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User Topic: Need Good Thoughts Tomorrow
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone. Your support means a lot.

It's raining cats and dogs here which is somehow strangely helping. My mindset is "It's just another rainy Tuesday." Oddly too is the great distraction caused by the death of Robin Williams. Kind of hard to feel sorry for yourself when there is a family whose world has been gutted.

I'll be super busy throughout the day and I'm only worried about this evening. Contemplating taking myself out for a nice dinner or a movie or both.

You're all so wonderful! Thanks again!


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21068 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 8:10 AM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you today.
((( Ajsmom )))


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6525 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ajsmom)))


Posts: 35846 | Registered: Mar 2011
brokeninfl
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Default  Posted: 9:28 AM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you AJ -- glad you have a full day ahead of you.


"On the other side of fear lies freedom"

Me - 36 BS
Him - doesn't matter
2 DS
DD 11/08
Divorced.


Posts: 1074 | Registered: Dec 2008
IrishGirlVA
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wanted to come in and say --

Happy YOU Day!!


Me, the "B": 41yo
Him, the "W": 38yo
DDay: June 2013
Status: Over

Posts: 297 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Virginia
Edith
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Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saying a prayer for you, dear friend.

E.


Lies are manipulations. Always.

Posts: 387 | Registered: Feb 2013
yewtree
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Default  Posted: 11:10 PM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey !
How was the day? What movie did you go see?
I thought of you, and sent a wish that Rico Suave had raging diarrhea today!


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


Posts: 4692 | Registered: Oct 2007
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's the day after. I hope the day wasn't to bad.

Hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5262 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 8:00 AM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello, Peeps.

Thank you, thank you, thank you all!

Well, gosh darnit - I SURVIVED!!!

I kept super busy during the day. Will admit, around 2:43 or so (roughly the timing of our vows), I had a bit of a pause, but the great news is ZERO TEARS throughout the day.

Stopped on the way home for a couple of cocktails at a steakhouse I've been wanted to try. Had such a good chat with the bartender that I really found myself in another place. She was a hoot and having been a BW before, we ended up having a lot in common and shared stoopid former spouse stories.

I truly enjoyed myself despite the fact that her name was the name of one of his out-of-state OW.

I won't lie - that was a bit of incredible irony.

After a stop to the grocery store, I got home and made myself a nice dinner and called it a night.

Phew - a HUGE milestone has passed!

Youz iz all da best!


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21068 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:36 PM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay you!!!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on celebrating your Triumph Over Adversity Day! You did great!


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. Now I am living alone in the beautiful rural property that was once the dream retreat with X. It's taking a long time to create new dreams but despite some struggles I am mostly happy.

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