The Book Club
User Topic: dr. frank gunzburg
Member # 31203
Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, April 1st (Friday)

anyone have any experience with his stuff...i feel my WS losing me fast bc he really cannot understand the hurt and excrutiating pain i am in and it is so hard to explain to him...this sounds like it addresses this but just wanted someone who has read to enlighten me.thanks so much!

Me-34years old
husband (cheater)-39
4 amazing kids
Girl-age 10
Boy/girl twins age 6
in counseling constantly but pain is excrutiating. He wants

Posts: 316 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: knoxville, tn
Member # 18764
Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, April 1st (Friday)

I actually paid way too much to download the book and I still have it.

I did read through it. It does address the pain a WS causes adequately but seriously it is all common sense. There is no "magical" way he describes it.

My WS was not at the point that he cared yet when I bought it and that was the problem. There is no way to force someone to hear the truth unless they want to.

Also the fixes to the hurt seemed a lot like rug sweeping and mind over matter.

It was very expensive and IMO there isn't anything earth shattering in there that couldn't be found in a regular book like Not Just Friends.

If you PM me I would be willing to mail it to you.

[This message edited by UR_AN_IDIOT at 11:10 AM, April 1st (Friday)]

Me:BW 48
FWH: 50

Married 25 years
DD 23 DS 21

Posts: 12696 | Registered: Mar 2008
Topic Posts: 2