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User Topic: Post Quotes Here
steppingup
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Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There are many good quotes floating around SI, here is one I am pondering at this moment, as the thought of R drifts away, far away from me.

"The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them" - Maya Angelou


Her (WW 40s) Me (BH, 40s) very young DS & DD

“Whatever follows after DD is much more crucial than the infidelity action itself” Quote by SI Member Melian40

"I'm a good man, not an option" - Steppingup


Posts: 424 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: CALI
Skan
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Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My signature line spoke to me the very first time I saw it, being that I am on the ocean as much as possible.

The one that says something to the effect of "I thought he was a KISA but it turns out he was just some asshole covered in tin foil" gives me SUCH a clear visual!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4857 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
TheIrishGirl
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was watching tv the other day and a couple was fighting, one of them said, "I am not your enemy, and I don't appreciate being treated as one."


Me: 31, BW Him: 38, WH
2 children (ours) 7/11 & 3/14
D-day 4/18/14 I saw his 'other' email

Posts: 473 | Registered: May 2014
tl502
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Member # 42607
Default  Posted: 12:52 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One that suits many of my encounters:
Do you want me to tell you the truth, or do you want me to tell you what you want to hear?
One of my faves:
It is what it is, but it can become what you make it.


Married 30 yrs.
dd1 9/10/2011 ea/pa
DD2 3/25/2013 same ow, never stopped email and phone contact.
Putting the past behind us and moving forward together

Posts: 250 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: tl502
Scubachick
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Member # 39906
Default  Posted: 2:18 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hate you,
And then I love you.
It's like I want to throw you off a cliff,
Then rush to the bottom to catch you.
that's exactly how I feel about my WH sometimes.

Posts: 680 | Registered: Jul 2013
Scubachick
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Default  Posted: 3:04 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stop asking me to trust you while I'm still
Coughing up water from the last time
You let me drown.

The truly scary thing about undiscovered lies is that they have a greater capacity to diminish us than exposed ones do. They erode our strength, our self-esteem, our very foundation.

Love people enough to tell them the truth and respect them enough to trust that they can handle it.

Lies and secrets....are like cancer in the soul. They eat away what is good and leave only destruction behind- Cassandra Clare

I cannot undo what I have done;
I can't un-sing a song that's sung.
And the saddest thing about my regret-
I can't forgive me
And you can't forget -Lang Leav


Posts: 680 | Registered: Jul 2013
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 4:56 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stop asking me to trust you while I'm still
Coughing up water from the last time
You let me drown.

no kidding!


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's


Posts: 5055 | Registered: Dec 2010
olwen
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Default  Posted: 5:30 AM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

it ain't over til it's over.

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

You can't change anyone but yourself.

One day someone will hug you so tight all your broken pieces will stick back together.

You don't know what you've got til it's gone.

The grass is only greener on the other side cos you don't have to mow it.

The grass is greener where you water it.

You can't truly love anyone else until you learn to love yourself.

Nothing intellectual or new but just a few that I keep running through my mind to keep me going.

[This message edited by olwen at 5:32 AM, August 7th (Thursday)]


Together 19yrs
me BS 36
him WS 41 (silent lucidity)
ea 1 facebook flirting with an ex 2011
ea/pa - co worker 6wks feb to apr2013 pa for 1 wk with sex one time
too much tt to count = latest tt 30/7/14

Posts: 779 | Registered: Jul 2013
steppingup
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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here is a good one -

"If someone makes you miserable more than happy, it doesn't matter how much you love them, you need to let them go"


Her (WW 40s) Me (BH, 40s) very young DS & DD

“Whatever follows after DD is much more crucial than the infidelity action itself” Quote by SI Member Melian40

"I'm a good man, not an option" - Steppingup


Posts: 424 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: CALI
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The first one that ever caught my eye here and has stuck ever since was

"Choosing the path of least regret"


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2599 | Registered: Aug 2012
Mikey56
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


“Your actions speak so loudly, I can not hear what you are saying.”


― Ralph Waldo Emerson


Posts: 114 | Registered: Jan 2013
20WrongsVs1
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If your'e going through hell...keep going!


fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
"Between stimulus and response there’s a space, in that space lies our power to choose our response, in our response lies our growth and our freedom." V. Frankl

Posts: 1198 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Redneck land
steppingup
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Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Her (WW 40s) Me (BH, 40s) very young DS & DD

“Whatever follows after DD is much more crucial than the infidelity action itself” Quote by SI Member Melian40

"I'm a good man, not an option" - Steppingup


Posts: 424 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: CALI
OkNotOk
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Member # 44229
Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are the only one that can make yourself happy.

Posts: 39 | Registered: Jul 2014
TheBestMe
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You should have told me. What you had in mind made me lose my mind. And we never would have wasted this time.

Kelly Price


ME Doing Better
WH Trying As Best He Can
Married 23 years
Status: Working towards friendship
D Day #1 - 2007 My gut told me
D Day #2 - 2010 His D told me
D Day #3 - 1/11/2013 OW Confirmed
LTA 7 years

Both feet pointed forward; positive


Posts: 434 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Inner Peace
ScarlettA1
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been listening to a lot of "PInk". There's a lot of great lines from her songs.
"You're still written in the scars on my heart. You're not broken just bent and we can learn to love again".

"


Be Wise, Be Kind, Be True

WW 47(me)
BH 49
dday 3/19/14
11 mo EA/PA


Posts: 51 | Registered: May 2014 | From: United States
LostAngry
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My favorite is in my signature
"How People treat you is their Karma; how you react is yours" - Wayne Dyer
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“I was steeped in denial, but my body knew.” ― Suzanne Finnamore

“I am going insane. Yes. That is what's happening. Good. Insane.” ― Suzanne Finnamore

“The snag about marriage is, it isn´t worth the divorce.” ― Suzanne Finnamore

“Bushwhacked, I examine my hands. Same hands. Rings still there but no longer valid.” ― Suzanne Finnamore

“When your lover is a liar, you and he have a lot in common, you're both lying to you!” ― Susan Forward

“When would he realize that it wasn't his infidelity I couldn't bear, but his cowardice?” ― Tatiana de Rosnay


"How people treat you is their Karma. How you react is yours."
Wayne Dyer

Posts: 118 | Registered: Sep 2013
Sunrising
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Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Life is like a roll of toilet paper, you don't realise how much you wasted till you get to the end, just make sure you didn't waste too much of it on crap!.

Another is

Happiness is always increased by being shared.

Everyone has a photographic memory, some just don't have the film....

I absolutely love quotes
Sr
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Posts: 51 | Registered: Jul 2014
steppingup
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Her (WW 40s) Me (BH, 40s) very young DS & DD

“Whatever follows after DD is much more crucial than the infidelity action itself” Quote by SI Member Melian40

"I'm a good man, not an option" - Steppingup


Posts: 424 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: CALI
morethantrying
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Default  Posted: 2:19 AM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

so many here help. thank you to everyone...nice not to feel alone.


Affairs - hard on us both - but love will win.
Me: BS 55
Him: WS 62
Married 32 yrs.
dday TT from 12/2012-2/2013)...

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