"If you are a side dish, and you become their spouse, just remember, the side dish position is open again" - Foolme1
But he showed her pictures of our children and talked about them a lot. This has been a real struggle for me to understand. How does someone who really prides himself on being a great father show someone pictures of his cute kids, listen to her fake coo over them, and then hop into bed? What more tangible reminders did he need of what was on the line??
Married 13 years
Trying to reconcile
D-Day: August 14, 2012
9 year LTA with former co-worker and family "friend"/7 years EA+PA, 2 more years EA
And after DDay, he "forgot" to tell me any of that until I specifically asked him. He said it didn't seem like an important detail.