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better4me
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Default  Posted: 10:14 PM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love the thought of your grandparents taking care of their son with a life insurance policy. And this:
All the while, the grief for my mother waited patiently. Biding it's time, waiting for me to remember where I'd left it. Today's letter opened the door and invited it back in.
is poetry. Are you writing this somewhere other than here? Will writing be a part of your healing?

(((NIK))) so many hugs for you.


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3209 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Definitely agree, Better4me!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2387 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 12:33 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((( NIK )))


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6540 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are you writing this somewhere other than here? Will writing be a part of your healing?
Thank you, b4me. Writing is a major outlet for me. I do journal and have been working on a book for quite some time. I even tried my hand at blogging a few years back, although that foundered rather quickly.

Thank you everyone for the support.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((nik))))


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4687 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Posts: 1736 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK))))


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4209 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 1:32 AM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7824 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:04 AM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ohhh honey, I feel like it was just yesterday too. Here with you as always.

Love you, alot. (<--intentional)


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17859 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
movingforward777
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Default  Posted: 11:27 AM, August 17th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Grief has a way of waiting for us doesn't it.....my Dad passed away 14 yrs ago and my Mum in January of this year....I don't think you can separate the two out....when I think of my Mum the pain of losing my Dad rushes in...they were together for so many years (married 50 yrs, dated for yrs before that) that they became almost one......
((NIK)) give yourself over to the tears, the memories and let it help you move forward.....HUGS


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

Posts: 4845 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, August 17th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK))))


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52680 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
gardenparty
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, August 17th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh crap, that brought me cold chills. I am so sorry for your loss.


divorced!

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 2:49 AM, August 18th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Empress)))


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15415 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, August 18th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK))))

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norabird
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Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, August 18th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((NIK))))))


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, August 18th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nik)))


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 5978 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
SpecialK
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, August 18th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Losing ones parents is a huge milestone in our life. Hold their memories close and let yourself mourn.
{hugs}

Posts: 317 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Florida
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, August 18th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((NIK)))))))


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️


Posts: 1499 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
mixedemotions
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Default  Posted: 12:27 AM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK)))


Me: Former BW, 28
Divorced 10/11/12
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie

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