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Missingmylove
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Member # 29625
Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, September 16th (Thursday)

Okay so H and I are seperated. I want to work it out and he doesn't, been married almost 10 years and have 5 kids. Looking for a book/books to help me through the process of our relationship. Even if we don't get back together we have to work together for the kids.


BW (me)-32
WH-33
OW- 21, and multi online personal ads.
6 children
Angel baby "Christine" lost Oct 2010
Married 11 years
UPDATE: New baby girl born 12/2011!!
"Try not. Do, or do not. There is no try."

Posts: 272 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Home
RiotGrrrl
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Member # 9046
Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, September 16th (Thursday)

Hi, Missingmylove - sorry you find yourself here but this site has amazing people who are very helpful.

I suggest "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass. It helped me the most. I hope you can get your H to read it too.

I got mine at the library and checked it out like 3 times.

Best of luck -

RG


Me: BS (38)
Him: WS (40)
Married: Six years, D Day 11/8/05
Divorce final: Nov 06
Two gorgeous sons: 10 and 8

Posts: 1045 | Registered: Dec 2005 | From: KY
notasaint
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Member # 28465
Default  Posted: 6:37 AM, September 25th (Saturday)

The Five Love Languages might help with your kids just to know their ways of communicating love.


Me - BW 36
Him - FWH 38 SLA (newlywednupset)
M < 1 year
D-days 8/2009 and 4/2010 TT to 10/2010
3 OW over the course of 2 years, all older, one married.
* My husband was in an open relationship from day one, he just failed to tell ME this.*

Posts: 1048 | Registered: May 2010 | From: FL
Topic Posts: 3