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Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, September 28th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

why purple?

From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, September 28th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

fat fingers.. so sorry!

From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, January 12th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wow....just found this thread. not even going there.

thanks for keeping this out of SI for the most part.

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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, March 18th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just reread this thread and still stand by what I said in my last (only) post here: faith has a place here, religion does not.

I have faith but religion I can do without. How one relates to a (or the) higher power is individual and highly personal and, quite frankly (IMO) no one else's business.

Thank you again to all the mods for keeping this topic off the boards.

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WW (me) - 49

All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.

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Default  Posted: 10:31 PM, March 20th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does this include venting about religious ideas while venting about my situation?

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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, August 29th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

These forums are so much the better for this rule.

Just wanted to voice my support.

ďA wizard is never late. Nor is he ever early. He arrives precisely when he means to".
Apparently not an appropriate reason for coming home drunk at 2AM.

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Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, October 1st (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Perfect example of why the no politics rule is universal and all encompassing...

A thread is going on about a (former) politician that I want to reply to, but will not. Why? Because a while I ago I posted about a different (former) politician and was admonished. Right now as I see see that thread I am wondering what I did wrong. I am not upset just confused.

But I support the mods and this is why. Allowing a little leads to this feeling and totally sidetracks from the real reason we are all here. Sure politics can give many fine learning tools, but it is simply too divisive.

I support the SI position and the mods, and really can't wait to get past November.

*edited to help 716

[This message edited by Deeply Scared at 6:57 PM, October 1st (Monday)]

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But I won't back down
In a world that keeps on pushin' me around
But I'll stand my ground and I won't back down

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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, September 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There is a fine line here between discussing politics and discussing political figures. I have no problem with someone bringing up something a political figure did if it relates to infidelity. However, politics and political issues do not belong here. There is enough other material to discuss. And I'm a political debate fanatic, I love it. But that's one rule I don't think I've ever broken here <amazingly>.

Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit. WARNING! No emotional pollution allowed.

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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hi.. i hope it's okay to ask this here... seems like it is....

i was raised without religion except for the fundamental values.

I dabble in things biblical from from a lay person's perspective and I have gotten as far as to consider myself a "Tolstoyan," and to explain, I quote Wiki: "Tolstoyans tend to focus more on following the teachings of Jesus, rather than on his miracles or divinity."

I have recently tried to understand the concepts of grace and truth from a biblical perspective and particularly how it relates to infidelity.

I don't even know what i'm asking but if I were to make "grace and truth" my "motto", what would that mean, exactly.

I'm getting lost online with complex theology!

thanks so much for anyone who knows about this and can help with my understanding. I think I like holding Grace and Truth as one of my Motto's but then i started reading about the Paradox of Grace and Truth and I got all confused.

Me BS 49, ExWS: narcissist! Jekyll Hyde. Left in secret early July, moved states. Left home, job, whole life behind and difficult** adjusting. Dog injured and too much to handle. Supremely bummed out.

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Default  Posted: 5:02 AM, July 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes thank you mods! So many forums get overrun with that talk and while there's a lot of viewpoints I may respect (or, not).. I get sick of seeing it overrun every form of public discussion.. and there really is no room for that here. It's good to be able to have a place to get away from all that.. and keep things focused on the one topic we're really here to discuss.

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Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, March 14th (Saturday), 2015View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi SI Staff, Why not just have a topic entitled, "Religious & Political Threads"? Then people can enter in or not? I clicked on this because I thought this was a thread where people could actually talk about it. :) I understand you're already doing a lot of work for us...I already appreciate this site "as-is", so I'm just suggesting.

I am BW (49), He is WH (48)
Together 27 years, married 23
D-day August 4, 2014
Have 3 beautiful children. (Two sons 20 and 19, one daughter 15.)
WH started affair with HS sweetheart, unremorseful, bought her $14k ring one month after D-day.

Posts: 105 | Registered: Oct 2014 | From: dotterofTheKing
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Default  Posted: 7:05 AM, March 16th (Monday), 2015View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi SI Staff, Why not just have a topic entitled, "Religious & Political Threads"?

Mainly because we're not a religious or political site.

In the ICR forum there is a thread for those that want encouragement through religion

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, April 5th (Sunday), 2015View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DS - thanks for that BTW!

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I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy

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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, April 10th (Friday), 2015View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

deleted comment as I posted in wrong thread

[This message edited by brokenfool13 at 12:09 PM, April 10th (Friday)]

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BW: early 40's(onlytime)
T 17.5 yrs M 13.5 yrs

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