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User Topic: My Sammy is gone
Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry, SD. Losing a beloved pet is losing a member of your family. Hugs...


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((SD))))) I'm so very sorry, honey.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:13 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((SD)))))))))


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17704 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
norabird
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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((SD))))

((((Sammy))))

It seems like, of all possible passings, this must have been the best for both of you--peaceful and together.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4203 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, no! I'm so very sorry


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 9034 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.

((((((sd)))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5540 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You were there with her. The last thing she saw and felt was your love.

You did good.

{{{hugs}}}

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6607 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
happenedtome
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Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((SD))))). I am so sorry.

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dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 12:35 PM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so very sorry.

((((huge hugs))))


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((SD)))))

Enormous hugs to you. I'm so sorry.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 1007 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for all your support and hugs. They mean a lot to me.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Audrina
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Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, August 9th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AW...I am sooo sorry. I am sure that Sammy felt your love during her last moments. Cherish the memories.
I have some 4 legged friends in Heaven who will take good care of her.

Big hugs.


Me (betrayed): 35
Him:45


Posts: 266 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Canada
Afraid2LoveAgain
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Default  Posted: 6:53 AM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry--Sammy will always be there on your shoulder.
(((SimplyDevastated)))


BW -- 57
Divorced 2001
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary

Posts: 430 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: NC
dameia
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Default  Posted: 12:45 PM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry for your loss SD. (((hugs)))


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.


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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you Audrina, that is so sweet.

Thank you everyone for the continued support. I miss her so much. I keep thinking who's going lay on my chest now? Who's going to keep my toes warm at the dinner table and at my desk? Who's going to push me off my office chair while I'm writing?

We still have one sweet kitty, but I want my Sammy back.

We started moving today. I opened the stockings container and Sammy's stocking was right on top. I was going to make new stockings this year, too.

We're going to make her a head stone out of those mosaic stepping stones you get in the craft stores. We started looking at them today.

I miss my kitty

[This message edited by simplydevastated at 5:33 PM, August 10th (Sunday)]


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Jomarion
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Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Simply Devestated, such a hole is left in one's life when a beloved pet dies. The cuddles, the silly and comforting things they do they now will do no more. When a beloved pet dies, my body, unconsciously it seems, 'searches' for the pet - I reach out my hand - but he is not there - I wait for the morning meow at the food bowl - but there is no meow. The longing is so painful.

The memorial you plan on making for Sammy is a wonderful way to remember and honor his life.

My sympathy to you. I am happy Sammy had such a loving person to care for him in his life. Sounds like he knew that too. I feel certain he misses and remembers and continues to love you too.


me:BGF, 54, American immigrant. one son. me and my ex get along great, the most amicable split imaginable!
him:WBF,43, Polish immigrant
together since 2006,
DDay:October28,2009,after his 3 teen kids push him to cheat with OW.
5 betrayed me

Posts: 192 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: UK
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((SD)))))))))

RIP, beautiful Sammy.


Posts: 3425 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jomarion, I know how that is. Sammy made a bed out son's old toddler arm chair. The chair is directly across from my bedroom door in the living room. I keep looking at the the chair in the morning hoping get to see her there.

I also look under my desk every evening before I go to bed. I've done that every night for years to make sure I didn't shut her in my room at night with no access to the litter box or food bowls. She reminded me of the cat at the end (or beginning) of the Flintstone cartoons. Fred would put the cat out and it would jump through the window and Fred would be locked out. That was Sammy. I would put her in the living room at night, I would turn my back to go back into my room and she would run back in. We did this three times each night.

She always sat behind my head on the back of the sofa. She would either clean my hair or put her paw on the top of my head. There was a few times she would slip off the back and land on my shoulder

She was silly.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((simplydevastated))) I'm so sorry. (((sammy)))


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9820 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((HUGS)) I'm so sorry.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 5-year-old daughter. Baby Green 2.0 expected June 2015!!!!!!!!!

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