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

Posts: 1369 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
ChangeMaker
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Default  Posted: 6:35 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hooray! Congratulations!


"Everything works if you let it." - Travis W. Redfish

DDay - June 7, 2014
Me - 43
WW - 41
DD - 6 and 3
Pulling the Plug


Posts: 384 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Ontario
sinsof thefather
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Default  Posted: 6:49 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations


...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

Posts: 1892 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
Tigaress
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations :-)

Posts: 183 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: New York
determinata
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Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CONGRATULATIONS.

Newborns are the best.


M 2007. DDay 2008
~10+ CL Prostitutes in 8 months
Divorcing SAWH "ActionsOverWords"
Me: Early 30s BW (also an adult OC) w Baby DS

6 years of TT, hidden STD & false R
Separated 5 mos+; he will not commit
Someday I will be okay


Posts: 288 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New York City
stunnedin12
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Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure, but trying I guess.

Posts: 486 | Registered: Jan 2013
sudra
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations. Enjoy this child!


Me (BW) (55), Him(SAWH) (58)
Married 22 years, 1 son (19), 1 stepdaughter (27)
DDay #1 January 2004
DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)
Working on R

Posts: 1513 | Registered: Nov 2010
RawDeal75
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Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! Fantastic! Congratulations! I am so happy for you and your newborn. :-)


Me: BH, 39. Her: WW, 39. Two kids: 3&5
Together 21 yrs. Married 13 yrs.

D-day #2 Jan 18, 2014: 12 month EA/PA (AP#3)+ admission of 5 month EA/PA in 1994 (AP#1).
D-day #1 May 2001: 2 month EA/PA (AP#2)


Posts: 54 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Europe
OK now
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Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well done!

Glad your son is healthy and you did let WH stay in the room. I hope he acknowledges and appreciates the privilege you accorded him.


Posts: 1816 | Registered: May 2007 | From: NC
Numb2014
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Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can tell you what I did. I found out about ex first affair 3 days before I was due to give birth. I let him in, only because I didn't want what he did to us to affect any future relationship with dd. I felt that if I did not let him in the room, and we decided to R, that I would regret he missed that moment. OR if we decided not to R and he didn't bond with dd, I would have felt guilty. Not saying that is the case at all, just my thought process during it all. He was there when she was born. He bonded with her. And even though we didn't R until she was 1 1/2, I had not regrets letting him be int eh room. My ex would have held a life long grudge though....


I don't know your story, but just wanted to share how I processed it all...


BW-me (31)
WXH-him (30)
DD-4, DS-14
High school sweethearts. 14 years gone. He doesn't even care. It meant nothing to him.
False R-3/2011 to 6/2014
Found evidence going back 2 years. He's moving in with OW.

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