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User Topic: Was it our anniversary?
vtach
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I do not remember our anniversary. Not sure if is subconscious or not. I spent a wonderful afternoon with my sister and best friend. The shock came as I was making a special dinner for my husband. He said something like..."do you know what today is?" I just asked, no what? He reminded me it was our anniversary.

Anyone that knows me knows how sentimental I am. It makes me very sad that my brain cannot remember. Maybe that's a good thing tho.


me 48
wh 63
1st DD Thanksgiving day 2009
2nd DD 12/27
3rd DD 3/5/10

We are a work in progress...

Tho I'm fully aware, of your desperate despair, I'm still charmed by the words that you say...Jaron and the Long Road to Love


Posts: 2053 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: alabama
Feelthrownaway
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe you do not remember as it is no longer a special day for you.


BW- 48
FWH-49
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 23 years- together 25

What doesn't kill me, scars me.


Posts: 1096 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Down South
tl502
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been through 3 anniversaries since dd. We celebrated the last one, but it was an effort. It was our 30th. Our children wanted to have a party, but I just couldn't do it. We went out to dinner. I feel like a hypocrite celebrating a m that was full of lies and cheating.
On our 30th, this past May, we decided to start anew. I have read the stories here on SI of people who D then got back together later on. Well, I didn't want to go through a D, but decided to let the old m die and just become a memory, mostly happy because of our 2 kids and plenty of good times, but obviously scarred by betrayal.
Now our 30th anniversary is our new start date. So far untouched by lies and betrayal. That's something I think I can celebrate next year. Maybe someday it will be something I could celebrate with family and friends without feeling like a hypocrite.


Married 30 yrs.
dd1 9/10/2011 ea/pa
DD2 3/25/2013 same ow, never stopped email and phone contact.
Putting the past behind us and moving forward together

Posts: 314 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: tl502
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