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ajsmom
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Cool  Posted: 4:12 PM, November 1st (Tuesday)

Part Deux, because apparently the first version has walked the plank.

Damn you, miniature sized Almond Joy bars. Damn you, miniature sized Mounds bars. Damn you, miniature sized Kit Kat bars.

It hurts so badly to love you all.

Just sayin'...

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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DS - 31 - Yikes!


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imokay
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Default  Posted: 4:16 PM, November 1st (Tuesday)

I'm happy to see this thread again.

I like reading the random thoughts of others.

Just sayin'.


DD: 2/10/02

Me: BS - 50 (seriously???)
Him: FWS - 52

Fully reconciled.
I ♥ my Husband!!!

When life hands you lemons - break out the tequila and salt!

Yesterday is not today. Today is not forever.


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lostinlv
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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, November 1st (Tuesday)

I wish I could say what I think about the saying "just sayin'" ( ), but this is F&G...

What was Roy Rogers' horses name again?


me, BS-43
him,FWH-42
4 kids (22,20,16,12)
DDay#1 2/?/97 (A with COW in 1995- turns out it never really ended and they are now living together)
DDay#2 4/18/10 -LTA approx 12mos
DIVORCED!!


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heart_in_a_blend
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, November 1st (Tuesday)

Damn Figis everything.


In life, much of what one grieves one never had.

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, November 1st (Tuesday)

Figis the catalog?


Me: BSO - 47
Him: FWSO - 70
DS - 14
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 25573 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
sad12008
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, November 1st (Tuesday)

I remember Figi's...my r.m.'s mom used to send us goodies from it, years ago.

My just sayin': woman in the commissary, when another patron is obviously scrutinizing labels on the shelves, it is just a TAD rude to insert your shopping cart and two frikkin' kids in between said other patron and those aforementioned labels.

I mean, really. I'm as unobservant as the next guy if not more so, but even *I* would realize my mistake w/i 15 seconds or so.


You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 6:03 AM, November 2nd (Wednesday)

Just sayin'
Damn you little tiny Halloween chocolate bars indeed. Hmmmph. And damn you Weight Watchers online. Get ready.. meta is rolling your way soon.

[This message edited by metamorphisis at 6:03 AM, November 2nd (Wednesday)]


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NoLongerWantHim
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Default  Posted: 6:29 AM, November 2nd (Wednesday)

Locker -

Give back the Mittens

And while you're at it - We'd like the hats, scarves and gloves you took last year


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:27 AM, November 2nd (Wednesday)

Boss - if you only give me an hour of work to do each day, you don't rely on me nearly as much as you think you do. This makes me terrified for my job security. Don't be surprised if you notice copies of my resume on the printer. I really like this job, but I'm just waiting for you to realize just how close the amount we need to cut from out budget for next year is to what I make in a year. -Ama


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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, November 2nd (Wednesday)

Dear Lady at the Church Meeting Who Kept Cutting Me Off and "Sheeshing" Me:

No, I don't currently have young children, but I raised three of them back when you were still partying your ass off.

No, I don't know how exactly "tough it is" these days in grade school, as mine all graduated from high school at the beginning of this decade, but I do have nieces and nephews who share the stories, so yeah, I have some idea.

That said, I think I do "get it" about what is important in raising responsible children into responsible adults, because you see, I raised three of them.

So shove your entitled attitude right up your entitled ass, 'k?

Oh, and your house smells like horse shit.

Just sayin'...

[This message edited by ajsmom at 8:59 AM, November 2nd (Wednesday)]


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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DS - 31 - Yikes!


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nooneeverthought
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, November 2nd (Wednesday)

Damn you, miniature sized Mounds bars

sacrilege. Seriously best candy ever......"just sayin"


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, November 2nd (Wednesday)

Dear Lady infront of me at a red light,

Yes, I saw you putting on lip gloss. No biggie. When you applied blush so hard that it ROCKED the car...Damnnnnnn. Be careful. You only have one face.

From,
Concerned driver behind you

just sayin'

[This message edited by jo2love at 9:22 AM, November 2nd (Wednesday)]


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Threnody
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Default  Posted: 9:18 AM, November 2nd (Wednesday)


There's not a chance in Hell I'm giving anybody what they want today. I nearly had a breakdown yesterday and I'm overwhelmed. I need today and tomorrow to simply get caught up, and I will not be adding anybody else's stuff to my list until I've completed what's on there already.

I'm done being accommodating, through being generous with my time, and totally over being compliant.

If I get asked "Can you?" the answer will be a no. If I get asked "Will you?" the answer will be a no. And God protect the person who doesn't ask but, instead, demands from me.

Just sayin'.


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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, November 2nd (Wednesday)

Wednesday is the perfect day to leave me alone in the office for the morning. I can use the break.

just sayin'


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wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, November 2nd (Wednesday)

It's "should've", not should of.

Just sayin'



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wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, November 2nd (Wednesday)

And lostinlv - I 'met' Trigger.

It was at a Roy Rogers' restuarant and I believe it was a stuffed Trigger. I shook Roy's hand.



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asurvivor
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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, November 2nd (Wednesday)

I know it's a gym and all but could maybe you could keep your ugly junk off the sink while your shaving...just saying


I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know.



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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, November 2nd (Wednesday)

@asurvivor

Half a bottle of wine is too much for one night (even if it is Shiraz that tastes twice as good as it's price tag), and 8:30 is too early to go to bed alone.

Just sayin'.


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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, November 2nd (Wednesday)

Fish guilt.

Yes, fish guilt.

Im supposed to be adding fish to my diet. But how can I eat fish when we have pet fish. It's just wrong.

Just sayin...


Time to be my own bff.

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why_and_how
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, November 2nd (Wednesday)

I love this thread!

Dear people who post public billboards, signs, and advertising in my town:

It is either parties or party's depending on your message. There is no such word as partys.

Temporarily is not spelled temporarely nor tempararily.

Thank you.


Dignity maintained.

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hurting2much
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, November 2nd (Wednesday)

To my teenagers...I get up at 0515, am at work by 0645. To ask me "what's for dinner?" when I am walking in the door at 6:15pm is a FOUL!!!!!...just saying


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imokay
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, November 3rd (Thursday)

h2m, my teens would have been telling me what we were having for dinner.

Just sayin'.

[This message edited by imokay at 9:07 AM, November 3rd (Thursday)]


DD: 2/10/02

Me: BS - 50 (seriously???)
Him: FWS - 52

Fully reconciled.
I ♥ my Husband!!!

When life hands you lemons - break out the tequila and salt!

Yesterday is not today. Today is not forever.


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Newlease
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, November 3rd (Thursday)

I stopped taking my steriod inhaler so I could try to lose some weight. Now I can't exercise without getting light headed. NOT FAIR!

Just sayin . . . .


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UR_AN_IDIOT
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, November 3rd (Thursday)

I just want to get to customer service PLEASE!

No I am not going to press #1 to take your survey at the end of this call.

I barely had enough time to make the damn call!

Just sayin'


Me:BW 49
FWH: 51
DS: 22
DD: 24

Married 25 years
DD 23 DS 21
Reconciled


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stilllovinghim
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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, November 3rd (Thursday)

Lawry's Teriyaki marinade is THE BEST for chicken teriyaki & coconut rice. yyyuuuuuummmmm!!!

SLHim's Sweet Ice Tea is The Best Sweet Ice Tea in all the land...

Just sayin'

[This message edited by stilllovinghim at 12:44 PM, November 3rd (Thursday)]


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imokay
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, November 6th (Sunday)

24 days and countin'.

Just sayin'.


DD: 2/10/02

Me: BS - 50 (seriously???)
Him: FWS - 52

Fully reconciled.
I ♥ my Husband!!!

When life hands you lemons - break out the tequila and salt!

Yesterday is not today. Today is not forever.


Posts: 17763 | Registered: Feb 2004 | From: Here AND There! :-)
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, November 7th (Monday)

This whole "Spring Ahead, Fall Back" time shifting shit's gotta stop.

I'm tired and hungry when I'm not supposed to be and have slept like crap the last two days.

It's not like it was back in my 20's when we'd get an extra hour of partying in. I'm too old for this.

Just sayin'...


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, November 7th (Monday)

I know jack about polygons. I'm helping (if you can call it that) DD study for a test this week. I stink at these flippin' shapes.

just sayin'


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Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, November 7th (Monday)

Is compulsive obssesive hyphenated?

What exactly is the meaning and purpose of "Ashes to ashes, funk to funky, we all know Major Tom was a junkie."?

(t/j because I am just asking)


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alex mama
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Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, November 8th (Tuesday)

I don't understand why bra straps can't stay up. On that note, I don't understand why bras can't be made to be more comfortable.

Also? I spend way too much time thinking about who uses the Oxford comma, and why people make the choice they do about it.


"Love yourself. Don't take no shit." - my oldest and dearest friend

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Myname
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Default  Posted: 12:47 AM, November 8th (Tuesday)

I have know clue what an Oxford comma is. Just sayin'

why people make the choice they do about it.

I'm guessing b/c they have no clue what it is either. They just can't admit it. Just sayin'


DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 38
12-08-10: S

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vtach
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Default  Posted: 2:33 AM, November 8th (Tuesday)

Thank all you gorgeous Iron Man competitors. What an awesome surprise to welcome me to my vacatation spot. Your tight bums and great, athletic bods really made me feel great! I come to the beach this late in the year, so I can be the hot chick! or not cuz no one cares.

There you are tho, before daylight, swimming in frigid waters in wetsuits, Cycling like fiends...running without anything chasing you!! Great job and awesome bods.

When yall gotta be back at work? Just saying.

ETA: What the hell is an oxford comma? and who cares?

[This message edited by vtach at 2:35 AM, November 8th (Tuesday)]


me 48
wh 63
1st DD Thanksgiving day 2009
2nd DD 12/27
3rd DD 3/5/10

We are a work in progress...

Tho I'm fully aware, of your desperate despair, I'm still charmed by the words that you say...Jaron and the Long Road to Love


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TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, November 8th (Tuesday)

Oxford Comma is a song by Vampire Weekend.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_i1xk07o4g

However, after watching the video, I still have no idea what it's about.

Just sayin'

ETA: alex mama, I see what you did there.

[This message edited by TrustedHer at 9:56 AM, November 8th (Tuesday)]


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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, November 8th (Tuesday)

If he is willing to proposition his stbxw, there is a good chance he is going to cheat on you! Imo, you should have ran like hell when you had the chance...just sayin'


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UnexpectedSong
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, November 8th (Tuesday)

I spend way too much time thinking about who uses the Oxford comma

Gasp!!! I love the Oxford comma, except when it's not necessary!

Just sayin'!


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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, November 8th (Tuesday)

Crazy Lady With Whom I Work,

I looooove listening to your daily 45min phone calls to your Facebook pals.
The window I get into your life is just...wow.

In the three years you've worked here, you've moved 7 times. Every single time, you complain that your housemates or roommates have issues (even when you were living with your son and his girlfriend).

Here's a little tip for you:
Problems with one roommate, I can see.
Problems with two even.
But when a person has problems in EVERY household they've lived in, that person MAY want to look in the mirror.

Just sayin'...

ETA:
And the frequency with which you move MAY have something to do with why you can never find anyone to help you move your shit. Just sayin'.

[This message edited by GabyBaby at 1:49 PM, November 8th (Tuesday)]


Me - 43
DD(22), DS(20, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.


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Myheartstillhurt
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, November 8th (Tuesday)

Your kid is mean to my kids and I do not particularly like watching her for you.

That being said, the kids NEVER have school on election day, you must know this.. So please do not text me the night before saying you just had it sprung on you that there is no school tomorrow.

I need time and preparation to allow your kid to come yell at my kids all day because she doesn't know how to act.

just sayin..


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fWH 38 (Epicallyfailedu)
OW/xBFF of 28 years
Four girls under 11
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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, November 8th (Tuesday)

Alex Mama posting about the Oxford comma? This daughter of an English teacher is positively giddy with delight.

just saying


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alex mama
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, November 8th (Tuesday)

I'm wondering why myheartstillhurt's kids don't have school on election day. That's inconvenient, what with it being in the middle of the week and all.

The Oxford comma is the comma before the word "and" at the end of a list. Example: "I only post on SI on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays." The comma after "Tuesdays" is an Oxford comma. It's becoming more commonplace - I'm assuming because of word processing programs - to say, "I only post on SI on Mondays, Tuesdays and Wednesdays."

Now my random thought is how many people on SI just elevated my level of dorkdom because I posted about freaking commas in Fun and Games.

What can I say? I think grammar is fun.


"Love yourself. Don't take no shit." - my oldest and dearest friend

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vtach
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Default  Posted: 11:51 PM, November 8th (Tuesday)

alex mama, you aren't a dork. In fact you are a "goddess". You posted at exactly 11:11 in the 11th month of 2011. I'm certain that must be significant.

Thanks for the lesson in oxford commas. I'm willing to teach you about Alabama commas too!


me 48
wh 63
1st DD Thanksgiving day 2009
2nd DD 12/27
3rd DD 3/5/10

We are a work in progress...

Tho I'm fully aware, of your desperate despair, I'm still charmed by the words that you say...Jaron and the Long Road to Love


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UnexpectedSong
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Default  Posted: 7:10 AM, November 9th (Wednesday)

The Oxford comma is the comma before the word "and" at the end of a list. Example: "I only post on SI on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays." The comma after "Tuesdays" is an Oxford comma.

It's usually a matter of preference and ought to be consistent within a document except when it changes or obfuscates the meaning.

In compound phrases, it is essential:

I like rum and Coke, Ben and Jerry's, and red velvet cake.

It should not be there if it can be misinterpreted:

My idols are my sister, Kate Middleton and Mother Teresa.

(With the Oxford comma, one might misconstrue that my sister is Kate Middleton.)

For more comma fun, read "Eats, Shoots, and Leaves" with a panda on the cover. (The incorrect commas are deliberate. )

Now I am seriously going to hide.

[This message edited by UnexpectedSong at 7:15 AM, November 9th (Wednesday)]


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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, November 9th (Wednesday)

As long as we're talkin' commas... I idolize Grammar Girl. Even more than I idolize Lynn Truss. My dork level is sky-high and I'm okay with it.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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shattered123
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, November 9th (Wednesday)

I love Eats, Shoots and Leaves. And I DETEST errant apostrophe's!! Just sayin'

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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, November 10th (Thursday)

Is there such a thing as typing homophone dyslexia? As soon as I post I am mortified to see that I typed “no” instead of “know” or “their” for “there.” I swear I know the difference; my fingers just don’t seem to care.


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heart_in_a_blend
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Default  Posted: 3:38 PM, November 10th (Thursday)

I hate when spell checker doesn't know what I'm mean.

I hate it when Google ask me "did you mean". I just want to say shut up and find it.


In life, much of what one grieves one never had.

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alex mama
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, November 10th (Thursday)

If I were a spy like Annie Walker and had to run all over Berlin, I sure as hell wouldn't be wearing stilletos.

Or if I had to wear stilletos, I'd make sure they had some fun spy trick to them.


"Love yourself. Don't take no shit." - my oldest and dearest friend

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bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, November 10th (Thursday)

Why do i have to wear a seat belt in a 4X4, chevy 3/4 ton diesel pickup......and i can ride my harley without a helmet????

Why is the insurance for my boat the same as the insurance for my harley???? (the boat is not used between September and April....the bike is ridden year round......and they both cost the same - within $100 of each other).

Just wonderin'...... :)

Bufffalo


DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me


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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, November 11th (Friday)

My darling construction planners,

It is now November. We've been playing this game of wait all summer for the orange cones just to see a smattering. We knew it was coming. We live in Michigan, and along with the cold, dark, and snow, we know we will see orange. Every year.

So now that it's not only snowing here and there, it's DARK, and cold, and I dont want to frikken drive in this crap....NOW you choose to block every frikken intersection and the Hungry Howies entrance for good measure.

All I wanted was a frikken pizza so I didnt have to cook after a long week.

You suck very much.

Just sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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tryingtwo
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, November 11th (Friday)

My nephew is a Veteran of the Iraq war. There on day one. I didn't agree with the war, didn't agree with the politics and didn't want him to go.

Today, Veteran's Day I honor my favorite Marine. I honor all he suffered and sacrificed. I was his ear, the person he told the stories to that no one else heard. He suffered there doing the duty of a Marine.

You may not like war. You may not like the politics of war. But by damned, each and every one of you should honor the men and women that serve our country today and the families that sacrifice so much while they are gone....

Just sayin'....Thank you.



Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, November 11th (Friday)

Tryingtwo,

You said it.

Just sayin

BR


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, November 11th (Friday)

I hate it when Google ask me "did you mean". I just want to say shut up and find it.

heart_in_a_blend - I feel the same.


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Cannaman
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Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, November 12th (Saturday)

I think Haiku's make
Very lousy poetry,
I'm a hypocrite


m BS/ FWBF/ F pill addict binge drinker 33 h FWW/ BGF 34
d 5 s 3
My A: ONS 2003 other inappropriate behavior/ poor boundaries
Her A: 5 month EA/PA 2011
DDay 8/30/11 (I caught her and confessed to mine)
married 3 years, together 15 working on R/

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imokay
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Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, November 12th (Saturday)

Just sayin'


DD: 2/10/02

Me: BS - 50 (seriously???)
Him: FWS - 52

Fully reconciled.
I ♥ my Husband!!!

When life hands you lemons - break out the tequila and salt!

Yesterday is not today. Today is not forever.


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TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, December 1st (Thursday)

Blah blah fuckity blah.


Just sayin'


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

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click4it
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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, December 1st (Thursday)

If I send you an email that lists the name, address and phone number of the information you requested - then its not my fault you didn't ACTUALLY READ it, is it?

If you send me an email after I just sent this info to you asking me for the information don't be surprised when I say I just sent that to you earlier!

Just saying....


Me: 42
Two boys: 18 and 15
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, December 8th (Thursday)

Whoever made burnt popcorn in the break room needs to go get some air freshener!

Just Sayin'


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, December 8th (Thursday)

Yes, I do need two pair of casual boots that are exactly the same color. One pair ends just over the ankle and is worn under boot-cut jeans. The other pair is long and slouchy and is worn over skinny jeans. Obviously one can't do the job of the other, so stop looking at them and then giving me the "really" look. Yes. Really.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 3:34 PM, December 22nd (Thursday)

Just sayin': There's a serious-as-a-heatattack thread in General that I won't T/J, but based on the usernames involved, you'd think we were some kind of fantasy fiction discussion board.

Sorceress, circe, and selkie...


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5466 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
cass
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, December 29th (Thursday)

Callie Rabbit died today.

Just saying, not a dog or a cat but a friend for 8 years. One who rummaged around the garden and was always there or abouts and happy to play.

She had a hysterectomy early in life, within her first year. She weathered it and then the loss of her best rabbit friend Bailey. She was lost after this and lonely. Yesterday she was upright and eating. Today she was lying down and couldn't get up. She was barely breathing when we phoned the vet. He said it would be good to help her on her journey.

Just a little animal who shared her world with us.

Treasured memories of all the little animals who share their world with us.


DDay - April 2008
Me - 57 and doing great, alone.

When you walk through a storm, hold your head up high - you'll never walk alone.


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Default  Posted: 12:32 AM, December 30th (Friday)

A week ago I was in Vegas watching Boise State kick the crap out of Arizona State and taking in the sites on the strip. It's great to have wealthy kids to pick up the tab for Christmas !
Just sayin, thanks Kari


The older I get, the better I was......

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unchained2u
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Default  Posted: 12:36 AM, December 30th (Friday)

Called up one of my docs to pay them off only to find they turned me over to collections for being 3 weeks late. Kinda makes me smile to know the collection agency will get all that money for doing absolutely nothing !!!

Just sayin


The older I get, the better I was......

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Newlease
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, December 30th (Friday)

It's scary how much I'm looking foward to my after-work cocktail . . .

NL


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9years
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Default  Posted: 1:00 AM, December 31st (Saturday)

When you repeatedly act in a spoiled and selfish manner, don't act so surprised when people think you are spoiled and selfish.

Just sayin


Just say yes to the rest

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, December 31st (Saturday)

Word, 9years.
...and, furthermore...
if you feel you have to tell people, "I am not spoiled and selfish," you are probably both.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, January 30th (Monday)

Two years ago yesterday: First kiss with My Lady.

And they've only gotten better.

Just sayin'


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

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Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, January 30th (Monday)

It's scary how much I'm looking foward to my after-work cocktail . . .

Mmmm, I LOVE me my Manhattan's!!!


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watchtheskyy
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, January 30th (Monday)

I wish I didn't have to hit 50 posts to see the investigative tips! I don't have that much advice, just sayin...

[This message edited by watchtheskyy at 11:14 PM, January 30th (Monday)]


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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 9:46 AM, January 31st (Tuesday)

Oh, "Just Sayin" Thread. How I have missed you...

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, January 31st (Tuesday)

Cashier Woman at cvs,

I get that you have an itch on your stomach, but do you have to lift part of your shirt to scratch it? Then you pull an Al Bundy (Married w/ Children) and leave half your hand down your pants?

When working in public please keep your hands out of your pants.

just sayin'

[This message edited by jo2love at 10:29 AM, January 31st (Tuesday)]


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wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, January 31st (Tuesday)

Editing - I wish I could do math b/c my 'raise' is enough for like 2 tanks of gas each month.

Just sayin'

What a goof I am!

[This message edited by wannabenormal at 3:26 PM, January 31st (Tuesday)]



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Phoenix519
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, January 31st (Tuesday)

If you have an infection all over your legs and feet it's so bad that they have to be wrapped and slathered in antibiotic cream, then don't walk around the office barefoot!!

It grosses me out.

Just sayin'


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, January 31st (Tuesday)

Phoenix -
Xx xxx xxxx xx xxxxxxxxx xxx xxxx xxxx xxxx xxx xxxx xx'x xx xxx xxxx xxxx xxxx xx xx xxxxxxx xxx xxxxxxxxx xx xxxxxxxxxx xxxxx, xxxx don't walk around the office barefoot!!

It grosses me out.

There. I fixed it for you.
Just sayin'


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, January 31st (Tuesday)

Spring-like weather in January is really working for me!

Just sayin'


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

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shattered123
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, February 1st (Wednesday)

I for one am so tired of celebrities. They are not smarter or more knowledgeable or better than the rest of us. Why on earth would I care what they think?? Most of them are complete morons! Just sayin'

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, February 1st (Wednesday)

Somebody's got to make a decision here... it's EITHER wrinkles and gray hairs OR acne. Not both. Completely unacceptable. I expect this situation to be fixed by the weekend.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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BooBoo!
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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, February 1st (Wednesday)

Tom Brady is going DOWN!!

just saying


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broken2
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, February 2nd (Thursday)

Oh, I've really missed this thread too, and only now am finding it again,..... just sayin'!

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, February 2nd (Thursday)


Amen, Nell!


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, February 2nd (Thursday)

DS18 -

I know it's a shorter distance to the road if you drive through the front yard rather than backing out the driveway.

TOO FREAKING BAD. The next time you drive across the yard, you will be replacing it out of your paycheck. And sod ain't cheap.

Just sayin.


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, February 2nd (Thursday)

I love my husband. I do.

..but...just ... No.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, February 6th (Monday)

1. If it's so "cute" it makes you vomit, then it should be featured on musthavevomit.com, not musthavecute.com.

2. I am unable to get over the sheer audacity of someone I work with. And who should thank HR every day for moving her department offsite/out of go-to-her-office-and-beat-her-about-the-head range. And who should also just quit her job if she doesn't want to do it. Grr.

3. I love Smithwicks.

ETA: Just sayin'. Just sayin'. Just sayin'.

[This message edited by ImNellNow at 12:53 PM, February 6th (Monday)]


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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StoryHour
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Default  Posted: 12:40 PM, February 6th (Monday)

There is cake in the office next to mine. Lawd help me.


3 Strikes you're out pal!
D. 8-10


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Ellejay
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, February 6th (Monday)

I want chocolate. I want it now. It is 10.55 am in Adelaide, is it too early for chocolate? What is the chocolate etiquette these days? Is having it after 12 noon acceptable because you may have actually eaten something healthier (like breakfast) beforehand. Or.....is after 3 pm less of a guilt trip? If you have it too late in the evening, it may keep you awake??

Fuck it, I'm just having it anyway.


EJ


Married 25 years now divorced.
D-Day: 20/11/10
Me: 48.5 plus 10% GST
Him: mental age 6 (apologies to all 6 year olds)
Betrayal: Who cares anymore?

Posts: 1102 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Adelaide, South Australia
ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, February 9th (Thursday)

Jessica Simpson comandeered my brain this morning.

I have new volumizing shampoo. On the bottle it says "100% BODY!" Which confused me. Is it for my hair? Cuz it says "body."

I did figure it out eventually.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, February 9th (Thursday)

Dear Self,
It's hard to take your glasses off your face when they are on the top of your head.

Doofus.


Signed,
Self

[This message edited by jo2love at 4:17 PM, February 9th (Thursday)]


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deathbybetrayal
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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, February 9th (Thursday)

Tired of working 12 hour days. Not complainin', just sayin'

DBB


Married 10 years at DDay
Me: 53 Him: 52 - Desperately trying to unfuck the donkey.
DDay: July 16, 2008
FWH Epiphany: Aug.23, 2008 NC: Aug. 28, 2008

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, February 9th (Thursday)

yesterday was an emergency chocolate day. After getting stuck behind someone power couponing... at 7am?? (really? just sayin') I gave in and bought chocolate. Made it through the day but checked the chocolate this am as it ight be needed.

Melted chocolate? ugh. Radiator heat sucks. The steam mirage that happens at my windows when I open them so we can breathe and not die is proof positive. Loss of emergency chocolate stash is a crime against nature. Just sayin'


Me: 45, independent, happy, despite parallel parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 15 DS 12
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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RS2731
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Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, February 10th (Friday)

Dear PITA Coworker:

When you walk into someone's office and they are on the phone, obviously on a BUSINESS conference call, that is not an invitation for you to pull up a chair and start talking about your personal life.

Just sayin.


Me - BS, 36
Him - WH, 36
Married - 11 years
DS - 4
D-Day - September 2011
In process of R.

You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.


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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, February 10th (Friday)

I see PITA and read it as PETA every. single. time. And rarely are the two acronyms interchangeable.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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RS2731
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Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, February 10th (Friday)

I see PITA and read it as PETA every. single. time. And rarely are the two acronyms interchangeable.


Me - BS, 36
Him - WH, 36
Married - 11 years
DS - 4
D-Day - September 2011
In process of R.

You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, February 10th (Friday)

One of our neighbors is powerwalking with a cape and a bright red cap that looks like cherry.

She made me giggle.

just sayin'


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unchained2u
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, February 11th (Saturday)

Nights In White Satin just came on the radio, ahhhhhhhh what a GREAT memory !!!

J S


The older I get, the better I was......

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, February 11th (Saturday)

It's gorgeous outside, but I promised myself I would clean the house...and now I'm on SI...and what I really want is a nap.

Just sayin...


You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, February 11th (Saturday)

Cleaning the bathroom is sooooo much easier when you're only cleaning up after yourself. And sorry guys, but people who sit down to pee make a lot less of a mess!!! Just sayin!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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vtach
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Default  Posted: 2:32 AM, February 12th (Sunday)

Dear boss, I'm not sure of what leadership training you recently attended BUT...squeezing my male coworkers nipple to simulate lactation...not good. Also, when I was relaying some info to you and you grabbed me by my shirt to show what you would have done...not good. Get a grip dude....mentally.

Just sayin....


me 48
wh 63
1st DD Thanksgiving day 2009
2nd DD 12/27
3rd DD 3/5/10

We are a work in progress...

Tho I'm fully aware, of your desperate despair, I'm still charmed by the words that you say...Jaron and the Long Road to Love


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aesir
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Default  Posted: 2:58 AM, February 12th (Sunday)

I see PITA and read it as PETA every. single. time. And rarely are the two acronyms interchangeable.

I thought they were always interchangeable. Just sayin'.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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Threnody
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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, February 13th (Monday)

Dear Local McDonald's,

How hard is it to pick up a cup, put it under the milkshake dispenser, and pour a goddamned milkshake? You just fucked this up FOR FOUR DIFFERENT ONES. Someone from your corporate office contacted me on Twitter a few months back to offer drink vouchers because of a complaint I made regarding your McCafe training. I turned the vouchers down. Now I'm thinking I should have asked for vouchers FOR LIFE and driven the 15 miles to the next McDonald's to use them. I've put up with enough over the past five years, ever since we moved to this little town.

My requests are simple. They are on your menu. And yet you can't manage them, ever. They're only drinks.

Now I've got three kids who earned a milkshake treat, and who can't drink theirs because you ALSO shoved red cherries down into the drink. Not just set them on top. Shoved. Them. Down. My children are allergic to the red dye. And the Shamrock Shake I ordered? The green dye was all at the bottom. The top of the shake was white. I blended it myself when I got home and it tastes like ass. You put three or four more squirts of that stuff in than you were obviously supposed to. It was the first to get dumped.

You bunch of twisted fucknuts.

ARGH!

Hope you all get zits,
Threnody


“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown

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jadedheart
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, February 13th (Monday)

just sayin'!


Me 45
FWH 47
DS11, DD18, DS21(they know nothing about A)
Married 23 years together 25
Dday 09/24/2010
"You can't control how others behave, you can only control your reaction."

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 6:02 AM, February 14th (Tuesday)

I'm getting really tired of hearing Whitney Houston songs...

Just sayin'


You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

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jadedheart
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Default  Posted: 6:11 AM, February 14th (Tuesday)

to my two teenagers and their 9 year old going on 18 lil brother. If you do not get out of bed when your alarm goes and I have to yell at you more than 3 times I WILL use that big ole airhorn that is on top of the frig! That should wake your sleep butt right up!


Me 45
FWH 47
DS11, DD18, DS21(they know nothing about A)
Married 23 years together 25
Dday 09/24/2010
"You can't control how others behave, you can only control your reaction."

Posts: 980 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Indiana
Phoenix519
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Default  Posted: 7:03 AM, February 14th (Tuesday)

If you're 80 and you're riding a hover 'round in the grocery store please PLEASE don't try to get it into the bathroom. It won't fit.

And the "beep, beep BANG, beep, beep BANG" as you're backing up and moving forward trying to get it unstuck only grates on the already frayed nerves of the person standing in line waiting to get into the bathroom.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, February 14th (Tuesday)

Sometimes I wish there was a "The "Just Bitchin' Thread".

So we could have random one liner rants of sarcasm, po'dness, and what not.

just sayin'


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, February 15th (Wednesday)

Walking two chihuahuas would be a hell of a lot easier, just sayin'.


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

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Newlease
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, February 15th (Wednesday)

It should be 5:00 - I have been trying to stay awake for the last 30 minutes and my neck and shoulders are aching. It's cold and dreary outside and it's not helping my mood. I want to go home, put on my jammies and eat some junk food.

Just sayin . . .

NL


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, February 16th (Thursday)

If mainlining green tea and zinc lozenges like a hippie streetfreak doesn't get rid of my cold, then I have just wasted a lot of time that I could have used to eat candy hearts and Girl Scout cookies.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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BooBoo!
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, February 16th (Thursday)

wish it was friday already
just saying

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 12:21 PM, February 16th (Thursday)

I'd rather eat yet another pb cup and some gummy hearts than lose this extra 20 pounds.

At least right this moment, when there's no mirror nearby.

Just sayin'.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, February 18th (Saturday)

Dear Whiny Guy,
Stop making it sound so awful that you have to wash clothes for you and your kids while your mom is sick. Yes, she helps you since you work crazy hours, but it is still your job to wash their clothes. Not hers. So STOP making it sound like a big deal that YOU are doing it TONIGHT.

You are being a big baby.
just sayin'


Signed,
Chick who does her family's wash


[This message edited by jo2love at 8:24 PM, February 18th (Saturday)]


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sad12008
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, February 18th (Saturday)

Some of these make me laugh out loud, for real.

I think Random Thoughts are about all that fill my head any more....

my random thought du jour is that there are still people in the world who can be extremely kind and reach out to help, and in doing so make all the difference. Those people remind me how each one of us can have a positive impact on the lives of others, be the supportive hand that helps another across one of life's unexpected chasms.

Okay, this belongs in the "Deep Thoughts" thread...

Can I have two thoughts? The funny one is that I love the crazy random videos my 15 y.o. shows me from YouTube.

Okay, three thoughts: am I the only person who never sees post errors until they're on "the big screen"?

[This message edited by sad12008 at 9:55 PM, February 18th (Saturday)]


You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, February 18th (Saturday)

Sometimes I wish there was a "The "Just Bitchin' Thread".
Um, Jo? You know you can make that happen by clicking the "Post New Topic" button, right?

Just sayin...


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, February 19th (Sunday)

NIK - Yeah, but it doesn't sound like it should be in F&G. Hmm.. Maybe F&G could be F,G, & Jo's ranting.


Maybe one day I will start the thread. It probably would be funny to hear everyone.

[This message edited by jo2love at 7:03 PM, February 19th (Sunday)]


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, February 28th (Tuesday)

Fat free chocolate pudding is awesome.

just sayin'


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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, February 28th (Tuesday)

Nightmares two nights in a row sucks donkey balls...just sayin'


Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS15, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's
God dwells within her; she cannot be destroyed. From the very break of day, God will protect her.~Psalm 46:5

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, February 28th (Tuesday)

sucks donkey balls.

@ Mo3K Just sayin'


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, February 28th (Tuesday)

Just 'cause you're flashing your headlights right behind me, big ass truck on my tail, isn't going to make the cars in front of me magically go any faster or make the cars to the right of me magically disappear so I can get out of your obviously very important way.

Just sayin' .


BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson


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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, February 28th (Tuesday)

I want a yoga body...just sayin'


You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Posts: 23304 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, February 28th (Tuesday)

Someone in particular Sad? Just wondering....

[This message edited by Pentup at 9:54 AM, February 28th (Tuesday)]


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 9:56 AM, February 28th (Tuesday)

Bwahahaha-no!

I would just like the whole world to bow to my awesomeness...


You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Posts: 23304 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
itwillrain
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, February 28th (Tuesday)

I am not your child, nor your son's babysitter. I am his SO. If he doesn't talk to you, he's either forgotten or doesn't care enough to do so. It's not my responsibility. Stop texting me, and your "apology" for scolding me for not kissing your a** is not accepted.

Also, I may have too much nail polish.


Muddling my way through.

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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, February 28th (Tuesday)

I may have too much nail polish

On, or in general? Because the second is just impossible...


You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

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itwillrain
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, February 28th (Tuesday)

In general. I need a second bag. Colourful goodness. <3


Muddling my way through.

Posts: 142 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Toronto, Canada
0115
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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, February 28th (Tuesday)

You're not stupid, you just think you know everything.


BS (me) 49
FWH 49 newbeg2011
Married 29 years
Very Long LTA
DD 01/15/11-6/30/11
The hard work is done...let the healing begin.

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Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, February 29th (Wednesday)

I love "fat free" sour cream! It means that I can now have gobs, ok well not gobs, reasonable gobs of it on what I want and not feel guilty!!! (2 Tablespoons =20 calories)


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

Posts: 4873 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, February 29th (Wednesday)

It's 84 degrees in Negril right now.

Just sayin'.


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

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somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, February 29th (Wednesday)


.. hey, an.. are you there now?..

..i thought you posted that you were going in April??

..84 degrees ahhhhhh... it's -1C' outside here!!!!

..i wanna go

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 68
Her 65
Married 44 yrs (together 48)
18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer !! I do believe in ghosts...


Posts: 4687 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Ontario Canada
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, February 29th (Wednesday)

I'm jealous of AN right now.

Just sayin'


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, February 29th (Wednesday)

No, I'm not there now .

I have Jamaica's weather on my phone and I check every day.

So, today it's in the 20s, freezing rain/snow in PA.

I look at Jamaica's weather to make me smile and get amped about our trip (as if I could possibly be more amped!)!!!

Every day I say to LD, it's 84 in Jamaica right now, or it's 78 in Jamaica right now. And we just smile .

We're going end of April.


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, February 29th (Wednesday)

I can carry your bag or cram myself inside it.

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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, February 29th (Wednesday)

No problem, mon!


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, February 29th (Wednesday)

Chloe Kardashian has nothing to offer TV. Go be a wife, honey.
Just sayin.


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{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 5:27 AM, March 1st (Thursday)

It'll be 84 degrees in Phoenix on Monday-just sayin'...

We have a lot of beach-just no ocean


You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Posts: 23304 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, March 2nd (Friday)

Meatloaf cooks better when you actually turn the oven on.

Just sayin'.


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

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welcome14
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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, March 2nd (Friday)

To the people of the smallish southern town I live in- I'm from Atlanta. When you do twenty in a forty-five zone I will honk at you. No, I didn't go to kindergarten with you or marry your cousin. I'm telling you in Atlantese that "UR STOOOPED" so kindly stop waving at me. Just sayin'


Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, March 2nd (Friday)

*Poof*
Some things can be a little to revealing...
Just say'n.

[This message edited by wincings_sparkle at 4:41 PM, March 5th (Monday)]


"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light

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emptyheart
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Default  Posted: 12:42 AM, March 3rd (Saturday)

Teenagers suck. Just sayin'


Me - BW, Him - WH
2 great kids that are my reason for living.
1st D-Day - March 28, 2008
False R for a year
2nd D-Day - April 11, 2009

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, March 3rd (Saturday)

A few weeks ago, DD won a prize from the Hasbro toy contest. UPS dropped it off yesterday. Her face lit up and she said, "It came!!"

She looked so darn cute.

just sayin'


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kernel
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, March 3rd (Saturday)

I really get irritated at people that post messages on FB to get your attention but never explain what they really want to say, i.e. "I'm so mad right now" and never say why. Just tell everyone or shutup! Just sayin....


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, March 3rd (Saturday)

Hate working Saturdays - just sayin'


Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, March 3rd (Saturday)

I want to do naughty things with Michael Schulte.

Google him.

Just sayin'


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2811 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, March 3rd (Saturday)

Ok, and I want to do naughty things with Pitbull too.


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2811 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, March 3rd (Saturday)


Ummm---

Never mind.


WHG


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

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somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, March 4th (Sunday)


..some folks start a thread..and then never come back to it..

..not even to say..'thanks for the feedback!'

just sayin'

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 68
Her 65
Married 44 yrs (together 48)
18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer !! I do believe in ghosts...


Posts: 4687 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Ontario Canada
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, March 4th (Sunday)

Tonight I stopped at just 1/2 the box of Good & Plenty.

Go Me! Woot!


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 16215 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, March 4th (Sunday)

kernel - I hate Vaguebooking too.

Just saying...


You can call me NIK

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Default  Posted: 8:09 PM, March 4th (Sunday)

Girl Scout Cookies are dangerous around me - just saying.


Everyday is a blank canvas, and only you hold the brush.
30y M traded in for a POM (pathetic Old Maid 46, 2 kids from different dads. never married)
S 11/11, D final 1/14.

Posts: 1457 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Suburbia, Arizona
vtach
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Default  Posted: 1:32 AM, March 5th (Monday)

Dear coworkers, thanks for the backup today. Hope you didn't miss anything. Karma IS a motherfucker.


me 48
wh 63
1st DD Thanksgiving day 2009
2nd DD 12/27
3rd DD 3/5/10

We are a work in progress...

Tho I'm fully aware, of your desperate despair, I'm still charmed by the words that you say...Jaron and the Long Road to Love


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RS2731
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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, March 6th (Tuesday)

To whomever controls the temperature in the office building -

It is not cool to have the office be a hotbox one day and a freezer the next. I have no idea what to wear to work and it's pissing me off.

Just sayin.


Me - BS, 36
Him - WH, 36
Married - 11 years
DS - 4
D-Day - September 2011
In process of R.

You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.


Posts: 2213 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: CT
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, March 6th (Tuesday)

It's 70 and sunny today....
Why am I at work? (just sayin)


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 16 & 18
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

Posts: 11377 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, March 6th (Tuesday)

Dear inept supervisor,

Oopsie, you 'forgot' to mention that the annual program reports were due to the division director this week.

No matter, GOT IT DONE, sucker!!!

Just sayin'!!!


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, March 6th (Tuesday)

Dear chain drug store that I work part time at for minimum wage,

If you're going to have a sale on fluoride toothpaste in your flyer, you should know that fluoride is spelled fluoride, not flouride.

Just sayin'.

Signed,
Definitely overqualified but loving being a cashier


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, March 6th (Tuesday)

Dear parents of students at dance studio,

If you are going to have kids......for the love of all that is good in this world parent them. Them screaming/ running full force in and out of dance classes that they aren't in.....drives me nuts. Stop bs'ing with your buddies and take care of your kids. Maybe give them a snack, a toy, tell them to stop slamming the walls. Signed the chick who is losing her mind. Just sayin'

[This message edited by jo2love at 6:02 PM, March 6th (Tuesday)]


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, March 6th (Tuesday)

tell them to stop slamming the walls.


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, March 7th (Wednesday)

I am really going to miss Ink Master.
Also, the wrong guy won.
Also, I am the last person on earth anyone would peg as an Ink Master fan.
Also, this should teach people not to try pegging me.
Also, that sounded slightly dirty.

Just sayin' x5


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 11:34 AM, March 7th (Wednesday)

There are 5 continents and 7 oceans. Number them.
Whaaaaat!?

Me and DD are working out of her mapskills book today.

Book editor needs to go back to school. Just sayin'


"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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RS2731
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, March 11th (Sunday)

I don't care what Weight Watchers says. Kale chips are NOT a substitute for potato chips. They are strange. And taste like seaweed.

Just sayin.


Me - BS, 36
Him - WH, 36
Married - 11 years
DS - 4
D-Day - September 2011
In process of R.

You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.


Posts: 2213 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: CT
Pentup
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Default  Posted: 7:30 AM, March 12th (Monday)

Dear Change in Time,
I will love you tonight when I have time to do something like plant or ride my bike.

This morning, I did not love you much when I overslept and didn't have time for a shower before work. (I work from home, so I'm only offending myself).

Just saying........


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, March 15th (Thursday)

What sort of man thinks his W's looks won't change? Hell, I like looking at younger women (which for me includes up to early 60s), but, well, I'm not a spring chicken myself. (You all can think of me looking like a young Paul Newman though. I've never actually looked like Paul, but this is a virtual world....)

Also, I didn't know babies usually cause stretch marks, and I don't like looking at 'em, but I'll be damned if I blame my wife for something we did together!

Just sayin'...

[This message edited by sisoon at 8:49 AM, March 15th (Thursday)]


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
Twigs323
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Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, March 15th (Thursday)

on the subject of weight watchers.....great program but ......

Although very talented, I find the Jennifer Hudson commercial annoying....

just sayin'....


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:16 AM, March 15th (Thursday)

The cat is meowing at the ceiling and trying to catch something invisible at the top of the wall.

Kinda freaky.

'just sayin


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Twigs323
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, March 15th (Thursday)

Is there such a thing as sugar free good n plenty?? My fav!!

Just sayin'...


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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, March 15th (Thursday)

I should be concerned about wildfire danger because of the warm weather, lack of moisture and wind. Instead, all I can think about is getting home so I can take the dog for a nice, long walk.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, March 15th (Thursday)

"The Ides of March are come"

Just sayin'

Et tu?


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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booger bear
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Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, March 19th (Monday)

*Note to self*

wearing crocs on days like today ... will cause your socks to be wet all day long ...

*also self*

remember how fun it was to be a kid and play in the rain ... and remember today you felt like a kid ... wet socks and all ...

*Thanks self*

booger


I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

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tryingtwo
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, March 20th (Tuesday)

So I come back to SI. Throw out my back so bad that I have been flat on my back. Can't tie my shoes and getting on the toilet is a process I will not even try to discribe. Getting old sucks...just sayin'

And why does every damn thing fall on the floor as soon as you cannot bend down to pick it up?


Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, March 20th (Tuesday)

Cats make really funny expressions when they try to smell your tic tac breath.

just sayin'


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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, March 20th (Tuesday)


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, March 20th (Tuesday)

Just Saying


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, March 20th (Tuesday)


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 11:20 PM, March 20th (Tuesday)

Divorce anniversaries can be even better than wedding anniversaries...

Just sayin'...


You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Posts: 23304 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, March 25th (Sunday)

Did you ever accidentally send exactly the wrong text to exactly the wrong person?

Just sayin'. And what I'm sayin' is "oops".


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

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NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, March 25th (Sunday)

Being stuck in the house all weekend writing research reports sucks, but hey, the nights have been good!


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 16215 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, March 25th (Sunday)

Dear people behind me at stoplights on inclines,

Yes, my car is a manual. While I rock the clutch, it is not necessary for you to be right up against my bumper. Please keep a respectable distance from me or I will be forced to roll back and front end you... just because I can.

Just sayin'.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 4:34 AM, March 26th (Monday)

A good majority of people in the world are crazy...and not the good kind either. Just sayin'


Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS15, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's
God dwells within her; she cannot be destroyed. From the very break of day, God will protect her.~Psalm 46:5

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, March 26th (Monday)

Billy's Chilies beer made by Twisted Pine Brewing Company.

Oh. My. *drool*

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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Threnody
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, March 26th (Monday)

When a client gives me a document to write, and provides a deadline and the document I'm writing in response to, he'd better darned well make sure the deadlines match up. Especially if he drops it on me before farting off the Grand Caymans for two weeks.

He says due March 27.

It says due March 22.

I received it March 23.

I've sent an email and a text, and I'm halting work until I hear back. I am, however, billing him for all time spent so far. If I have to stay up late tonight to finish it, I'm billing him for that as well.

He better answer quickly.

Just sayin'.


“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown

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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, March 26th (Monday)

Clients. Can't live without them ... can't kill them.

Just sayin'


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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so-wrong
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, March 26th (Monday)

Why do some smokers feel like they can throw thier cigarette butts all over the road, sidewalk and basically anyway they decide they are finished with the cigarette? Yeah, especially the sand in kids playparks and the beach..... grrrrr

I dont care if it is "biodegradable" - i would rather it biodegrade out of me and my kids sight!

just askin..........


- I made some really bad choices and now I need to make it right. And along the way, I will make me better too.....

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:56 PM, March 26th (Monday)

Hey Guy,

Calling every night at 2:30am to talk about your senior citizen dating escapades for 30 minutes is getting real old.

Please stop. I'm exhausted. And your stories make my skin crawl, and they make me sad. So please, just stop and let me sleep.

It ain't pretty when I get no sleep. And it makes me grumpy.

Just sayin'!


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

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RS2731
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Default  Posted: 2:41 PM, March 28th (Wednesday)

When someone is walking into a bathroom stall, that is NOT the time to start asking business questions. Just give me a minute to pee and I would be happy to help you.

Just sayin.


Me - BS, 36
Him - WH, 36
Married - 11 years
DS - 4
D-Day - September 2011
In process of R.

You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.


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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 8:40 AM, April 2nd (Monday)

Cellphones these days are such poor quality. You drop them once and they start to malfunction; you drop them twice and the screen shatters I need one of those early 2000's cellphones; the kind that were bulky, hard to drop, and lived through anything. Just sayin'


Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS15, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's
God dwells within her; she cannot be destroyed. From the very break of day, God will protect her.~Psalm 46:5

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tryingtwo
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, April 2nd (Monday)

It wasn't my fault, just sayin'

First sunny day in like four hundred years and I had a head on collision with a plant store. Visa...don't fail me now. I have just bought more plants than any sane woman ever should. I honestly only stopped because my cart was full. Not my fault. Spring fever after Oregon rain and gray skies. That is my story. PGE, your payment might be late this month...just sayin'


Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.

Posts: 10327 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Oregon
Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday)

People need to learn when I am joking. Really, people need to figure out that when I call my neighborhood the "hood" it's b/c Do3K and I joke about living in the hood/ghetto in a town of 9,000 people. It REALLY is the bad part of town and it is known for drug houses, meth labs, and full of little Hood Rats who think they're gansters. It is our way of joking; people need to get their offense in control. Just sayin'


Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS15, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's
God dwells within her; she cannot be destroyed. From the very break of day, God will protect her.~Psalm 46:5

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, April 4th (Wednesday)

When my 9-year-old points out that I start out all my change-of-topic sentences with "So..." it is time to stop.

So, I'm just sayin'.

DAMMIT!


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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itwillrain
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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, April 5th (Thursday)

Stomach, what crack are you on? How are you full on sandwich?


Muddling my way through.

Posts: 142 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Toronto, Canada
wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, April 5th (Thursday)

My vent, I'm sure I've done this one here before, is about eating at your desk. DON'T EAT WEIRD SMELLING SHIT!

Eat things like cold sandwiches, salads, crackers - stuff that doesn't funk up the office! A girl on the other side of me heated up something that smells like warm wet cat food and I want to barf.

[This message edited by wannabenormal at 10:41 AM, April 5th (Thursday)]



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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:38 PM, April 6th (Friday)

I am dragging this afternoon. I think I need 5 pixie sticks and a can of coke.

just sayin'


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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, April 6th (Friday)

jo, You make me giggle. Just sayin'


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God dwells within her; she cannot be destroyed. From the very break of day, God will protect her.~Psalm 46:5

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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, April 6th (Friday)


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roomtoheal
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Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, April 6th (Friday)

It probably wasn't a super good idea to try to dye the jack russel PINK for EASTER.

Just Sayin'


Me:BS 45
Him:FWS 49

D~Day 11/13/08

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“♣The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive if they choose to but do not forget ♣.”

Thomas S. Szasz


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sweetvoice
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Default  Posted: 11:27 PM, April 6th (Friday)

I think I have been naughty and probably need to drink the whole Chalice full of wine on Sunday.

Just saying.

P.S. Love the Oxford comma.


"...then suddenly you changed and now I don't know who you are. Or could it be that I never really knew you from the start?" -The Scarlet Pimpernel-

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broken2
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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, April 9th (Monday)

Revenge is sweet, even if it is coming back to you in a kinda unrelated, related way. Enjoy it you ass. Just sayin'!!!

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Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, April 11th (Wednesday)

One of the benefits of having a pregnant woman in the house is that her cravings become everyone else's snack opportunity.

What has two thumbs and a frosty? <--this guy!

Just sayin.....


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

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lifeblowntobits
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, April 11th (Wednesday)

That sometimes....just sometimes I wish that I didn't have a son who was a drummer.

just sayin'


Me-BS-44, Him-WH-45-very remorseful
OW-Married, opportunistic co-worker whore
DD#1 7-30-2011: everything else lies until 2-12-12
Married 11years, DS19y, DS15y
2.5 years out: in a good place, light at the end of the tunnel


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, April 15th (Sunday)

Dear Makers of Redi Whip,

Sometimes I use the fat free redi whip with my fat free pudding. Your can is mislabeled. It says the can holds 37 servings. Yeah...it really hold 3 servings. Please update your label.

just sayin'


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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, April 15th (Sunday)

Returning texts isn't all that hard people! Just sayin


Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS15, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's
God dwells within her; she cannot be destroyed. From the very break of day, God will protect her.~Psalm 46:5

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, April 15th (Sunday)

You didn't text me. Just sayin'


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Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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blinders_off
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, April 15th (Sunday)

It's hard to figure out the difference between Off-Topic and Fun & Games.

just sayin'


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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 10:36 AM, May 10th (Thursday)

No, seriously, people who walk and text at the same time.

I will bump into you.

Gar. An. Teed.

I will not part from my path just so you can Tweet to your massive followings.

I will not be polite either as I smack your shoulder and "Oh, gosh darn!" watch you as you try to catch your phone as it flitters through your fingers, one by one.

Just stay the hell out of my way and text responsibly.

'k?

Just sayin'.


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, May 10th (Thursday)

There are a lot of truly wonderful people in the world and I have been lucky enough to meet many of them in the past couple of years. I am blessed.

I am so saying!


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, May 10th (Thursday)

The sun is peeking its head out more often than not, birds are singing etc.

The summer clothes have also started making a strong appearance in my area too.
This is a bit of a PSA to save the masses tons of money on eye bleach.

1. They're called Apple Bottom jeans. If your rear more closely resembles a Bag of Apples when wearing said jeans, please size up accordingly.

2. If you have to yank, tug, and pull your clothing out of various body cracks and crevices every time you sit/stand/blink, you may want to consider going up a clothing size or two.

3. For my sisters in large boobedness, we cannot and SHOULD not step out in public without strapping the girls down. Going completely braless in the grocery store is not only in poor taste, but can also serve as a substitute for Syrup of Ipecac for the masses.

Fit to flatter your actual body type...not the one you saw on a magazine cover.
Just sayin...

[This message edited by GabyBaby at 11:27 AM, May 10th (Thursday)]


Me - 43
DD(22), DS(20, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 9253 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, May 10th (Thursday)

Dear server... you really want to do me like this? Fine. Imma reformat your ass.

Just sayin'.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, May 10th (Thursday)

This one made me think -
Returning texts isn't all that hard people! Just sayin

Just because I have a phone does not mean I want to be connected 24/7 or be instantly available - just sayin


Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

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stretch13
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, May 11th (Friday)

no offense, but i hate shopping...for my toddler...

my kid is a healthy weight, so why do i have shorts for kids aged 12 & 18mo where the waist is still too big for my 3 year old? and does every kid her (normal) height have three more inches around their "tiny" 3T waists? seems like someone thinks all american kids are fat.

just sayin.


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http://www.amazon.com/Eli-Ely-Ezekiel-Tyrus/dp/0986042900/

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, May 11th (Friday)

To the two women today.....

Yes Mother's Day is this weekend and I understand you being short on cash and wanting to get your mom a gift. But I highly doubt your mothers would appreciate the fact you STOLE their gifts from Kohl's. Sucks that instead of living it up with you Moms and kids, you'll be partying in lock-up.

Just saying.


"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, May 11th (Friday)

People should eventually actually turn left from the left turn lane and not block those of us who want to turn at the light. 3 times today, alone.

Just sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, May 11th (Friday)

Dear customers,

I understand you dont like change,none of us do.

I understand that I am responsible for getting you an id.

but when I give you the Id, the password, the roles you need, the way to change the password you forgot, and offer to demo the damn thing for you, please give me more than 5 minutes and then fill the time with useless banter about something totally unrelated.

You jerk.

Just sayin'


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, May 11th (Friday)

Chipotle needs to stop building new restaurants that are the size of my bathroom and get themselves a Costco sized warehouse to put one in. That way I can get my damn carnitas burrito bowl and not leave because the line is 200 deep.

Just sayin.


Me: 34
WH: 35 TimeToManUp
Married: 12 years, together 18 years
3 daughters: 10, 7, 4, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)

D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011

This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.


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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, May 11th (Friday)

GabyBaby is so right about clothing sizes.
(Are you at Walmart by chance?)

JS


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
vtach
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, May 12th (Saturday)

Sorry Gaby Baby, but I am showing my bodacious ta ta's whenever I want. I may even go brawless! Gasp!!! In fact I'm gonna make it a point to go commando this next week while on vacation!!!!!

just sayin.....


me 48
wh 63
1st DD Thanksgiving day 2009
2nd DD 12/27
3rd DD 3/5/10

We are a work in progress...

Tho I'm fully aware, of your desperate despair, I'm still charmed by the words that you say...Jaron and the Long Road to Love


Posts: 2053 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: alabama
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, May 12th (Saturday)

damn vtach! I feel so close to you now...

just sayin.

enjoy vacay!!


Me: 45, independent, happy, despite parallel parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 15 DS 12
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 6755 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
kernel
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, May 13th (Sunday)

Why are there no industrious teenagers that will mow your lawn for a few bucks? I seriously need one in my neighborhood. Just sayin'.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, May 14th (Monday)

There is no "U" in "mnemonic".

In spite of the lengthy phone call in the next cube where the word was used 20 times.

Just sayin'


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, May 14th (Monday)

GabyBaby is so right about clothing sizes.
(Are you at Walmart by chance?)

How could you tell?


Me - 43
DD(22), DS(20, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 9253 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There
Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, May 14th (Monday)

#1) Hospital Orientation=The most boring mandatory I have ever had to do.

#2) I venture to guess that Nursing Orientation the next two days will be just as boring.

#3) Making night shifters get up at 0600 to do previously stated Hospital Orientation and Nursing Orientation is just wrong

Just sayin


Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS15, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's
God dwells within her; she cannot be destroyed. From the very break of day, God will protect her.~Psalm 46:5

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, May 14th (Monday)

If it ain't broke, DON'T fix it.

on the other hand, if it doesn't work not one stinking bit, PLEASE don't put your head in the sand, your fingers in your ears and ignore the living daylights out of the problem in the insane belief that the problem might somehow magically fix itself!!

just sayin.


Me: 45, independent, happy, despite parallel parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 15 DS 12
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 6755 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, May 15th (Tuesday)

What do you do with a lovely bouquet of flowers when you don't want anything to do with the person who sent it? Throw them away? I just can't! Regift? "Here, I don't want these. YOU take 'em."

Not knowing what else to do, I shoved them in the corner of my desk behind me, where I can feel them brightly mocking me with their unwanted loveliness. Fuckers.

Just sayin'.

[This message edited by ImNellNow at 12:44 PM, May 15th (Tuesday)]


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, May 15th (Tuesday)

In other news, if you send someone flowers after she says she does not want to see you, and then she does not respond to your many, many texts, and then she does not respond to your long-ass email... and then she does not thank you for the flowers... then for the love of all things even half-way decent, DO NOT FOLLOW UP WITH THREE MORE TEXTS!!!

Just. Sayin'. Very. Loudly.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, May 15th (Tuesday)

Fucker.

It needed its very own post. Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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Ibelieveinme
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Default  Posted: 10:51 PM, May 18th (Friday)

To my dear husband who thinks he was raised in the 50's but born in the 60's.

I love to go fishing and come home and even cook them fresh, with potatoes and onions, a great veggie and rye bread and eating at 10:00 pm is okay for you. BUT when I have to work and come home aroudn 6'sh and your starving - get your own fng food because you ate at 10:00 the night before!




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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, May 19th (Saturday)

Dear NIK,

You decided to run your stove's "Self Clean" cycle on a day when it's nearly 90 and humid outside.
What are you, stupid?

Just sayin'


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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cass
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Default  Posted: 2:36 PM, May 19th (Saturday)

My 10 year passport needed to be renewed.

DESPITE not having the divorce papers to enable me to change my name (binned them years ago) and having to beg Big-Fat-New-Control-Freak-Wife for XHs copies!! (can't get access to XH other than through her) and who demanded I hand them back the minute I got off the train!! (insecure or WHAT??)

DESPITE having to travel 2 hours to the city for an interview with Customs and Passport officials who would not accept my pics because I was showing my teeth. I refrained from asking Sour-Woman-Who-Was-Only-Doing-Her-Job if she wanted me to have my teeth extracted before sitting for the next set of pics!!

DESPITE being searched and having my bag rifled and my manicure set removed with all appropriate paperwork signed and dated accordingly!

DESPITE having to pay £129.50 for fast tract passport, £18.00 for train, £5.00 for first set of useless pics and another £5.00 for second set, £12.00 for lunch (with wine) and £5.00 for taxi to the passport office.

My new passport is on its way.

Dear FaithFool, you are so worth it and I WILL be meeting you in Ireland next month.

Wild horses, fat new wives and cold passport officials won't keep me away.

Just saying..........

[This message edited by cass at 5:34 PM, May 20th (Sunday)]


DDay - April 2008
Me - 57 and doing great, alone.

When you walk through a storm, hold your head up high - you'll never walk alone.


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kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, May 19th (Saturday)

Note to self: Next time you go to vacuum the car, wear your glasses. Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, May 20th (Sunday)

Hah! I had to do two sets also. Minus the train and dinner...Or the fat wife... Did I miss something? He married it???

We are going to have a ball!

[This message edited by FaithFool at 5:51 PM, May 20th (Sunday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 19570 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 6:54 PM, May 20th (Sunday)

Getting stung, on the cheek, by a bee while riding 65mph is an interesting experience.

Just sayin.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1923 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
broken2
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Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, May 21st (Monday)

Seriously? You don't know where Ohio is? Even worse,... really? You didn't even know Ohio is a state? I know you were born here in the states, so you can't use that as an excuse. Oh, what's that you just said? You're a high school graduate? Where the hell did you go to school and did you EVEN pay attention?
Just sayin'!!!

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, May 23rd (Wednesday)

DD has very little homework tonight, tomorrow is her field day, and then she's off Friday till the middle of next week, first day back is a field trip. YAY for 7 days of no homework!!!!!!!!!!! Woo hoo!!! I am super happy!

oh and thanks for the ice cream thread. Made a quick run to cvs for my butter pecan. I am so so happy!

just sayin'

[This message edited by jo2love at 5:28 PM, May 23rd (Wednesday)]


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foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, June 13th (Wednesday)

A day on the river and catching a couple of trout is living the life - DS there catching his trout is the cream on top - just sayin'


Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 10:43 PM, June 13th (Wednesday)

It steams me that someone on a bicycle can cut me off in my car, use no form of signal whatsoever, and who would be to blame if I crushed them into the pavement for the stupidity of their actions? yeah, me. I'd be sued by their loved ones.
I got the pleasure of being flipped off when I leaned on my horn.

Assholes.

Couldnt say that in the car full of kids.

Just sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, June 14th (Thursday)

Couldnt say that in the car full of kids.

Huh? That's how my son learned one of his firt words. Just sayin'....


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, June 14th (Thursday)

It steams me that someone on a bicycle can cut me off in my car, use no form of signal whatsoever, and who would be to blame if I crushed them into the pavement for the stupidity of their actions? yeah, me. I'd be sued by their loved ones.
I got the pleasure of being flipped off when I leaned on my horn.

That's why we carry shot guns down here in hickland. Just the sight of it is enough to make them soil themselves. Just sayin'.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, June 14th (Thursday)


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
aesir
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Member # 17210
Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, June 18th (Monday)

New riding mower has a hose attachment for cleaning the grass clippings from under the mower deck.

It looks like all 21 horses just took a dump.

Just sayin'.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
Twigs323
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, June 19th (Tuesday)

While on the elliptical yesterday I turned on the TV, DS14 had ESPN2 on. Euro2012 was on. I didn't even know what the hell that was. Boy do I know now. I watched Italy vs. Ireland. I have no idea who won, nor do I care.

I checked the schedule, today is England vs. Ukraine and Sweden vs. France. I may have to watch.

Holy "hot guys" batman!!! There are some really good looking physically fit men playing soccer!!!!

Just sayin'......


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Default  Posted: 11:27 PM, June 19th (Tuesday)

Hotdogs and macaroni and cheese, a glass of zinfandel, and ice cream with chocolate sauce all consumed within an hour of each other WILL cause you gastrointestinal distress.

Just sayin'...


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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Speaking of "hot guys"... US Water Polo team.... just sayin....


Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, June 20th (Wednesday)

I wish I could figure out a way to use my creative swear word crafting to support myself. It's a rich untapped resource and it seems a shame to waste it.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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imokay
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Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Too much pizza.

Just sayin'.


DD: 2/10/02

Me: BS - 50 (seriously???)
Him: FWS - 52

Fully reconciled.
I ♥ my Husband!!!

When life hands you lemons - break out the tequila and salt!

Yesterday is not today. Today is not forever.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

After the way tonight went...I need a mini bar.

just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, June 22nd (Friday)

I am going to write a book entitled "The Power of BooHoo," a manual detailing how to capture and cage a significant other for people with no morals, talents, personalities or other positive human traits. Because assholes need lurv, too. And, secondarily, because the data I've collected over the past two years on Daffy and Twatface should not to go waste now that both of them are Daffy's problem.

I'm going to promote heavily in Chilis restaurants, based on the surprising number of WSs and OPs who eat there (according to a recent SI thread). Maybe co-brand a new dessert called SchmooPie. It will include rainbow sprinkles.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, June 22nd (Friday)

Watching HGTV and all these young happy, happy couples getting makeovers or buying homes together.....

it's all fun and games now.....did they do a Chili's Restaurant proximity check??

ETA: Just watched a outdoor makeover for a couple that didn't want to leave their neighborhood because they are all so close and do everything together!! Yup there's some present/developing/future issues there!!!

Just sayin'

[This message edited by Twigs323 at 2:27 PM, June 22nd (Friday)]


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broken2
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, June 22nd (Friday)

hmm,... yes you look like crap. How does your new reality taste?

Enjoy asshole!!! Just sayin'!!!


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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, June 22nd (Friday)

Kids should miss you, at least a little, when you dont see them for more than 24 hours.
Just sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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Default  Posted: 12:25 AM, June 23rd (Saturday)

Fresh cherries are only in season for a very short time period so I should be able to eat as many as I want at one sitting without the resulting gastrointestinal...distress.

Just sayin'


I'm the BW, 3 DDays since 2010....
6/28/12, the day I finally admitted to myself that nothing I did would ever matter to him, he's just broken. So I'm gonna just let go.....

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:53 AM, June 23rd (Saturday)

When you have a 10am brunch reservation and want to change it to 10:30, it's really rude to call and wake the person who made the reservation at 6:30 on a Saturday. Just sayin'.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, June 23rd (Saturday)

I need to figure out the right dessert to go with a "sorry they started work on my townhouse roof at 8:45am on a Saturday" apology to all my new neighbors. Rum cake? Vodka jello? Tequila brownies?

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, June 25th (Monday)

Mondays back at work really suck after a great weekend visiting My Lady.

I really, really need to win that lottery.

Just sayin'


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, June 25th (Monday)

Underwear in the freezer on a hot day....really doesn't work. Just sayin.


WS 45
BS 43

Met when we were 17 and 15. Together since 1983, married since 1985. Two kids, B21, G15.

d-day 4-3-07

Life has a way of making us get our panties in a wad.....I refuse to wear panties ever again.


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Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, June 25th (Monday)

ohmygawdIamgoingtoNicaraguatovisitthemostbeautifulmaninthefreeworldinagorgeousecolodge. IamsoexcitedthatIthinkImayvomit.
ohmygawdohmygawdohmygawdohmygawdohmygawdohmygawdohmygawd.


BS & D
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Default  Posted: 7:38 AM, June 26th (Tuesday)

If you don't actually know how to use the word "literally", don't use it.

Just sayin'


Me - BS, 36
Him - WH, 36
Married - 11 years
DS - 4
D-Day - September 2011
In process of R.

You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.


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Default  Posted: 7:39 AM, June 26th (Tuesday)

Underwear in the freezer on a hot day....really doesn't work. Just sayin


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

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imokay
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Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, June 26th (Tuesday)

Just because they are identical twins doesn't mean they are one person. They are two separate people with two separate identities!

Get it straight!!!! Grrrrrr....

Just sayin'.


DD: 2/10/02

Me: BS - 50 (seriously???)
Him: FWS - 52

Fully reconciled.
I ♥ my Husband!!!

When life hands you lemons - break out the tequila and salt!

Yesterday is not today. Today is not forever.


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Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, June 26th (Tuesday)

The IT department at my company apparently only employs moronic idiots. I am getting really sick of fixing my own IT problems.

Just sayin'


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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veritas
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Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, June 26th (Tuesday)

Curse you, Viva la Waffle, for luring me in with one of the most delectable utensil-free lunches ever, the Roscoe (chicken in a spicy honey sauce on a waffle). Curse you for making me think I could actually enjoy something called the Figgy Piggy (fig preserves, prosciutto, goat cheese and arugula), then take Monday off. What the heck was that about? I will remember you today at lunchtime when I do the walk of shame in the heat to the food truck.

Just sayin'.


Actions unmask what words disguise.
Love many; trust few; and always paddle your own canoe.
When you win, you teach; when you lose, you learn.

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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, June 26th (Tuesday)

You just give me new reasons to love being your EX-wife every day, and now I'm going to upgrade you from Daffy to Daffy Dick. 'Cause you're a dick. And if you ever marry the COW I hope she hyphenates her last name so she will be Princess Twatface Rainbowfart-Dick.

And I hope you get scabies and an untreatable urinary tract infection and a big ol' nasty boil on your saggy boy parts.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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HillBillie
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Default  Posted: 10:54 PM, June 26th (Tuesday)

"Sport scent" should smell like a locker room, not a tree.

Just sayin'.


Me: BS, 40
Him: Future XH, 41
Married 3 years, together 9
Dday: 4/26/12


Sometimes it's better to light a flamethrower than to curse the darkness. -- Terry Pratchett


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foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, June 29th (Friday)

Popcorn at the movies – yum.

Concessions at a reasonable price and free refill on the big popcorn – yeah!

Popcorn has a lot of fiber I am noticing the next day – just sayin


Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, June 30th (Saturday)

I think a McDs fruit smoothie would be good with a shot of Kettle One... just sayin'


Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, July 1st (Sunday)

I hope I am not the only one who had to read ImNell's post more than once to understand.

Just Sayin.

If you are walking down the street talking on a cellphone, you don't need to do "air quotes" with your free hand- the person on the other end cannot see you.

I'm just saying.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, July 1st (Sunday)

Japap you made me laugh.

just sayin'


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veritas
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Default  Posted: 11:14 AM, July 2nd (Monday)

If you're desperate for volunteers and you really appreciate everybody who shows up and works at the booth, high-fiving your favorites in follow-up e-mails is pretty much putting a nail in that coffin.

Just Sayin'.


Actions unmask what words disguise.
Love many; trust few; and always paddle your own canoe.
When you win, you teach; when you lose, you learn.

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, July 2nd (Monday)

Dear printer with the eternal paper jam error... you are cordially invited to bite me.

Just sayin'...


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 5:44 PM, July 2nd (Monday)

Should have bought a different brand, WB. Just sayin'


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, July 2nd (Monday)

Dear Moo,

You too are cordially invited to bite me. Just sayin'.

Love,

WB

[This message edited by wildbananas at 5:51 PM, July 2nd (Monday)]


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:25 PM, July 2nd (Monday)

It takes a lot of talent to break a glass and then a few hours later have 3/4 of a jar of nacho cheese go flying across your kitchen.

just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, July 2nd (Monday)

Cheese for nachos never comes from a jar.

A Californian is just sayin'.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, July 2nd (Monday)

Neither does the good avocado.

Just sayin'.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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WarpSpeed
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, July 2nd (Monday)

Hee bee dee bee dah


Me: BS (52) Her: fWW (51)Married 28 years
2 awesome sons graduated college in 2015
She left Jan 2010, She filed Mar 2010, Div final May 2010, She shared it was an A July 2010, Remarried Aug 2010

Posts: 1536 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Dallas
ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, July 3rd (Tuesday)

XWH is staying in the marital home, but all the neighbors are staying with me. Neener neener, Daffy.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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Threnody
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Default  Posted: 5:46 PM, July 3rd (Tuesday)

If you send your child down here every morning for me to watch, feed, and entertain while I'm working, don't be surprised if I hop her ass up on sugar before sending her home or make her help clean the house.

Just sayin'.

[This message edited by Threnody at 5:46 PM, July 3rd (Tuesday)]


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"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, July 6th (Friday)

Dear Autocorrect,

I have never in my life used the acronym GDMF. If I wanted to say God-damned mother fucker, I would type it completely. Furthermore, I wonder who or what has led you to believe that I would ever want to put that in a text.

I do appreciate your paying attention to the natural end of "Mwah," though. Having to type out "-hah-hah-haaaaaaah!" in my daily texted evil plots to take over the world was getting to be a bit much.

Just sayin',
Nell

[This message edited by ImNellNow at 10:37 AM, July 6th (Friday)]


BS & D
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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, July 7th (Saturday)

Someone posted a picture of a snake in the fears thread, and now I can't go in there anymore. And that annoys me. Just sayin'.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, July 7th (Saturday)

Dear Asshat,

Threatening me when I tell you I need my final paychecks is pretty fucking stupid, when I know you have no workers comp insurance.

Just sayin'


FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Divorced 11/20/2015
I edit because I always make typos.


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kernel
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Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, July 10th (Tuesday)

It should not be this fucking hard to find a decent rental in fucking Billings, MT. Just fucking saying...


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
travels
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Default  Posted: 10:36 AM, July 12th (Thursday)

Dear Neighbor,
Is it really necessary to start up your backhoe, bulldozer, and dump truck at 7 a.m.??? Then start digging and moving dirt for the next several hours? The constant backup beep-beeping is driving me crazy.
I live where I do because it's the country and supposed to be free of this noise.
Hmmm, maybe tomorrow I'll start digging beside your house. Then leave the truck in reverse so the beeping can be constant.

Just Sayin'...


When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
"After a breakup, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship."

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foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, July 31st (Tuesday)

Dear Neighbor,
Is it really necessary to start up your backhoe, bulldozer, and dump truck at 7 a.m.???

Does travel live next to DS - just sayin


Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, July 31st (Tuesday)

Dear old body,

The warrior dash was 2 plus days ago. Stop being in pain now, please. I hate walking like a penguin!

JS


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
weeping willow
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, July 31st (Tuesday)

Dear Door to Door religion pushers, do you even have to show up on our doorstep at our cabin in the boonies?

Just Sayin'


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 38 years


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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, July 31st (Tuesday)

Dear Motorcycle Guy,

Yes, we know that your "fire" outfit is really, really cool. Yes, we know that you can drive that bike really, really fast. However, there is no need to rev that incredibly loud engine that sounds like a giant, angry bumblebee and blast down our little residential street in the hopes that all the retirees and young families are staring at you.

We're not staring. You're just an idiot.

And I'm just sayin'.

[This message edited by tryingagain74 at 10:10 PM, July 31st (Tuesday)]


FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 10:20 PM, July 31st (Tuesday)

It's really amazing how much better you can sleep when the air conditioning is working and you're not sweating like a pig all night long. Just sayin....


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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cissie
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, August 1st (Wednesday)

Dear Internet provider,

Thanks for screwing up my printer access when you installed my new modem. Now I will have to pay another $200.00 to get it working again.


Posts: 684 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: limbo
better4me
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, August 1st (Wednesday)

Dear 20 year old son,
When you make food for yourself late at night remember to close the cupboard doors. I'm really tired of having to close every. single. one. when I get up in the morning. Just sayin'


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

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Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, August 1st (Wednesday)

Dear traffic,
School hasn't started yet so why do you suck so badly?

Just askin'


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17695 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, August 2nd (Thursday)

Dear elderly lady patients, please stop buying the same perfume and mixing it with mothballs right before you enter my office.

Kthxbai!


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Helen of Troy
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, August 2nd (Thursday)

The sync mens diving on the Olympics is kinda hot.

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, August 3rd (Friday)

Dear Makers of Dreamlites,
The song in your commercial drives me up a wall. If I hear it again I may morph into a female hulk and play whack-a-mole with those pillows.

just sayin'


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RS2731
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, August 3rd (Friday)

When the air conditioning in the building is broken and there's no discernible temperature difference between outside and inside - it's time to let people work from home.

Just sayin'.


Me - BS, 36
Him - WH, 36
Married - 11 years
DS - 4
D-Day - September 2011
In process of R.

You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.


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foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, August 3rd (Friday)

Friday rocks!

Just sayin’


Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

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cissie
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Default  Posted: 7:03 AM, August 4th (Saturday)

Microsft, When you had ads on TV with clueless looking twits saying they invented the latest versions, I didn't believe you.
Having used it, I believe you now.

Posts: 684 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: limbo
jeppson8
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Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, August 4th (Saturday)

Ask me about my attention deficit disorder. Or coffee cup, computer, hamsters. I have a Jeep do you like cheese cake? I'm thirsty. Hello.


Me-BH
Her WS,PA
Together 12 yrs, Married for 10
D-Day July 29,2012

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, August 4th (Saturday)

It's so f'ing hot.

Just sayin'


"79% of stair accidents happen on the stairs"..Gumball Watterson

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PanicAttack53
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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, August 4th (Saturday)

If Adam & Eve did the wild thing and beget sons and daughters who beget all the rest of us...aren't we all products of incest?

Just sayin...

Ah oh, now I see lightening bolts in my immediate future!

Just sayin...


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

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foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, August 6th (Monday)

Its 5 o’clock somewhere and here is somewhere

Just sayin…


Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, August 6th (Monday)

Raison d'Etre is amazing. Just sayin'.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, August 6th (Monday)

jeppson8..


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
cissie
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Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, August 7th (Tuesday)

Sales and marketing people. I object that you are now putting competitions &, I think, offers on facebook. I don't usually do those things anyway, but I don't do facebook either, so now you have lost my interest completely

Posts: 684 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: limbo
foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, August 7th (Tuesday)

Painted toe nails with a “the Scream” portrait would look pretty cool on moo

Just sayin’


Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, August 8th (Wednesday)

Finding the perfect little black dress is the equivalant of medieval torture. Just sayin'.


"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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RS2731
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Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, August 9th (Thursday)

FFS, there is NO need to post pictures on Facebook of your toddler's first potty usage.

Seriously???

Just sayin.


Me - BS, 36
Him - WH, 36
Married - 11 years
DS - 4
D-Day - September 2011
In process of R.

You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.


Posts: 2213 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: CT
weimylady
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, August 10th (Friday)

Polly pocket has hands and feet .. Jus' sayin' ...

Arrghhh


I edit to correct my mistakes - and there are usually mistakes ....

Posts: 232 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: England
wincings_sparkle
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, August 10th (Friday)

It feels like this week has been two weeks long... Thank God it's over.

Just saying...


"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light

Posts: 1613 | Registered: Jan 2010
foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, August 10th (Friday)

Friends, fun and campfires - life is good.

Just sayin


Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

Posts: 1327 | Registered: Jul 2011
redvixen
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Default  Posted: 3:06 PM, August 11th (Saturday)

I get more cleaning done in 10 minutes before someone comes over than I do in a whole week.

Just sayin'.


Me, BS Him WS early 40's at the start, cheated before and after cancer diagnosis.
Two A's, two OW's, online looking for sex partners, two false R's.
Threw him out in January 2009.
Divorce final March 30th, 2010

XWH died Dec. 2010


Posts: 4105 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: New Jersey
feeling bi polar
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, August 12th (Sunday)

My place is cleaner and well..just clutter free.
I moved out and away from FT.

I left him to deal with his messes both physical and emotional.

[This message edited by feeling bi polar at 12:17 PM, August 12th (Sunday)]


In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life — It goes on. —Robert Frost

Posts: 196 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: VA
WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 6:47 AM, August 13th (Monday)


Someone needs to punch Nancy Grace in the mouth.

Just sayin'

WHG


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 6302 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
darkbeast
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Member # 19220
Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, August 15th (Wednesday)

Syrian President Bashar al-Assad

Ohio State Head Football Coach Urban Myer

Just sayin'


I thought I wanted a career, but I discoved that I just like paychecks.

Posts: 2466 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: Florida
Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, August 17th (Friday)

OY...some people just try extremely too hard and it's completely obvious! Insecure much??? Just sayin'


Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS15, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's
God dwells within her; she cannot be destroyed. From the very break of day, God will protect her.~Psalm 46:5

Posts: 11767 | Registered: Dec 2009
Time Ticks On
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Default  Posted: 12:19 AM, August 18th (Saturday)

This week has gone by really slow yet my days off flew by...why does this happen?

Just sayin


FBW- 50
FWH-50
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 24 years- together 27

What doesn't kill me, scars me.


Posts: 1819 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Down South
girlsbird
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Default  Posted: 3:06 AM, August 18th (Saturday)

Starting to hate night shifts...maybe 2 nights off in a row would help..
just saying


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: arizona
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, August 21st (Tuesday)

When taking pics of your apartment to post on Craigslist, you might want to remove the roach traps from the kitchen first. Just sayin'.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14396 | Registered: Jul 2011
m334455
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, August 21st (Tuesday)

I should not have a 60" "waist" when my baby is not due for three more months yet!

Just sayin


BW 38, 5 kids
Dday Dec. 2009

Posts: 4034 | Registered: Dec 2009
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, September 7th (Friday)

My daughter's school has her classes listed online. I think it's neat that it highlights the class she is currently in (soc studies) and when nothing is lit up it means she walking to her next class.
Guess I'm easily amused.

just sayin'

[This message edited by jo2love at 11:37 AM, September 7th (Friday)]


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broken2
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, September 7th (Friday)

Yes Ms. store clerk lady, I know you just got a shipment in of the latest fashions. But who the hell decided that wearing batwings on all tops is cool and fashionable? And I don't buy for a minute that YOU, Ms. store clerk lady think it's that cool and fashionable either. Quit tellin' me it is. Just sayin'!

Posts: 2053 | Registered: Nov 2007
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, September 7th (Friday)

Dear man who marinated in Old Spice, and saturated my office with the smell:

You used too much. For future reference ONE splash is enough. Dousing yourself with the entire bottle is over kill.

Thank you and good day!

P.S. It doesn't cover up the unwashed sweaty ball smell.


Posts: 3446 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
movingforward777
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Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, September 7th (Friday)

My daughter's school has her classes listed online. I think it's neat that it highlights the class she is currently in (soc studies) and when nothing is lit up it means she walking to her next class.

Or...she skipped out.... just kidding mama


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

Posts: 4873 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, September 8th (Saturday)

It's been a week of mondays.. and we had monday off.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 6665 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, September 8th (Saturday)

Or...she skipped out.... just kidding


I wonder if the screen blinks black warnings signs if she cuts.

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, September 8th (Saturday)

Ran a 5k.
Taught 3 hours of karate.
Weeded the garden, filling a lawn bag just with the front yard.

I'm tired.
Just sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, September 8th (Saturday)

Ate lots of potato chips and sat on my ass all day.

Just sayin'


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

Posts: 49707 | Registered: Sep 2007
broken2
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, September 9th (Sunday)

Ok stupid bugs with yellow superglue, greasy guts and whatever else you had inside of you. Quit having suicide divebomb missions into my windshield. I'm sick of having to stop at the gas station to use their squigee thingumajiggy and scrub for half an hour to get yor dead ass and superglue yellow guts OFF of my windshield. Go die somewhere else if you feel so compelled!!! Just sayin'!!!

[This message edited by broken2 at 6:04 PM, September 9th (Sunday)]


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broken2
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, September 9th (Sunday)

sorry double post.....just sayin'

[This message edited by broken2 at 5:58 PM, September 9th (Sunday)]


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, September 12th (Wednesday)

It drives me crazy that it takes 40 min to get DD to take a shower and then an eternity to get her out of the shower. You think I'd be used to it by now.

I need chocolate.

just sayin'


Posts: 45252 | Registered: Mar 2011
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, September 12th (Wednesday)

Whoever invented saline sinus rinse and neti pots is my hero. Just sayin'


As long as I'm on this thread, if a school program is advertised as being 2 nights a week, it's not fair to have a third night that's a "recommended", "not mandatory" structured study group with content that we're responsible to know.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14396 | Registered: Jul 2011
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, September 12th (Wednesday)

I'm rethinking my resolution to see all the old blues artists and rockers I can before they pass on.

Johnny Winter is 68, his voice is going, and needed help on and off the stage. It was kind of a downer.

Just sayin'

On the other hand, Samantha Fish, from KC, who opened for Johnny, was amazing. Never expected a leggy 22 year old blonde to sing Howlin' Wolf and Screamin' Jay Hawkins back-to-back. Wicked good guitarist, too.


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5466 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
weimylady
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Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, September 13th (Thursday)

Hurry up and ask me out!! There are only so many hints I can give you!! ☺

Just sayin'


I edit to correct my mistakes - and there are usually mistakes ....

Posts: 232 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: England
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, September 15th (Saturday)

Dearest Mother,

You tell me 20 times a week that Dad misunderstands or doesn't listen to you.

Mr. Aubrie was very clear on the phone tonight. He told me over and over what was said. Dad misunderstood him. Can you even fathom the thought!?

If he doesn't listen to you, he can sure as heck be guilty of the same thing with others. Don't get pissed at me or Mr. Aubrie because Dad's clueless.

Just. Freakin'. Sayin'.


"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

Posts: 7465 | Registered: Nov 2011
JustDone
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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, September 15th (Saturday)

DD (16) just got her first 'real' part-time job. Thought of it, found it, interviewed for it, and was hired, all on her own initiative.

Just sayin'


Madhatter
Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.
Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, September 16th (Sunday)

I have the utmost respect for people that clean bathrooms for a living. Just sayin'

And people are pigs, just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, September 19th (Wednesday)

I.cant.breathe.

I can sneeze though, apparently.

Fricken fall.

Just sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, September 19th (Wednesday)

Oh, and if Lays makes a 'cream pie' potato chip that's it man. I'm boycotting.
Gross.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
m334455
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Member # 26893
Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, September 20th (Thursday)

How many plastic dinosaurs can one household possibly need?

Just sayin'


BW 38, 5 kids
Dday Dec. 2009

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:57 PM, September 20th (Thursday)

Who puts dill in a black bean burrito?!?!?! One of my favorite foods in the cafeteria at work and they ruined it. I'm fricking allergic to dill!!!! Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
JanetS
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Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, September 21st (Friday)

There
Their
They're

Just Sayin!


Posts: 2900 | Registered: Nov 2003 | From: Niagara-on-the-Lake, Canada
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, September 21st (Friday)

How do you tell someone that their perfume smells like a Glade plug-in?


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:35 PM, September 22nd (Saturday)

Warm turkey, a slice of provalone, a hint of garlic mayo, and lightly toasted multi-grain bread = perfection on a plate.

Just sayin'.


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, September 22nd (Saturday)

I can haz, NIK?


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
kernel
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Default  Posted: 1:37 PM, September 22nd (Saturday)

If you have to sniffle and snort every 3 seconds, just get up and blow your damn nose instead of sniffling through the entire test session!!!! Just sayin'!!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, September 22nd (Saturday)

If you have breakfast at 5:30 AM, you're probably gonna be hungry long before your normal 1-2 PM lunch time.

If you take your (prescription) speed at 5:30 AM, your 2nd & last dose of the day is due at 9:30, and you might be less focused than normal at 2 PM.

And nowadays you have to get on the road before 6:40 AM to miss the Chicago rush hour going South on the Edens-Kennedy.

Just sayin'....


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, September 22nd (Saturday)

That fancy 30'-40' trailer saying some fancy Range Rover stuff is inside would be a lot more impressive if it were pulled by a Range Rover instead of a Dodge pickup truck. Just sayin'....


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, September 22nd (Saturday)

DD23 - if you don't want to watch *those kids* tonight, just say so, cause I already offered... don't sit here and piss & moan about having to do it... just sayin'


Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

Posts: 8255 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
movingforward777
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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, September 22nd (Saturday)

Just saying...I'm too young to be ready to go to bed at 9:30 but since I have one more shift in my 60 work week to do tommorrow and I have already heated up my bean bags to snuggle up to in bed I'm heading there.......


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

Posts: 4873 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
rollercoaster80
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, September 22nd (Saturday)

Fall leaves....going up north in October....

Just saying


me 58 fbw
him 71 FWH/SA
married 35 years
together 31 years my whole adult life!
4 s, 1 stepd, 2 grand kids

multiple A's, 2 LTA's,multiple indescretions...before and throughout our marriage


Posts: 1048 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: sarasota, fl
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, September 25th (Tuesday)

Try all you want to teach your kids that spiders are NOT scary - all it takes is one time of completely losing your s#!% when a big one jumps out at you to ingrain in them that they are something to be feared for life.

jussayin...


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, September 25th (Tuesday)

if I'm leading a stair climbing group, invite you to join, you accept invite, then bail each time we go, don't expect me to try to motivate you for "the next time". just sayin


FWW - 42
Reconciled
"Life it ain't real funky....unless it's got that pop"

Posts: 6772 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, September 25th (Tuesday)

Try all you want to teach your kids that spiders are NOT scary - all it takes is one time of completely losing your s#!% when a big one jumps out at you to ingrain in them that they are something to be feared for life.

Or the kid just learned yet another method of getting under Mommy's skin....


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, September 25th (Tuesday)

The result of eating ceviche purchased from a stand in a parking lot in Nicaragua is about what any sane North American would expect.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:55 AM, September 26th (Wednesday)

I wandered in here, thinking it was friday because people were posting SPF worthy pics on FB.

It's Wednesday. Sigh.

Just sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, September 30th (Sunday)

When the cat meows over and over at the ceiling it freaks me out a little.

just sayin'


Posts: 45252 | Registered: Mar 2011
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, October 1st (Monday)

When you buy candy, then ask me to eat the candy for you, knowing it triggers my migraines, while you're using the excuse that you can't eat the candy anyway because you're a type two diabetic... and then you eat the candy ...or I do ...who really wins? Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
RS2731
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, October 1st (Monday)

Asking me to review and draft language for you for a contract under the laws of Finland,when I'm the North American lawyer, is a waste of both our time and effort. Even if I do respond faster than the European counsel.

Just sayin.


Me - BS, 36
Him - WH, 36
Married - 11 years
DS - 4
D-Day - September 2011
In process of R.

You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.


Posts: 2213 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: CT
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, October 1st (Monday)

Monday again.
Just sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
broken2
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, October 1st (Monday)

,... and it's STILL Monday,.....

Just sayin'!


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Snapdragon
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Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, October 1st (Monday)

Work gripe: If you ignore my requests (things I need to have to HELP you!) for long lengths of time, don't expect me to drop everything and jump when YOU want something. Just sayin'


Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.

"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink


Posts: 3374 | Registered: May 2004 | From: Midwest
JustDone
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Member # 9742
Default  Posted: 9:29 AM, October 2nd (Tuesday)

Oh crap guys, we forgot to wake up Green Day yesterday!!!

Just Sayin...


Madhatter
Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.
Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.

Posts: 2965 | Registered: Feb 2006
cissie
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Member # 17637
Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, October 2nd (Tuesday)

I wish there was another term for Cake eating . Every time i read it I picture a double fudge chocolate cake and it kills my will to lose weight.

Posts: 684 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: limbo
why2008
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, October 2nd (Tuesday)

I'm so 3008
You so 2000 and late
I got that boom, boom, boom


is all i can think about today...


Me - BS - 46
Him - WS - 44
Two daughters / 10 and 7

Posts: 4074 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Maryland / DC
ImNellNow
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Member # 28753
Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, October 11th (Thursday)

When your ex-wife passes your obvious wrinkled and bed-headed self as you're turning toward your house on your "drive of shame" at 7:15 a.m., you might want to stifle the urge to complain that same evening to that same ex-wife about (a) not having time to find the hammer she requested six weeks ago and (b) being tired.

That's just a general "just sayin'." Certainly not directed at my idiot ex-husband.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

Posts: 2370 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Baby steps on my new path
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, October 19th (Friday)

There is no such thing as Stanfurdium.

Just sayin'.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1923 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, October 19th (Friday)

It isnt fair to give someone else your earworm, Why2008.

Just sayin...

Boom boom boommmm...


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:56 AM, October 20th (Saturday)

Berkelium, having no practical applications, decays with a half-life of 330 days to californium-249, which is a strong and hazardous emitter of alpha particles. This gradual transformation is an important consideration when studying the properties of elemental berkelium and its chemical compounds, since the formation of californium brings not only chemical contamination, but also self-radiation damage, and self-heating from the emitted alpha particles. Just Sayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Chili
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Member # 35503
Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, October 20th (Saturday)

Men work out at the gym for other men.
Women dress for other women.
Just sayin'.


Me: BSO
Him: Assclown
Too many years tied up with him.
April-May 2012 pretty much sucked.
"I'd love to give a dog a bone, but I'm not gonna stick around to help you" - Jack White

Posts: 243 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Reality
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, October 21st (Sunday)

It's been over 2hrs and I can't get the song from the Cuddle Up Its commercial out of my head. It is driving me crazy.


just sayin'


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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 2:18 PM, October 23rd (Tuesday)

I'm a fierce woman: I pick up snakes with my bare hands, eat ceviche in Central America and am testing for my next belt in martial arts tomorrow. And yet Bee Gees lyrics have me all gooshy inside. I'm making myself a little nauseous!

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

Posts: 2370 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Baby steps on my new path
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, November 30th (Friday)

Seriously, little 8th grade dude on the elliptical machine next to me at the Y.

Leave the Axe at home.

Just sayin'...


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21289 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
broken2
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, November 30th (Friday)

At a 4 way stop, seriously??? You're gonna cut your turn and go ahead and gun it while a cop is sitting to the right of you and it was HIS turn to go? And you're wondering WHY he pulled you over??? Seriously???

Just sayin'


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Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, November 30th (Friday)

I am d.o.n.e. being 30, and its only been a week...

Just sayin!


Me: 32 MH
Him: 39 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, December 1st (Saturday)

Sugar is made from a grass ...just like wheat, barley, and everything else in my life that causes trouble (no offense, Poaceae/Graminae, this botanist still loves you! )

Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, December 1st (Saturday)

Hashtag is a ridunculous name for a child.

Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
cayc
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Default  Posted: 4:47 PM, December 1st (Saturday)

Everyone needs the occasional day where they never change out of their pjs & only leave the house to check the mail, & yes, that would be in my pjs too!

Just sayin''!


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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 9:28 AM, December 7th (Friday)

Listen, Tinkerbell, commas are not fairy dust, and your red pen is not a magic wand. Either learn basic grammar rules or leave my stuff alone.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, December 11th (Tuesday)

It's cold. Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 10:27 PM, December 17th (Monday)

I am not sick.
I am not sick.
I am not sick.
I am not sick. I am not sick.
I am not not not not not not not not sick.

Just sayin.

PS... I took zicam, I'm not sick. I cant be. Its my day off tomorrow!!

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 10:28 PM, December 17th (Monday)]


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 7:34 AM, December 18th (Tuesday)

Sick.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, December 18th (Tuesday)

I hope you feel better.

You should get a day off do-over when you are healthy.

just sayin'


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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 8:10 AM, December 18th (Tuesday)

I think so too.
Maybe my next job I should negotiate that one


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, December 18th (Tuesday)

witdrawn. Sorry.

[This message edited by sisoon at 5:41 PM, December 18th (Tuesday)]


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DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
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Default  Posted: 2:38 AM, December 24th (Monday)

Why do people have to bring their tired whiny offspring Christmas shopping? My fave part is when they let them play with a toy while shopping then rip it from their hands usually when they are standing in back of me in a 30 minute line

Jus sayin


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:36 PM, December 24th (Monday)

Hey, Schmuck in the SUV: when you take a right turn on red, first youre supposed to stop. Then you're supposed to turn into the right lane, not the left lane with me and several other cars coming down the pike at the 40 mph speed limit!

And if you're gonna drive like that, accelerate like lives depend on it!

Sometimes I wish I drove a tank. Just sayin'....


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DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

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broken2
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, December 26th (Wednesday)

okay,... give me just one good reason to go off on you,... just one,... I've been EVER so nice to your ass since you got into town,... but just give me one,... just one reason. I bit my tongue Christmas Eve and Day and now I'm ready for your ass. Go ahead, make my day!!! I'm SO ready for you!!! Just sayin'!

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, December 26th (Wednesday)

It's the 27th already??!

Just sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, December 26th (Wednesday)

Moo's tagline: "Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless…… while they end up useless" is keeping me from responding to an idiot Just sayin'


Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS15, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's
God dwells within her; she cannot be destroyed. From the very break of day, God will protect her.~Psalm 46:5

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, December 26th (Wednesday)

There is such a thing as too many chocolate cherry cordial hershey's kisses.

Ohhh my tummy.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, December 27th (Thursday)

To the driver of the gray car, talking on the phone, running the red light at McCormick and Grey while it's snowing and the roads are slick: *** censored ***

To the schmuck going 10 MPH in the red car covered with snow: Yeah, I know it's scary to drive when you can't see - sweep the snow off your windows before you start out on your trip.

Just sayin'....

Just sayin'....


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
gma56
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Default  Posted: 1:28 AM, December 29th (Saturday)

Just sayin'- So Happy the holidays are almost over.
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, December 30th (Sunday)

It SUCKS living away from all your family. Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, January 1st (Tuesday)

Thank goodness for Xmas letters! Without one I have just received, I would not have known that the definition of "50 of the most wonderful years together" is "a half century of him bullying and screaming insults and her capitulating and emotionally manipulating." *whew* I was THIS CLOSE to using that phrase incorrectly. How embarrassing.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, January 5th (Saturday)

Hot chocolate with butterscotch schnapps - yummmmmm. Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, January 18th (Friday)

Hey folks with the flu bug - STAY THE HELL HOME!

And if you can't do that, please don't reach out to shake my hand right after you've coughed!

Just sayin'...

[This message edited by ajsmom at 10:09 AM, January 23rd (Wednesday)]


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


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LadyQ
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, January 19th (Saturday)

Oy. I just read through all 20 pages of this thread. I so need a life

just sayin...


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

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ICouldntFixIt
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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, January 23rd (Wednesday)

If you don't fix the windows in my office so they don't sag from the top and it can be not winter in my office, I'm going on strike.

Just Sayin


"Don't settle for a spark...light a fire instead."

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, January 23rd (Wednesday)

Life is precious.

Just sayin'.

[This message edited by silverhopes at 12:56 PM, January 23rd (Wednesday)]


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, January 24th (Thursday)

Mercedes Benz USA has a new image ad - the soundtrack is the Stones' Sympathy for the Devil

I used to associate MB with the uber-sexy gullwing 300 SL and with reliable cars that were super-comfortable at high speed.

Thanks to the new ad, I associate MB with the Devil and with their contribution to the nazi war effort...Two viewings changed my image. Now that's an effective ad, but ...

If you want to create an image ad, be damned sure the lyrics to your soundtrack support the image you want. Just sayin'....


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
PanicAttack53
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, January 24th (Thursday)

Why do I live in this miserable state with it's ice, snow and -15 temps at night when I could be living further south (a lot further) and have sunny 70 degree days and warm, soft windy nights?

Just Sayin....


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, January 24th (Thursday)

59 is not warm enough inside. Stupid office building.

J.S.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)

Cube neighbor, I know you're pregnant and allowed to have a 2pm cheeseburger every day, but darn it I am not pregnant and smelling your 2pm cheeseburger every day is driving me out of my mind wanting my own 2pm cheeseburger every day.

There's a very nice break room down the hall. Just sayin'


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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silverhopes
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Cool  Posted: 2:46 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)

Burnt spaghetti tastes like toast, as long as there was olive oil in the water.

Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)

I keep misreading a thread I started in NB as "licking yourself" instead of "liking yourself"


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)

I am glad that Ama keeps misreading her own topic title so I don't feel like a preevert for wonderin' how licking yourself is good for a NB.

Just sayin'.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)

You know you're officially involved in the terrible 2's/3's because your toddler has a meltdown when handed the wrong side of a towel.

Jussayin...


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

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million pieces
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Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)

Licking yourself should start every NB


Me - 44
2 kids, 11 and 13
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)

@ Jrazz

I think we're right there with you.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, February 1st (Friday)

Wine.

That is all.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, February 2nd (Saturday)

Kids are precious.

Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, February 2nd (Saturday)

Kids are precious.

only before they become teenagers.

just sayin'....


Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing we'll ever do. ~ Brené Brown

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, February 2nd (Saturday)


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, February 3rd (Sunday)

Travelin' to the western edge of the state one night for a concert and past the eastern edge of the state the next to hear the same group leaves a person tired, sore, half deaf and completely emotionally satisfied.

Just sayin'.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, February 12th (Tuesday)

I actually logged in here to read my SPF today. Then I realized its only Tuesday.

That sucks.

Just sayin...


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, February 13th (Wednesday)

oooh BR that sucks

I should be in bed right now, fast asleep. But for some reason my butt is glued to my couch. Just sayin'.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, February 18th (Monday)

You know you're going round the bend when you're watching Thomas & Friends with your toddler, and you start thinking Bash, Dash, and Ferdinand somehow resemble Yakko, Wakko, and Dot from Animaniacs.

Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, February 18th (Monday)

Greek yogurt tastes like liquid bleu cheese, no matter how much fruit you add. Blech. Just sayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, February 18th (Monday)

Jrazz - A wise SI'er told me to add a boatload of honey to plain greek yogurt. Yum.


My cat was surprised when she went to jump on the toilet, but didn't realize the lid was up and it was still flushing. She has darn good reflexes.

just sayin'

[This message edited by jo2love at 4:38 PM, February 18th (Monday)]


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 11:14 AM, February 19th (Tuesday)

Accounting Department, even though there's just two of you, if one can't breath without coughing, and the other has to snuff up a very loud sounding amount of snot every time she talks, you can both go home. We don't want our checks cut that badly.

Also, all your bodily noises are making me feel queasy. I will be spraying your cubes with lysol while you're at lunch.

Just sayin'.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, February 19th (Tuesday)

Ama.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, February 20th (Wednesday)

Toddlers are adorable til they get up close and try to bite off your nose. Then they turn into tiny gremlins of destruction and cuteness (OMGYOURTEETH.ARE.HUGE!).

Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

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tired girl
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Default  Posted: 1:25 AM, February 21st (Thursday)

Omg silver

I remember that stage


Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,24,22
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

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WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 5:26 AM, February 21st (Thursday)


Dear Winter,
Go away.

just saying


whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 12:07 PM, February 21st (Thursday)

If you got money for cigarettes and cell phones you got money for soap. Just sayin.


Me: BS 47
Her: FWS 50 (both family med MDs; together 20 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, February 21st (Thursday)

Dear Winter,
Listen to WHG.
Thanks.

Just sayin'


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 12:23 PM, February 21st (Thursday)

Omg silver

I remember that stage

Any tips for the next stage?


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
confused82402
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, February 21st (Thursday)

To my lovely dog,

The large pepperoni pizza I purchased last night was not intended for you. You were supposed to eat the delicious kibble in your dog bowl for dinner. I understand that you aren't happy with the kibble being low fat but it does not in any way justify you eating my pizza.

Furthermore, eating the pizza on a night I did not stuff myself and only had the opportunity to enjoy one slice because I had full intentions of going back for more later, was wrong in more ways than one.

In the future, please refrain from eating my dinner....

Just sayin'


Me- BW
Him - WH
Dday - 1/16/2012

~Honey, don't try to make sense out of nonsense...you'll drive yourself crazy in the process ~ my momma :-)


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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, February 22nd (Friday)

Top 10 Signs You Are a Bad Co-worker
1. You yell from your cubicle to the administrative assistant 20 feet away instead of getting up to ask your question, picking up the phone or sending an IM.
2. You eat soup while sitting at someone else’s desk.
3. You blow your nose while using someone else’s keyboard.
4. You give me a body spray headache.
5. You make everyone call you <Uniquestupid>, even though we all know your parents gave you Mary or Jennifer or some other mainstream white American name.
6. You are a grown-ass woman, yet your cubicle is decorated around a plastic Tinkerbell snowglobe.
7. Apparently everyone you know has lost 98% of their hearing; even so, you phone them from the middle of Cubicleville.
8. When you’re in a meeting that has already dragged on for an hour and you have a question, you ignore the handout in front of you that clearly answers your question and instead you make the speaker read the handout aloud to you. Multiple times. In one meeting.
9. You discuss your husband’s shortcomings during group discussions at department meetings in an attempt to make yourself look better in comparison.
10. You complete one through nine over the course of three days.

Just sayin’.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, February 22nd (Friday)

Dear African Grey Parrot,

Just because you are the worlds best mimicker does not mean you need to mock me when I cough...you are a bird, not a dog, cat, toddler having a hissy fit, squeak toy, lazer, my MIL (yes he mimics her voice perfectly!), or Barney episode...act like a bird.

Just say'n...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, February 22nd (Friday)

CHEW WITH YOUR MOUTH CLOSED!!!

Just sayin'.


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, February 22nd (Friday)

Oh. My. God. NIK YES!!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, February 22nd (Friday)

Dear chefs,

Ahem Bacon does not go with or in everything. Just say no to bacon ice cream

Neither does EVOO, Cilantro, Roasted red peppers, Hawaiian bread, feta cheese, or any other kind of cheese smothering and crusted on everything.

Have a heart and make things we can eat without fear of heart failure.

JS


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
KBeguile
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Member # 38348
Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, February 23rd (Saturday)

To piggyback,

Dear Mexican restaurants:

Some of us do not like cilantro. Please consider making non-cilantro Mexican food.

Just sayin'.


Me: WS 34
Her: BS 37 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 7yo
M: 9 years
DDays: 2012/11/14-2013/02/05, 2013/03/09, 2016/02/19

Posts: 824 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
redvixen
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Member # 15259
Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, February 24th (Sunday)

Rinsing your hair in the shower after you just dyed it red looks an awful lot like a murder scene.

Just sayin'.


Me, BS Him WS early 40's at the start, cheated before and after cancer diagnosis.
Two A's, two OW's, online looking for sex partners, two false R's.
Threw him out in January 2009.
Divorce final March 30th, 2010

XWH died Dec. 2010


Posts: 4105 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: New Jersey
silverhopes
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Member # 32753
Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, February 24th (Sunday)

I miss Effexor.

Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, February 24th (Sunday)

When it's not even 7 pm and the bottle is already more than half gone....it might be time to stop. Just sayin'


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, February 24th (Sunday)

When did pine nuts become more expensive than gold?!?! This tied in with my grocery store only selling them by the bucket smacks of mafia involvement... jussayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
kernel
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Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, February 24th (Sunday)

The stupid "fast and easy" state e-file website is the exact fucking opposite. Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, February 25th (Monday)

"It's time for Aaaaanimaniacs! And we're zany to the MAX!..."

Just sayin'!


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
kernel
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, February 25th (Monday)

Sometimes this all-American dream of being a homeowner really, really, really sucks. It's supposed to be an investment - not a money pit. Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, February 25th (Monday)

Muahahaha! I knew it! I knew it was Mark Hamill's voice! Can't trick me, I recognize the Joker's voice even in another character's mouth on another show! Mark Hamill for the win, muahahaha!

Ahem. Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, February 25th (Monday)

It's good to show potential renters that your apartment has a bathroom, but seriously, rings on the tub and hair on the floor are a big turnoff when you post pics of them on Craigslist.

Just sayin'


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, February 25th (Monday)

EWWW!


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


Posts: 36095 | Registered: Aug 2011
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, February 26th (Tuesday)

I got a headshot taken at work today. Here's an actual interaction between the photographer and I:

Photog: are you a runner?
Ama: only casually, not often
Photog: oh, you have a lean build like a runner!
Ama: thanks, I actually lost 20 pounds in the last few weeks.
Photog: what? Really?
Ama: yep. I stopped eating chocolate around the office and it just kind of happened!
Photog: wow, I can't imagine you 20 pounds heavier!
Ama: uh, thanks?

what does that even mean?

Awkward! Just sayin'


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:07 PM, February 26th (Tuesday)

That means that photog doesn't get out to talk to humans that often. Jussayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, February 26th (Tuesday)


Dear Mother Nature,
You can stop the snow any time now. I've had enough.

....just sayin'


whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 6302 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:37 PM, February 26th (Tuesday)

Or he wants to talk to Ama a lot more. Just sayin'....

[This message edited by sisoon at 5:37 PM, February 26th (Tuesday)]


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, February 26th (Tuesday)

She, sisoon - middle aged, straight woman.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14396 | Registered: Jul 2011
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, March 2nd (Saturday)

Slept in this morning, took a three hour nap this afternoon, and now going to bed early. Guess you could say I'm tired. It's been a long week.

Just sayin'.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, March 3rd (Sunday)

kids have a lotttttttttt of questions. like every 2 seconds.

Just sayin


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, March 5th (Tuesday)

If you hold a bobble head by its head it becomes a bobble body...or better it becomes a wiggle

Just say'n...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 11:45 PM, March 5th (Tuesday)

You'd think that two glasses of wine would inspire me to update the shizzizzle outta my resume. Instead, I'm poking around SI 45 minutes after my bedtime. Weird.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, March 7th (Thursday)

Geico, you're on the West Coast. Don't act like all your operators are out to lunch right now!!! (#rassafrackinholdfor21minutes)

Just sayin'


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, March 7th (Thursday)

Seriously, people. Why waste money on a vanity plate announcing what kind of car you drive?

Yeah, I get that "TOYTRIX" is a Toyota Matrix.

Silly rabbit! Trix are for kids!

Just sayin'...


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21289 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
kernel
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, March 15th (Friday)

You know you need to catch up on your Kindle books when you try to buy a book you already own. Just sayin'.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
LadyQ
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, March 16th (Saturday)

Plants vs Zombies is the most addictive game ever.

Just sayin


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, March 22nd (Friday)

Spaghetti should never go in a blender. Just sayin'.

^actual quote from an actual conversation today.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14396 | Registered: Jul 2011
Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, March 26th (Tuesday)

Eating a whole bag of sponge candy in one day will give you a stomach ache... just sayin'


Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

Posts: 8255 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
ICouldntFixIt
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, March 27th (Wednesday)

When you are my administrative assistant, don't tell me you are too busy doing something to handle my work, especially when you are the only one who knows how to enter clients into the program and especially when what you're "too busy" doing is chatting with at least three men online. Also, don't tell my homeless clients that they should come save on a day that I am in my office because they will spend that money by the time they come back. Just sayin....

ETA: Sorry for the run-on sentence.

[This message edited by ICouldntFixIt at 1:00 PM, March 27th (Wednesday)]


"Don't settle for a spark...light a fire instead."

Posts: 165 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Harrisonburg
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, March 27th (Wednesday)

Keeping your laptop away (and therefore dry) from your splashy toddler while you work will only cause your pug to come over and sneeze on the monitor. It's science. Just sayin'.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
HFSSC
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Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, March 27th (Wednesday)

T/J... Jrazz, did you see the video of our pug howling that I posted on fb last week? It is hilarious.

End t/j


Me, 49
Him, 41 (JMSSC)
married 19 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 3549 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, March 27th (Wednesday)

the kid who will cut up paper all day long for fun all of a sudden tires easily when having to cut out his spelling words. J/S


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Spirit13
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Member # 31758
Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, March 28th (Thursday)

I just really, really HATE that stupid thrift shop song.

God, am I going to have to listen to that all summer now?

thud.....


Men were deceivers ever; one foot in sea and one on shore, to one thing constant never.

Posts: 622 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Midwest
ImNellNow
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Member # 28753
Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, April 8th (Monday)

Of all my jewelry, my favorite is the blue plastic heart on a string that my 7yo lovebug won for me at the arcade.

I love my boyos.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

Posts: 2370 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Baby steps on my new path
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, April 8th (Monday)

Hey Mister Salami Breath please do not walk up so close behind me at the RedBox Rental kiosk and then say "huh" so close that I smell your salami breath. And, Mr. Salami Breath, you then say "What comes around, goes around".

Ok, WTF did I do to you? Oh, is that a freakin' blue tooth in the ear I can't see and you are talking way too loud and too close to me? Frickin' Douche!

Just sayin'.

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 9:46 AM, April 8th (Monday)]


BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 12140 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
DragnHeart
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Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, April 8th (Monday)

I have to much stuff!!!!!

Next time I move I am selling or throwing out everything

Just say'n


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
Amazonia
Member
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, April 12th (Friday)

Yelling at me on the phone when I tell you someone isn't physically in the office because it is the end of the day on a Friday and she left an hour early to go to her kid's sports game isn't going to change the fact that she's not here to talk to you. Just sayin'.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14396 | Registered: Jul 2011
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, April 15th (Monday)

When submitting one's photo for the weekly employee update "profile" piece, one should not choose a photo where one is noticeably, um, aroused. Even if the photo will be shrunk to one inch by one inch. Such a photo will make all the women in the office look at you differently from here on out.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14396 | Registered: Jul 2011
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, April 15th (Monday)

I wish I had a chocolate fountain at home.

just sayin'


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, April 16th (Tuesday)

BOXED WINE

Just sayin'


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, April 16th (Tuesday)

No stop sign.BS here.

For the love of all that holy, it is not necessary to make this declaration when posting in the Wayward forum....just sayin'

[This message edited by lieshurt at 6:30 PM, April 16th (Tuesday)]


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

Posts: 14685 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
purplejacket4
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Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, April 16th (Tuesday)

If you can afford a cell phone you can afford soap. Just sayin.


Me: BS 47
Her: FWS 50 (both family med MDs; together 20 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

Posts: 2949 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Here
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, April 16th (Tuesday)

I hate itches between my shoulderblades that I cannot reach.
Just sayin


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, April 16th (Tuesday)

The word "y'all" is not just a Texas term BaxtersBFF...Just sayin'.

Signed,
A Tennessean


"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

Posts: 7465 | Registered: Nov 2011
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:52 AM, April 17th (Wednesday)

Dammit, Losfer.

Jusssayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
silverhopes
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Member # 32753
Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, April 21st (Sunday)

Mr Silver, Please don't wait for our son to split open my lip via headbutt before stepping in and doing your parental duties. And then promptly give said duties back again. My lip's still smarting. Just sayin'.

[This message edited by silverhopes at 11:43 PM, April 21st (Sunday)]


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
918Mama
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Member # 37756
Default  Posted: 12:29 AM, April 22nd (Monday)

If I went to bed right now, I could get a decent nights sleep.

Instead, I'm going to stay up for another couple hours and start yet another Monday dragging ass.

Can my kid's school please be out for summer so I can sleep past 6:30am???

Just sayin'


Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be. -- Sonia Ricotti

Posts: 630 | Registered: Dec 2012
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, April 25th (Thursday)

1. Cut premade cake in half
2. Soften store bought ice cream and smooth between halves of premade cake
3. Frost using store bought whipped cream and freeze

That^ isn't a recipe. Just sayin'.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 10:19 AM, April 25th (Thursday)]


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14396 | Registered: Jul 2011
ImNellNow
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Member # 28753
Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, April 25th (Thursday)

Would you please decide whether you want to insist on micromanaging every damn thing I do OR bitch about how I'm not proactive? I think I wore the wrong hair shirt to work again.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 6:44 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Dear 24yo dd - starting my morning with you bitching about your job is not what I want to do at 7 a.m. Just sayin...


Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

Posts: 8255 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, May 6th (Monday)

Homemade cream cheese frosting - yum. Homemade cinnamon cream cheese frosting - YUMMMMMM!!! Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, May 6th (Monday)

SI Field trip to kernel's for frosting.


just sayin'


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, May 7th (Tuesday)

When people sit next to you on the bus, it's a compliment. They are saying "you're the least horrific person here".

JS


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Undefinabl3
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Member # 36883
Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

I think swarms of ants on the fourth floor of a highrise, in the middle of downtown, is a sign of the Apocalypse.

Just sayin


Me: 32 MH
Him: 39 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.

Posts: 2387 | Registered: Sep 2012
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 12:45 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

swarms of ants on the fourth floor of a highrise, in the middle of downtown

I think it's a sign your landlord needs to pay for an exterminator before the building collapses!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14396 | Registered: Jul 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Use of the thermostat is limited to those who pay the utility bills. So if you aren't paying, keep your grubby mitts off.


Just saying.


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

I think it's a sign your landlord needs to pay for an exterminator before the building collapses!

But its a metal beam building, the only wood in here are the kitchenetts and the desks....

What are they doing, riding up the elevator with us??

Just sayin


Me: 32 MH
Him: 39 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.

Posts: 2387 | Registered: Sep 2012
Dawnie
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Member # 26912
Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Just because its raining does not mean that everyone has to drive with their thumbs stuck up their asses...


DIVORCED! Remarried to a real man!
BW (me) - 41 (now 48)
WH (him) - 43 (now 49)
OW - 23 yr old foreign gold digging whore looking for her American meal ticket
1 14 yr old son (now 21)
married 20 years/together 25 years
D day - 9/23/2009 5pm

Posts: 813 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Mid Atlantic coast
sisoon
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Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Yup. If you tailgate me at 65 mph in a 55 mph zone, I will slow down.

And though I don't care much, I will snicker a little bit about slowing you down, 'cause you had to have noticed how fast I was going before you got behind me.

Just sayin'....


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
Spelljean
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Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

To the old prune of a lawyer that cross examined me today at the workers comp board, you can't manipulate me nor put words into my mouth. I used to watch Ally Mcbeal, so you don't fool me!!


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 1016 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Undefinabl3
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Member # 36883
Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, May 9th (Thursday)

To the idiot insurance companies that are starting to charge for the 'unneccessary Polio vaccination' why do you think we DONT have Polio anymore...

OH RIGHT...cause we get vaccinated...

Fliping idiots...

Just sayin


Me: 32 MH
Him: 39 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.

Posts: 2387 | Registered: Sep 2012
Spelljean
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Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, May 9th (Thursday)

There were only 2 potstickers in my frozen Eating Right meal!

Isn't at least 3 potstickers the norm??


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 1016 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
SandAway
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Member # 37775
Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, May 10th (Friday)

If my last name was Moore

My sons first and middle name would be Mount Rush

off the wall thought today, carry on


fWW
BH Tred
M 18yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


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silverhopes
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Member # 32753
Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, May 10th (Friday)

^^^

Totally stealing that! Thank you for the smile.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, May 10th (Friday)

No matter how much you back up your computer, you will lose something you needed once the thing randomly decides that today it's going to re-install a bunch of old default files. The help desk wont call for a week while you have to use Google docs to do your job and call them every 2 hours. And while you've suggested every few hours or so that they just take it and give you a new one,and then ultimately do, you will not have backed up everything you need, and spend the weekend worrying about it.

Just sayin.


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{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, May 10th (Friday)

(((BR's computer)))

just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

Okay, so really? You're going to charge me $100.00 for drilling three holes? Give me the damn drill I'll drill the holes myself. Just sayin'!

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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

I'm really really reallllllllly regretting my naive, last-minute decision to give grocery store sushi a shot. Someone shoot me. In the stomach. Oh, God...

Just ... ugh ...


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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Getting to Happy
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Default  Posted: 2:12 AM, May 23rd (Thursday)

Isn't at least 3 potstickers the norm??

LOL

Just Sayin'


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Default  Posted: 2:23 AM, May 23rd (Thursday)

A beat black t-shirt and sorta beat black mini, paired with fug patent plastic wedge ankle sandals isn't really "meet the new pres of company" wear, kwim?



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Default  Posted: 2:50 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)

If I were a landlord, I'm not sure I'd pick "only four minute walk from the liquor store" as my Craigslist headline. Sure, it's a selling point, but is that really the demographic of your ideal renter?


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Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)

I posted in FB about my YMCA earworm. Now Every time someone comments on it, and I look at it, the song gets back into my head. That wasnt very smart of me.

Just sayin.


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{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
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Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, May 27th (Monday)

DD, It's a darn good thing you're cute.

just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, May 28th (Tuesday)

it's after Memorial Day...it should be illegal to wear Uggs or fur lined boots...No honey, it's not cute when you're wearing shorts and a tank top. It's "special" in the where's my crayons kind of way.

[This message edited by luv_lost at 1:40 PM, May 28th (Tuesday)]


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WH 33
DS1 8 yrs.
DS2 1 yr.

Anniversary 6/09/04
DDay 6/27/09
Wedding 3/15/12
DDay2 5/5/13

presently working towards...well i don't know anymore...


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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, June 3rd (Monday)

I get that many people wanted the text feature for SImplicity, and I get the MH had to put effort onto it, but I still think the only good use of texting is to send an NC message to an ap. Just sayin'....

Perhaps this is a generational difference.

[This message edited by sisoon at 6:02 PM, June 3rd (Monday)]


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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, June 3rd (Monday)

I'm really loving the new text feature on SImplicity! MH rules. Just sayin.

(I think you're right, sisoon - it just might be a generational thing)


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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, June 3rd (Monday)

To my landlady if I go complain to you about all the banging sounds you make everyday and you tell me you don't know what's causing it and then 5 minutes after I get back downstairs it happens again louder then ever it is not something your unaware of. Don't be surprised if the next time you have a party until 4am that the cops show up due to a noise complaint, just sayin.




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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

If I become a nudist it will be solely to reduce the stress of packing for vacations.

Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Game of Thrones.. you make me want to drink. And I don't drink. I hate you.
Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 7:30 AM, June 6th (Thursday)

My DD's science teacher is awesome. She knows how to save my sanity. Just sayin'

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Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)

Dont click the "email me" button by mistake.

When it's a birthday thread.

Just sayin.


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Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Default  Posted: 11:16 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, June 17th (Monday)

I think it must be Channing Tatum week on Dish Network and I am loving it. He is so hot. Also 20 years too young for me. Wonder if his Dad is hot. And available. Just sayin'

Oh, and thank you all the gods for satellite TV and naked butt shots. REALLY just sayin'

[This message edited by kernel at 8:47 PM, June 17th (Monday)]


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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, June 17th (Monday)

I have Dish, and yet I have no Tatum tuckus. Channel indicators would be most helpful. Just sayin.


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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, June 17th (Monday)

Nik -In my neck of the woods, it's been free HBO and Starz channels all weekend and again tonight, channels 299-356. Magic Mike and the Vow both have the butt shots. Not my favorites movies of his, but Tatum tuckus in both! (Is that how you spell tuckus - always wondered?!)


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, June 17th (Monday)

It's how I spell it, but I was raised Catholic, not Jewish. Your mileage may vary.

Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

It's TUCHUS.

Just spellin'.


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Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Attention whores get on my last damned nerve

Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Really???? That's it, that's all I've got! You will never change. Sometimes I think you just say shit just because you're trying to convince only yourself that the lies you spew are the truth. You think if you say it enough times then it will be true.

Nobody else believes a damn word out of your mouth. So,.... Really??? Shut the hell up and only tell me stuff that matters.

Just sayin'!


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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, June 21st (Friday)

It's how I spell it, but I was raised Catholic, not Jewish. Your mileage may vary.

I was raised Catholic too ... but I recovered ...

Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, June 21st (Friday)

It's a good thing there isn't a limit on how many times a person can watch Safe Haven.


Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, June 27th (Thursday)

1. There was beer
2. There was wine
3. I just completed a 10 month contract, and I'm really going to miss (some of) my clients. They took me out tonight.
4. But most of all, after beer and wine, I miss my sweetie.
5. The LD part of LDR's suck. I want to hug her.

Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 12:27 AM, June 27th (Thursday)

When asked today by the psych eval lady how I felt about my childhood growing up I answered, "Unsatisfactory".

That's the result of too many multiple choice questions given to me in my lifetime. Just sayin'.


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Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, June 27th (Thursday)

You have NO idea that my niceness is just a ruse! What an idiot!!

Just sayin'


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Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, June 27th (Thursday)

5. The LD part of LDR's suck.

Word.


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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 2:50 PM, June 28th (Friday)

Don't try to mask your judgment as a "joke". If you're going to judge me, just go ahead with it. There's no need to "joke" about how you love a good bargain enough to encourage child labor practices overseas too... after asking where I got my shirt.

Bitch.

Just sayin'.


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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

I think it is rather rude that the Sandwiches for Dinner "topic is full" and some of us have not yet had dinner. Thanks for sharin'.

Just sayin'.


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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

Wait, what? Can you not post on it?

#jussayin?!?!


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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

While driving I saw some guy put his laptop on the outside portion of his window air conditioner. Then he started doing jumping jacks in front of the open laptop. Random, but it made me laugh.

just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 11:44 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

"In my imagination, all my dolls are real"


no, I can't take one more step towards you...cuz all that's waiting is regret...

there's just too much that time cannot erase

dday 9/11/08

And the more I know, the less I understand

Because of you...I am afraid...


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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, July 3rd (Wednesday)

some guy put his laptop on the outside portion of his window air conditioner

This would frighten me, considering how easily those things fall out of windows.

Just sayin'.


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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday)

The day goes by SO MUCH FASTER when it's your day off than it does when you're stuck at work. I hate that.

Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 1:22 AM, July 6th (Saturday)

A window air conditioner from the 1950's is not as cool as it looks. Just sayin'


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Dday Dec. 2009

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Default  Posted: 5:49 AM, July 6th (Saturday)

This whole work, no work, work, no work schedule has really confused my sleep cycle. Just sayin'.


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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 7:49 AM, July 6th (Saturday)

While at age 4 you may know "hands are not for hitting" if you harass your 3 year old sister long after she's told you to stop-she may wallop you on the head. Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, July 6th (Saturday)

We're gonna rock down to electric avenue and then we'll take it higher. zroommmm.

I need a new song in my head.

just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, July 6th (Saturday)

Jo, sing "Jesus loves me" twice through aloud. Should get just about any song out of your head.


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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, July 6th (Saturday)

Thank you, Ama.
just sayin'

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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, July 6th (Saturday)

Life without SI is not the same as life with it...just sayin'...miss you all.


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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, July 6th (Saturday)

It's July 6th now. Aren't you done with all the damn firecrackers yet?!?!? Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, July 7th (Sunday)

Note to self: When riding at high altitudes it is best to put on sunscreen before you start the ride. I feel like a B-52's posterboy.

Just sayin'.


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"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
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Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, July 8th (Monday)

You know you are talking to your wondertwin when your phone call lasts three and half hours but feels like it was fifteen minutes long.

Justsayin.


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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, July 8th (Monday)

...and covers everything from earwigs to why older farm folk take baths instead of showers.

Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, July 8th (Monday)

Don't let I.T. upgrade your computer from windows XP to Windows 7 while you're on vacation and then have to try to catch up the following Monday. Where the f*#&$k is the toolbar in Word? Why won't it stay put? Why are my icons all so small? What happened to all of my recent documents? #*@*$)#&%$)*#)&%#$_#!!!!!!

Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, July 8th (Monday)

jo2love -

I've had the Chicken Dance in my head today.

jS


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{Me} FWW - 45
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, July 8th (Monday)

why DO older farm folk take baths instead of showers?
Inquiring minds wanna know.

JS


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{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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Wink  Posted: 11:11 PM, July 8th (Monday)

Kernel:

Where the f*#&$k is the toolbar in Word?

Instructions
(1) Right-click on your Windows 7 task bar.
(2)Click "Toolbars" to see a list of all toolbars you can add to the task bar in Windows 7. The toolbars are listed in this window depends largely on who manufactured your computer as well as what software you have installed on it.

(3)Click the name of a toolbar to add it to your task bar in Windows 7.

Why won't it stay put?

Right click the task bar, click properties, and then UNCHECK the autohide task bar in the "Taskbar" tab.

Why are my icons all so small?

Right-click the desktop, point to View, and then click Large Icons, Medium Icons, or Classic Icons. (Classic icons are the smallest size.)

What happened to all of my recent documents? #*@*$)#&%$)*#)&%#$_#!!!!!!

1. Right click on Start button (Windows orb) and select Properties .
2. Ensure that Start Menu tab is selected and click on Customize...
3. Scroll down, items are sorted alphabetically, and put a check next to Recent Items .
4. Click OK to accept and OK again to close the Task and Start Menu Properties window.

You will now see Recent Items available in your Start Menu.

What happens when a sort of techie person who cant stand not to help sees this kind of question in JS? She finds the answers.

eta: Just Sayin

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 11:12 PM, July 8th (Monday)]


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{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
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Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, July 8th (Monday)

JS Q&A

why DO older farm folk take baths instead of showers?

Well, I'll tell you, as 1.8% of our globally comprehensive "little chat" involved unraveling this little mystery.

Apparently, many older farmhouses got their water via well, and in the boondockier parts of town having an in-house water heater wasn't common practice.

Therefore, you could take a cold-ass shower or you could heat some water on the stove and take a nice cozy bath.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

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Default  Posted: 5:58 AM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Thanks BR! I spent more time googling things than I did getting any work done. So frustrating. Next time I'll just PM you!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Therefore, you could take a cold-ass shower or you could heat some water on the stove and take a nice cozy bath.

That's our theory and we're sticking to it.


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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Getting a text from your guy that he just saved someone's life is maybe the biggest turn-on ever.

Just sayin'.


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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Whew, Ama. Fanning myself here!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, July 12th (Friday)

Random thought: Goddamn NVC training. Now all the voices in my head use "I" statements. F##king "I" statements make you sound narcissistic, even though you're trying to sound "gentler". Way to go NVC. Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
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Default  Posted: 9:58 AM, July 15th (Monday)

I need to stop looking at new cell phones. I love my cell phone. I hardly even use it since I got a tablet. I don't need a new cell phone. I just got a new cell phone in November.

Yet every summer I get the itch for some new toy.

Ama needs to learn to close to browser window instead of running google searches to compare models and features. Just sayin'.


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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, July 15th (Monday)

5 Weeks ago I got a very severe case of the flu - then double ear and sinus infection, then Upper respritory infection (still fighting the gunk) with Pink Eye as a cherry....Now I have strep....WTF?!?

AND

They hired a new doctor.... they get a start up account for here where we work....1 and a half times my annual salary (JEALOUS)

Just sayin


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Him: 39 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, July 15th (Monday)

Little bullies on the playground grow up to be big bullies in the workplace......*sigh*........... C'mon people. No need for that.


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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, July 15th (Monday)

5 Weeks ago I got a very severe case of the flu - then double ear and sinus infection, then Upper respritory infection (still fighting the gunk) with Pink Eye as a cherry....Now I have strep....WTF?!?

Sweet tap dancing Jesus. Sounds like World War Z. No craving for brains, right? Um, you're not near northern Cal, are ya? Just checkin'


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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, July 16th (Tuesday)

Idiots of the internet, the guy who writes the weather blog isn't ruining your son's birthday party. Cussing him out in the comments of the blog won't change the fact that a storm is coming.

Just sayin'.


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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, July 21st (Sunday)

I get a ton more homework done when I turn off my wifi.

Just sayin'.


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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, July 21st (Sunday)

DD, I love you more than anything in the world.

That said, for the love of everything good in this world, go...to....sleep...already.

just sayin'


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

Dear people who are getting on airplanes,

For the love of all that's holy, please bathe before you come to the airport. PLEASE????

Just sayin.


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"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

Therefore, you could take a cold-ass shower or you could heat some water on the stove and take a nice cozy bath.

Good point!


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{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, July 22nd (Monday)

You're welcome Kernel.

Hint: put your barcode scanner up to it from your phone.

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 10:05 PM, July 22nd (Monday)]


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{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 6:38 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

BR, I hate to admit it, but I don't have a barcode scanner on my phone. I intentionally do not use my phone for anything other than texting and actual (gasp) phone calls. I sit in front of a computer all day and half the night, so I leave the phone alone. That being said, I'm off to download a barcode scanner - I've been meaning to do it for a while. Thanks for pushing me!


Oh, very funny BR!!

[This message edited by kernel at 6:45 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday)]


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 7:27 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

For the love of all that's holy, please bathe before you come to the airport. PLEASE????

After taking a 13 hour one way flight, I completely agree...just sayin'


Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS15, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's
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Default  Posted: 2:50 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)

My new car's FOB has a little button that makes the car key pop out like a switchblade....Just sayin, it makes me feel tough.

[This message edited by EvenKeel at 7:20 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)]


I am always disappointed when a liar's pants actually do not catch on fire.

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Oh, yeah beautiful sunny day all day while I'm stuck inside at work and the second I get my walking shoes it starts pouring. I hate exercising indoors in the summer. Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Hotel lobby chocolate chip cookies are the best chocolate chip cookies.

Just sayin.


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Happy  Posted: 9:26 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

Some of us like eating our kid's powdered milk as treat cause tomorrow is FRIDAY and we can buy another can.

Just saying

I think I got a stomachache...



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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, July 25th (Thursday)

@kernel
Yes, yes it is.


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{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, July 28th (Sunday)

Seeing your brother's bachelor party pics on Facebook is just uncomfortable.... Even when they're just skeet shooting and drinking in some rustic bar.


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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, July 28th (Sunday)

Pretty sure I could eat an entire pumpkin pie, smothered in whipped cream (the crustless variety). But I won't. Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, July 28th (Sunday)

Yale Bologna.
1/4 lb slices.

Grill em like a steak.
Just sayin


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{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, July 29th (Monday)

NOBODY is huddling with their soccer team to talk about Probiotics! Stop being so obvious when trying to sell yogurt. Put some thought into it.

Just sayin


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{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, July 30th (Tuesday)

If you are so keen to stay healthy by running, why do you run in the road and not on the sidewalk provided. Just sayin

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, July 30th (Tuesday)

Rainbow sherbet - the perfect summer treat. The colors, the flavors, the lightness, the icy goodness. Ummmmm. Just sayin"


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Default  Posted: 4:48 AM, August 1st (Thursday)

You'd think it'd be a good thing when your earworm changes. Not so when it's every couple of hours with no pauses in between. Can't we get some peace and quiet upstairs?!?!! Oh well, that's what meditation is for, right? Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

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Default  Posted: 4:58 AM, August 1st (Thursday)

One more random thought. They say that sleep deprivation is similar in effect to intoxication. I'd say they're right. Thank goodness for autocorrect, can't seem to spell 'deprivation' correctly without it right now. Cognitive function slowdown for the win. Just sayin'.

[This message edited by silverhopes at 4:59 AM, August 1st (Thursday)]


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

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foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Where did all the TMI threads go - they usually provide for some good stacked threads. Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)

You can't tell people they are "homemade pop tarts" if the answer to "did you make them?" Is "no, the bakery did"


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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, August 13th (Tuesday)

Sometimes I need to go for a walk just to work off dinner, because my lunch was too big. Just sayin.


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{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, August 14th (Wednesday)

Dear makers of Twizzlers. Please package them so that I can remove one complete piece, not half of one. I realize they are candy twists but do they all have to be so twisted that it's impossible to get it apart....

Just say'n


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, August 16th (Friday)

I am not fooled by your calling me only when you want to make sure that your stupidity is not put in an email where your suckiness can be proven later. Check out my polite emailed confirmation of our phone conversation... suckiness in writing after all! Bwah hah hah hah!

Don't f^ck with me. I was married to the F^cker State Champ; I know all the countermoves.

Just sayin'.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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Newlease
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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, August 16th (Friday)

It's Friday, it's pay day, and the weather is perfect. But I think I'm getting sick, so all I want to do is go home, eat some ice cream, and lie down.


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, August 16th (Friday)

Trying to keep an ice pack on a five year old is like trying to hold an electric catfish...

Just say'n


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, August 16th (Friday)

Please bring back lime Skittles. Green apple sucks. Just sayin


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DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
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kernel
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, August 17th (Saturday)

When the whole freaking street is empty, you don't need to park in front of my house and block my sidewalk, rude dipshit. Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, August 22nd (Thursday)

Receiving free samples in the mail makes me .

just sayin'


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Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)

Sipping on a Mt. Dew after 2 years of no soda is better than any drug. Just sayin'

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)

So. For me it's friday.
And i got all excited because that means SPF.

Except that it doesnt.
And I now have to wait at least 16 more hours.

that sux.
Just sayin


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{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)

There is no slower hour than the last hour of the workday.

Just sayin.


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Default  Posted: 3:08 AM, August 23rd (Friday)

Dear Mr Silver, could you please teach our son some better habits? Two of *your habits* just revealed themselves today: it was sorta disgusting when son leaned over my face and wanted to pop my pimple (even said "pimple!") like you so often do, and it was slightly alarming when you said your usual "F**K!" when tripping over the toy truck and our TWO-AND-A-HALF-YEAR-OLD son repeated it right afterward - same inflection and everything. Sweetheart, can't you say something like "monkeys!!!" instead...?

Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 5:21 AM, August 24th (Saturday)

Migrainses, we hates them FOREVER!!!!! Precious!!!!!!!!!

Sleep, pretty please? Justsaying.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

Next time check the syllabus BEFORE you start reading, dumbass. Just sayin'

(sadly, I am saying this to myself )


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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movingbackwards
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

Impractical Jokers is the BEST way to cheer yourself up that I know of. A glass of wine doesn't hurt either. Just sayin!


You can crawl back home, say you were wrong
Stand out in the yard and cry all night long
Go ahead and water the lawn
My give a damn's busted!

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movingbackwards
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

Sorry for the double post. I'm tired. Just sayin.

[This message edited by movingbackwards at 8:51 PM, September 12th (Thursday)]


You can crawl back home, say you were wrong
Stand out in the yard and cry all night long
Go ahead and water the lawn
My give a damn's busted!

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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, September 13th (Friday)

So, yeah, bosses...next time you take an employee into one of your offices for a little disciplinary meeting thingee, make sure your phones are off "Speaker" cuz then the rest of us won't be able to hear what's going on.

Just sayin'...


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
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DS - 31 - Yikes!


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nowiknow23
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Shutup  Posted: 2:39 PM, September 13th (Friday)


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, September 13th (Friday)

Exactly, nik.

I'm walking through the hall, hear voices from an empty office and figure out - "Hey they're in Boss #2's office...wait...OMG!"


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
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DS - 31 - Yikes!


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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, September 13th (Friday)

Yes, you can have too much chocolate.
Just sayin.

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 7:38 PM, September 13th (Friday)]


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{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, September 14th (Saturday)

Just about anything sauteed with garlic and basil is YUmmmmmmmm! Just sayin'.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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click4it
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, September 14th (Saturday)

At age 40, I think you can decide when the dog needs to go back out to go pee. (ok mom!) just saying.


Me: 42
Two boys: 18 and 15
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, September 20th (Friday)

I dropped a dumbbell on my foot. Not exactly my swiftest move.

Just sayin'


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foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, September 20th (Friday)

I’m at work, it’s Friday and all I want to do is go home and have a beer

Just sayin’


Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, September 20th (Friday)

Switch "beer" to "wine" and I'm right there with ya!


Me - 43
DD(22), DS(20, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.


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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, September 20th (Friday)

JNRPA dropped a 45 pound weight on her foot. Now when do squats I have to load up the bar with her weights. Accident? Just saying.


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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, September 20th (Friday)

We keep beer in our office fridge.

Just sayin.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, September 20th (Friday)

I wonder if Rebreather's company is hiring.

Just sayin.


Me - 43
DD(22), DS(20, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.


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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, September 20th (Friday)

I have a full time position open in my Las Vegas office.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, September 20th (Friday)

I have a full time position open in my Las Vegas office.


Me - 43
DD(22), DS(20, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.


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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, September 20th (Friday)

It is Friday and I think I've spent more time surfin' SI today than I have spent actually working.

Just sayin.


Me - 43
DD(22), DS(20, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, September 25th (Wednesday)

Dear Colleague:

Shouting "That sweater looks like a giant bruise!" is NOT complimentary or nice. And you can't turn that statement into a compliment by tacking on, "What? I meant it in a good way."

Just sayin'


You can call me NIK

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MartlArts
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, September 25th (Wednesday)

NIK - now I want to see a picture of that sweater!

Just sayin'


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, September 25th (Wednesday)

Dear woman who was sitting in her car with the windows down. I don't care if you talk loudly to your friend while on speaker phone so the whole parking lot can hear you. Announcing that you are trying to pop a zit on your neck with tweezers is gross. Save that for when you are home in the bathroom.

Just Sayin'


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, September 25th (Wednesday)

@jo -

@MA - I'll see what I can scare up. It's a purple and black abstract floral print, so rude colleague MAY have a point. But what ever happened to filters, people???


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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, September 25th (Wednesday)

Jo2's story reminded me - I was in line to pick up carryout. Woman in front of me was saying loudly on her cell phone, " so what if she has an infected ovary, I've had 3 of them!"

I didn't know if I was more amazed that she had 3 ovaries, or that she chose to share it with everyone in the restaurant.

Just sayin'


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

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MartlArts
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Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, September 25th (Wednesday)

@ NIK, personally I love purple & black and wear them a lot. If I lived near you I'd lend you my amethyst earrings!


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, October 17th (Thursday)

In a pinch, almonds dipped in leftover chocolate frosting can totally fill in for a dessert.

Pretty sure I read that online. Yeah, that's it - online.


You can call me NIK

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, October 18th (Friday)

NIK

I didn't know if I was more amazed that she had 3 ovaries, or that she chose to share it with everyone in the restaurant.

You guys are funnier than SPF! Just sayin!


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, October 28th (Monday)

I'm sitting in a comfy chair drinking mocha at the library. 10 feet away, DD's free tutor is helping her with 2 study guides of stuff I don't remembering learning about.

This is awesome.


Just sayin'


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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, October 28th (Monday)

7 eggs, 10 yolks.
Thats three double yolks found today in my fridge.

Nature is awesome.
J/S


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{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

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foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, October 28th (Monday)

7 eggs, 10 yolks.
Thats three double yolks found today in my fridge.
Nature is awesome.

Not so sure that’s nature

just sayin’


Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, October 28th (Monday)

7 eggs, 10 yolks. That chicken is young and just started laying.
I know a few things about chickens.
Just dayin'


BH Cee64D - 50
FWW (me) - 51


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 6140 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, October 28th (Monday)

2 of them were big eggs.
One was long.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, October 28th (Monday)

Playing hide-and-seek with my 3yo is charmingly futile because:

a.) She tells me where she is going to hide

b.) She hides before I have a chance to walk away and count

c.) She shoves me out of my hiding space so she can use it before my turn

d.) The pugs keep giving us away by sitting right in front of wherever we're hiding.

The only pleasant kind of futility. Just sayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
prowoman
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Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, October 29th (Tuesday)

my two year old was running away from my WH when he was trying to put him to bed tonight and fell hard into his crotch with his head. my husband was still in the fetal position on the living room floor when i came back down after changing and putting the baby to bed

just sayin


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WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 6:17 AM, October 30th (Wednesday)


If I got the chance I would drink the beer in Rebreather's office fridge

just sayin'

whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 6302 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
MartlArts
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Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, October 30th (Wednesday)

Your day must have started badly if you were craving Rebreather's beer at 6:17 am.

Just sayin'


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

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She-Ra
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Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)

If you have time to read a magazine while on a treadmill in a gym... You have time to put it back on the wall rack and not leave them all over the floor... Just sayin


Madhatters / mid 30s
2 year old beautiful daughter
Expecting baby #2 in July

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, October 30th (Wednesday)

If you can read a magazine while on a treadmill in a gym, you're not working hard enough.

Just sayin


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
She-Ra
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Default  Posted: 1:18 AM, October 31st (Thursday)

Throwing a bunch of magazines on the floor near the treadmills is not considered part of your work-out.

Just sayin''

Seriously though... Why do people do that?


Madhatters / mid 30s
2 year old beautiful daughter
Expecting baby #2 in July

Posts: 1005 | Registered: Jul 2012
hallelujah
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Member # 32283
Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

I totally love the chemist who invented seroquel so my son can have a normal life. just sayin'

Posts: 127 | Registered: May 2011
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Halloween is a lot of fun and seeing all the costumes at work has been interesting.
That said- this is a business and the amount of skin and body parts hanging out is waaaay too much for me.
Just sayin'...


Me - 43
DD(22), DS(20, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 9253 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There
SisterMilkshake
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Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Hey, Lady, they can't hear you in aisle 20 in the Target store. Please speak even more loudly so not only do we in the 8 aisles surrounding you get to enjoy your non-English language conversation on your blue tooth, but everyone does.

just sayin'


BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 12140 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
MartlArts
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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

"Gimmee Some candy" does not equal "Trick or Treat", and silence certainly does not equal "Thank You". When my kid was still a toddler, I wouldn't let go of anything until he thanked me.

Just Sayin'


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

Posts: 1073 | Registered: Jul 2012
Tred
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Default  Posted: 1:43 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

Your day must have started badly if you were craving Rebreather's beer at 6:17 am.

You can't drink all day unless you start at 6:17am. Just sayin'


Married: 18 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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foundoutlater
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

"Peeves" make bad pets - just sayin'


Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

People should not have Christmas lights up on Halloween unless all the bulbs are orange.

Just sayin'


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, November 1st (Friday)

People - there is no M in voluptuous. You're saying it wrong, and you need to stop.

JS


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, December 12th (Thursday)

Time to bump this waaaay up...

Those who *think* they know everything about anything only make things difficult for those who actually do.

Just sayin'


BH Cee64D - 50
FWW (me) - 51


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 6140 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
DixieD
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Default  Posted: 5:37 PM, December 12th (Thursday)

I was doing online banking around the same time I was filling out Christmas cards. That's the last time I saw my bank card. It's gone.

Just sayin'


Growing forward

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, December 12th (Thursday)

$8 toy for kitten. Her reaction, "pffft whatever".

1 cheerio that costs less than a penny?
"OMG!! Best Toy EVER!!! I'm gonna bat it around the kitchen at top speed" + 20 minutes of fun.

Christmas shopping for kitty is easy.

Just sayin'


Posts: 45252 | Registered: Mar 2011
kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, December 12th (Thursday)

This is without a doubt the longest ever last week of a college semester, EVER, and I mean EVER. Just sayin'.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
PurpleBirch
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Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, December 12th (Thursday)

Dear Bailey's: I tried your Biscotti flavoured liqueur. It was nasty. Just sayin.

Dear papercut: you're an asshole. Just sayin.


Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.

DS (6), DS (18 months)

Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".

Status: Done like dinner


Posts: 277 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The frozen North, eh?
PurpleBirch
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, December 14th (Saturday)

I'm back. It's to ODS this time.

Dear ODS: if you wake your brother up from his nap (while I am also having a much-needed nap), you will have one cranky mum. You would be cranky too if you were me. Just sayin.


Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.

DS (6), DS (18 months)

Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".

Status: Done like dinner


Posts: 277 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The frozen North, eh?
kernel
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, December 14th (Saturday)

Glitter. Confetti. Sparkly evilness and utter joy all in one! Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, December 14th (Saturday)

Coconut macaroons are evil. I can't stop eating them. JS.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
PurpleBirch
Member
Member # 39170
Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, December 14th (Saturday)

My house really ought to clean itself this week. Just sayin


Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.

DS (6), DS (18 months)

Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".

Status: Done like dinner


Posts: 277 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The frozen North, eh?
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, January 4th (Saturday)

There can be only one "Just sayin' thread.

Just sayin'


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21289 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, January 4th (Saturday)

I'm bored......just saying


Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Posts: 3688 | Registered: Jan 2010
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

In another thread in another forum, it was suggested that older sibs could name younger sibs just after they're born.

I wouldn't have named my bro. I would have sent him back. Just sayin'....

I'm glad now that I didn't have the chance, though....


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

I miss the old red rice, Taco Bell....

ETA: just sayin

[This message edited by Spelljean at 5:27 PM, January 5th (Sunday)]


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 1016 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
TrustedHer
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Member # 23328
Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

Re: Taco Bell Rice

http://www.hillbillyhousewife.com/armymanrice.htm

I substitute a real onion when I make it.

Just sayin'


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5466 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
kernel
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, January 5th (Sunday)

I think I'm getting too old for this cold weather. Just sayin'.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Clarrissa
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Member # 21886
Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, January 6th (Monday)

It's just Too. Damned. COLD!

Just sayin'...


BH Cee64D - 50
FWW (me) - 51


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 6140 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, January 6th (Monday)

Just asked DD3.5 what she would name a sibling if we ever had one (NOT pregnant - see above posts for reference)

Name #1: Chonteen

Name #2: Collie

Name #3: Peejathow


Hypothetical naming rights revoked. Jussayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
unfound
Member
Member # 12802
Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, January 6th (Monday)

There's nothing wrong with letting siblings name their younger siblings. DD did just fine with her brothers. DS1 (sporty spice) and DS2 (furbie) are pretty well adjusted*.

just sayin'


*actual suggestions from DD. We vetoed them.

[This message edited by unfound at 8:19 PM, January 6th (Monday)]


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*************
Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, January 7th (Tuesday)

When I see a LinkedIn alert that one of my recently graduated grad school classmates has a new job, I don't expect it to be "Lead Sales Associate" at Bath and Body Works. Just sayin'.

And if that makes me judgmental, I think I'm okay with being judgmental. Just sayin' that too.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14396 | Registered: Jul 2011
silverhopes
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Member # 32753
Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, January 7th (Tuesday)

Why is it that the days that there's the most to be done are also the days when it's most tempting to go back to sleep? Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
DixieD
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Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, January 14th (Tuesday)

This is just a test. Nothing to see here. JS.


Growing forward

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, January 14th (Tuesday)

Supernatural is back! And nothing pleases me more than a Dean, Cas, and Crowley road trip.

Just sayin.


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


Posts: 36095 | Registered: Aug 2011
MartlArts
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Member # 36130
Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, January 17th (Friday)

Once again, late on a Friday afternoon, wishing everyone else in the office would leave so I wouldn't be the first slacker to start the weekend. I'm caught up and don't feel like starting anything else right now.

Just sayin'


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

Posts: 1073 | Registered: Jul 2012
kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, January 17th (Friday)

It's probably not a good sign when 10 minutes of using the snowblower leaves you smelling like you pumped gas all day and spilled it on yourself. Just sayin'.

[This message edited by kernel at 8:31 AM, January 18th (Saturday)]


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Edith
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Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, January 24th (Friday)

When you are hosting a conference call, it is advisable (strongly) to eat your lunch either before or after the call (instead of during)...and then announcing to everyone what you are eating during the mastication and deglutition phase....gross!!!

Just sayin'

E.


The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it. John 1:5

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HUFI-PUFI
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Member # 25460
Default  Posted: 9:55 AM, January 24th (Friday)

why oh why does it always have to be some 76 year old that wins the damn lottery? Why not me!!!

Just saying.


Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3300 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
purplejacket4
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Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, January 24th (Friday)

If you are too stupid to know what marital status means on a health history form you are too stupid to be in college. Just Sayin''.


Me: BS 47
Her: FWS 50 (both family med MDs; together 20 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

Posts: 2949 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Here
Rebreather
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Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, January 24th (Friday)

It's too damn warm here. I want to go skiing!

just sayin


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 7664 | Registered: Jan 2011
Edith
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Member # 38337
Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Oh, and just because word's end with S doe's not mean they "need" apostrophe's. Drive's me nut's

Just sayin'

E.

[This message edited by Edith at 12:15 PM, January 24th (Friday)]


The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it. John 1:5

Posts: 563 | Registered: Feb 2013
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, January 24th (Friday)


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


Posts: 36095 | Registered: Aug 2011
musiclovingmom
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Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, January 24th (Friday)

The reality that your small town isn't so small anymore really hits home when Outback's call ahead seating is booked solid until 8pm.
Just sayin'

Posts: 1539 | Registered: Jan 2013
mystified1970
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Happy  Posted: 6:22 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Feeling very thankful for my job and amazing class of kiddos. Great class parents this year and seriously, it's just wonderful that I at least have that! However, international school teaching has ruined me for ever going back to a regular school. Where to next? South America perhaps?


heavy sigh

Posts: 89 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Asia
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, January 24th (Friday)

Being sick sucks!!!


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3952 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Dobegirl
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Member # 41837
Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, January 25th (Saturday)

Wishing kisses fixed everything like it did when we were kids...

Just sayin


Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, OL profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
DDay-11/21/12...and many more
False R 2 LONG years
Time is a thief when your undecided

Posts: 159 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northern Indiana
BAB61
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Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 12:19 AM, January 26th (Sunday)

I love that my daughter bakes ... so I don't have to! Just sayin'


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
HUFI-PUFI
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Member # 25460
Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, January 26th (Sunday)

I hate it that the snow plow always seems to do the road about a hour after I just finished shoveling the driveway! just sayin ..


Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3300 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
kernel
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, January 26th (Sunday)

Going back to college classes is not giving me the satisfaction I thought it would. I just resent the time and money I spend on it. I'm thinking of withdrawing after this term. Just sayin'.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, January 26th (Sunday)

Do NOT challenge my 3 year old as to whether she is a monkey or not if you are in the middle of a restaurant. She will drop her pants to prove she has no tail.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
kernel
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Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 10:52 PM, January 26th (Sunday)

^^^^^


There is nothing better than getting a freebie day off from work, even if it's due to cold and snow. Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
TrustedHer
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Member # 23328
Default  Posted: 12:14 AM, January 27th (Monday)

Weather again.

How does it go from 55 and gorgeous, walk-in-the-woods weather this afternoon to 6 degrees by morning?

I'm confused. Just sayin'


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5466 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 5:08 AM, January 27th (Monday)


All this snow sucks!
Just sayin'

whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 6302 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, January 27th (Monday)

Movie Frozen hits this winter.

Record cold and snow in Michigan.

Coincidence? I think not. Lookit her face.

....just sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Dobegirl
Member
Member # 41837
Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, January 29th (Wednesday)

The Broncos are going to win the Superbowl...
Just Sayin!!


Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, OL profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
DDay-11/21/12...and many more
False R 2 LONG years
Time is a thief when your undecided

Posts: 159 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northern Indiana
musiclovingmom
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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, January 30th (Thursday)

I wish my baby's tooth would just come through already. I'm tired of him being in pain. Just sayin'.

Posts: 1539 | Registered: Jan 2013
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 2:04 AM, February 1st (Saturday)

I can tell I'm PMS'ing when Hershey's syrup and a spoon sounds like a good idea. Just sayin'.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14396 | Registered: Jul 2011
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, February 1st (Saturday)

Getting rid of excess weight - who knew kicking his cheating ass was the BEST way!! lol Just sayin'!


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, February 5th (Wednesday)

John Elway is right.

You never really get over losing a Super Bowl.

Or five.

Just sayin'...


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21289 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
HUFI-PUFI
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Member # 25460
Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, February 5th (Wednesday)

getting rejection letters after the 3rd round of job hunting hurts ... just a little bit ... just sayin


Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3300 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, February 6th (Thursday)

((((HUFI))))

I get this. I really get this.

Sigh.


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21289 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, February 6th (Thursday)


The guy driving the snow plow that just deposited 2 1/2 feet of snow in my freshly cleaned driveway--needs to be shot in the face with a bazooka

just sayin'

whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 6302 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
musiclovingmom
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Member # 38207
Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, February 8th (Saturday)

Getting to sleep until 7 is so much more fulfilling when you actually fall asleep before midnight and don't wake up from 4:30-6:00. Just sayin'.

Posts: 1539 | Registered: Jan 2013
BAB61
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Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 11:51 PM, February 9th (Sunday)

Listening to 4 teens talk about "remember when" is just cracking me up ... all the way back in 2008!!! roflmao ... just sayin'


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
Amazonia
Member
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 4:33 AM, February 10th (Monday)

Walking past a construction site while the 19 year old construction boys hose each other down from all the dust, every muscled inch of them...I realized my libido is alive and well. Just sayin'.

(Sorry to all who are living in the cold...it's beautiful out here at the equator!)


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14396 | Registered: Jul 2011
pmal64
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Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, February 10th (Monday)

getting that call that says your job has been outsourced sucks.
~just saying


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BS-me-50
fWH -54

Posts: 586 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: down south
TheRealDeal
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Member # 39560
Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, February 13th (Thursday)

shoveling 10+ inches of snow from my double-wide, long driveway really sucks. just sayin'

and I swear that plow-driver was just waitin' for me to get "done" before he came by and threw another 2 feet at the end. just sayin'

and lastly, I definitely know without any doubt that a move south is in the future. just sayin'


Me (BS): 47 him (Xws): 55
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March - June 2013
Dday4 + June 2015 through January 2016
Status: done I called it quits 1-6-2016
The hardest part of letting go is realizing there wasn't much left to hold on to

Posts: 467 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Northeast
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:33 PM, February 16th (Sunday)

Be careful when throwing cat springy toys. When they bounce off the floor, they can pop back up, and hit you in the cornea. Time for an ice pack.


Just sayin'

[This message edited by SI Staff at 2:34 PM, February 16th (Sunday)]


Posts: 45252 | Registered: Mar 2011
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, February 16th (Sunday)

Some days I just want my mommy to come and take care of everything, like she did when I was 5 ... just sayin'


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
WarehouseGuy
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Member # 6037
Default  Posted: 5:14 AM, February 20th (Thursday)

There really was a driveway under all that ice I scraped yesterday. I haven't seen it in a month.

just sayin'


whg

[This message edited by WarehouseGuy at 5:41 AM, February 20th (Thursday)]


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 6302 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
HUFI-PUFI
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Member # 25460
Default  Posted: 5:48 AM, February 20th (Thursday)

god, some days I really really want a holodeck like the one on Star Trek ... just sayin


Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3300 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
Jpapageorge
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Member # 31800
Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, February 21st (Friday)

For the health and safety of all involved, when someone calls the local cable company to check on an internet outage, it would be best if there was not a pre-recorded message saying, "Did you know you can check on the status of high speed internet problems by logging on to www.(insertnameofcablecompanyhere)/myaccount?"

Just sayin'.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1923 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
gahurts
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Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, February 21st (Friday)

getting rejection letters after the 3rd round of job hunting hurts ... just a little bit ... just sayin

You get actual letters?? I just get a phone call from the headhunter saying that they are not moving forward. Oh well... NEXT!


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3952 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
gahurts
Member
Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, February 21st (Friday)

So Verizon sends me a paper letter thanking me for enrolling in Paperless Billing to save the environment. HUH??!?

Just saying - seems stupid to me.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3952 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Lucky2HaveMe
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Member # 13333
Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

I am too old to stay up drinking until 2 a.m... just sayin'


Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

Posts: 8255 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
MartlArts
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Member # 36130
Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, February 24th (Monday)

The Polar Vortex can bite my butt!

Just sayin'


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

Posts: 1073 | Registered: Jul 2012
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, February 24th (Monday)

Mine too.
Also sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
MartlArts
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Member # 36130
Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, February 27th (Thursday)

Here in 'Cubicle World', why is it that when some folks wear full headphones for their conference calls, they feel compelled to SHOUT? Those of us nearby need full headphones just to drown them out. Just sayin'


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

Posts: 1073 | Registered: Jul 2012
HurtsButImOK
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Member # 38865
Default  Posted: 3:05 AM, March 5th (Wednesday)

Dear staff,

Being provided company funded morning tea is not a work right and shouldn't take up hours of my time. The bitching and whinging will cease or morning tea will no longer be provided.

Just saying


Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou


Posts: 759 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
Amazonia
Member
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, March 10th (Monday)

Every time I see the thread in IT, "Anyone know anything about cookies???" my internal monologue says, "Yes, they are delicious!"

Just sayin'.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14396 | Registered: Jul 2011
kernel
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Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, March 10th (Monday)

I'm pretty sure I've shoveled about 90 feet of snow out of the walkway where the plow leaves me a deposit every other freaking day. Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
lovehatelove
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Member # 42541
Default  Posted: 6:16 AM, March 11th (Tuesday)

I HATE putting groceries away.....!!!!

just sayin'....


DDay ~ 2/23/13

Posts: 163 | Registered: Feb 2014
wincings_sparkle
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Member # 27129
Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, March 12th (Wednesday)

Supervisor tells me, "We are going to be changing the EHR system that we use and everyone will have to be retrained on the new system."

This makes me

Just saying.


"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light

Posts: 1613 | Registered: Jan 2010
Lola2kids
Member
Member # 32789
Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, March 13th (Thursday)

Being told today that I have to cover at another work location that is even FURTHER from my home than the location I am at now.

Just sayin'


BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1812 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, March 13th (Thursday)

The guy behind me on the city bus is cutting his fingernails. And something just landed in my hair.

Just saying.


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


Posts: 36095 | Registered: Aug 2011
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, March 13th (Thursday)


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

Posts: 49707 | Registered: Sep 2007
pmal64
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, March 13th (Thursday)

ewww.


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BS-me-50
fWH -54

Posts: 586 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: down south
Lola2kids
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Member # 32789
Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, March 14th (Friday)

That is so gross NIK.


BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1812 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
knight
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Member # 36859
Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, March 14th (Friday)

Dear mom who rushed her child to the ER because she turned blue at home, please get off your cell phone (chatting with girlfriend about last nights party) when the doctor is asking you questions. Just sayin'.


BH 40s
fWW (her) 40s
D-day Aug 2012
M 16
kids - 3 beautiful ones, DD22, DD14, DS10

Always be yourself, but always be your better self. - Karl G. Maeser
- - - - - - -
Dyslexic...please ignore my spelling.


Posts: 59 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Hell
knightsbff
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Member # 36853
Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, March 14th (Friday)

NIK, I would have been shaking my hair like a lunatic!


fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 23, 16, 12. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.


Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, March 14th (Friday)

Oh, honey - I nearly came unglued. I'm sure people thought I was having seizures.


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


Posts: 36095 | Registered: Aug 2011
inconnu
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Member # 24518
Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, March 18th (Tuesday)

To all the people in that department at work - your failure to fucking plan ahead is not my fucking crisis. Do your own damn grunt work and leave me the fuck alone.

Just sayin'...

Signed: one tired, cranky receptionist


Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing we'll ever do. ~ Brené Brown

Posts: 12586 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartof, Texas
lieshurt
Member
Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, March 18th (Tuesday)

Oh Inconnu, that was a good one...just sayin'


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

Posts: 14685 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
ISPIFFD
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Member # 26367
Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, March 18th (Tuesday)

To the staff guy at my dog's daycare, waiting till Friday at 6pm to tell me that my dog -- who's always been the darling of the entire daycare staff -- is "really a jerk!" doesn't help me understand what the problem is or what I can do about it or why I didn't hear about it earlier in the week before it got to that level of jerkitude.

just sayin...


I'm done here; sick of 2 x 4s

Posts: 2057 | Registered: Nov 2009
knightsbff
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Member # 36853
Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, March 20th (Thursday)

Dear GiGi the German Shepherd,
Just because the neighbor's purse dog is little does not mean it likes being picked up and carried around and cuddled by you. If you don't like your nose nipped stop picking up the cranky little dog.

Just sayin'....


fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 23, 16, 12. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.


Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, March 20th (Thursday)

Oh, and...Moooooo???? If you are out there? This is my 980th post. Counting down.

Just say in'...


fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 23, 16, 12. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.


Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, March 20th (Thursday)

You're on the radar


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 54358 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, March 20th (Thursday)

Don't you "love" it when you get a song stuck in your head, but you don't remember all the words, so your brain pops random stuff in there instead?

I'm pretty sure the New Kids on The Block (what decade are we in?) did not add cartoon characters from Nickelodeon into their lyrics.

Listen up everybody if you wanna take a chance
Just get on the floor and Jimmy Neutron dance
Don't worry about nothing cause it won't take long
We're gonna put you in a trance with the funky song
Cause you gotta be...
(Chorus) Hangin' tough

I think I need a nap.


Just sayin'

[This message edited by SI Staff at 5:17 PM, March 20th (Thursday)]


Posts: 45252 | Registered: Mar 2011
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, March 20th (Thursday)

I'm pretty sure the New Kids on The Block (what decade are we in?) did not add cartoon characters from Nickelodeon into their lyrics.


Me - 43
DD(22), DS(20, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 9253 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 5:44 PM, March 20th (Thursday)

FIRST DAY OF SPRING!!!!!!

--just sayin


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
DragnHeart
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Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, March 22nd (Saturday)

Dear Neighbours who are to lazy and irresponsible to stoop and scoop or put their damn dog on a leash (on THEIR side of the house), you will one day wake up to find all your dogs crap piled in front of your door or placed just in front of ALL your vehicle tires...

Just say'n...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, March 25th (Tuesday)

@ Dragn

You know, doing the birthdays is so great, especially when you get so many thanks from the cake receivers. Its a wonderful job. Just sayin!


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, March 25th (Tuesday)

you will one day wake up to find all your dogs crap piled in front of your door
I did that once to our old non-poop-pickin'-up neighbor.

It felt good.

Just sayin'


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

Posts: 49707 | Registered: Sep 2007
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, March 25th (Tuesday)

You rock, AN


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
MovingUpward
Member
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 7:27 AM, March 26th (Wednesday)

Someone just got the post party they eluded to a page ago. Congrats! Just sayin'


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 54358 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
silverhopes
Member
Member # 32753
Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, April 7th (Monday)

Paul Heyman and Gilbert Gottfried should have a screeching competition.

Just sayin'.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday)

Dude, That's messed up. Think of others next time.


Just Sayin'


Posts: 45252 | Registered: Mar 2011
DepressedDaddy
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Member # 41521
Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday)

"If you're like me – you like talking to things. Like…Hello Lamp. Hello Pants"

Just 'Busey' Saying


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


Posts: 1255 | Registered: Dec 2013
norabird
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Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday)

I know you're behind me on the stairs but I can't go any faster. Cool it.

Just sayin


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 11:09 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday)

Quit farting in your cubicle, boss. When I can hear you tilting sideways in your chair immediately before ripping one, it makes it even that much more gross and disgusting. When I can hear you even though I have my headphones on, that makes it monumentally more gross and disgusting. And no, this does not mean to come into my cubicle to rip a silent but deadly one to force my quick exit before I die of asphyxiation and/or methane gas poisoning, as you have done in the past. Go to the bathroom... go outside... book a conference room if you have to. Leave me out of it. PLEASE.

Just sayin


Posts: 22710 | Registered: Dec 2010
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, May 2nd (Friday)

Yes, I have brushed my child's teeth while she was asleep. Just Sayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
SisterMilkshake
Member
Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, May 2nd (Friday)

Dear Inconsiderate pooper at Target in the Unisex restroom. Please, if you poop on the toilet seat, can you be kind enough to clean up your own shit so you don't make the person who comes in next gag. Sheesh, you wipe the shit off your ass, is it so difficult to clean it off the seat? And, BTW, WHY ARE YOU SHITTING ON THE SEAT????!!!!!??????????? ...............................just sayin'.

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 11:22 PM, May 2nd (Friday)]


BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 12140 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
karmahappens
Member
Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 11:36 PM, May 2nd (Friday)

Working the night shift really screws with my desire to have a cocktail after work...

Just sayin...


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3993 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
norabird
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Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 12:04 AM, May 3rd (Saturday)

Dear teenagers, we know: you have hormones. You don't have to talk at the level of a bullhorn for us to get it.

Just sayin


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Amazonia
Member
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 3:03 AM, May 3rd (Saturday)

No, I haven't left the house today. And yes, I've gradually consumed an entire bottle of chilled rose shiraz, alone. And I'm just fine with that. Just sayin'.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14396 | Registered: Jul 2011
sisoon
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Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, May 7th (Wednesday)

OK...SPF is super, great, wonderful, beyond compare, nothing equals it for laughs.

The Quotes thread is almost as good, though.

Just sayin'....


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
DepressedDaddy
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Member # 41521
Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, May 8th (Thursday)

SisterMilkshake...this is hilarious

Dear Inconsiderate pooper at Target in the Unisex restroom. Please, if you poop on the toilet seat, can you be kind enough to clean up your own shit so you don't make the person who comes in next gag. Sheesh, you wipe the shit off your ass, is it so difficult to clean it off the seat? And, BTW, WHY ARE YOU SHITTING ON THE SEAT????!!!!!??????????? ...............................just sayin'.

To add to this idea of shit...

To those people that let there dogs roam my neighborhood and shit anywhere and everywhere they want, mainly my yard, I am going to collect my DD diapers for a week and dump them in your yard and see how you like that. I'll put them out there on a real hot day too! [BTW, I know this sounds disgusting, it just frustrates the hell out of me to step in someone else's dog shit in my own yard.]

Just sayin'


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


Posts: 1255 | Registered: Dec 2013
MartlArts
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Member # 36130
Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, May 8th (Thursday)

Sister M,

Re, the pooper post, I had to check your profile to see if bychance you lived near me. (Doesn't look like it.) I have an acquaintance who does exactly what you described. Ever since gastric bypass, evidently the guy runs "loose". Whenever one of us has a gathering at their home and this guy's included, we take turns being on "poop patrol", notifying the hostess if the bathroom needs cleaning after he's used it. He seems oblivious ~ how can you NOT notice you just crapped on the toilet seat? If it were me I'd be mortified and take Clorox wipes everywhere I went.

Sorry for the gross tmi, it just blows my mind that someone does this routinely at other's homes! And I guess none of us want to have 'that' conversation with him.

Edited to add:just sayin'!

[This message edited by MartlArts at 2:16 PM, May 8th (Thursday)]


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

Posts: 1073 | Registered: Jul 2012
Jpapageorge
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Member # 31800
Default  Posted: 3:42 AM, May 12th (Monday)

My dear fellow employees,
Please keep in mind that I hear everything so, when I help a coworker who is putting in extra effort and you try to scandalize my help through gossip and insinuations, please refrain from getting your undergarments in an uncomfortable assemblage when I decline the opportunity to assist you (even though you were 30 minutes late and found it necessary to spend most of your shift solving the world's problems via facebook and text messages).

Just sayin'.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

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Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, May 12th (Monday)

Hot weather can really suck sometimes.

Just sayin'


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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, May 29th (Thursday)

Dear Windshield Replacement Dude,

You are maybe 20 years old, so I know you're lacking in life experience. I feel the need to let you in on a little secret. The only women you should address as "Dear" are significant others and elderly blue haired ladies you help across the street.

Seeing as I do not fit either of those categories, you need to stop calling me that. Just saying.


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, May 29th (Thursday)

Dear old work computer that blew up. Thank you for hobbling along just long enough for me to retrieve all of my data from your hard drive before taking your last dying CPU cycle. I have never had a computer that was that loyal to me. I love you for that, even though you were kind of a piece of junk. Fare thee well.

Just sayin'


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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, May 29th (Thursday)

If you are going to lie about where you are, you probably shouldn't have posted that pic of you in the hot tub drinking wine on FB... just sayin'


Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

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Default  Posted: 1:24 AM, May 30th (Friday)

I can totally read Thriller/Horror books before I go to bed because I know they're just pretend... but I put the book on the floor instead of the nightstand jusssst in case. Just sayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

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Default  Posted: 3:39 AM, May 30th (Friday)

Dear Windshield Replacement Dude,

You are maybe 20 years old, so I know you're lacking in life experience. I feel the need to let you in on a little secret: Next time use sweetie/sweetheart/sweetiepie, sugar/sug/sugarpie, honey/hun, darlin or muffin.

When the plastic surgeon asks you what happened to your face, you can tell her you met the Empress. Just sayin'.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1923 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, May 30th (Friday)


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, June 2nd (Monday)

I read in a patient's chart today that they had passed out on the toilet while "poopsterbating". WTH? I had to look it up on Urban Dictionary...

This guy has taken multi-tasking to a whole new level. He left the ER with some staples in his head...the one on top of his shoulders!

Never do anything you aren't willing to have to explain to the paramedics or ER staff...

just sayin'


Me 45
FWH 47
DS11, DD18, DS21(they know nothing about A)
Married 23 years together 25
Dday 09/24/2010
"You can't control how others behave, you can only control your reaction."

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Tred
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, June 2nd (Monday)

poopsterbating

I am so not Googling that. Just saying.


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D-Day: 11/09/11
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, June 2nd (Monday)

poopsterbating

I am so not Googling that. Just saying.

I probably will later - certainly not doing so at work. I am sure I will deeply regret it too, but I'll look it up anyway. Just saying.


As life gets longer, awful feels softer and it feels pretty soft to me. If it takes shit to make bliss then I feel pretty blissfully. If life's not beautiful without the pain, then I'd rather never see beauty again.
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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, June 2nd (Monday)

I'm no genius, but I'm pretty sure that one doesn't need to be Googled. Just sayin'.


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MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, June 2nd (Monday)

I'm no genius, but I'm pretty sure that one doesn't need to be Googled. Just sayin'.

Oh, I have a pretty good idea, and I expect I'll be right. But I'll still Google it later, and I'll be ashamed of myself for doing so

just sayin'

[This message edited by MadeOfScars at 3:59 PM, June 2nd (Monday)]


As life gets longer, awful feels softer and it feels pretty soft to me. If it takes shit to make bliss then I feel pretty blissfully. If life's not beautiful without the pain, then I'd rather never see beauty again.
-Modest Mouse

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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, June 2nd (Monday)

WTF?

Just sayin'.....that is all


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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, June 2nd (Monday)

Thank you Kirklands for the very slight flaw in a beautiful $99 lamp that allowed me to get it for $25

Just sayin'


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Divorced 2010

1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years.
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem

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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, June 2nd (Monday)

Guiness, I am green with envy b/c we used to have a Kirklands locally and I loved the store, but it closed.

I wish I still had a Kirklands nearby! Just sayin'


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HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, June 2nd (Monday)

Nothing says late spring in SC like the thousand reconstituted dried worms I have to walk over on the sidewalk at work.

Just sayin'.


Me, 49
Him, 41 (JMSSC)
married 19 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 3549 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
nowiknow23
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Shutup  Posted: 8:33 PM, June 2nd (Monday)

There is no bigger teachable moment for a young man than him running over his 2-day old iPhone just an hour after telling his mom he refused the replacement insurance because, and I quote, "It was $10 a month. That's too expensive!"

Ouch, dude.
Just saying.


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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knight
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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, June 4th (Wednesday)

Dear ER Nurse,

There are 1000 mg in a gram of Tylenol.....or a gram of anything for that matter.

....aaaand, it would probably be easier to use two 500 mg tablets than to use 3 1/13 of the 325 mg tablets (it's kinda hard to split a Tylenol into 13ths...).

...just sayin.


BH 40s
fWW (her) 40s
D-day Aug 2012
M 16
kids - 3 beautiful ones, DD22, DD14, DS10

Always be yourself, but always be your better self. - Karl G. Maeser
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Dyslexic...please ignore my spelling.


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, June 4th (Wednesday)

Dear ER Nurse,

There are 1000 mg in a gram of Tylenol.....or a gram of anything for that matter.

....aaaand, it would probably be easier to use two 500 mg tablets than to use 3 1/13 of the 325 mg tablets (it's kinda hard to split a Tylenol into 13ths...).

...just sayin.

Math you'll never use it after grade school.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, June 4th (Wednesday)

Dear ER Nurse,
There are 1000 mg in a gram of Tylenol.....or a gram of anything for that matter.

....aaaand, it would probably be easier to use two 500 mg tablets than to use 3 1/13 of the 325 mg tablets (it's kinda hard to split a Tylenol into 13ths...).


T/J... I once got into an argument with someone at DS's neurologist's office because I told her he took 2 grams of Keppra twice a day. She was very condescending when she said, "Um, no Ma'am. He takes two THOUSAND milligrams. Not two GRAMS."

I finally just gave up and told her she was right.


Me, 49
Him, 41 (JMSSC)
married 19 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 3549 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:56 AM, June 4th (Wednesday)

I blame the metric system. Just sayin'.


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, June 4th (Wednesday)

Dear weird-Arkansas-accent guy-

Take your weird passive aggressive comments elsewhere. I'm your boss now. So, you know...suck it.

Just sayin'.


Comparison is the thief of joy.

Posts: 4790 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: North of Chicago, Illinois
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, June 6th (Friday)

My new personal hero is the person near my coffee place who named their WiFi network "HideYourKidsHideYourWifi." #antoinedodson #missthatguy

Just Sayin'


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, June 7th (Saturday)


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, June 9th (Monday)

I...can....not get the commercial that goes "Good morning, Red Birrrrddddd. Good morning, Red Birrrdddd" out of my head.

Aghhhhh.

Jus Saying'


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 4:03 PM, June 9th (Monday)

Dear Insurance Company,

These "petty" lawsuits you complain about are due to folks like you who won't pay bills that your client is 100% liable for. (Read the police report, idiot.) I hate you for making me one of "those" people. Just sayin'.

Sincerely,
Pissed Off & Lawyer'd Up


"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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Forged1
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Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, June 9th (Monday)

Dear Annoying Incarcerated Client

I cannot call the people you want me to call when you spend every other minute calling ME to see if I've called them, thereby tying up the phone line.

Seriously, bud. Please get a grip.

Love and squishes,

Forged


Me: BH
Her: Almost XW

Almost done with D
==================================
At this stage, I'm pretty much bulletproof.


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, June 15th (Sunday)

Vrazz's solution to a lag in dessert being served is to grab the waitress's behind. #icanteven

Jussayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

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Default  Posted: 4:13 AM, June 16th (Monday)

It's a little embarrassing to be jealous of a four year old just because she can get away with grabbing the waitress' behind whilst waiting for dessert and the waitress still thought the youngster was cute.

Apparently the Equal Protection Clause doesn't protect against age discrimination in the prosecution of random firmness checks of waitress' behinds.

Just sayin'.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1923 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, June 17th (Tuesday)

Yeah. My 4 year old GS had great success chatting up some very good looking women when we went on the subway a few months back. He just looked at them and said, 'Hey!'

I figure they'd have given me dirty looks if I had tried that.

Of course, he's closer to their age than I am, and cuter, too.... Just sayin'.

[This message edited by sisoon at 12:11 PM, June 17th (Tuesday)]


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DDay - 12/22/2010
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I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, June 17th (Tuesday)

OMG Seriously - Don't 'share' stupid shit without actually looking up if its actually TRUE. Dear God it takes maybe a few minutes to look shit up and make sure what you are passing around is true.

No - there are no spiders at olive garden that will kill you while you pee.

No - calling 211 will not always get you to a 911 connection to make sure that the cop following you is really a cop.

No - that marine that punches the crazy dancer fighter dude is real - it's part a movie

No - the military is not cutting all the damn meals under the sun.

ANYTHING sticking to the front or back of your car should be a red flag - but know that the whole thieving world knows this they probably don't do it much.

STOP SHARING INFO UNTIL YOU CHECK IT OUT....

Just F'ing saying.....


Me: 32 MH
Him: 39 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, June 17th (Tuesday)

I *may* need a rhubarb intervention. Just sayin.

Mmmmmm...rhubarb...


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MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, June 17th (Tuesday)

If you're going to set up a conference call with the heads of many very busy teams, or anyone in general for that matter, don't join the call 10 minutes after the time you set as the meeting start time, talk at a volume where no one on the call can even hear you, and then make it clear from your meeting "agenda" that your conference call could have easily been replaced with a 2 sentence email.

Just sayin'


As life gets longer, awful feels softer and it feels pretty soft to me. If it takes shit to make bliss then I feel pretty blissfully. If life's not beautiful without the pain, then I'd rather never see beauty again.
-Modest Mouse

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Default  Posted: 2:39 AM, June 18th (Wednesday)

Trust your gut, WBN. Goofy as you are, your gut is usually right.



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Default  Posted: 3:53 AM, June 18th (Wednesday)

[This message edited by wannabenormal at 3:55 AM, June 18th (Wednesday)]



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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, June 18th (Wednesday)

That "go you chicken fat" song on the iPhone 5S commercial where everyone is exercising is entirely too catchy. Sorry for the humming, fellow Target shoppers.

just sayin


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Default  Posted: 10:34 PM, June 18th (Wednesday)

Dear Gas Company:

When 3 of your employees call me asking to schedule a meter change, and I had scheduled it the day before, and ALL THREE of them admit that yes, it is right there on their screen that I have already scheduled it, you need a better robocall system and/or employees with IQs in the double digits.

Just sayin'.


Me: BS 54
Him: FWS 55
Married 29 years
Son-24 Daughter-21,
D-Day #1 12/11/2007
D-Day #2 5/23/2008 fucking trickle truth!
Whatever Threnody said, I concur.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, June 19th (Thursday)

When one of our cats misbehaves I say, "YOUNG Lady". They stop whatever they are doing, walk over to me, sit nicely, and look at me like "Ok mom. I'm being good now". They crack me up.

Just Sayin'

[This message edited by SI Staff at 3:39 PM, June 19th (Thursday)]


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Default  Posted: 1:18 AM, June 25th (Wednesday)

The "Robot Chicken" theme tune is a GREAT tickle song for 3-year-old, mischievous elves!

Just sayin'!


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Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4187 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, July 1st (Tuesday)

Dear obnoxious neighbor,

Most cars these days have stereos in them. SHOCKER, I know! You know what's going to be even MORE shocking for you? When you're playing your car stereo so loud that it rattles the pot rack on my wall at 8 AM and I run out and rip the damned thing out of your car!!!!

Just sayin'


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MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, July 1st (Tuesday)

Speaking of obnoxious neighbors, I will address mine.

It's great that you and all you friends and family took the entire week off for Independence Day. It's great that you have so much passion and patriotism for your country that you can't wait until the 4th to set off fireworks. All that said, some folks do still work this week, so I don't think it's asking too much to set them off a little earlier than 11pm and without all you friends hooting and hollering right outside my door until who-knows-when.

Sincerely,

Your very tired neighbor

just sayin'


As life gets longer, awful feels softer and it feels pretty soft to me. If it takes shit to make bliss then I feel pretty blissfully. If life's not beautiful without the pain, then I'd rather never see beauty again.
-Modest Mouse

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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, July 1st (Tuesday)

To my newest neighbors on the cul de sac: I know this is summer. However, after 11pm on a weeknight when most of us have to get up and go to work in the morning, call your pack of children back inside, take away their light sabers, make them get off their trikes and bikes with the nifty horns that honk real loud, and PUT YOUR SCREAMING KIDS TO BED!

Just sayin...


I'm done here; sick of 2 x 4s

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday)

Dear Produce Dude - You're getting a little too... generous with those labels. Seriously?
Three stickers on ONE apple? It takes me longer to de-stickify the fruit than it does to actually eat it.

Just sayin'


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday)

According to the FDA, the stickers on produce are/have to be edible. Jussayin.

[This message edited by Jrazz at 7:44 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday)]


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday)

^^^Ewwww, really? Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday)

Yup, they are edible. Still, I get it - stickers, edible or not, are not why I buy fruit

Just sayin'


As life gets longer, awful feels softer and it feels pretty soft to me. If it takes shit to make bliss then I feel pretty blissfully. If life's not beautiful without the pain, then I'd rather never see beauty again.
-Modest Mouse

Posts: 2482 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
Jeaniegirl
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday)

Dear Government Passport Card People:

I applied for a Passport Card the first week in May. Yes I know I cannot use this card to fly. Yes I have a valid regular passport but I want the Passport Card too. No I did not sell my regular passport to 'some foreigner.' Yes I paid $60 for expedite service. It is now July 2nd.

Please define expedite.


"Because I deserve better"

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MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday)

@Jeaniegirl

Don't get me started. Part of my job is developing teams to send from the states to international locations where we're establishing new sites. Reimbursing an employee for the expedite fee for the government to still not "expedite" anything makes me rage.. a lot... I still don't know what expedite really means. For some, it's like 2 weeks. For others, its 3 months for them to tell me some i wasn't dotted or t wasn't crossed.

just sayin'


As life gets longer, awful feels softer and it feels pretty soft to me. If it takes shit to make bliss then I feel pretty blissfully. If life's not beautiful without the pain, then I'd rather never see beauty again.
-Modest Mouse

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, July 3rd (Thursday)

Dear Diet Coke, Close... SOOO close


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, July 3rd (Thursday)

It's officially now the weekend. Just sayin.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 6:54 PM, July 3rd (Thursday)

Dear weird lady at the sushi place last night,

The rest of us, who were trying to eat in peace, did not enjoy your very loud cell phone call to god knows who, about your plans for the rest of the evening. No one needs to know that you are headed to the Petco in search of food that will make your cats "poop less". Seriously. No one.

Just sayin'.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, July 3rd (Thursday)

Dear Dad walking with his 4yr old daughter,

It is really nice of you to bring a pink Hello Kitty umbrella to block the sun in the 90+ degree heat. It would be even nicer if you held the pretty umbrella over your daughter's head instead of your own. I'm not saying you didn't look precious, but dude....share.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, July 8th (Tuesday)

Dear grass pollen,

FUCK YOU.
*sniffle*

Just sayin.


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, July 8th (Tuesday)

Dear lady who wore that horrendous "perfume" to the dermatologist today -

what NIK said to grass pollen.

Just sayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, July 8th (Tuesday)

Dear inventor of "My Singing Monsters",

I would like to make you drive my DS around with his iPhone for just. One. Day.

Just sayin


fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 23, 16, 12. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.


Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, July 16th (Wednesday)

Why do restaurants and food stores ruin fruit bowls and fruit cups with 50% effin honeydew melons? They suck. Just sayin'.


Me: BS 47
Her: FWS 50 (both family med MDs; together 20 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

Posts: 2949 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Here
BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, July 16th (Wednesday)

Spitting on the ground in public is disgusting but spitting in the playground while dropping your kids off at school? That's vile. Just sayin'.

Brought and bought are DIFFERENT words and mean completely different things. Just sayin'.

[This message edited by BrokenButTrying at 5:50 PM, July 16th (Wednesday)]


Madhatters doing well in R.

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1363 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, July 16th (Wednesday)

Oh, lentils. Why do you do what you do?


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, July 16th (Wednesday)

Why do restaurants and food stores ruin fruit bowls and fruit cups with 50% effin honeydew melons? They suck

^^^^^^^^^^^
This! Just sayin'


Posts: 45252 | Registered: Mar 2011
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, July 16th (Wednesday)

While cougars can be beautiful flawless women like the one on the commercial, to be honest, it's still creepy when she hits on the young man.

J/S


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, July 16th (Wednesday)

I'm not saying you didn't look precious, but dude....share.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
pizzalover
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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, July 17th (Thursday)

Dear Dreams,

Summer isn't halfway over and you're already giving me teacher nightmares? WTF? Please stop.

Just sayin'


Trying to rebuild each day

Me - WW 41
Him - BH 41 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats

Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09


Posts: 779 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Guinness23
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Default  Posted: 9:29 AM, July 17th (Thursday)

Dear Mosquitos:
Have you NO BOUNDARIES???? Please stay the %$@& off of my body! Your comrades have done enough damage that I am surprised I am not dead from West NILE this summer. Can't you suckers just OD on DEET????

LEAVE. ME. ALONE.

Just saying.


Me 48
Divorced 2010

1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years.
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem

My favorite drink is water. Call me Dasani23


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, July 27th (Sunday)

WHY is my stomach never full unless I've crammed down a bunch of donuts or carnitas?!?! It's like veggies evaporate or don't count or something. MERGH!!! Just Sayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, July 28th (Monday)

Veggies don't nourish your soul like donuts do. Jrazz deserves french crullers. Just Sayin'


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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, July 28th (Monday)

Damn, Jo! Such a bad influence! (Make mine a maple cruller.... nom nom nom...)

[This message edited by Jrazz at 12:39 PM, July 28th (Monday)]


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, July 28th (Monday)

Dear anonymous neighbor somewhere near my apartment,

Can I come live in your world, where you cook delicious smelling bacon nearly every morning??

You are killing me. KILLING me!!

Just sayin.


ps- some bacon would be delicious with a maple cruller....


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
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Default  Posted: 7:31 AM, July 29th (Tuesday)

Dear Killer Bees in My Back Yard,

Okay, you've had your fun. The dog and I are suitably freaked out and probably scarred for life. Please go visit the really obnoxious neighbors now. I'm sure they'll be much more entertaining.

Just sayin...


I'm done here; sick of 2 x 4s

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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, July 29th (Tuesday)

Dear dickhead driver - Please take your fist and shove it up your ass. You suck.


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, July 30th (Wednesday)

Awesomeness that is cookies are great for bakesales and terrible for waistlines.
Just sayin

Be still my beating heart...


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
DepressedDaddy
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Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, July 31st (Thursday)

Found this gem online...

I don’t want to have a laparohysterosalpingooophorectomy! Why should I get my tubes tied when it’s so much easier to just cut off your balls?


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


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norabird
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, July 31st (Thursday)

WHY WAS THERE A BUG IN MY GRANOLA THIS MORNING?!

Just sayin, that shit ain't right.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Tred
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, July 31st (Thursday)

Why do large bipeds keep stealing my granola!!! Big ol' bullies...just sayin.

Signed - the Bug


Married: 18 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, July 31st (Thursday)

Speaking of obnoxious neighbours...

Dear annoying losers:
I know that you are only renting your little appartment crammed into a single family home but do you really have to have a party every Saturday night that lasts from 6 pm until the tick of 11 pm out in your backyard with the stereo speakers blaring foreign language music so that all of your guests have to yell above the music in order to be heard?
Yes, the whole neighbourhood can hear you quite clearly and I can't wait until the summer is over and your backyard is full of snow.

Just sayin'

[This message edited by Lola2kids at 1:18 PM, July 31st (Thursday)]


BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1812 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, August 1st (Friday)

Try as I might, I will never be as funny as TrulyReconciled.
Just sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:31 AM, August 6th (Wednesday)

I hope my parents and sisters are craving sweets. I just made them brownies with reeses peanut butter and a bunch of cherry tarts. Like it or not, it's all their's.

Just Sayin'

[This message edited by SI Staff at 11:06 AM, August 6th (Wednesday)]


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, August 6th (Wednesday)

I want to be in jo's family. Just saying. Yummmmm


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Edith
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, August 6th (Wednesday)

Dear pathetically young classmate in Sociology class, While it was entertaining that your idea for controlling global overpopulation was Soylent Green, I seriously screamed at my computer when I read that a second pathetically young classmate agreed with your moronic solution. Cannibalism is NOT the answer. So get back on your spaceship and go back to your OWN PLANET!

Just sayin' from a still productive and worthy taxpaying grandma who babysits all the time and works 60+ hours a week while still attending school.


The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it. John 1:5

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 5:46 PM, August 6th (Wednesday)

people need to learn to be less bitchy and more silly. they'll entertain us more often that way.

just sayin


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
kernel
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Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, August 6th (Wednesday)

The house is never so empty as it is right after the kids leave after a nice long visit. Never gets easier. Sigh. Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, August 6th (Wednesday)

Dear baby who lives downstairs and has been crying/screaming constantly:

@#$#^&&*%@~@#$%^&!!!!!!!!!!

Mercy. Please. Have. Mercy.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, August 7th (Thursday)

((baby))

((baby's mom))

((gypsy))


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5466 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, August 17th (Sunday)

Dear Voice Mail Lady,
I know to press 7 if I want a "Q" and 9 for a "Z".
Its printed on every phone, but thanks.

Just sayin'.....


Married 1994
DDay 9/18/10
Divorced January 14, 2016
DD 16
“You two deserve each other, and I deserve better” ~Me

Posts: 146 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Jersey
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, August 18th (Monday)

When your child starts sassing at you for something, I find it completely therapeutic and apropos to belt out ♪ ♫ "I want the wooooooooorld! I want the whole world! I want to lock it all up in my pocket it's MY bar of chocolate! Give it to me, NOWWWWW!" ♫ ♪

Just singin'


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
kernel
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, August 24th (Sunday)

Dear neighbor, with all the gas you are wasting sitting on your phone in front of your house with the motor running in your truck for 10-15 minutes every stinking day and several times a day, you could probably afford a nicer vehicle. Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 12:27 AM, August 26th (Tuesday)

Dear happy crickets outside my window every night,

I love you.

Just sayin'.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:52 AM, August 26th (Tuesday)

Another downside to going though a major earthquake is that every time someone says "magnitude" in the news and you raise the roof and shout "POP POP!", anyone proximal just looks at you like you're a weirdo. #tenpointsforgriffindor

Justpoppin.

[This message edited by Jrazz at 12:57 AM, August 26th (Tuesday)]


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, August 26th (Tuesday)

WHO mows their lawn in the dark?!?! One of my neighbors, that's who. Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, September 10th (Wednesday)

High sex drive + not dating = MISERY.

Just sayin'.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, September 10th (Wednesday)

I saved $14 at Target. I spent 61 cents. Made my day!

Just Sayin'

[This message edited by SI Staff at 5:32 PM, September 10th (Wednesday)]


Posts: 45252 | Registered: Mar 2011
DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, September 11th (Thursday)

Dear farmer who rents the back field for his cows, please find and repair the hole in the fence, there's moo poo in my driveway...(at least we haven't seen a cow there yet lol not that I would mind. I already got to pet one through the fence and dd says she now wants a cow lol)


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
Neznayou
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, September 11th (Thursday)

Really, really want to make a big, big deal out of this, but I love my son and so I won''t, at least not anywhere he''ll be subjected to his mother''s embarrassingly, overly enthusiastic enthusiasm, that is.

He asked her to homecoming.
She said yes.
His first date!!!!

So far, all we know about her (beside her good taste in guys) is she is "B____''s sister".

Play it cool, Mom play it cool.

[This message edited by Neznayou at 11:59 AM, September 11th, 2014 (Thursday)]


Me: WW 1973
Him: BH 1969

Wedding: April 9, 1994

Son: 1998
Son: 2002

Caught at AP's house: 10 Aug 2012
Admitted PA: 12 Aug 2012
TT ended: Jan 2014

Every Saint has a Past; every Sinner has a Future.


Posts: 716 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Europe
whiteflower99
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, September 11th (Thursday)

Maybe the real reason Stink Bugs exist is so that we can ponder their reason for being.


What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way.


Posts: 2183 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Not Lothlorien
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, September 11th (Thursday)

or for throwing at annoying people.
just sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:11 AM, September 17th (Wednesday)

For the record, I am here on SI at this late hour 98% for all of you sweet people. The other 2% would be me not wanting to brush my teeth and go to bed. #keepingitreal #mustwinterfreshen

Jussayin.

ETA: The data MAY be skewed a little there.

ETAA: Ok, ok... the data is a lot skewed. Someone needs to shove me off this chair and toward the bathroom.

[This message edited by Jrazz at 2:13 AM, September 17th (Wednesday)]


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Neznayou
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Default  Posted: 2:31 AM, September 17th (Wednesday)

JRazz, it''s 9:30 in the morning. The only reason my breath isn''t minty fresh is the two cups of coffee I''ve had. I''m in my pajamas because I''m home today with a back/head ache instead of at work. But thanks for sharing.


Me: WW 1973
Him: BH 1969

Wedding: April 9, 1994

Son: 1998
Son: 2002

Caught at AP's house: 10 Aug 2012
Admitted PA: 12 Aug 2012
TT ended: Jan 2014

Every Saint has a Past; every Sinner has a Future.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, September 24th (Wednesday)

The morning AFTER the morning you used the last of the coffee and then forgot to go to the store? Is the longest. morning. ever.

Just sayin.


Edited to correct mistakes because NO FLIPPING COFFEE IN THE HOUSE.

[This message edited by nowiknow23 at 8:05 AM, September 24th (Wednesday)]


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


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Newlease
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Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, September 24th (Wednesday)

Ah FALL, you are a double edged sword. I love your crisp mornings and your cool evenings. I love making soup and apple pie. I love the smell of wood smoke.

BUT, I hate the dust that flies during corn/bean harvest. I HATE ragweed. I hate that going out to enjoy this beautiful weather results in congestion and headaches, even when I'm on 2 different kinds of allergy medicine.

Just sayin . . . .


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, September 25th (Thursday)

I really want to learn how to play steel drums. Just sayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
kernel
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Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, September 29th (Monday)

I work at the most fucked up place. I think they've hit a new low. Just sayin'


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, September 30th (Tuesday)

Jrazz, for just about anything you want to learn, there are YouTube videos for that.

Just sayin'

(Not that it's easy, or anything. Or else I'd be a finger-style guitar wizard.)


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5466 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, September 30th (Tuesday)

Spent all morning cleaning kitchen for visit with infant development nurse to see the twins. Spent the visit in living room. Note to self. Forget the dishes and vacuum next time lol.

Just say'n

Ok. Next time don't be lazy and leave dishes until morning...(I was tired and went to bed, my bad!)


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, September 30th (Tuesday)

Found the videos, TrustedHer! (Now all I need is a steel drum...) Just sayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, September 30th (Tuesday)

Listen here you twat....yeah, the stupid twat that just cost my husband his job. The job that he LOVES and worked SO hard to get....

You know what's worse then a pissed off redneck?

The pissed off WIFE of redneck....I will start stripping to pay for the lawyer that will nail your ass to the ground if I have to lady.....


Just Sayin!


Me: 32 MH
Him: 39 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.

Posts: 2387 | Registered: Sep 2012
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 12:33 AM, October 3rd (Friday)

Can a concert just start on damn time for once?!? F**k! It's a school night. You don't see movies, plays, musicals, ballets, symphonies, or sporting events starting late! Can you imagine? The Yankees will be an hour late starting. Derek Jeter forgot to take batting practice and Tanaka can't find his glove! Grrrrr! Now go to sleep.


Me: BS 47
Her: FWS 50 (both family med MDs; together 20 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

Posts: 2949 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Here
DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, October 3rd (Friday)

Even when the babies are sleeping and the house is all quiet.....I still hear babies crying.

Must be a mom thing cause wh thinks i'm nuts lol

Just say'n


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, October 16th (Thursday)

No sooner do you get your kids OUT of training pants/pull ups that you wish you had another package on hand!!!

I am tired of crap...and vomit!. I woke up at 2am after hearing DS4 screaming. Went into the kids room to find he had thrown up, first in his bed then his sisters bed then ALL over the carpet...that started a day home from school filled with non stop loose bm's from hell!!!

OMG! Always keep a package of pull ups on hand! I am still doing laundry...

Just say'n...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
Myname
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, October 16th (Thursday)

After reading DragnHeart's post I'm glad I don't have kids. Just sayin'.


DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 38
12-08-10: S

Posts: 3639 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Inside your computer.
DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, October 16th (Thursday)

Well at least it wasn't all FOUR kids throwing up and crapping themselves...oh wait the babies do that daily...ok so ya at least it wasn't all 4 of them. DD is ok.

Always look on the bright side

Just say'n


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
MartlArts
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, October 18th (Saturday)

After reading Dragnheart's post I want to give her a hug. And a latte. With a shot of Baileys in it. Just sayin'. God bless moms!


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, October 18th (Saturday)

You are a life saver! How in the world did you know??? Baileys is my favourite!!!

Oh and just when I thought I could pack the kids up for a day trip DD comes down with whatever DS had cause now she's throwing up. Ugh! Owell. I am havibg a PJ day instead lol

Just saying lol


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
WinterBranch
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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, October 18th (Saturday)

To the teens that rolled my yard...

I cleaned it up. Not sure why you'd do it in the middle of the night when tornado sirens were screaming, but whatever. I guess your personal safety belongs to your parents.

Thing is, I am alone here. I had enough to do to pick up the branches, in order to do the last mow. Also I have to clear the creek bed so my house won't flood this winter, and I have leaf removal hangin' over my head. Two and 1/2 acres to do with a rake, and tryin' to meet the city deadline for pickup because I don't have a truck or money to hire someone to leaf vacuum.

I know ya'll were just havin' fun, but I am already overwhelmed and feeling like a failure before the worst of leaves have even got here.

I needed your help, kiddos, not more to do. I am overwhelmed, and your vandalism put me more in the hole.

Happy Halloween anyway, ya little turds. If I knew who you were, I'd roll your house and put up a sign saying "this is how it's done, guys." Cuz ya weren't even artistic...just destructive.

Just sayin'...


Me: Woman.
Him: Con-man who's gone...divorced him and still at SI cuz I'm dustin' off my hands, folks...

Posts: 170 | Registered: Mar 2014
WarehouseGuy
Member
Member # 6037
Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, October 18th (Saturday)

Shit. Just shit. What a day!! Kill me now please.

just sayin'

whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 6302 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, October 18th (Saturday)

Hugs for warehouseguy. Was it worse than being covered in vomit?

When heading to the grocery store ALWAYS make sure to write a list of what you need...like laundry detergent...

Just saying...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 6:10 AM, October 22nd (Wednesday)

Dear Mr. Flu,

You have made the rounds now and have stayed way past your welcome. Please leave! Seriously, leave!

Just saying!!!


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 5:40 AM, October 23rd (Thursday)

The sound of glass shattering would make a very effective alarm clock, as long as you don't mind waking up in a panic.

Just saying.


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


Posts: 36095 | Registered: Aug 2011
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, October 24th (Friday)

When your kids say they WANT to go to bed its code talk for "we want to do something we know we can't do with mommy around".

Just saying...

P.S. what they don't realize is that mommy can hear them singing at the top of their lungs the Let It Go song from Frozen...had told them to keep it down because the twins are sleeping...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
kernel
Member
Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, October 24th (Friday)

I should have ordered pizza and stayed on the couch instead of trying to eat something healthy and get some chores done. Just sayin'.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5378 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Clarrissa
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Member # 21886
Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, October 26th (Sunday)

To my former plant manager,
I can understand wanting to reduce the company overhead but getting rid of all the long term employees (like me) will eventually destroy company loyalty. Word will get around that you arbitrarily decide what an employee's experience is worth and if you decide they're making too much, you'll find a way to get them off the payroll.

Oh, and thanks to you, my wrist is damn near shot. Yes, I'm a tad bit bitter and pissed off. Just sayin'.

[This message edited by Clarrissa at 12:05 AM, October 26th (Sunday)]


BH Cee64D - 50
FWW (me) - 51


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 6140 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, October 27th (Monday)

Headaches....are a headache! Especially when you have a long list of stuff to do but just want to hide under your pillow cause light hurts...

Just sayin


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, October 30th (Thursday)

When doing a bin burn of shrubbery that doesn't want to catch fire, using gas to get it going is NOT a smart thing to do. Neither is sticking your face over the bin when you pour in the gas...no not me! WH!!! Ugh!

Just saying...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:57 PM, October 30th (Thursday)

Walking into a Spirit of Halloween store to find your daughter a cape and finding nothing but plastic and lingerie was not what i expected.

Not all of us are hot 20 yr olds looking for a bewitched booty call.

Just sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, October 31st (Friday)

DD loves trick or treating, but doesn't really like eating candy. So she gives it to me. The odds of me posting any weightloss on the Heathy Weight thread in icr is 0.

Just Sayin'


Posts: 45252 | Registered: Mar 2011
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, November 3rd (Monday)

Don't ever be THAT parent who eats the one unique piece of candy out of your kid's bucket at 12am. ("Mama, where's the pretzel M&M's? That's the only one I want. ) #momfail

Just Sayin'


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, November 3rd (Monday)

Also? I would just like to wish this thread a happy 3rd anniversary!


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
gypsybird87
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Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, November 4th (Tuesday)

Ducks make awesome neighbors. Seriously. The pond just outside my apartment has filled up, and the ducks have arrived. Every so often there's some random quacking, and I swear it sounds like they are all laughing it up over some hilarious joke. It always brings a smile to my face.
<--- See?

Ducks.Rock.
Just sayin'.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
sisoon
Member
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, November 8th (Saturday)

Can't let this thread migrate to the 2nd page. Just sayin'....


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, November 8th (Saturday)

Ducks ---> migrate. I see what you did there, sisoon. Justsayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
WarehouseGuy
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Member # 6037
Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, November 8th (Saturday)

I saw snowflakes this morning. This truly sucks!!

just sayin'


whg

[This message edited by WarehouseGuy at 1:09 PM, November 8th (Saturday)]


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 6302 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, November 9th (Sunday)

Weekend naps are the best. Especially when it's your talkative teen who takes them.

Just sayin'.


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


Posts: 36095 | Registered: Aug 2011
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 5:44 PM, November 9th (Sunday)

My teen's mood swings would be less aggravating if I had a chocolate lava cake and tea.

Just Sayin'

[This message edited by SI Staff at 5:45 PM, November 9th (Sunday)]


Posts: 45252 | Registered: Mar 2011
funnelcakes
Member
Member # 45249
Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, November 9th (Sunday)

90% of SI posters' sturm und drang around messages and "friends" on Facebook would be resolved if they just referred to the popular social media site for what it really is: Lucifer's Playground.

Just sayin'


alis volat propriis | she flies with her own wings

Posts: 927 | Registered: Oct 2014
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, November 24th (Monday)

FIRST we lose Brian Wilson to the Dodgers - now Pablo Sandoval to the Red Sox? Damn. I don't think my heart can take much more. RIP, panda gear. #justsayin


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
DepressedDaddy
Member
Member # 41521
Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, December 17th (Wednesday)

I live in a place that was right around 70 degrees yesterday...in December.

Just Sayin'


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


Posts: 1255 | Registered: Dec 2013
gardenparty
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Member # 12050
Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, December 18th (Thursday)

70 degrees for real - it is minus 20 here and dark by 4:15 in the afternoon....a 6 month winter is just far too long....just sayin'


divorced!

Posts: 2976 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: newfoundland
DepressedDaddy
Member
Member # 41521
Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, December 18th (Thursday)

It has its benefits during parts of the year...however, high temps, humidity and bugs here during the summer, not as beneficial - just sayin'


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


Posts: 1255 | Registered: Dec 2013
purplejacket4
Member
Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, December 18th (Thursday)

When you're a medical professional provider you cannot just give two weeks notice like you work at Home Depot. Especially when you have Effin vacation for the last two weeks of the year.

Grow up.

Just sayin'


Me: BS 47
Her: FWS 50 (both family med MDs; together 20 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

Posts: 2949 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Here
sudra
Member
Member # 30143
Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, December 19th (Friday)

I really love my son. Really.


Me (BW) (56), Him(SAWH) (59)
Married 23 years, 1 son (20), 1 stepdaughter (28)
DDay #1 January 2004
DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)
Working on R

Posts: 1630 | Registered: Nov 2010
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, December 19th (Friday)

Good thing I let the chihuahua out for a pee earlier...a pack of coyotes just went past the house...chihuauhau would have made a nice snack...

Just saying...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DepressedDaddy
Member
Member # 41521
Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, December 23rd (Tuesday)

Happy Elfin' Holiday

Just Sayin'


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


Posts: 1255 | Registered: Dec 2013
wannabenormal
Member
Member # 19772
Default  Posted: 1:43 AM, December 24th (Wednesday)

I feel kinda bitchy being a little irked that our 'company Christmas party' is being held at some half-assed bar in mid-January, according to email we got Monday.



Posts: 14720 | Registered: Jun 2008
TheRealDeal
Member
Member # 39560
Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, December 24th (Wednesday)

My regular radio stations plays only Christmas music 24/7 between Thanksgiving and Christmas. Can't wait for their normal programming to return

just sayin'


Me (BS): 47 him (Xws): 55
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March - June 2013
Dday4 + June 2015 through January 2016
Status: done I called it quits 1-6-2016
The hardest part of letting go is realizing there wasn't much left to hold on to

Posts: 467 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Northeast
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, December 24th (Wednesday)

Doesn't look like it will be a white Christmas but another W word applies...WET! Raining. And of course it is garbage day...I am wet.

Just sayin.


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, December 24th (Wednesday)

When your 6 yr. old complains that she wants a hair cut...TAKE her for a hair cut OR she will do it HERSELF...(This is karma striking...I did the EXACT same thing when I was a kid).

Just saying...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, January 5th (Monday)

Its cold! Very very cold. When does summer make an appearance? I want it now...

Just sayin...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
MovingUpward
Member
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, January 5th (Monday)

Summer has arrived in Australia. Just Sayin'

[This message edited by MovingUpward at 1:24 PM, January 5th (Monday)]


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 54358 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
5454real
Member
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, January 5th (Monday)

Sigh, 6-8" of snow, 40ish below windchill. Is this heaven. Nope, it's Iowa.

Just sayin

[This message edited by 5454real at 1:54 PM, January 5th (Monday)]


BH 52, WW 43
DS 24(Mine),SD 22,SS 21(Hers),DS 10 Ours, DGS 5, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 4470 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, January 5th (Monday)

I have had to clean off the truck three times today...the snow can stop now had survey person at house. Should have called him to let him know to wear boots.....

Just sayin'


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DepressedDaddy
Member
Member # 41521
Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, January 6th (Tuesday)

My cup of coffee was really good this morning...

Just Sayin'


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


Posts: 1255 | Registered: Dec 2013
FindMyselfAgain
Member
Member # 36969
Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, January 6th (Tuesday)

Getting caught rearranging your new hexagon-shaped shelves (and additional scraps of wood) into different molecular structural diagrams in the middle of your living room floor is nothing to be ashamed about...just sayin'.

I now want a pentagon to make a "caffeine" shelf for my kitchen...just sayin' (more).

I should really get some sleep...(still) just sayin'

Oy...


DDay: October 7, 2011
R finally started in earnest: April 2014
Current status: If he won't make changes, I must.

Posts: 244 | Registered: Sep 2012
DepressedDaddy
Member
Member # 41521
Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, January 8th (Thursday)

Living this far south, I shouldn't have to deal with temps in the teens...

Just Sayin'


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


Posts: 1255 | Registered: Dec 2013
5454real
Member
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, January 8th (Thursday)

Sigh, so I bitched about the cold and wind.....
Tonight's entertainment....
Blizzard.

Just sayin


BH 52, WW 43
DS 24(Mine),SD 22,SS 21(Hers),DS 10 Ours, DGS 5, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 4470 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
lostandhopless
Member
Member # 41568
Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, January 8th (Thursday)

People under the age of 25 should never, ever say "Back in the day." makes me want to rip their tongue out of their mouths.

Just saying...


Be careful who you trust. Even your shadow will abandon you when it's dark.....

Divorced 6/13/14


Posts: 144 | Registered: Dec 2013
BtraydWife
Member
Member # 42581
Default  Posted: 12:52 AM, January 9th (Friday)

I fucking hate the cold.


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
He choked me. What else is there to say.
Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he can't meet them.
People change when staying the same becomes more painful than changing.

Posts: 5358 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
Lola2kids
Member
Member # 32789
Default  Posted: 9:18 AM, January 9th (Friday)

I can't stand it when the people getting their kids ready to go out into the cold after karate tell their kids they will catch a cold if they don't put their hat on.

People, really. The reason kids get sick is from the germs of other kids. It's a virus not the temperature.

If the damn weather would gradually get cold like it's supposed to instead of dropping 20 degrees in a matter of hours our immune systems could adapt and we would not get sick so much.

AC does not give you a cold.
The wind blowing in from the open door does not make you sick.

This is from dealing with DD's grandparents from a different country where apparently kids do not get sick because they know how to dress for the weather. These people wear their winter jackets the moment September comes around no matter what the temperature.

GRRRR!!


BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1812 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
Lola2kids
Member
Member # 32789
Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, January 9th (Friday)

I just watched/heard the woman next to me in a bathroom stall piss all over the floor (and all down the front of the toilet).
Apparently, she was doing the hover.

So, because she can't sit on the toilet seat in case she might get Ebola or whatever then it's ok to pee on the floor, not wipe it up then track her urine that her shoes are covered in all over the mall.
How is that ok?

I didn't see if she actually washed her hands or not.

I have sat down on toilet seats my whole life and I have never caught any disease. Not a pimple, nothing, nada.

Please, don't hover over the seat if you don't have any control of your stream.
And if you piss on the floor have the decency to wipe it up.

Sigh.
So gross.

[This message edited by Lola2kids at 1:58 PM, January 9th (Friday)]


BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1812 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
itwillrain
Member
Member # 34564
Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, January 9th (Friday)

I hate my customers. I hate their stupid, entitled, pregnant, rich little faces.

You don't enjoy what you have, and if you can afford to b*tch at the sales associate because she can't teleport your furniture backwards in time for your PHOTO SHOOT... you don't DESERVE that money.

Just sayin'.


Muddling my way through.

Posts: 142 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Toronto, Canada
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, January 10th (Saturday)

Don't get me started on the people who literally call other people while sitting on the pot.

Who are these people? I swear if you call me while peeing I will hang up on you and remove you from my phone.

I make sure to flush several times when i hear someone doing that.

We have conference rooms at work for private phone calls ya know.

The whole thing is Gross.

Just sayin.


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 5:11 AM, January 11th (Sunday)

Fuzzy blankets....they make getting out of bed so difficult!

Just sayin'


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
rumad72
Member
Member # 45901
Default  Posted: 5:27 AM, January 11th (Sunday)

I'd like to throw a brick rather than a bouquet to the wig shop hairstylist who started cutting the wig on my mother's head without her commitment to even purchase it.
She is ill and really can't afford this purchase.

Shame on you commission based greedy guts for taking advantage of my ma.

Just saying...


BGF 42
WBF 46
Too many to count. Craigslist, POF, Nakedworld, massage parlours.
Second time around found detailed emails... male sex..group male sex
.female male sex..mixed group sex.
Says he didn't know we were a couple..ugh.

Posts: 108 | Registered: Dec 2014 | From: Southern, ON
Guinness23
Member
Member # 42852
Content  Posted: 8:06 AM, January 11th (Sunday)

My dog is SO FREAKIN cute!!

He is all of about 18lbs and is JUST DO DAMN CUTE not only in looks, but manner and simplicity!

I love you, sweetie, you GOOD BOY!

Just sayin'

[This message edited by Guinness23 at 8:07 AM, January 11th (Sunday)]


Me 48
Divorced 2010

1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years.
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem

My favorite drink is water. Call me Dasani23


Posts: 3212 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Indiana
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, January 11th (Sunday)

It figures that the day I decide to spend in my PJs is the day I get an unexpected guest....

Just sayin...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, January 12th (Monday)

Big bang theory just never gets old.
J/S


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 8:23 AM, January 15th (Thursday)

Four days without my phone (and SI) is torture!!! I come back to more glitter, bed bugs and ticks....

Just sayin'


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, January 16th (Friday)

I think its time for some spider picture threads to sneak their way in...

I also think that since the flu has had its visit with ALL of us it can now go away and never come back!

Just saying'.


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, January 20th (Tuesday)

Coffee perk blowing up this morning = me spending the entire day in bed sleeping...(on and off of course tending to twins who are still sick)

Apparently I need coffee...

Just sayin'


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
Rebreather
Member
Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, January 20th (Tuesday)

work. do not want.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 7664 | Registered: Jan 2011
Bobbi_sue
Member
Member # 10347
Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, January 20th (Tuesday)

Big bang theory just never gets old.
J/S
This, I agree with. That show is awesome. And this is from someone who can't stand much of anything I see on TV. The writers of that show are brilliant and it is so different than any other sitcom.

Posts: 6287 | Registered: Apr 2006
Jpapageorge
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Member # 31800
Default  Posted: 4:20 AM, January 21st (Wednesday)

"Rocky, I love pizza."
Sometimes the most profound ideas can be expressed in the simplest statements.

Just sayin'.


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1923 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 6:06 AM, January 21st (Wednesday)

The sound of coffee perking is music first thing in the morning.

Just sayin'


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
Guinness23
Member
Member # 42852
Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, January 21st (Wednesday)

"The more I get to know some people, the more I love my dog" Just sayin.....


Me 48
Divorced 2010

1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years.
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem

My favorite drink is water. Call me Dasani23


Posts: 3212 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Indiana
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, January 21st (Wednesday)

An entire day out by myself was really really nice..even if it was just doing errands.

Just sayin'


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
ISPIFFD
Member
Member # 26367
Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, January 22nd (Thursday)

in case she might get Ebola

This produced the biggest laugh of my day, which probably says something about my day and the condition of our office bathroom.

Just sayin'...


I'm done here; sick of 2 x 4s

Posts: 2057 | Registered: Nov 2009
Lola2kids
Member
Member # 32789
Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, January 22nd (Thursday)

which probably says something about my day and the condition of our office bathroom.

My condolences ISPIFFD.


BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1812 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
gypsybird87
Member
Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, January 22nd (Thursday)

I work in medical billing. WHY do the people that call me demanding to know why I didn't bill their insurance, NEVER have their insurance info on hand?

Yeah. I love taking your grumpy calls, then holding for five minutes while you go retrieve your purse from the car and then fish around for your id card. It's what I live for.

Just sayin'.

On a side note, why do so many women leave their purses in the car? Who does that??


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, January 22nd (Thursday)

Hey, little 18 year old girl who works with me--- when you tell me that there is an old man who needs help in the aisle, I'm going to look for an OLD man who needs help. 50 is NOT OLD! Just sayin'!!!


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

Posts: 49707 | Registered: Sep 2007
TrustedHer
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Member # 23328
Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, January 26th (Monday)

Monday.

Just sayin'


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5466 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, January 28th (Wednesday)

Don't ever, EVER say or even THINK to the universe, "Man, a flu bug would sure help me shed some of these holiday lb's!" Idiot.

#JS


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
gypsybird87
Member
Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, January 29th (Thursday)

The perils of using texting to communicate in a new relationship cannot be overstated.

Just sayin.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
WarehouseGuy
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Member # 6037
Default  Posted: 4:58 AM, January 30th (Friday)

Men----ALWAYS remember to check the settings on your beard/moustache trimmer before you start--or you will be staring at a bald upper lip like I am this morning

...just sayin'

whg

[This message edited by WarehouseGuy at 4:59 AM, January 30th (Friday)]


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 6302 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
trying to smile
Member
Member # 9683
Default  Posted: 5:12 AM, January 30th (Friday)

dealing with drunks gets really old, really quickly and I work in a medical practice not a pub.
Just sayin

tts


Good Women.
May we know them,
May we be them,
May we raise them.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Dday1 Aug 2005
Dday2 Aug 2014
I should have listened when he showed me who he was the first time.
Divorcing

Posts: 6971 | Registered: Feb 2006 | From: The Land Down Under
HFSSC
Member
Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, February 1st (Sunday)

Dear Autocorrect:

I have never ever ever intended to write "jackals" "ducking" or "as wholes".

Just sayin'.

And somehow, the damn thing thought "Satan's" made more sense than "sayin'"


Me, 49
Him, 41 (JMSSC)
married 19 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 3549 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 6:15 AM, February 2nd (Monday)

Weatherman. The only job in the world where you can be 80% WRONG, 90% of the time and not get fired!!!

5cm of snow my a$$...try 2feet...and its still snowing...

Just sayin...

Edited due to spelling...

[This message edited by DragnHeart at 6:16 AM, February 2nd (Monday)]


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
doodle123
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Default  Posted: 9:12 AM, February 3rd (Tuesday)

It takes a while to get to 51 posts!

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doodle123
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Default  Posted: 9:20 AM, February 3rd (Tuesday)

countdown happening

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, February 8th (Sunday)

Eating combos while reading a book titled Eat Clean, is probably counterproductive. Just Sayin'

[This message edited by SI Staff at 12:43 PM, February 8th (Sunday)]


Posts: 45252 | Registered: Mar 2011
Ashland13
Member
Member # 38378
Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, February 8th (Sunday)

Dear Person

who took off with my tail light,

I would like it back.

Or you can pay the bill.

I just paid over $1000 on car repair!

eta...just sayin`

[This message edited by Ashland13 at 1:26 PM, February 8th (Sunday)]


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2956 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
Ashland13
Member
Member # 38378
Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, February 8th (Sunday)

Just saw the post about dealing with drunk people...

there's been so many throughout my life that I don't drink much at all...don't really like it and kids give me a headache already!

This may sound not nice, but we have a functioning alcoholic neighbor I spin tales at sometimes, because he gossips with the other neighbors. Nothing hurtful, but I tell him when snow/rain is coming and it isn't or things like this.

He mixes up things he is told and repeats them wrong, so I have my lil' fun-I'm totally by the book otherwise and soooo tired of doin' all the rules and the karma bus hits me!

go way, karma bus...vroom vroom.

just sayin,

[This message edited by Ashland13 at 1:30 PM, February 8th (Sunday)]


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2956 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, February 8th (Sunday)

I might be shapely but I am not in shape. Shovelling has done me in for the day (and possibly tomorrow). Next year I WILL have a plow!!!

Just sayin


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
Jrazz
Moderator
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, February 8th (Sunday)

Me @ dinner tonight:

Sigh. Just sayin.


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Clarrissa
Member
Member # 21886
Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, February 13th (Friday)

It's entirely possible for a dog to snuggle up too closely. Roxy, I love you and you can be soooo adorable but I need room to stretch at night and you're not letting me have it...

Just sayin'


BH Cee64D - 50
FWW (me) - 51


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 6140 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
gypsybird87
Member
Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, February 16th (Monday)

School bus rule makers,

Why is having a school bus stop, and open then close its doors before a railroad crossing helpful? How does this make the kids onboard any safer? How does it make those of us behind you, who are now stopped in the middle of an intersection, any safer? I don't feel safer. I feel annoyed.

Just sayin'.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, February 17th (Tuesday)

Ya know what's better than a pet turkey? Two baby goats following me around the kitchen while their bottles warm up.

Just sayin.


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
purplejacket4
Member
Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, February 17th (Tuesday)

Said by one collegue today about another one:

It's not that she's stupid; it's just that she doesn't know what she's doing.

Well that's reassuring. Not.


Me: BS 47
Her: FWS 50 (both family med MDs; together 20 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

Posts: 2949 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Here
Clarrissa
Member
Member # 21886
Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, February 17th (Tuesday)

To be fair, pj, not knowing what you're doing is not (necessarily) the same as being stupid. I find stupidity is usually a choice...

Just sayin'


BH Cee64D - 50
FWW (me) - 51


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 6140 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, February 20th (Friday)

Silence....awwww its beautiful!!! After getting all SIX kids to sleep....man this is sweet lol.

Just sayin.


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
HFSSC
Member
Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, February 24th (Tuesday)

It occurred to me this evening that an empty feminine hygiene product box would make an EXCELLENT hiding place to keep stuff away from my teenage son.

JS


Me, 49
Him, 41 (JMSSC)
married 19 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 3549 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
Lola2kids
Member
Member # 32789
Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, February 27th (Friday)

Why do I feel the need to go into work just because I have an audit to finish by the end of the month and this is the last working day of the month... saying "it's just a cold, no reason to stay home." and then spend the entire day wishing I was home in bed?

Just sayin'


BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1812 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, March 20th (Friday)

Why do farmers wear coveralls??? (Is it overalls? The one piece suits...ya'all know what I mean lol)

To keep the hay from getting into places the sun don't shine.....

Happy, very happy I have hay and straw now. Not so happy about the little poky bits that got into places...

Just say'n

[This message edited by DragnHeart at 7:20 PM, March 20th (Friday)]


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, March 20th (Friday)

Whatever the heck this stuffy nose sore eyes sinus headachy thing is, allergies or otherwise, better go away soon or I'm getting a roto- rooter.

J/S


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 6:34 AM, March 21st (Saturday)

Spring my a$$!!! It SNOWED!!!!!!! Enough already!!!

Just say'n


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
Guinness23
Member
Member # 42852
Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, March 21st (Saturday)

Been a SI member a whole year today!! Thank you to all who helped me good and bad

(holds up Dasani bottle) To the next year!!

Just sayin....


Me 48
Divorced 2010

1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years.
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem

My favorite drink is water. Call me Dasani23


Posts: 3212 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Indiana
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, March 21st (Saturday)

Congrats Guinness!


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
gypsybird87
Member
Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, March 25th (Wednesday)

WHY are people on craiglist so flakey?? You said you wanted to buy my used office phone system. We emailed like five times. So f*cking BUY IT already, and quit wasting my time.

Just sayin.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
LosferWords
Moderator
Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, March 26th (Thursday)

Yelling at my son to turn his guitar down makes me feel really effing old.

j/s


Posts: 22710 | Registered: Dec 2010
Snapdragon
Member
Member # 4286
Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, March 27th (Friday)

I'm so sick of surveys! Every single thing to do with the IT department results in an "are you satisfied" survey. The annual company employee survey is going on. Oh, it's supposed to be "anonymous". But by time you get done answering all their questions they know exactly who you are. Sure... I'll give my real thoughts about this place. The grocery store. The drug store. The caterer that delivers pop and snacks. I must get asked to take a survey 6 - 8 times a week. Enough!

Just sayin'


Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.

"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink


Posts: 3374 | Registered: May 2004 | From: Midwest
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, March 28th (Saturday)

Pigs make better pets than dogs and cats!!!

Totally house broken! Doesn't need to be put outside, uses a litter box.
Doesn't scratch furniture!
Doesn't bark.
Doesn't shed.
No fleas
Is a non stop floor cleaner...

Yep! I'll take a pig over cats and dogs any day.

Just say'n...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, March 30th (Monday)

48 degrees here. Finally!
Just sayin...


{Him}FBH - 44 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 45
2 kids 9 & 14
Reconciled :)
Mean people suck. --- Jim Goad

Posts: 11610 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
ISPIFFD
Member
Member # 26367
Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, March 31st (Tuesday)

Freak snowstorm today... Really. done. with. this. shit.

Just sayin'


I'm done here; sick of 2 x 4s

Posts: 2057 | Registered: Nov 2009
TrulyReconciled
Member
Member # 3031
Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, April 2nd (Thursday)

Being a cancer survivor changes you. It makes you much, much less tolerant of idiots and assholes who try to make your life miserable.

Just saying ...


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 22740 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
IrishGirlVA
Member
Member # 39694
Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, April 2nd (Thursday)

There are 6 floors to my office building.

I got on the elevator on the 1st floor. Press 5.

Stop on 2nd floor to pick up woman. She presses 3rd floor AND 6th floor.

I giggle and say, "Did you forget what floor you are on?".

She said, "Nope. I have to drop something off to someone on the 3rd floor and then I'm going back up to my desk on the 6th floor".

Me thinking, "How do you even function?"

Just sayin'.


Me, the "B": 42yo
Him, the "W": 38yo
DDay: June 2013
Status: Over

Posts: 1279 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Virginia
wannabenormal
Member
Member # 19772
Default  Posted: 2:02 AM, April 3rd (Friday)

I'm just sayin' that I am damned glad my office is closed tomorrow.



Posts: 14720 | Registered: Jun 2008
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 9:18 AM, April 4th (Saturday)

Just realized how addicted to SI I am. Couldn't load the page this morning. My morning routine totally thrown off lol.

Of course it would have been anyways since I ended up running around outside in my PJs trying to round up Tom the master of escape turkey....

No more scary unable to load SI mornings...k? Lmao

Just say'n.


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
Guinness23
Member
Member # 42852
Default  Posted: 4:08 AM, April 5th (Sunday)


Me 48
Divorced 2010

1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years.
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem

My favorite drink is water. Call me Dasani23


Posts: 3212 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Indiana
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, April 5th (Sunday)

Snow.....that is all

Just say'n


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, April 18th (Saturday)

Murphys law of parenting: just when you decide to go to bed the babies WILL wake up...

Just sayin...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DepressedDaddy
Member
Member # 41521
Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, April 19th (Sunday)

I really love staring at trees and plants. They are so intricate and require practically nothing of me, yet give me so much. Very thankful...

Just sayin'


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


Posts: 1255 | Registered: Dec 2013
DepressedDaddy
Member
Member # 41521
Default  Posted: 7:58 AM, April 20th (Monday)

I still really love admiring the greatness of trees and plants!

Just Sayin'

[This message edited by DepressedDaddy at 7:59 AM, April 20th (Monday)]


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


Posts: 1255 | Registered: Dec 2013
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, April 21st (Tuesday)

Its a good thing electric catfish breathe air...especially when they decide to short out the filter because ummm its making noise therefore its prey...

Just sayin'


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 11:58 PM, April 21st (Tuesday)

Funny is when my stomach growls, and my little dog growls back.

Just sayin'.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
DragnHeart
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Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, April 22nd (Wednesday)

Almost May.

Snowed today...

Mother Nature needs to stop smoking the funny stuff cause this ain't funny!!!

Just sayin...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DragnHeart
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Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, April 29th (Wednesday)

You come to realize you're the crazy reptile woman when a web site has a contest for a "baby monitor" and your first thought is "I wonder what species it is. They need to be more specific!".

(Baby monitor as in listening device for infants NOT monitor lizard ugh!)

Just sayin...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
lynnm1947
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Member # 15300
Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, April 30th (Thursday)


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 8511 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
Guinness23
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Member # 42852
Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, April 30th (Thursday)

Bugs suck.

Just sayin.


Me 48
Divorced 2010

1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years.
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem

My favorite drink is water. Call me Dasani23


Posts: 3212 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Indiana
WarehouseGuy
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Member # 6037
Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, May 1st (Friday)

Glasses affect your vision---especially if they have been emptied several times.

Just sayin'

whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 6302 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
Neznayou
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Member # 40654
Default  Posted: 4:34 AM, May 2nd (Saturday)

In the same spirit as Warehouseguy... Smartphones and beer result in some amusing Facebook threads. (I''m not sure if I should apologize to Mom or not.)


Me: WW 1973
Him: BH 1969

Wedding: April 9, 1994

Son: 1998
Son: 2002

Caught at AP's house: 10 Aug 2012
Admitted PA: 12 Aug 2012
TT ended: Jan 2014

Every Saint has a Past; every Sinner has a Future.


Posts: 716 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Europe
sisoon
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Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, May 2nd (Saturday)

Overdid it on my bicycle yesterday; hurts too much to ride today.

You'd think the first thing a cyclist has to get into shape after a winter off the bike is his legs. It's not. Just sayin'....


fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 13573 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
lynnm1947
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Member # 15300
Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, May 4th (Monday)

I'm getting fricken tired of "spring" allergies. Yesterday I coughed till I threw up n my mouth. Enough, already. Just sayin'.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 8511 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
Faithful w/Love
Member
Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, May 6th (Wednesday)

Why is it that before work and after work I am behind a really old person that is driving 30 on the interstate and in the fast lane? URGGH... There should be set schedules for people who want to drive that slow... just sayin.


BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"


Posts: 2944 | Registered: Aug 2011
DragnHeart
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Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 6:48 AM, May 8th (Friday)

Person asking me: "how are you doing?"

Me: "I'm pooped"

DD: "mommy you're supposed to do that in the toilet"

Always watch what you say around six year olds!!!just sayin.


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
Neznayou
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Member # 40654
Default  Posted: 3:38 AM, May 12th (Tuesday)

If I added people to the CC: line of an email, it''s because they need to be in on the exchange of information. When you respond to said email, what makes you think it''s okay to leave them off? Use the damn "reply all" button!! It''s that easy! Just sayin''.


Me: WW 1973
Him: BH 1969

Wedding: April 9, 1994

Son: 1998
Son: 2002

Caught at AP's house: 10 Aug 2012
Admitted PA: 12 Aug 2012
TT ended: Jan 2014

Every Saint has a Past; every Sinner has a Future.


Posts: 716 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Europe
lieshurt
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Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, May 12th (Tuesday)

I am not the official voice mail message updater for this office. WTH did you people do the entire year before I got here? Take care of your own voice mail and leave me the hell alone. I have more important things to deal with today people.


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

Posts: 14685 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
DragnHeart
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Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, May 12th (Tuesday)

"Poultry Fencing" should be renamed:

"Weight Loss Fencing. When you can't get to the gym, how about hours of running around after an escaped turkey across 100 frigin acres. That'll burn some calories!"

Just sayin...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, May 26th (Tuesday)

For as out of shape as I am I can sure hump it down the driveway when the need arises....in crocs no less...of course I was reminded that breathing through my nose is preferable to an open mouth. Not sure what bug I swallowed but it was big enough for me to choke a bit...

Just sayin.


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, May 27th (Wednesday)

Dear Mr. Woodpecker...there is a time and a place for your banging.

4am outside of my bedroom window is NOT it...

Just sayin...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
purplejacket4
Member
Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 9:20 AM, May 28th (Thursday)

If I don't get West Nile Virus from my 100 mosquito bites it will be a miracle.

Just sayin'


Me: BS 47
Her: FWS 50 (both family med MDs; together 20 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

Posts: 2949 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Here
gypsybird87
Member
Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 12:51 AM, June 5th (Friday)

Sometimes compliments from complete strangers can be the nicest kind.

Just sayin'.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, June 7th (Sunday)

Having cheese fries while at an art festival, made for the best Saturday afternoon.

Just Sayin'


Posts: 45252 | Registered: Mar 2011
Jeaniegirl
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Member # 6370
Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, June 7th (Sunday)

After the flooding, woke up a few days ago to find a very large turtle in my front yard with a huge horn on it's forehead.

Thought I'd been transported to Jurassic Park.

Crazy weather I tell ya' Just saying.

[This message edited by Jeaniegirl at 3:33 PM, June 7th (Sunday)]


"Because I deserve better"

Posts: 1139 | Registered: Feb 2005
gypsybird87
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Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, June 10th (Wednesday)

To the dog owner who left their dog's enormous pile of crap laying not three feet from the baggie-stocked poo station:

You are a disgrace to responsible dog owners everywhere!! Who does that?!

Just sayin.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 4:16 PM, June 11th (Thursday)

Day 8 of summer break. The native is restless and already rebelling against the "read for one hour a day" rule. She keeps referring to it as a half hour (wishful thinking that I correct each time), mutters "You're killing me, Smalls" under her breath every day when I tell her it's reading time, and has been reminded several times that singing Mackelmore's "Thrift Shop" does not count as reading.

74 more days until school starts.
Just sayin.


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown


Posts: 36095 | Registered: Aug 2011
gardenparty
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Member # 12050
Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, June 12th (Friday)

to the snooty bitch who gives me the stink eye every time she walks her dog past my house, my dog is in my yard...MY YARD...and does not need to be tied on so piss off before I am tempted to slap the eyelids right off your face...oh and I might have PMS...just sayin'


divorced!

Posts: 2976 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: newfoundland
DragnHeart
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Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 7:02 AM, June 18th (Thursday)

Using pallets/skids to build the goat pen seemed like a good idea...but becoming a "goat herder" proves it wasn't... on the upside two goats will go along way to removing the need to ever cut the grass again...or plant flowers, or a garden...

Just sayin...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, June 20th (Saturday)

The zoo needs to stop putting designated smoking areas at the top of steep hills....I can barely breathe as it is hahaha.


Just sayin...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, July 8th (Wednesday)

Learned today that "ba ba ba ba baaaa" is goat for "wait for us" by two goats who insisted on getting the mail with me. Animals are so much better than people sometimes...

Just sayn.


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
Macsecond
Member
Member # 43972
Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, July 9th (Thursday)

My 7.5 year old daughter came up with this one yesterday:

The chin is the butt of your bottom teeth.

Just sayin...


Me - WW (39)
Him - BH (38)
Married 15 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD8 and DD3.5)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)

Posts: 665 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Canada
gypsybird87
Member
Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 11:26 PM, July 27th (Monday)

There's a strange and somewhat twisted satisfaction in stopping to buy ice cream on the way home from the gym.

Just sayin'....


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1853 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, August 4th (Tuesday)

DD5 holding a barbie wrapped in a ribbon with what appears to be underwear on her head: "Hey mama, is this what Nicki Minaj wears?"

#shootmenow


I really fear acting without thought. -sisoon

Posts: 27499 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
lieshurt
Member
Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, August 9th (Sunday)

For the love of all that is holy, it is NOT necessary to type any of the following when a BS posts in the Wayward forum.

1. BS Here, no Stop Sign
2. No stop sign
3. I don't see a stop sign
4. I'm a BS. Hope it's ok to post

Just look for the red stop sign. If it's not there, post. If it is, don't post. It's not rocket science people.

STOP IT. STOP IT. STOP IT !!!!!!!!!


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

Posts: 14685 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, August 9th (Sunday)

STOP IT. STOP IT. STOP IT !!!!!!!!!

Note to self: when reading anything from lieshurt do not have a mouth full of coffee....my phone got a coffee bath


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
lieshurt
Member
Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, August 9th (Sunday)

Note to self: when reading anything from lieshurt do not have a mouth full of coffee....my phone got a coffee bath


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

Posts: 14685 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Hurt To The Core
Member
Member # 33510
Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, August 10th (Monday)

1. BS Here, no Stop Sign
2. No stop sign
3. I don't see a stop sign
4. I'm a BS. Hope it's ok to post

Just look for the red stop sign. If it's not there, post. If it is, don't post. It's not rocket science people.

STOP IT. STOP IT. STOP IT !!!!!!!!!

I was thinking the same thing


BS - now 40
WH - now 41
2 Beautiful Children
DDay - Found Chat on March 30, 2011 (my gut told me at that time they slept together) He finally admitted to the affair on May 24, 2011.
Status - Workinging on R

Posts: 83 | Registered: Oct 2011
DepressedDaddy
Member
Member # 41521
Default  Posted: 9:20 AM, August 11th (Tuesday)

It's too freakin' hot outside...

Just sayin'


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


Posts: 1255 | Registered: Dec 2013
DragnHeart
Member
Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 10:04 AM, August 11th (Tuesday)

The day I take DD to the hospital for her yearly checkup IS the day that ALL of her shoes suddenly go missing...

Except for one pair....her black sparkly dress shoes...

To which she says "its OK I'll just wear my fancy dress".

Ugh! I think she's hidden all of her shoes so she could have a reason to wear her fancy dress....

Kids!

Just sayin!


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
Spelljean
Member
Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, August 14th (Friday)

Man, there's salted caramel flavored everything lately. Just sayin...yum!


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 1016 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
looking forward
Member
Member # 25238
Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, August 15th (Saturday)

There's nothin' like a Tim Horton's coffee in the morning....in the afternoon....after supper....

Just sayin'

[This message edited by looking forward at 8:32 AM, August 15th (Saturday)]


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow. Together more than 48 years.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 3150 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
DragnHeart
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Member # 32122
Default  Posted: 8:56 AM, August 15th (Saturday)

Some posts are greatly motivating...^^^

I wasn't going to leave the house today (raining...). But now I want a Timmy's coffee...

Just sayin...


Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
DDay of PA with OW2 (also a co worker) October 19th 2010.
"The A is the wound, the lies are the salt" - Stronger08

Posts: 6788 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
ajsmom
Member
Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, August 17th (Monday)

Gotta preserve...


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21289 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
ajsmom
Member
Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, August 17th (Monday)

...my legacy on SI...


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21289 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
ajsmom
Member
Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, August 17th (Monday)

...and start a new JS thread.

Just sayin'

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


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