A very enlightening, easy to read book that I keep next to me at all times for when I miss my WH. This book explained so much about why I could never get my ex interested in saving our 21 year marriage. It helps to know that he will never be able to have a relationship that I would want and why he has to cheat. Wonderful book.I loved a narcissist with all my heart and he loves himself too!
Posts: 28 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: california
kstuff Member Member # 25310
Posted: 3:30 PM, August 20th (Friday)
Thanks for the recommendation. Love your signature line, by the way. Married 2005
Together 9 years
No specific dates, it's all a blur right now...
Posts: 462 | Registered: Aug 2009
capri Member Member # 14940
Posted: 10:53 PM, August 22nd (Sunday)
Sounds like something I might read eventually. Although he has dragged me through so much, I don't think I'll ever be in any danger of actually missing him. But I'm very grateful to the books I've read that have finally helped me see him clearly and understand what's going on.Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Posts: 4483 | Registered: Jun 2007
optimist Member Member # 27939
Posted: 11:52 PM, August 22nd (Sunday)
Probably can't bring myself to read it. Know lots of newbies need it though. Wonder if it has tips for dealing with them post divorce?Me: 39 Divorced April 4 2009
Kids: 9, 12 and 14 ALL AMAZING
My past... is my past now...
Posts: 261 | Registered: Mar 2010
Newtwood Member Member # 21154
Posted: 1:41 PM, August 31st (Tuesday)
I'll have to check this one out. Maybe it will make me the UN-crazy one.Faithful Wife of 24+ yrs: Me
OW(s): AFF Skanks/GRANDMOTHERS!!!
Status: Struggling Everday to
what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another-Anatole France
Posts: 2181 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: North Carolina