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User Topic: If you get lost you can always be found
LA44
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Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, August 18th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just heard that song again by Philip Phillips and that one line got to me.

That's it for now.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2441 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
blakesteele
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Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, August 18th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When you reach the end of yourself....you have arrived at the spot where God can begin to work within you.

Heard that today on the radio.

Peace.


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3965 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
LA44
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Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, August 18th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Peace my friend.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2441 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
Mac4
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Member # 43122
Default  Posted: 10:14 PM, August 18th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LA44, I heard Chris Isaak on the radio tonight on the drive to work, Somebody's Crying:

"So please, return the love you took from me.
Or please, let me know if it can't be me...

Give me a sign let me know we're through
if you don't love me like I love you"

not quite as positive, but was really surprised by how much the lyrics got to me on that one.


BS me 41
WW 42
Married 11 years
R for now I guess
DD 9 & DS 8
DDay 2 (PA) - March 3rd, 2014
DDay 1 (EA) - July 2nd, 2011

Posts: 102 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Midwest
918Mama
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Member # 37756
Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FWH used to play that song for me when he was trying to convince me to R.

We just went to see him last month, in full R. That song is so special to me.

P.S...if you have a chance to see him in person, GO! He's an awesome performer!!!


Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be. -- Sonia Ricotti

Posts: 585 | Registered: Dec 2012
BtraydWife
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Default  Posted: 12:28 AM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really like that song.


Just know you're not alone


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 1874 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
Hopeful74
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Default  Posted: 12:42 AM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

'Though my heart will never be the same, I keep telling myself I'll be ok. Cuz even on my weakest days, I'm getting a little bit stronger.'

Stronger
Sara Evans

[This message edited by Hopeful74 at 12:43 AM, August 19th (Tuesday)]


Me: BW 39 Him:WH 37 (M)12 years; (T)18 years -2 DD: 16; 3; 1 DS: 9
Separated, headed for Divorce-he's not strong enough for me
'Everytime you get up and get back in the race, one more small piece of you starts to fall into place.' -

Posts: 302 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Hampton, VA
notanavrageangel
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Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH dedicated this song to me the other day. Made me tear up.

"Who I am with you is who I really want to be
You're so good for me
And when I'm holdin' you, it feels like I've got the world in my hands
Yeah, a better man is who I am with you"

-Chris Young "Who I am with you"


Me: BW, 28
Him: WH, 28
DDAY 7/4/14 TT till 7/18/14

"Reconciliation means working together to correct the legacy of past injustice." - Nelson Mandela


Posts: 228 | Registered: Jul 2014
Sunrising
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Member # 44065
Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a lovely song to be dedicated to you notyouraverageangel
Beautiful

Posts: 51 | Registered: Jul 2014
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, August 19th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

True love by Pink


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

The conditions we face do not define us. They remind us of who we are and who we want to be.


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