We were able to talk a little more today and I'm feeling more hopeful.
I'm going to take the kind advice offered and I'm making a pledge to myself to concentrate on living in the present. For the next 10 days, I will worry about today and what's in our future rather than what's in our past. I will not hold the A over WH's head or play the trump card when we disagree.
I know this won't change everything and any changes that come from this won't happen overnight, but I owe it to myself to step out of the shadow of the A and feel sunshine on my face.
Thank you all, you have given me so much to think about, offered so much good advice and shared such kindness. I'm really humbled.Me: BW 52
Him: WH 55
Married 8 years
4 20-something his and hers kids
Trying to understand the behavior of some people is like trying to smell the color 9