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User Topic: Dreams
Numb2014
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Default  Posted: 9:28 AM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My dreams of him have started. They are always dreams of us ending, and of both of us being sad, upset, etc. It never fails...every time I sleep, he is there. Whenever I am awake, he is on my mind. I was doing SO WELL too...then backtracked and I have no idea why. Nothing triggered this. The only thing I can think of is that we have been no contact, so with so little verbal/physical contact, my mind is trying to make up for the lack of?

Either way, this freaking sucks. I had so many dreams and plans for us. He just can't keep it in his pants...


BW-me (31)
WXH-him (30)
DD-4, DS-14
High school sweethearts. 14 years gone. He doesn't even care. It meant nothing to him.
False R-3/2011 to 6/2014
Found evidence going back 2 years. He's moving in with OW.

Posts: 233 | Registered: Jun 2014
HurtingandLost
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Member # 29322
Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Its tough when they take up so much head space. I finally pushed some of her out of my brain a couple of days ago. Its been on again off again since the 4th of July weekend. Time and NC will cure this problem. Hang in there.


36 BH
Sons 16 and 8 Daughters 11, 7, 5.
Ex and STBX both cheated, thinking of getting a dog as a companion after D. At least they're loyal.

Posts: 1032 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: MidWest
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 11:38 AM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I view it as progress. It is your heart catching up with your head. Sometimes it's sad, and sometimes it's angry. It sucks but is necessary.

((Numb2014))


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1866 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
Numb2014
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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My dd told me that the only way to make her heart stop hurting is to have her daddy move back home. I have to admit, sometimes I think that is the only solution to my pain too. Then I remember how toxic we were and how we have both grown in to different people. I just want the old him. But he is gone....


BW-me (31)
WXH-him (30)
DD-4, DS-14
High school sweethearts. 14 years gone. He doesn't even care. It meant nothing to him.
False R-3/2011 to 6/2014
Found evidence going back 2 years. He's moving in with OW.

Posts: 233 | Registered: Jun 2014
betrayedpregnant
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

you're probably dreaming about him because you're thinking about him. it sucks, but hey, they're just dreams. not real. your daughter sounds so cute. So honest. I feel bad for her. She does not really comprehend everything yet, and she is not well equipped to handle this type of crisis yet. Take extra good care of her. You're the only decent parent she has.

Posts: 288 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Hawaii
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