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Another lame apology 2 years out

Brokenheart29 posted 3/10/2018 10:37 AM

I moved into my new home this week with my 2 children. Another step in me moving my life forward. Iíve been divorced over a year now and dday was just over 2 years ago. My xwh is still with ow. My children have now met her. But Iím still standing. Still moving forward.
The ow is wanting to come to my house when xwh drops or picks up my children. There is no need as my xwh and ow do not live together. I think she is trying to send a message or mark her territory (ow be crazy, if he cheats with you heíll cheat on you deal with it! I donít want him!)
Anyways Iíve told xwh she isnít to come to my house (she has verbally threatened me in the past and I will not be bullied where I live) he told me he agrees with me and then proceeded to tell me he doesnít know what the future holds, was crying at how he has no money and that he had a midlife crises and made the biggest mistake in his life. That he may dump the ow (he wonít). I just told him to go be with his children. 2 years ago I wanted to hear those words. Now they are so empty. He threw a lovely wife and kids away for nothing. Itís all just very sad.
Also ow would have a fit if she knew he was saying this she won a real prize!

Phoenix1 posted 3/10/2018 13:10 PM

I STILL get those occasional sob stories from Xhole. My typical response (given the conversation context) is either nothing at all or, "that's unfortunate," then change the subject back to whatever it was originally about. Yet, no matter how many times I don't take the bait, he still throws it out there. Got news for him, it won't ever get him his intended result as I don't feel one iota of compassion for him. And I'm good with that.

Glad you saw the lameness for what it was. Yawn.

Onward and upward for your fabulous new life!

freetogonow posted 3/10/2018 14:34 PM

Ow needs to have her ass taken down a peg or two.

WhoTheBleep posted 3/10/2018 14:43 PM

Well now you know why she wants to be there during drop offs and pick ups. She doesn't trust him. And rightly so.

She's made her anxiety ridden bed. Now she needs to lie in it. Beep beep!!

This post makes me happy.

shiloe posted 3/10/2018 16:07 PM

he told me he agrees with me and then proceeded to tell me he doesnít know what the future holds, was crying at how he has no money and that he had a midlife crises and made the biggest mistake in his life.

Please tape him and send a copy to OW.

shakentocore posted 3/11/2018 03:12 AM

Somebody call the WHHAAMBULANCE!

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