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User Topic: She's "irritated"
HurtingandLost
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Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was smoking and looking at the shitpile of a "garage" that the STBX filled with SHIT. PILES AND PILES OF SHIT. She came out and asked which whatever she could take and I said "ALL OF IT". "I hope you don't think you're just gonna drop off a bunch of shit and leave my new place a mess". I said "why not? That's exactly what you've done with every place we've lived! Shit, I can see it now, I'm going to set up my table saw over there, my router table there, my compound miter saw there, this shits gonna be great!"

"Stop acting like you're excited to get rid of me, its irritating!"

Nope. Living with a selfish disrespectful slob is irritating. Don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya!


36 BH
Sons 16 and 8 Daughters 11, 7, 5.
Ex and STBX both cheated, thinking of getting a dog as a companion after D. At least they're loyal.

Posts: 1032 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: MidWest
GingerAle
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Member # 33822
Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Stop acting like you're excited to get rid of me, its irritating!"

Awwww, why are you being so mean to her? My STBX is also a slob and hoarder. Tonight is his last chance to get the rest of his crap out of the garage. So excited for my kids and I to have a tidy, clean garage, and be able to get our bikes in and out of it without hurting ourselves!

Enjoy your new, clutter free work space


My WH (The KISA, NPD) 6 month EA in 2010
2 other EAs in 2012 & 2013
Filed for D 7/2014


Posts: 425 | Registered: Nov 2011
ChangeMaker
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Member # 43899
Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My STBXWW was a hoarder in denial. Until now. She rented a storage locker to keep her shit in while we try to sell the house.

Then she filled it.

Then she rented a bigger one.

Then she filled it.

She asked me to help pay for it. I laughed like it was a joke. I laughed so hard she began to laugh too, lest it appear whe wasn't kidding!

There's no furniture or clothes in there yet. Just shit. Mounds and mounds of shit.

Some days are better than others.


"Everything works if you let it." - Travis W. Redfish

DDay - June 7, 2014
Me - 43
WW - 41
DD - 6 and 3
Pulling the Plug


Posts: 351 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Ontario
HurtingandLost
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Member # 29322
Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, August 11th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My stbx is in denial about her hoarding as well. Gets pissed if I bring it up. At one point we were living in a 2600 sq ft clutterfucked house and renting three storage units. The final straw in our marriage was when I rented two dumpsters and filled them up before her mom and step dad visited in June and we still couldn't walk through the house. They rode her ass and she went running to OM. Sucks when the dysfunction that they hide behind a marriage is exposed.


36 BH
Sons 16 and 8 Daughters 11, 7, 5.
Ex and STBX both cheated, thinking of getting a dog as a companion after D. At least they're loyal.

Posts: 1032 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: MidWest
Softcentre
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Default  Posted: 2:11 AM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Arse is a hoarder too...there used to be piles EVERYWHERE. What's worse is I got used to it over the years and stopped trying to put everything away. I'm having to retrain myself back to normal habits now. Over a year since he left, I'm still trying to get rid of 'stuff'. It's hard to work out what to keep because I was so used to us keeping everything 'just in case'


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - Susp EA 'The Baker'
COW - EA/PA 'Fat Bottomed Girl'
COW - Susp EA 'MiniMe'

Posts: 1047 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
pmal64
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Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bless her heart...


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BS-me-50
fWH -54

Posts: 576 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: down south
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Stop acting like you're excited to get rid of me, its irritating!"


Your response: "I'm not that good of an actor."


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1417 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
Gr8Lady
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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had no idea so many people suffered the agony of living with a hoarder.
It is hell.
I know. Been in that hoarder hell for years. Attempts to clean and organize us like pissing in the wind.
No more.
I'm now free and it is wonderfullly freeing to finally be in a clutter free home.


BS: Me (63yo)
FWH: HIM (65yo) serial infidelities over past 35 years
OW: Many, most recent 1/2 his age
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2012 when I presented evidence, plus LTA with his friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over past year
So done,

Posts: 618 | Registered: Jul 2012
brokeninfl
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Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, August 12th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love your post.

The final straw in our marriage was when I rented two dumpsters and filled them up before her mom and step dad visited in June and we still couldn't walk through the house

Yowza! That is crazy. My xwh wasn't a hoarder -- not like that - but he was a "collector" and had tons of different "collections" that were everywhere -- drove me crazy. I love that I can just get rid of stuff now - no more clutter in my house.


"On the other side of fear lies freedom"

Me - 36 BS
Him - doesn't matter
2 DS
DD 11/08
Divorced.


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