Topic: My Sammy is gone
Member # 39560
| Posted: 2:29 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014|
(((((SD)))))I'm so sorry to hear. Yes, I'm sure Sammy knew he was greatly loved.
I'm missing my Opie who I recently lost and miss terribly.
My vet sent me a card which had this verse "some friends come into our lives and quickly go, Others stay for a while and leave pawprints on our hearts" It is so true.
Opie, and all my others before him, are there to greet Sammy with a gentle meow.
many, many, many hugs to you as you grieve for your friend
Me: 45, him: 54
together 18 years
DDay1 March 2013, Dday2 April 27, 2013, Dday3 June 1, 2013
We are in R and trying to make it
Never lose yourself trying to hang onto someone who doesn't care about losing you.
Posts: 256 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Northeast
Member # 20849
| Posted: 2:42 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014|
Aaawww..... My heart goes out to you.....she was beautiful and I am so sorry for your loss. (((((simplydev))))
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
Posts: 15418 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
Member # 43659
| Posted: 6:37 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014|
Simply devastated, I had a cat that used to sit on the back of my chair too while I did my writing. His name was Darling. He and I used to go to sleep 'hand in paw' at night. (I think the order on the bed was husband, dog, me, and cat.) In the mornings if I overslept he would try to open my eyelids gently with his paws. It was terrible when he died. He left a huge void in my heart and life. Many people without animals cannot understand this.
I love the picture in my mind of you sitting in your chair with Sammy's paw on your head! It sounds like she was tuning in to your chakras ( did I spell that correctly?)Sammy sounds like a very fun cat with tons of personality. Must have made you laugh a lot.
You must really miss her.
me:BGF, 54, American immigrant. one son. me and my ex get along great, the most amicable split imaginable!
him:WBF,43, Polish immigrant
together since 2006,
DDay:October28,2009,after his 3 teen kids push him to cheat with OW.
5 betrayed me
Posts: 199 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: UK
Member # 15906
| Posted: 8:38 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014|
SO-5 years together-he decided to end it by cheating too
Posts: 1380 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: PNW country
Member # 30742
| Posted: 9:02 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014|
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Member # 2
| Posted: 5:57 AM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014|
(((SD))) I'm so sorry
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Posts: 198868 | Registered: May 2002
Member # 26133
| Posted: 6:01 AM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014|
Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.
Posts: 5152 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
Member # 41741
| Posted: 6:27 AM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so sorry.
Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Posts: 1237 | Registered: Dec 2013
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