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User Topic: "You need to lower your expectations"
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We were able to talk a little more today and I'm feeling more hopeful.

I'm going to take the kind advice offered and I'm making a pledge to myself to concentrate on living in the present. For the next 10 days, I will worry about today and what's in our future rather than what's in our past. I will not hold the A over WH's head or play the trump card when we disagree.

I know this won't change everything and any changes that come from this won't happen overnight, but I owe it to myself to step out of the shadow of the A and feel sunshine on my face.

Thank you all, you have given me so much to think about, offered so much good advice and shared such kindness. I'm really humbled.

Me: BW 52
Him: WH 55
Married 8 years
4 20-something his and hers kids

Trying to understand the behavior of some people is like trying to smell the color 9

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