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HurtMommy203
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, December 28th (Tuesday)

Anyone have this book that would be willing to let me borrow? I would send it back in as good condition as given.


BS (me): 29
WH: 29
DD: age 2
A: ~Aug/Sept '09 (8 mths preg), Feb '10, Aug '10, Dec '10
Dday: Dec 17, '10
Admitted: Dec 20, '10

Trying to R


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imokay
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, December 28th (Tuesday)

There is a book by this title???


DD: 2/10/02

Me: BS - 50 (seriously???)
Him: FWS - 52

Fully reconciled.
I ♥ my Husband!!!

When life hands you lemons - break out the tequila and salt!

Yesterday is not today. Today is not forever.


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sharim
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Default  Posted: 1:08 AM, December 29th (Wednesday)

PM me with your addy and I will send my copy. No need to return -- just pass along as needed.

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HurtMommy203
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Default  Posted: 7:08 AM, December 29th (Wednesday)

imokay: Yes, this full title is My Husband's Affair Became The Best Thing That Happened To Me. Horrible title, but I think she's referring to how strong their marriage was after the R. Type in "Anne Bercht" in a Google search, and you'll find some clips from the Dr. Phil and Oprah shows.

Here's the book on Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Husbands-Affair-Became-Thing-Happened/dp/1412033209


BS (me): 29
WH: 29
DD: age 2
A: ~Aug/Sept '09 (8 mths preg), Feb '10, Aug '10, Dec '10
Dday: Dec 17, '10
Admitted: Dec 20, '10

Trying to R


Posts: 24 | Registered: Dec 2010
Jessy1501
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, December 29th (Wednesday)

Awesome book. I had it but already gave it away.


Attempting to give a fuck: ███████████████████] 99% Complete...ERROR!: Unable to give a fuck.

Posts: 5893 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: My own fantasy land
tukuhnikivats
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Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, December 30th (Thursday)

I need to keep my copy for a while. I read it the week after D-Day. It was much more helpful that Surviving Infidelity.

I go to Anne's website, www.beyondaffairs.com often and they have some great teleseminars posted there that you can listen to. Just listening to the other couples talk openly about it made me feel not so isolated.

They also have healing get aways for couples and Anne and her WH Brian work one on one with couples.


Me- Betrayed Spouse, 29
Husband- Wayward Spouse, 32
Date of infidelity- April 1, 2010
D-Day- April 22, 2010
R-Day- April 25, 2010
Date we met- June 16, 2000
Wedding Anniversary- August 21, 2002

Posts: 11 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Nevada
married26yrs
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Default  Posted: 2:57 AM, May 22nd (Sunday)

I read this book the day after I discovered my husband's affair. It was through this book that I found a support group in the state that I reside in.

Posts: 82 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Honolulu
Adolphsnightmare
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Default  Posted: 8:40 AM, June 13th (Monday)

I was able to listen to Anne and her husband online and I just hated her husbands voice. Plus, he kept interrupting her and then she would agree with whatever he said. Her husband seemed annoyed when she would talk too long about something and that's when the interrupting began.

Posts: 148 | Registered: Jun 2011
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, August 5th (Friday)

I read this book about a month after d-day. It helped in a lot of respects, but I also found it discouraging. I felt the author's faith, commitment, and love for her WH was so much stronger than my own. Didn't help that I never warmed to the husband. Thought he was completely useless and childish throughout. So I couldn't help but think, if it's all on the BS to save a marriage, mine probably won't make it, because I could not put up with that man-child. Two months later I am still putting up with my own man-child, but not as gracefully, so who knows.

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