Just a friendly warning to WSs who are on the fence about who they want to be with. The BS or AP?
As someone who has been asked to live in the F..kedupness of the "pick me" dance for over 5 months. I have to warn you, that if you insist on putting your BS through that bull crap, he/she migth as I have come eventually to the realization that we no longer can give a F...K about having our name in your hat and simply give up completely on the marriage because you cannot make up your precious mind.
I know its hard to leave the fun and thrill of the affair and how the AP really "knows you" and "gets you" and the "chemisty" and all that.
Yes I get it.
But you really should take good care to examen the real value in your marriage partner before asking them to go into the "pick me dance" bacause that SHIT is Lethal.
I had a real love, and unconditional love for my serial cheating wife...and she killed it.
Consider this thoughtfully befor you put your BS into what I will now coin, "The Lethal Dance of Pick Me".
Regards, Step.Her (WW 40s) Me (BH, 40s) very young DS & DD
"If you are a side dish, and you become their spouse, just remember, the side dish position is open again" - Foolme1