This Topic is Archived
thatbpguy (original poster member #58540) posted at 10:12 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
Thanks to hopefulkate for giving me the idea for this thread...
As a result of what you have been thru, what would your tat look like and/or say? Where would it be located?
I think for me, I'd have the front half of an arrow over my heart on my chest and the back half on my back thru my heart.
The heart wound that will never go away.
ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman
"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis
As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...
DebraVation ( member #51156) posted at 10:27 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
Am I allowed to get a tattoo on him instead? One on his privates, saying "If found, please return to (our address). Many thanks." I have threatened him with this, he hates needles so would be kind of fun.
If I had to have a tattoo, maybe one saying "Kiss my ass".
thatbpguy (original poster member #58540) posted at 10:30 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
"If found, please return to..."
That could be taken, ahem, several ways...
[This message edited by thatbpguy at 4:30 PM, November 9th (Thursday)]
ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman
"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis
As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...
DebraVation ( member #51156) posted at 10:31 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
Ha ha, yes. It would be more for the pleasure of getting the tattoo done though to be honest. I could even do it myself....
thatbpguy (original poster member #58540) posted at 10:33 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
Ha ha, yes. It would be more for the pleasure of getting the tattoo done though to be honest. I could even do it myself....
Guys, never, I repeat, never, let your wife tattoo you...
ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman
"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis
As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...
MidnightRun ( member #59434) posted at 10:33 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
Tatoo for her: whore, on the forehead.
needfriendshere ( member #43350) posted at 10:42 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
Ha! I love where this thread has gone. It made me laugh. Thank you!
I have no idea what I would do tatto-wise for me. But I love the ideas of how to tattoo the FWS's! Until now, I had no idea what to get H for Christmas...
Me: early 50'sWH: early 50'sMarried: 23 yearsDS: 21 years oldOther DS: 18 years oldD-day: 2/14/2014H's LTA lasted 6 years, his EA's lasted during most of our M, but we are both trying hard to R.
nightmare01 ( member #50938) posted at 10:43 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
I have a lot of tattoos - but they represent things that I want to remember, or am proud of. My WW's LTA doesn't fit that category. A good day for me is one in which I don't think of her affair very much (I always do at some point though - but on good days the memory doesn't have much energy). I don't want ink that reminds me of something horrible like this.
I image it would be like a rape victim getting a tattoo reminding her of what happened.
This is not for me, but different strokes...
BH. DDay 07-19-2001.
Reconciliation is a life long process.
Northerngal ( member #45481) posted at 10:43 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
For the mow: you can’t be first but you can be next!
I already have one from a drunken night in 1989. So I’m done.
smokenfire ( member #5217) posted at 10:44 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
Don't food shop when hungry, or date when you're lonely
How others treat you IS a reflection of your SELF worth, but not your actual WORTH.
thatbpguy (original poster member #58540) posted at 10:50 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
I already have one from a drunken night in 1989. So I’m done.
That's it? You're gonna leave us hanging???
Aw, come on, tell us more...
ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman
"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis
As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...
tiredofcrying59 ( member #56180) posted at 10:53 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
Funny, I just got one yesterday. Not to commemorate this crap fest, but because I feel music pretty much saved my life, I have a heart which is made up of a base clef and upside down treble clef with a Scottish thistle in the middle. Cause I'm Scottish and prickly 
It's on my inside forearm.
BW
Me-59
Him-57
M-33 yrs, not that I "celebrate" it
D-day-10/30/16 2mo.PA w/COW attempting R
new news- like a 5 year A w/COW, no longer attempting R. What am I, an idiot?
Getting on with life, without him.
PlanC ( member #47500) posted at 11:01 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
As a result of the affair, I would tattoo "HPV" on the side of my penis. Oh, wait, that is so totally unnecessary.
BS 50; xWW. 4 children.
DD 1: April 2013, confessed ONS June 2012
DD 2: March 2014, confessed affair August 2012 through March 2013
DD 3: October 2015, involuntarily confessed 5 additional ONS starting August 2014 through November 2014 (manic)
tiredofcrying59 ( member #56180) posted at 11:32 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
why punish yourself? Have it tattooed on the other guys' penis.
BW
Me-59
Him-57
M-33 yrs, not that I "celebrate" it
D-day-10/30/16 2mo.PA w/COW attempting R
new news- like a 5 year A w/COW, no longer attempting R. What am I, an idiot?
Getting on with life, without him.
SMSA925 ( member #43955) posted at 11:53 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
This subject has come up before. I've been through a few surgeries and have some horrific scars. But this betrayal, nothing ever in my life has hurt as much as this. How can I not have a visible scar from all this hurt? I was going to get a koi fish because it is a symbol of personal strength and resilience. But now I think I want a tattoo of a scar. And ugly red infidelity scar. Where doesn't matter so much. Where would hurt least? No reason to subject myself to more pain.
Me: BS; b. 1958
Him: WH b. 1952
Together since 1982, Married 20yrs at DDay#1
DDay April 17, 2014; DD#2 2/15
My ducks lined up, life is good!
hobort ( member #60798) posted at 11:59 PM on Thursday, November 9th, 2017
How about some text on her abdomen below the navel and just above the line of her panties that reads "Good luck ... you're gonna need it. -Han Solo"
Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 2:39 AM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
NO REGRATS (no even one letter?)
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
hopefulkate ( member #47752) posted at 2:45 AM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
hooray! I inspired a thing! 
First to share- the OBS made the AP get a super stupid tatoo- tramp stamp - which I assume - hope!- gets in the way of her "beach club" desires 
I actually am thinking of getting one for real but can't decide...I also really like...
"She needed a hero. So that's what she became."
Not that I am also a super duper comic book geek too and I kinda really really like it. 
devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 3:03 AM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
I'd get the classic winged terminal with the words Code to Live / Live to Code above and below, wrapping the winged terminal in a circle.
Me: 2xBS b 1962 xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 4:01 AM on Friday, November 10th, 2017
.. way too painful to even consider, butt..... I would have bfOM's face tattooed (spelling?) across my sphincter... so that every time I took a dump or dropped a classic Ntv fart, it would be on him.
... ..I know, it would be way too painful!
smy 
[This message edited by somanyyears at 10:02 PM, November 9th (Thursday)]
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
This Topic is Archived
