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User Topic: wife in hospital
lovemywife4ever
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Default  Posted: 6:21 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still high bp. They admitted her. She's threatening to walk out of there. Will update later. Taking a day off on vacation to stay there. Baby not due for a bit over three months so nervous here. They will take him/her early, but hoping to hold off a bit. Will know more later.

[This message edited by lovemywife4ever at 6:28 AM, August 15th (Friday)]


Me-WS
Her-BS (deena04)
Upper 30s and kids at home (hers/mine/ours)
Cheater-me 2.5 years into relationship, 2 months before engagement, 1.5 year before M...this is not an excuse but a timeline of our life

Posts: 252 | Registered: Mar 2014
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:30 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending good thoughts to both of you.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38662 | Registered: Sep 2007
pizzalover
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Default  Posted: 6:33 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you and your wife. Hope everything is okay.


Trying to rebuild each day

Me - WW 39
Him - BH 40 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats

Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09


Posts: 513 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
DrJekyll
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Member # 43618
Default  Posted: 7:04 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hang in there. Gods for you, for taking the day off. Be supportive.


I am no longer Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde. I am me, and they are both part of me.

"If you don't eat the elephant in one bite, it might trample you while chewing"

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women


Posts: 833 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Midwest
determinata
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Member # 42124
Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending positive thoughts to your wife, baby, family and you. Stay focused on what counts.


M 2007. DDay 2008
~10+ CL Prostitutes in 8 months
Divorcing SAWH "ActionsOverWords"
Me: Early 30s BW (also an adult OC) w Baby DS

6 years of TT, hidden STD & false R
Separated 5 mos+; he will not commit
Someday I will be okay


Posts: 288 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New York City
TheIrishGirl
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Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope they take excellent care of her & baby. I'll be thinking of them.

FWIW I have a friend that delivered twins at 30 weeks due to pre-e, they were just over 1lb each, but are now thriving 3 year olds.


Me: 31, BW Him: 38, WH
2 children (ours) 7/11 & 3/14
D-day 4/18/14 I saw his 'other' email

Posts: 711 | Registered: May 2014
somethingremorse
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Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We had the same thing for DS 13 years ago. It sounds scary, but it will be OK. Hang in there.


Me: WH (40s)
DDay 11/03/13
In MC and IC

Posts: 745 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Pennsylvania
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending good thoughts out her way. Good call on taking the day off to be there for her. Keep us posted on how things go. Best of luck.

Posts: 7998 | Registered: Dec 2010
StartingFreshNow
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Default  Posted: 8:56 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hang in there and do what you need to for your family. My thoughts are with you all.

My BH was born a premie and his mother blames my father-in-law for it but you know what, my BH was just fine. Hospitals are equipped to care for premie's and yours will be a fighter. I hope the baby stays in for at least a few more weeks, but if not, my heart is with you all.


Me: WW
2 young kids
DDay - Dec 2013 (EA), TT
DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
(All the same A)

Posts: 316 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: USA
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 9:16 AM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had a 29 weeker and she's now almost 15 and just fine. They can do things to help baby stay in a bit longer or help their lungs develop more before birth.

Thinking of you all. I know how scary it is!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, August 15th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You and your wife are in my prayers.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 5096 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 2:06 AM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope Deena and the baby are ok. Thinking of you all.


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - Jan 2010 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1264 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending good thoughts. I hope everything is ok.

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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, August 16th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope she is ok.


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 4094 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
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