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kayak
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, November 25th (Thursday)

has any one read the book called "Infidelity Crisis: How to Gain Forgiveness and Respect After Your Affair"


Me-46
WS-49
Married 27 years
D DAY-11-3-06
D DAY - 6-15-07 he is still incontact with her not physical though like that matters

"HE DID NOT SEE WHAT HE HAD IN ME, WHAT I SAW IN HIM I DID NOT HAVE!!!!"


Posts: 91 | Registered: Apr 2007
jjct
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Member # 17484
Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, November 25th (Thursday)

No, but the one thing I usually check, is how close the advice is to SI's.

It is a good thing that an SI link is given in the "Resources" section of the book's website! Yay!

Also, it seems that the author is a BS, but recommends the book for WS's, and suggests the BS not read it.

Hm. Interesting.

Hufi's post in W, written by poster Messedupanddown is "THE AWESOMEST" "message to the WS" imo

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=324250&HL=25460


Posts: 6423 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
aesir
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Member # 17210
Default  Posted: 11:10 AM, January 2nd (Sunday)

Yes, I have read it. The reason it recommends the BS not read it is because virtually no WS will follow all of it. It is almost a step by step manual for the WS, along with explanations of what damage they have done and why each step addresses it.

If you do read it, it is hard not to be disappointed when your WS skips over a few of these items.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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