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User Topic: Sent my NC letter, laughed at the response
trip3
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Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I put together a NC letter last week, but didn't send it straight away. I wanted my wife to "proof-read" it and see me send it. Part of the letter included a threat that if my AP and I were to get together again, my wife would tell her family. That her parents and grandparents would probably not be proud of a woman who tried to break up a marriage.

The response: "Same goes for you, asshole."

What? You're going to tell my Mom that we had an affair? Sorry, she already knows. I'm assuming my AP only read the first paragraph, which was the part explaining that I was never going to see her again, and fired off that message before reading the rest of it.

Anyway, got a kick out of it and thought I'd share.


Me: WH 34
Her: BW 30 (Margypan)
“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” -Ernest Hemingway

Posts: 53 | Registered: Aug 2014
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Okay, that's done.

Now is the time to take the focus off OW and she gets no more space in your head.

By what means did she respond? She needs to be blocked from everything.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38205 | Registered: Sep 2007
trip3
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Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The letter was sent via Facebook messenger and the reply came in the same way. The Facebook account is deactivated awaiting deletion (takes 2 weeks), and I made it clear that my phone number, email, and anything other contact information has changed and she is never to contact me again.


Me: WH 34
Her: BW 30 (Margypan)
“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” -Ernest Hemingway

Posts: 53 | Registered: Aug 2014
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, August 21st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Those are good steps .


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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