Topic: Nine months...
Member # 30341
| Posted: 10:14 PM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014|
I love the thought of your grandparents taking care of their son with a life insurance policy. And this:
All the while, the grief for my mother waited patiently. Biding it's time, waiting for me to remember where I'd left it. Today's letter opened the door and invited it back in.is poetry. Are you writing this somewhere other than here? Will writing be a part of your healing?
(((NIK))) so many hugs for you.
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Posts: 3127 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Member # 34722
| Posted: 12:24 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Definitely agree, Better4me!
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Posts: 2328 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
Member # 26928
| Posted: 12:33 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
((( NIK )))
Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - ??
DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats
WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs
I edit often for clarity.
Posts: 6440 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Member # 33226
| Posted: 11:18 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Are you writing this somewhere other than here? Will writing be a part of your healing?Thank you, b4me. Writing is a major outlet for me. I do journal and have been working on a book for quite some time. I even tried my hand at blogging a few years back, although that foundered rather quickly.
Thank you everyone for the support.
You can call me NIK
"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
Posts: 25287 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 34697
| Posted: 8:03 PM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Posts: 4619 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Member # 36697
| Posted: 8:22 PM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Posts: 1677 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
Member # 15584
| Posted: 8:33 PM, August 15th (Friday), 2014|
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Posts: 4165 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Member # 18522
| Posted: 1:32 AM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014|
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
Posts: 7813 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Member # 31349
| Posted: 2:04 AM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014|
Ohhh honey, I feel like it was just yesterday too. Here with you as always.
Love you, alot. (<--intentional)
I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown
Posts: 17284 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 6850
| Posted: 11:27 AM, August 17th (Sunday), 2014|
Grief has a way of waiting for us doesn't it.....my Dad passed away 14 yrs ago and my Mum in January of this year....I don't think you can separate the two out....when I think of my Mum the pain of losing my Dad rushes in...they were together for so many years (married 50 yrs, dated for yrs before that) that they became almost one......
((NIK)) give yourself over to the tears, the memories and let it help you move forward.....HUGS
You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith
Posts: 4841 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
Member # 14866
| Posted: 3:50 PM, August 17th (Sunday), 2014|
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 52125 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Member # 12050
| Posted: 7:33 PM, August 17th (Sunday), 2014|
Oh crap, that brought me cold chills. I am so sorry for your loss.
Posts: 2675 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: newfoundland
Member # 10552
| Posted: 2:49 AM, August 18th (Monday), 2014|
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15392 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 30369
| Posted: 8:20 AM, August 18th (Monday), 2014|
Posts: 7017 | Registered: Dec 2010
Member # 42092
| Posted: 8:59 AM, August 18th (Monday), 2014|
Sit. Feast on your life.
Posts: 4147 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Member # 24849
| Posted: 11:20 AM, August 18th (Monday), 2014|
FWW - 41
Fawk you.....pay me!
Posts: 5895 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
Member # 42372
| Posted: 1:03 PM, August 18th (Monday), 2014|
Losing ones parents is a huge milestone in our life. Hold their memories close and let yourself mourn.
Posts: 254 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Florida
Member # 36853
| Posted: 2:00 PM, August 18th (Monday), 2014|
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs
Posts: 1424 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
Member # 35810
| Posted: 12:27 AM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014|
Me: Former BW, 28
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie
Posts: 382 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Back in the Southeast!
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