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User Topic: Anyone's WH bring kids around OW?
steppingup
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If my WW brings the AP/OM around my kids she better bring a body bag, i dont think I should be responsible to pick up dog shit off the ground.


Her (WW 40s) Me (BH, 40s) very young DS & DD

"If you are a side dish, and you become their spouse, just remember, the side dish position is open again" - Foolme1


Posts: 652 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: CALI
ReconcilingWife
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Member # 44420
Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The OW met the children and me in passing a few times, but he didn't meet with her when he was with the children.

But he showed her pictures of our children and talked about them a lot. This has been a real struggle for me to understand. How does someone who really prides himself on being a great father show someone pictures of his cute kids, listen to her fake coo over them, and then hop into bed? What more tangible reminders did he need of what was on the line??


Me: BS, 41
Him: WS, 47
DD: May 30, 2014 (2 month affair)

Married 13 years
2 children

Trying to reconcile


Posts: 301 | Registered: Aug 2014
SadFlower
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Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes. We were couples friends with OW and her H. OW and FWH made a few attempts to get their daughters together (FWH's daughter is my step-daughter), but the girls just never hit it off. They were always civil and polite during visits, and always made an effort to be agreeable, but fundamentally, they did not really like each other very much. I know that FWH and OW were very disappointed!


Me: BW, age 66
Him: WH, age 64
Married 19 years
In R.

D-Day: August 14, 2012
9 year LTA with former co-worker and family "friend"/7 years EA+PA, 2 more years EA


Posts: 412 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Connecticut
krsplat
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Member # 43242
Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had no idea there were so many of us. My WH used our youngest kids as a front for meeting with his OW. He would tell me they were going to a park or a museum, then arrange to have OW "accidentally" meet them there. He had the boys take her a housewarming gift when she moved into the house where most of their sex dates took place.

And after DDay, he "forgot" to tell me any of that until I specifically asked him. He said it didn't seem like an important detail.


Me & WH: 48, married 22 years, 4 kids
DDay: 3/5/14, 7 yr LTA plus multiple ONS
Status: Living in limbo

Posts: 383 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Virginia
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