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User Topic: Wow xwh is so ugly outside too
Helen of Troy
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Funny  Posted: 9:23 AM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I accidentally saw a recent photo of him on Instagram on someone else's page.
He's gained so much weight and has aged A LOT. The kids report he is on blood pressure meds, well no wonder. Plus he's become very redneck looking. I'm embarrassed to ever have been married to him, not just his actions but now his looks. Ew! He was very good looking in high school and college and beyond.(We were married 18.5 years, met at young age, etc). I'd post a picture but it's against rules. What a horrible transformation he's undergone. Yuck!

Posts: 4703 | Registered: Dec 2009
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A lot of us have watched our XWS's turn to shit right before our eyes. Myself included. My XWH looks disgusting.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3364 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well there's no rule against PM-ing links of pics to people who might want to have a good laugh.

Just saying...


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17411 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My exwh looks so old now and he has gained quite a bit of weight. Whenever people see pics of him now, they are amazed at how old he looks.


Choices, Chances, Changes.....You must make a Choice to take a Chance or your life will never Change.

Posts: 13769 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Harriet
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My ex still looks quite awesome, but someone showed me a recent pic of him and OW, and she looks so old and unattractive. Like her tumultuous relationship with him as aged her in a bad way. I kinda liked that.


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 468 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
DepressedDaddy
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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unfortunately, this also goes both ways. I feel so less attractive since S, because I have probably put on about 15 pounds. I know it will come off once I get back into my groove, but yech! I see pictures of me and just say, "oh well, there's always tomorrow!"


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They're a match made in unicorn schmoopie heaven, that's for sure.

He really traded up, NOT.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17411 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Helen of Troy
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Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FF thank you


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Onward and upward. That is all...

I have to say, her schmoopie hashtags are hilarious!

[This message edited by FaithFool at 12:14 PM, August 11th (Monday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17411 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Amazing, isn't it?

I recently saw a some footage of XWH taken from a security camera. (nothing bad, it's his line of work and this was a demo video for a customer). The camera is fairly high, and when XWH turned around...

He was balding before but now it looks like he's wearing one of those small Jewish caps- but in pink. Oh dear. This look doesn't really work with his big black redneck truck, but it does go rather well with his expanding belly.

I can't believe I was ever attracted to this loser. Yuck.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 861 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Too bad Instagram doesn't provide a fug filter.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17411 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Too bad Instagram doesn't provide a fug filter.




Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - ??

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6456 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
peridot
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Default  Posted: 2:13 AM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had the pleasure of seeing my ex in person not too long ago.

He is so skinny he looks sick. He has lines all over his face. He is going gray and it is dull and ugly. He looks like shit!

Since he walked out, I look amazing after loosing over 60 pounds.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


Posts: 4782 | Registered: Feb 2008
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have to agree with FF that there isn't a rule against PM-ing.....

Xpos is thin. A friend says he has lost weight and sounds as though something is bothering him. He thought maybe something to do with his health that he hasn't come to terms with yet. I laughed. That has been over 10 years. He came to terms with that in a fashion long before he left. Maybe it's the fact that his new bride has doubled in size? And that now he doesn't have the financial opportunities he had before since they both have to live on his money alone??


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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hurtbs
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My ex is also looking bad. I have to say, there's an evil person inside of me that enjoys that a little.

He has *never* taken care of himself - doesn't get any type of exercise (not even a brisk walk), eats terribly, and has bad hygiene. It's taken a real tool as he is hitting 40.

I'm not a super model but I work out regularly and make an effort to eat healthy - well, I eat real food. I am also religious about sunscreen. My 20-something boyfriend seems to think it's had a nice effect.


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


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Helen of Troy
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Default  Posted: 7:30 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok folks, I'm an equal opportunity laugh provider. Private messages on the way to those who want them.

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