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ouch23
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

My Hs OW has the same name as me. I need a nickname for her because its just not cool to call her by her name and I don't much like OW. Needs to indicate just how awful she is. I realize this is not mature but who has ideas?


Me-30 WS-32
Married 5 years,together 8.
1#DDay EA w/old GF 1/5/08(12 weeks pregnant)
#2DDay 6/12/12 EA/sexual nature/with my close friend.
4 kids
Still love him so much:(
Reconciling.....

Posts: 41 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: ouch23
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

The SI all time favorite: 'cumdumpster'


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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keepingup
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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

I call mine skanky b*tch. It makes me happy inside.


Me: 25
Him: 26
Married: 2 1/2 years
DS: 2 year old
D-day: 5/12/12

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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

'hole-mate'


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7031 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

'ho-worker'


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7031 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
HillBillie
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

My future XH is in a threesome with a pair of OWs. I call them Ho Numero Uno and Ho Numero Dos. Of course Thing One and Thing Two would work, too, with apologies to Dr. Seuss.

The Y-Shaped Coffin? As in she will have to be buried in one?


Me: BS, 40
Him: Future XH, 41
Married 3 years, together 9
Dday: 4/26/12


Sometimes it's better to light a flamethrower than to curse the darkness. -- Terry Pratchett


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Crushed38
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

I call her the whore, Jennie-Ho, or my favorite: IT.


It's amazing that someone can break your heart and you still love them with all of the little pieces. -unknown

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

T.C. , used to mean The C**t, but due to some new information it now means Tuna C**t. Gross, eh, I never used to be so crude. Never would I say the "c" word, but I guess I hadn't met one until OW.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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VanillaBean
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Hmmmmm. That is an interesting (not) position to be in ouch. The first thing that comes to mind is "the bitch" but I realize that might not be constructive. Maybe you can refer to her by her initials. Of course, as mad as I am right now I prefer "the bitch". Not original but hope that helps.


BW 48
WH 45
DD 3/17/12
Married 8 years, together 13
Moving on. THE WAR IS OVER!!! (Kelly Clarkson)

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DrivingPast
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Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Its not that witty, but I think I would call her something with the word "that" in it. "That slut" "that lowlife skank" "that pig faced whore who sucks any dick in front of her face". Adding "that" makes it more demeaning.


BW
married more than 10 yrs to a possible SA
D-Day May 5 2011
"Because one knows people best through their fears - the ones they overcome and the ones they are overcome by."

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Betty Betty
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Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

C**tface. It rolls off H's tongue as if that's really her name. And since I haven't seen her birth certificate, perhaps it is her real name.

I don't want that name saved in my phone but I have her number saved as she used to communicate so in my phone I have her as Cadaver.


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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

I just call her that bitch

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missyb32641
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Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Skank Whore is the one I use the most. Thats what her FB page is saved under on my phone and computer. Need to change her number to that too.

C*mdumpster has a nice ring too it tho.


ME: BS 41
Him FWH 43
Married 20 years together 22 at the time.
Working thru R.

Posts: 273 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Florida
BEM817
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

I've become partial to "troll" and "oompa loompa"


Married 14 years, together for 20
BS Me - 42
WS Husband - 43
Two Kids 8 & 9
DDay 3/15/12 8 month EA. PA for 5 of those months.

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

In chronological order:
Your Whore
The Office Skank
Twatface
The COW
Twatface
Bucket o' Whore-a
Twatface
(Twatface is my favorite.)


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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missyb32641
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

"oompa loompa"

If I could paint skank whore purple that would be perfect!!!

[This message edited by missyb32641 at 5:34 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)]


ME: BS 41
Him FWH 43
Married 20 years together 22 at the time.
Working thru R.

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Kelany
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Default  Posted: 5:37 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Skelewhore.

Because she looks like skeletore from the 80's heman cartoon. Or rather a femal version of Marc Anthony. Pale, skeleton-like, gaunt, big cheekbones...


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


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burnedcanuckEMS
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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

I just call her C***. Because I would never see a need to use that kind of language to describe anyone but the rotten evil person that she is.


Me: BW 38, Him: WH 37
M: 07/07/07
DDay: 06/09/12
Divorce Granted on December 5, 2012 - fasted divorce ever (thanks to my good lawyer) and I am not looking back with ANY regrets!!

"And this above all else, to thine own self be true"


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Elpis
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Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

I call her Fox Hole.
Sly, sneaky thief.


Me, BS
Hubby, WS
DDay Fall 2011

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HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Nowadays I call her "The Proverbs 2 woman." Chapter 2 verses 16-18 of the Book of Proverbs describes OW well.

"To deliver you from the immoral woman,
From the seductress who flatters with her words,
Who forsakes the companion of her youth,
and forgets the covenant of her God.
For her house leads down to death,
And her paths to the dead;"


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

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Phoenix519
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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Whorangutan...

But lately I came up with garbage dripping trough twat when I was feeling especially creative.


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confused615
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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Twatsicle is my favorite.


Mine isnt an OW,but an OM.

I call him "assfucker."

It's very appropriate.


BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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struggling16
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Your wh---
The wh---
Your girlfriend (he really hates that one)
"it"
pnwg (potato-nosed wh--- girlfriend)
that person
that thing
potato-nosed wh---
w(cubed)-wheezy whiny wh---
mall rat
my WH called "it" "good for a jump" and "user-loser"
grandpa--cker

[This message edited by struggling16 at 9:55 AM, October 29th (Monday)]


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Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

How about "Not Me" because all she has in common with you is your name. In all else, she's so much less.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

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ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Oh, I forgot the one that REALLY got to XWH (so I used it all the time when talking to him): Your Mistress.

Now she's Your Former Mistress.

Bwah hah hah. He hates it and it's objectively spot-on and I remain morally superior to both of them when using it.


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

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hailstormer
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Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

These are hysterical I actually mess the OW lots of names (all of the usual) and after a while they all sound too nice. I even looked up words and found Trollop which means an immoral or promiscuous woman but then thought that was too nice too. You know what bothers the OW the most is when I tell her she is a LOSER MOTHER cause she F***ED around on her own kids and mine too that bothers her the most she goes absolutely ballastic!! I love it!! Anything I can do to make her life a little miserable compared to the complete life devastion she has done to me I DO IT!


me(BS)-55
him(WS)-53
together 21 years
1st D-Day 4-19-10
2nd D-Day 5-3-12
married 19 years
2 kids 13-twins
Unfortunately...divorcing

Posts: 122 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Florida
hailstormer
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Yes my WH is bothered by me calling her the mistress and I asked him well would ya rather me say your slut?


me(BS)-55
him(WS)-53
together 21 years
1st D-Day 4-19-10
2nd D-Day 5-3-12
married 19 years
2 kids 13-twins
Unfortunately...divorcing

Posts: 122 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Florida
traditoperanni
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

How about crusty crotch skank whore. I love that one. Or your basic f***ing c**t whore. Gee, I'm not bitter.


Me- BS (63)
Him-WS (63)
M- 42 yrs
dday#1 11/09, Dday #2 10/11 and many since
P.A.'s - too many to count
LTA's too many to count (one for 37 yrs)
escorts etc- way too many to count.
Broken heart- too many times to count.
R- Getting bet

Posts: 428 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
Chicky
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Shrek. I would call her Fiona i.e. Shrek's soulmeat but that would be a compliment (b/c she ain't that pretty).

[This message edited by Chicky at 8:45 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)]


Half of the truth is a WHOLE lie.

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nightsky
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Default  Posted: 8:57 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Can't really help. My WH's are online. I refer to them as paid internet sex slut. ISS for short. There are three of them (so far), so ISS-1 (his favorite), and ISS-2 and 3.

I couldn't bring myself to shorten to PISS, but give me time, its only been 4 days.


BW (me) – WH (him) mid-50s Married 33 yrs

DD 6/2012 –WH has been paying $$$ for online video sex chats and calls his favorite “my girlfriend.”

"Sometimes your only available transportation is a leap of faith" Margaret Shepard


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Harlowe
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Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)

Smelly Pirate Hooker

(She is neither a pirate or a hooker but the name makes me laugh and that is what is important)

[This message edited by Harlowe at 10:28 PM, June 20th (Wednesday)]


Me ~ BS~43
Husband ~ WS~47
Second Marriage for both ~ almost 9 years
5 kids ~ my 2, his 1 and our 2
DDay ~ 11/5/11 DDay 2 ~ 1/7/12
In R and it is going well

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springstreet
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Default  Posted: 12:32 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

I call OW2 "the bear". Because any kind of interaction with her is like poking a bear. a bear with rabies. also, she's kind of got the body shape of a bear. I only "poked the bear" once. And that's how I found out about OW#1! DO NOT POKE THE BEAR.

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inamaze
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Default  Posted: 12:44 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

Used tampon


A relationship was made
for two, but, some bitches don't know how to count.

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Thera77
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Default  Posted: 1:05 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

Um, let's see

skank
skankface
skankerella
skankasaurus
diseased whore-bag
twat
her
I also call OW by her name, only I mispronounce it on purpose. I know it's petty as all hell. But since after 3 years, OW has managed to weasel herself back into working with FWH at his current station - just on a different shift where he sees her almost every day he works now and OW goes out of her way to walk past him in the halls and dorm even though FWH ignores her - my new one is

C*nt
or sometimes I'll be cute and call her the C U Next Tuesday


Me 32, FWH 34 M 8.5 yrs @ A
Dday: 9/15/09 TT & limbo 'til 10/19/09 + 'pregnancy'
R'ing
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.

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OnAnIsland
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Default  Posted: 1:31 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

Your girlfriend
Crazy bitch


D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful boys in elementary school

You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou


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trebleclef
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Default  Posted: 2:38 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

I have a nickname i use but it's pretty specific to the Asian MOW sex parlor masseuse - "Wantonwonton".


True remorse isn't followed by a "but".

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curiouswiz
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Default  Posted: 4:28 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

Shitlicker....never ever use her name in front of me.

Shitlicker.


God bless us, everyone.

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UKgirl
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Default  Posted: 4:48 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

If you know her surname, you could do something with that. Extend it, rhyme it, prefix it with something appropriate. Or use her initials and do something with that. But why bother? Don’t give her a name, just refer to her as the double betrayal bitch she is. Or DBB in front of the kids.

I have built up quite a collection and the one I choose depends upon the circumstances and who I'm with. In reality, she's Little Miss Nobody.


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 56 y/o Him, WS, 57 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 18 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

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englishrose
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Default  Posted: 4:58 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

this:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=slapper


me BW 46 WH 43
DS 7
DS's 21 & 19 (my boys - from my previous marriage)
Ddays 3&17/3/2011



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I.will.survive
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Default  Posted: 5:15 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

I said "your whore" dozens of times when I first confronted him. Now I reference her as "your girlfriend" because that gets under his skin more for some reason. He hates her.

He referred to her as a "piece of shit homewrecking whore who has done this before."

He still wants a divorce though.


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confusedkitty
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Default  Posted: 6:35 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

Skanky McWhore.

The slut.

Busface (as in she looks like a bus backed into her face)

Your girlfriend (WH hates that one too, funny how the truth hurts)


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nofun
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Default  Posted: 6:51 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

OW's initials are DB...so I refer to her as the "douche bag".


BS (me) 56
WH 61
M 36 yrs
OW - 55 - Howdy Doody Look Alike
3 Awesome Adult C
DD 6/7/09
LTA 12 years.
Confused: D or R???

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LivinginLimbo
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Default  Posted: 7:22 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

Cankle C*** and/or "Mother of the Year."


BS - 62
FWH - 60
Married 34 years
D-Day 2/12/12
Doing well with R

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starstruck
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Default  Posted: 7:32 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

Swamp pig always worked for me. She is a nobody, going nowhere fast...


DDay 7/29/2010
Am hoping to reconcile!! Am I crazy or what?
If we all did the things we are capable of doing we would literally astound ourselves-Thomas Edison

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Default  Posted: 7:42 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

Why do men hate it when you refer to the OW as your girlfriend or mistress?

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sunflower01
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Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

Why do men hate it when you refer to the OW as your girlfriend or mistress?

I think cause the truth hurts?

Her nickname kinda just rolled off my tongue since Dday: Lieing C**t slut whore bitch A friend of mine also came up with Cum guzzeling whore


Me BS: 35
XWS: 35
OP: 30
DD: 5/30/2012
Length of Affair: 6 yrs w/ my BF
DIVORCED

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Betty Betty
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Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

Why do men hate it when you refer to the OW as your girlfriend or mistress?

I think because It's a polite way of saying you had a dirty whore but it stings more because it is polite. It's a slap of reality in a polite way like when someone says, "He uses drugs" and someone else replies, "so he is a drug addict.". They don't like to believe they are someone who would have a mistress.


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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

Ah yes, my H hates me to use the 'Girlfriend' word. I still don't get it!


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

My FWH was shocked in MC when he was saying derisively that the OW referred to him as its boyfriend. MC and I just looked at him quizzically and I said "She was your girlfriend" and he was shocked, literally shocked that OW was his girlfriend.

He really did just consider it a friendly cumdumpster.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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brokenpromise
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

Square head drop pants
Love you long time
Me so horny
Skank
All the usual expletives

The latest and likely to stick forever is
Cochina

I am such a nice person...now


BW- Me 60 FWS - 65
M 43 years
DD June 9, 2010
On and off LTA with dept secretary
But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal Matt 6:20

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LivinginLimbo
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Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

These are great, but I just want to add one thing. I never, ever can refer to IT as "your" anything. For some reason, it bothers me to make that connection.

That is all...carry on!


BS - 62
FWH - 60
Married 34 years
D-Day 2/12/12
Doing well with R

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LisaReg
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

I refer to her as Jersey Trash (I can say that because I am a Jersey girl. I'm just not trashy. )


BW (me)
WH(him)
"So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains
And we never even know we have the key." The Eagles

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Carrie22
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Default  Posted: 10:04 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

I refer to her as 'Whoreface' or 'Bitchface', I sometimes put 'skanky' in front of those names.

I've never referred to OW as 'your' anything to my WH either, it would hurt me more somehow. WH and I were able to R straight from DDay as he was only in the 'fog' during the A, so I never needed a derogatory name for her in order to HURT WH, only a name to make myself feel better. I know calling OW 'your gf' wouldn't serve that purpose.
Sometimes WH and I are able to refer to OW as 'that person' or 'that person we dont like' if we know we will bump into her.


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BHI_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

Like some of you, I never EVER said, typed or even thought of the "c" word prior to my husband's affair.

His whore is known to me as either the "Dirty C*nt", "Chlamydia B*tch", "The Tramp" or good ole "Hussy"


Me - BS
Him - WH
2 children together (Born December 24 2009 and April 7 2012)
Been together 8 years, married for 4
DDay #1: Sept 29, 2011 - He found out he had chlamydia, which he contrated from his OW... and gave to me (pregnant with baby #2)

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carey
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

At first, I always called her "your whore", then I started using her real name & that seemed to bother H the most!

So, I guess it depends on the day!

There's also piece of shit & slime!


me(BW) 41
him (WH) 40
D-day 1/17/12
together for 22yrs, married 12 yrs.
2 children ages 10 & 5
You can close your eyes
to the things you don't
want to see. You can't close
your heart to the things you don't want to feel.

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struggling16
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, June 21st (Thursday)

My WH hates "your girlfriend" because it reminds him that he manipulated my life so he could "date" his little AP. The reality is that he had a dating life. Face reality, mister cheater.

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m334455
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, June 21st (Thursday)

I cant' believe no one has mentioned

Twatzilla

yet. It's my all-time favorite SI mistress nickname.

My second is Wifestress if they're stupid enough to subsequently marry the ho.


BW 38, 5 kids
Dday Dec. 2009

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itsraining
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, June 21st (Thursday)

parasite

refuse

sewer dweller


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ouch23
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, June 21st (Thursday)

, you guys are awesome! This is thr first thread that made me giggle, as most are so painful, because I know just how you feel. My Hs A was not physical, but the disgusting sexual emails they exchanged will never leave my mind, and she was my friend and went after him, I think I will call her Parasite. All she did was take and destroy.


Me-30 WS-32
Married 5 years,together 8.
1#DDay EA w/old GF 1/5/08(12 weeks pregnant)
#2DDay 6/12/12 EA/sexual nature/with my close friend.
4 kids
Still love him so much:(
Reconciling.....

Posts: 41 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: ouch23
msc1120
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Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, June 21st (Thursday)

My cousin came up with a great one for my husbands whatever she is....cum guzzling thunder c**t

Posts: 60 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Southeast
NobleCause
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Default  Posted: 2:36 PM, June 21st (Thursday)

I'm quite partial to Bitch Slag myself, but anything really nasty will do in a pinch.


Me, BS, 39, Him WH, 36
Together 14 yrs, Married 11.5
PA,DDay May 28, 2012
1 son (9)

But I’m not walking from our dream, it grows as I begin. Royal Wood


Posts: 110 | Registered: May 2012
WantToBelieve
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Default  Posted: 4:47 PM, June 21st (Thursday)

fWh and I call his ho-worker AP either "The Beast" or "The Cloven-Hoofed One." Since she is totally unremorseful, broke NC repeatedly, and threatened to sue us, I think the name fits nicely.

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kourt090
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Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, June 21st (Thursday)

To my husband, I refer to her as his girlfriend (even though we are working things out) . . . it REALLY gets under his skin. To others, I just refer to her as his "coworker" and they understand who I mean. Even tho I have the right to be mad and call her names (and don't think that I DON'T do that) I generally try to keep the name calling down when I'm talking to someone other than my husband simply because I'm a better person than she is and I FEEL a sense of superiority to her in being able to handle it with maturity.


Kourt090

Posts: 292 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Utah
mitz66
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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, June 21st (Thursday)

skankola works for me.


Me:44 BS Him:43 WH
M May 07 Adult kids
DDay #1 Pics on cell jly 07
Jan08 DDay #2 "Just Friends" admits EA DDay #3 July 2010 - he insisted on platonic contact ..False R - until Dec 2010 admits PA in April 07
Dec 2012 NC succeeded

Posts: 543 | Registered: Jan 2008
inmisery1
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Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, June 21st (Thursday)

I call her baboon face. H and I went to see Rock of Ages last week end. Tom Cruise had a scene where he walked into a club holding a baboons hand. I said " Hey honey, look he's dating your old girlfriend."

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scaredyKat
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, June 21st (Thursday)

I never used to be so crude. Never would I say the "c" word, but I guess I hadn't met one until OW

Raising hand here on this one.

I say seize whatever bestial image she evokes in your mind and that becomes her name. Thus my fWH's whores are The Chimpanzee and "The Ferret faced whore" respectively. It helps me keep in perspective their lack of humanity...


Me-BS-60
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 3380 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
phoenix_vs
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Default  Posted: 10:06 PM, June 21st (Thursday)

the gutter skank

skankoriva

skankoriffic

your girlfriend

Yeah, it's been almost two years since the last episode, and I'm still angry.


I'm not sad that you lied to me. I'm sad that I can never believe you again.

Well, I'm sad that you lied to me, too.


Posts: 371 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Great Falls Montana
Sharpie4
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, June 21st (Thursday)

Just reading SI, I LMAO at "Cum Dumpster". I personally have adopted that one.

My BFFs kids use "Company Pin Cushion" to describe a woman BFF works with who has a fondness for coworkers, esp. the married ones.

I can also appreciate calling him/her "it" and I would have a hard time saying lady/woman or man. That is right up there with my husband calling a strip club a "Gentleman's Club". I told him, there were many living things in there, but a "gentleman" wasn't one of them.


Me: 43
Him: 46
I still don't know what's going on.

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Wonderingwhy11
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Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, June 21st (Thursday)

I call WH's MOW BW - short for bitch whore

I call WH's friends OW WD-40 - short for whory D(her name starts with a D and rhymes with whory) and 40 because she is over 40 and WD-40 is a lubricate spray.


Me BW - 46
Him WH - 53
Together 23 yrs, Married 18
DDay August 2011
2 kids - 13 and 15

Gotta love the life that we livin'


Posts: 376 | Registered: Feb 2012
Twigs323
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, June 22nd (Friday)

OW1 - fat ugly c***

OW2 - fat skanky poolhall whore

not very original but it keeps them straight in my mind


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BetrayalHurts
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Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, June 22nd (Friday)

Anything pertaining to apes or gorillas since that is what OW physically resembles


M 25 years
BW Me - 50's
WH Him - 60's
OW 25 years younger
D-Days too numerous to mention last D-day being 12-2-11 *OW went on fishing trip 5-21-13*

"A relationship is only made for two, but some bitches don't know how to count"


Posts: 353 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Colorado
Betrayed76
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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, June 23rd (Saturday)

I'm fond of...

Bitch tits
The whore
Homewreaker

I've also referred to her as his girlfriend.


Me/BS: 35
WH: 39
Together 12 years/ married 3 yrs
WH's affair 1 1/2 years
Kids: 1 DD, Another due Sept 2013
1st Dday Aug 1, 2011(our 2 yr wedding anniversary and discovery of sexting)
2nd Dday April 2012 (A was an EA and PA)
Status: R

Posts: 101 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: BC, Canada
BrokenSpirit50
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, June 23rd (Saturday)

OMG!! Some of these names had me rolling... Thank you I needed that.

It makes me ill to say my X's whores name because I think she is sub human for putting here twat between us, so here they are:

F*ck Witch (someone gave us this one...loved it)

Glitter Pig (she happens to be a social butterfly)

This is my favorite!!!

Donuts (My X had no clue..doesn't know why I call "it" this...This one came to mind when I had my X's phone (he was my WH at the time) looking at some trip pics and I evidently went too far and there were nude pictures of "it" and she obviously has FAKE ones (boo**s) that looked shaped like honey glazed Dunkin Donuts)

For those Seinfeld fans....."Their mine and they're spectacular"!


Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
Kids 0
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!

If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.


Posts: 239 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Midwest
scared&stronger
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Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, June 23rd (Saturday)

Whorangatang from Whoragon
or
Twatzilla

[This message edited by scared&stronger at 9:57 PM, June 23rd (Saturday)]


WS 45
BS 43

Met when we were 17 and 15. Together since 1983, married since 1985. Two kids, B21, G15.

d-day 4-3-07

Life has a way of making us get our panties in a wad.....I refuse to wear panties ever again.


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StepAside
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Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, June 24th (Sunday)

ditchpig
Slobobian ditchpig
the pig
the attention whore
the pigture whore
and when I'm feeling verbose: that wide cellulite riddled ass that you used to have squat down to suck your cock...but I usually keep to the short forms these days.


Me 48yrs, douche midlife crisis poster boy- 50yrs
too many A's to bother to count, he is a predator that targets loosers like himself
Last Dday April 12/10-Divorcing
We live in a world where the fear of illusion is real

Posts: 1511 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Ingersoll Ontario
isthisforreal
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, June 24th (Sunday)

I LOVE this game!

Cum guzzler
gutter pig
trash bag
Karaoke slut
biker bitch
grandma whore
dirty c*** (until OW, I thought no woman deserved to be called this, fits her perfectly!)


BW me 47
WH him 52
married 24 years
DD 9/15/10
3 incredible teenage daughters
"it only hurts when I breathe"

Posts: 254 | Registered: Jan 2011
HillBillie
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Default  Posted: 9:46 AM, June 24th (Sunday)

Just thought of another one I use: gutter trash welfare whore.

It applies equally to either one.


Me: BS, 40
Him: Future XH, 41
Married 3 years, together 9
Dday: 4/26/12


Sometimes it's better to light a flamethrower than to curse the darkness. -- Terry Pratchett


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Lovedyoumore
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, June 24th (Sunday)

We both call her Hagrid or Hag for short. Believe me, it fits her perfectly.

[This message edited by Lovedyoumore at 4:33 PM, June 24th (Sunday)]


Me 52
WH 52
Married 30+ years
Together trying to R

I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.


Posts: 1430 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Southern, bless your heart
messedup96
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, June 24th (Sunday)

psycho Bitch Whore
Homewreker
I don't use this word but what I found out She's a C*** Twat Douche Bag
Cum Sucker
Whore
Dumpster Diver
and why is it that men pick other woman that have the
the same name as their wife? I had a nieghbor that did that just thought it is creepy


BS me 36
Dirtbag 36
1st A DD July 20th 1996 OW also married
2nd A DD Oct 19th 2002
3rd A DD July 17th 2012
2nd and 3rd With same psycho serial married men cheater gutter fish troll
Married 16 thisnov
Together 17 this dec
Friends 24next marc

Posts: 114 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: IL
juli1980
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, June 24th (Sunday)

Skankarella....

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persevere
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, June 24th (Sunday)

Your manipulative bitch
& Homewrecking Whore


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4436 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
LostMyPrince
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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, June 24th (Sunday)

Skanky Leg Spreader


Sometimes mascara is the only thing that keeps a girl from breaking down.

Posts: 88 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: New Jersey
mentalmess
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, June 24th (Sunday)

Amazon ho

[This message edited by mentalmess at 5:59 PM, July 12th (Thursday)]


Me BS 50
Him WS 48
OW 57 Boiling bunnies non stop for months!
M 25 years
LTA 5 years
DDay 1/5/2011
R'ed, very happy and we are enjoying his early retirement!

Posts: 83 | Registered: Feb 2011
somer222
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, June 24th (Sunday)

Cousin It

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messedup96
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, July 24th (Tuesday)

Crazy psycho crusty skanky whore bitch


BS me 36
Dirtbag 36
1st A DD July 20th 1996 OW also married
2nd A DD Oct 19th 2002
3rd A DD July 17th 2012
2nd and 3rd With same psycho serial married men cheater gutter fish troll
Married 16 thisnov
Together 17 this dec
Friends 24next marc

Posts: 114 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: IL
jandjs1st
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Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, July 24th (Tuesday)

Slut F***


BW-32
FWH- 33
2 DD
Status - Working on it
d-day- April 21, 12

Posts: 180 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Southeast
messedup96
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, July 24th (Tuesday)

Home Wreaker sad thing is that's her initials


BS me 36
Dirtbag 36
1st A DD July 20th 1996 OW also married
2nd A DD Oct 19th 2002
3rd A DD July 17th 2012
2nd and 3rd With same psycho serial married men cheater gutter fish troll
Married 16 thisnov
Together 17 this dec
Friends 24next marc

Posts: 114 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: IL
What2Do76
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, July 24th (Tuesday)

At the beginning I had all sorts of interesting names but now I call her "Less than nothing" because that is what she is.


D-Day 11/20/10
Love Is Not Constantly Wondering If You Are Making the Biggest Mistake of Your Life

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awesomedamaged
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Default  Posted: 12:06 PM, July 24th (Tuesday)

I call her hole mate
Justintime
J*****e Tramp-o-lean
Or a few choice others


"You can't unring that bell or unfuck that woman." (Chump Lady)

Posts: 175 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Midwest
notquiteoverit
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Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, July 24th (Tuesday)

Dumpster Skank.


Me - BS 50
Him - WS 49
SOW - 52 destitute loser
D-day 1/28/11

Posts: 573 | Registered: Jul 2011
navymom1
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, July 24th (Tuesday)

I call the OW a few different names...
Leatherface
Cumdumpster
Lizard
Whore



Me-40
WS-42
Married 1995
DDay# 1995
DDAY#2- Jan 9,2012 2yr EA/PA with howorker
2-DD 22/15 and a son 20 (US NAVY)
Was tryin to R but to many false r. lies upon lies and not helping me heal now Seperated.....

I forgive people, but that


Posts: 84 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: New Jersey
MFC2011
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, July 24th (Tuesday)

OW#1 = The Whore
OW#2 = Chiquita Banana
OW#3 & her H = The Brazil Nuts


Dday#1: 12/25/11, Dday#2: 3/28/12, 4+ OW
It's in the stars
It's been written in the scars on our hearts
That we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
-Pink, "Just Give Me A Reason"

Posts: 795 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: USA
maitri2012
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, July 24th (Tuesday)

"Side Whore" - the combination of her being a literal whore on the side and feeling as if the A is circus freaks sideshow in our life.

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dawnmarie
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Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, July 24th (Tuesday)

"bitchfacewhore"


"Always go with your gut...the mind will only tell you what you want to hear."
author......me!!
BS:41
WH: 44
DDay: 8/02/09 (just someone from work)
DDay: 10/27/09 Complete confession
WH has done everything right for R (that I know of).

Posts: 130 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: IA
tinysteps
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, July 24th (Tuesday)

Omg! You are all hysterical I love all of these. I think my fav is cumdumpster.
My name for it is "dimwit" it is the stupidest thing I have ever met.

However, I am working on a new name using its initials. Now it is "Justa Ho " hehehe
Peace


BS-Me (48)
WH-Him (54)
M-12yrs Together 15 years
D'Day April 20, 2012
On the R Rollercoaster

How will see the great things ahead of us if we keep looking back at the bad things behind us?


Posts: 83 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: My heart is at the beach
fullofanger
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, July 24th (Tuesday)

Hog-nosed f-ing wrinkled up whore-bag.

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deepbreaths
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Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, July 24th (Tuesday)

I smelled fish when I got into WS vehicle, and I grilled him on it. He denied, but it stank! So now I call her tuna twat.


BS: 35
WS: 33
children: 2 yrs, one on the way
married 13 years

Posts: 102 | Registered: Jul 2012
awesomedamaged
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, July 24th (Tuesday)

Just a Ho
Bwaaaahhh!!


"You can't unring that bell or unfuck that woman." (Chump Lady)

Posts: 175 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Midwest
awesomedamaged
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, July 25th (Wednesday)

Oh and Justang Poontang


"You can't unring that bell or unfuck that woman." (Chump Lady)

Posts: 175 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Midwest
TheTooGoodWife
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, July 25th (Wednesday)

Fugly hog-nosed pug-faced mannish wh*re. (Accurate description as I met her soon after she started working there)


Me-BW-46
WH-43
M-13 yrs together 15 yrs, 2 DS 11 & 8
D-Day 20 May '12 WH confessed, PA 4 months 06/2008-10/2008 cOW
His A says nothing about me but everything about him

Posts: 239 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: UK
messedup96
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Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, July 25th (Wednesday)

Tuna twat bahahaha


BS me 36
Dirtbag 36
1st A DD July 20th 1996 OW also married
2nd A DD Oct 19th 2002
3rd A DD July 17th 2012
2nd and 3rd With same psycho serial married men cheater gutter fish troll
Married 16 thisnov
Together 17 this dec
Friends 24next marc

Posts: 114 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: IL
darkmissey
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, July 25th (Wednesday)

I can totally relate to this! The OW in my situation has the same name as me too. It seems to make the situation all the more sick and twisted, for some reason. I said to him "thanks now I can't even stand the sound of my own name"

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tinysteps
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, July 25th (Wednesday)

Okay I am having too much fun with this thread. It has given me major giggles.
A new name for Dimwit aka as J-usta H-o (took her initials) is Wart Hog. She has this warty skin "affliction" Now far be it from me to make fun of someone's affliction but hey, screw my H and all bets are off.
Peace


BS-Me (48)
WH-Him (54)
M-12yrs Together 15 years
D'Day April 20, 2012
On the R Rollercoaster

How will see the great things ahead of us if we keep looking back at the bad things behind us?


Posts: 83 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: My heart is at the beach
soveryweary
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, July 25th (Wednesday)

Whorica.
Deep Breaths, I about choked on my coffee when I read that! LOL!!!


Divorced 1/3/14

Posts: 617 | Registered: May 2011
RidingHealingRd
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, July 25th (Wednesday)

I just call her C***. Because I would never see a need to use that kind of language to describe anyone but the rotten evil person that she is.

DITTO


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2109 | Registered: Nov 2011
Stillhere97
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, July 26th (Thursday)

Bar Whore, bad mother, fat, ugly.
He total affaired down. He was drunk and she was there.
ONS,


BW 38
WH 40
Married 14yrs
2 kids
One night stand in foreign country
Process R!!!

Posts: 109 | Registered: Jul 2012
serenity101
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DOH!  Posted: 9:33 PM, July 26th (Thursday)

We call her Voldemort.


BW - me; 38yrs
WH - him; 38yrs
M 14 years
DD#1 - 1/07 (EA w/ random skank)
DD#2 - 9/09 (EA w/ 2nd skank)
DD#3 - 6/10 (PA in 2006-2007 w/ skanky co-worker)
In R

Posts: 11 | Registered: Jun 2011
yoshi7268
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Default  Posted: 10:27 PM, July 26th (Thursday)

I sometimes call her
The Shellacked Turd.


ME-BS-41 WH-45
Married 23 years-together 27
5 beautiful children ages 15-25
Dday1-late June 2011
Dday2-early July 2011
Dday3- early August 2011
Another affair 7 years before.
R going well

Posts: 279 | Registered: May 2012 | From: yoshi7268
angryorsad
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Default  Posted: 10:44 PM, July 26th (Thursday)

I can't believe I didn't see this thread earlier! You are all very creative (and have a very extensive vocabulary)!

OW1 - jennie-ho
OW2 - wordfeud whore
OW3 - the english bitch
OW4 - ayfkm? white trash whore

I like some of yours very much though and may borrow! And I'd be interested to see how WH would react to the girlfriend thing...


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messedup96
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, August 7th (Tuesday)

I love the skankerella I got a good laugh on that one.

Then I saw wart hog Both are great names


BS me 36
Dirtbag 36
1st A DD July 20th 1996 OW also married
2nd A DD Oct 19th 2002
3rd A DD July 17th 2012
2nd and 3rd With same psycho serial married men cheater gutter fish troll
Married 16 thisnov
Together 17 this dec
Friends 24next marc

Posts: 114 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: IL
Stillhurt123
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, August 7th (Tuesday)

You know...I always called OW whore...made me feel 'good'...

skank...I had her # in my phone as Bitch...I liked that.

But, just yesterday driving home, I came to the realization, that the best revenge of all is to completely forget her name. She is so worthless to me(worthless to everyone), that she's not even worth a name (poor thing with a face only a mother could love too).

how about - Nothing...


That Nothing your WH had an A with...for some reason, forgetting her name feels the BEST...calling her NOTHING makes me feel REALLY good...now she has NO power. Nothing!


Married for 10 yrs, together 15
Me, BW - 37
Him, fWH- 40
3 kids
D-Day; Dec 13, 2011, TT and lies and lies and lies and lies
Back in R

Posts: 403 | Registered: Apr 2012
fourever
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Default  Posted: 11:31 AM, August 7th (Tuesday)

Fuck Tunnel (she has a gift engraved "FT".
Cum Dumpster
Whore (got to call her this personally)

She is all those things, and all of the above.


In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!


Posts: 873 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Northeast
sudra
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Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, August 7th (Tuesday)

Generally, she's skank whore or just skank. Early on when my mouth had NO filter, it really got to him when I call her "your ex-fiance." Most important rule is never use her actual name. She doesn't deserve that courtesy.


Me (BW) (54), Him(SAWH) (57)
Married 21 years, 1 son (19), 1 stepdaughter (27)
DDay #1 January 2004
DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)
Working on R

Posts: 1448 | Registered: Nov 2010
deedug
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, August 7th (Tuesday)

I think Kristen Stewart's new nickname is funny: TRAMPIRE!


Married 21yrs
2 kids DD-16, DS9
WH-47
BW (me)-46
DDAY 7/2004 * 6mnths pregnant
DDAY 2 - 2/19/2009 (EA)
POLY 3/20/2009 - HE PASSED!!!
TO DATE (10/2013) - R never really materialized
4/2012-H had a stroke (he is mostly fully recovered now)

Posts: 302 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Maryland
losingmyground
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Member # 36070
Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, August 7th (Tuesday)

twat tickler, shitty mother, disguisting pig, pathetic


Married 13 yrs
3 kids 13, 10 & 1
I'm 34
FWH 37
Affair lasted 6 months
Ended 09/2011
Found out 06/2012
My father died during the affair
In the middle of Reconcilliation

Posts: 291 | Registered: Jul 2012
mamak
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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, August 7th (Tuesday)

WPOS: Whore piece of shit.

Ephyllis is my new one. She does catering/shit like that and working in a clinic, I came across a lot of cooks and such that had syphillis. I now claim that she is the source and have renamed it to Ephyllis (her name starts with an E).


Me - 37, Him - 34
Married - 12 years
Three kiddos (oldest is mine) - 9, 11,13
DDay #1 - 4/21/2012, Discovered 3 mo. EA (texts, phone calls, nude pics, sexting, 1 kiss)
R - 4/24/12. R going well

Posts: 287 | Registered: Jun 2012
Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, August 7th (Tuesday)

Wow, I think I have called her evername, but people know her as Shashquatch!
Fugly
Assface
Fucktard
Hoodrat
Whore Bitch
Sheman with hair
elephant nose
no upper lip bitch
Bitch
C*** face
Co Ho
Homewecking c***
Hobag
Easy lay
FUGLY ASS BITCH!!!!!
Flabby pussy (from all the men she fucks)
Needy Bitch
Wanta be bitch


Have at her Guys! She will rock your world!! so she says... lol....


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

Posts: 2661 | Registered: Aug 2011
zaci
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Member # 36138
Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, August 7th (Tuesday)

When I first found out I called it ........
Slutzilla
skankasaurus
ho-opotamus

But now it will forever be...
Plankton-pussy....because it gave me trich (you know, crotch cooties?). What, you never heard of it? Look up the microscopic pictures of trichonomas std on the CDC website and tell me they don't look like plankton. You know, plankton from spongebob with the antennaes.


ME : BS 35
HIM : WH 49
MARRIED 7YRS TOGETHER 12 YRS
3 KIDS AGED 6,3&9 mo.
DDAY: JUNE 2012 (he confessed to 1xPA with some hoebag extraordinaire who lived next to the house he was roofing LAST SUMMER when i was 7 mo preggs).

Posts: 68 | Registered: Jul 2012
MrsDevastated
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Member # 36386
Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, August 7th (Tuesday)

I just found out last week. He met her at a bar, while he was wearing his wedding ring.

I call her fatbarchick or barskank, or unemployed crappy alcoholic barwhore artist. Her art sucks, I mean, really sucks. And my soon to be x is an alkie as well--they soooo deserve each other. I am finally FREE!

Primarily:fatugly crappy "artist" bar skank.

He really really traded down. I told him this as well, and then wished him good luck with that and left.

[This message edited by MrsDevastated at 1:49 PM, August 7th (Tuesday)]


Me: BS
Him: WS
Her: hahahahahahhahha! Complete loser.


Posts: 8 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Midwest
stomachupset
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Member # 36084
Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, August 7th (Tuesday)

I have just started calling them "the ho bags" although "C***y McTwatburger" is also appealing.


BW - 50 ME
FWS - 52 HIM
DDays - 6/21/12, 8/3, 8/4 and 8/5

Working to improve me, IC and MC for both of us. We'll see how it goes.


Posts: 113 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Southern California
hexed
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Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, August 7th (Tuesday)

I always called OW by her first name. It wasn't my name though. I could tell the use of her name stung X far more than any of the crude names I came up with.

If she's married you might try calling her Mrs Lastname. A nice reminder of what a jerk she is while maintaining some dignity


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8434 | Registered: Apr 2008
LadyQ
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Member # 32847
Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, August 7th (Tuesday)

CFW. stands for crazy freakin whore. Saying her name still sickens me. When I talked to her BH a few weeks ago, I referred to her as "your wife". I s'pose not being able to say her name means I'm still renting her too much space in my mind. But I don't want to humanize her by calling her by her name.


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011
tinysteps
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Member # 36104
Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, August 7th (Tuesday)

So many names so little time. Taking a cue from here I called her "your whore" to my H. Ohhhh my he didn't like THAT! Truth hurts I guess.
Peace


BS-Me (48)
WH-Him (54)
M-12yrs Together 15 years
D'Day April 20, 2012
On the R Rollercoaster

How will see the great things ahead of us if we keep looking back at the bad things behind us?


Posts: 83 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: My heart is at the beach
LivinginLimbo
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Member # 35004
Default  Posted: 6:36 AM, August 8th (Wednesday)

Most important rule is never use her actual name. She doesn't deserve that courtesy.

Add me among those who will not say "its" name. I also made that clear to my H the one time he made that mistake. I refuse to humanize this slut.


BS - 62
FWH - 60
Married 34 years
D-Day 2/12/12
Doing well with R

Posts: 1014 | Registered: Mar 2012
2hurtbyfar
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Default  Posted: 7:13 AM, August 8th (Wednesday)

I never refer to OW by her first name - WH refers to her by her surname...

I prefer to call her 'bicycle' - well lets put it this way... she has been well and truely ridden by a lot of men!


Eat my dust - I am far too good for the likes of you!!

Posts: 27 | Registered: Jun 2011
VeilLifted
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Member # 34692
Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, August 8th (Wednesday)

Ghettoskank
project pussy
He definitely affaired down

"your girlfriend" as others have said this one bothers him the most.

He refers to gs as "her" or "that girl" he never says her name. Could barely make himself say it on dday. Every now and then I have said its name on purpose to
see him squirm

[This message edited by VeilLifted at 8:58 AM, August 8th (Wednesday)]


Me - BW
Him - FWH
DDay 10-29-11 2 month EA 1 time PA
He had ended it 10-28-11
Broke NC 12-20-11
S 12-21-11 filed D 1-4-12
R started/H moved home 2-8-12
2 wonderul boys 17 & 14(now 20 & 17)
Now we have a beautiful grandson!
Married 19 years(n

Posts: 229 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
GreenMom
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Member # 36385
Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, August 8th (Wednesday)

I just refer to her by her name most of the time. Though I have been known to refer to her as "the b*tch" or "homewrecker" or "piece of trash" when I'm ranting to a friend.


DD#1 6/14/12
DD#2 7/29/12
Reconcilation attempt didn't last long...WH moved out 8/10/12
Divorcing... hoping to be done soon
Making a fantastic NB for myself and my family!

Posts: 535 | Registered: Aug 2012
Itrustedyou
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Member # 35831
Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, August 8th (Wednesday)

PMSL at all the great references to the lower life forms but mine is a favourite that I take pleasure in it is..... Ugly c*** bitch horse teeth fish face.

My sister refers to her as granny fanny which always makes me laugh. WH just calls her IT and refers any subject abou IT is lowering the tone.

I did refer to his girlfriend several times in the beginning which gave me satisfaction from the wounded look on his face. Now it's ewwwwww you went FUGLY .


BW 35
FWH 41
2DS, 1DD
Married 11years together 14 years
EA/PA 11 weeks
OW- 49 Single Old Manipulative Whore-extended family

DD 02/11/2011
TT til 05/01/2012


Posts: 54 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: UK
ihatehim
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Member # 35646
Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, August 8th (Wednesday)

Toilet bowl bitch (bc she is NASTY just like a toilet!) or dog-face trout


Me: 33
Him:31
Ow: 27 (worked together)
Married 6years, 2 kids

Posts: 66 | Registered: May 2012
yesterdaysdreams
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Member # 26305
Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, August 9th (Thursday)

SIL's OW, but I call her Twunt or Twatwaffle.

Posts: 12 | Registered: Nov 2009
sosad08
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Member # 32946
Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, August 9th (Thursday)

I call mine the bar troll


BS - 47
WS - 47
3 Kids - 26,16,15
1 Grandchild - 3
DD - 8/6/10
Don't know where I am...

Posts: 7 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Texas
BrokenSpirit50
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Member # 34485
Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, August 10th (Friday)

I had to get in on this one.

Donuts

The skank has fake boobs that look like glazed donuts. Fake, fake, fake


Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
Kids 0
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!

If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.


Posts: 239 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Midwest
riverinegypt
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Member # 35830
Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, August 10th (Friday)

slimy cun+ stain.

The ugliest phrase I can imagine. If you can think of something uglier, please let me know.

Sorry. Still a little angry. ;o)

[This message edited by riverinegypt at 9:00 PM, August 10th (Friday)]


Me: 43/ stbXH: 43 (alcoholic),
d-day5/22/12, D pending

“my goal is to always come from a place of love ...but sometimes you just have to break it down for a motherf#cker”
― RuPaul


Posts: 170 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: midwest USA
solus sto
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Member # 30989
Default  Posted: 12:22 AM, August 11th (Saturday)

I usually refer to her by first and last name, though a profane epithet or three have crossed my lips.

X hates it most when I call her "your girlfriend."


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8501 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Keepcalm
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Member # 36234
Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, August 11th (Saturday)

My husband actually asked me to call her by her name! I DON'T THINK SO! I use to call her the Skank, now its Cumdumpster. THanks SI


BS Me 57
WS Him 55
Married 30 yrs
DDay 1/28/2012
I have no idea what is going on

Posts: 150 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Virginia
del311
Member
Member # 33840
Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, August 11th (Saturday)

PUNKASS


BS(me)..39
WS(her)..38
OM(boy)..22(WTF)
Married..18y
2 children..18 & 5
DDay 3/3/11 "EA only"
DDay 3/7/11 "yup PA"
Grasping for R...fingers.cramped.losing.grip...

Posts: 96 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: san diego
MystiKay
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Member # 36401
Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, August 11th (Saturday)

It changes..the main one I call by her shortened first name or many other deragotory names. And the second girl, i just call Bitch. The men I call Bastard, asshole and by their last names. Which really does kind of suck because one if polish and his name is like 56 letters long. But i have found a sudden love of polock jokes now.

Posts: 281 | Registered: Aug 2012
GettingApathetic
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Member # 36109
Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, August 11th (Saturday)

Love the idea of calling The Beast Mrs. ----. Good reminder that they trashed two families, not just one. I still hate the bitch with every fiber of my being, but I am starting to think she could have been any port in a storm. I like this thought b/c it makes her even more pathetic than the dumb bitch already was. He could have at least had an affair with someone awesome - it would not be as insulting.

Posts: 77 | Registered: Jul 2012
hailstormer
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, September 18th (Tuesday)

My SIL suggestion was Lot Lizard and I will have to be honest had to google that one but once I found the meaning I started using that one and because it was a company affair used the companys name The C***** Lot Lizard. Also the comment that said her Hubby's whore well I told mine wait till the kids find out about Daddy's Little Whore! I am sure that hit the spot


me(BS)-55
him(WS)-53
together 21 years
1st D-Day 4-19-10
2nd D-Day 5-3-12
married 19 years
2 kids 13-twins
Unfortunately...divorcing

Posts: 122 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Florida
missyb32641
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Member # 35656
Default  Posted: 1:14 AM, September 19th (Wednesday)

A friend of mine came up with Skunt. my new personal favorite.


ME: BS 41
Him FWH 43
Married 20 years together 22 at the time.
Working thru R.

Posts: 273 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Florida
Betrayed3811
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Member # 34599
Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, September 19th (Wednesday)

Fucking c*** whore or FCW for short. Never called anyone the "C" word before her but the name fits!


BW(me) 52
FWH 52
DS 23
DDAY #1 3/8/11 EA
DDAY #2 4/5/11 EA

Posts: 6 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: betrayed3811
StayorLeave
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Member # 35675
Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, September 19th (Wednesday)

Sluttina
Skeletor
Sum Yung Ho


Me: 34 (Betrayed)
Him: 43 (Cheater)
Many DDays/lies
Last DDAy: Feb 2009
Hardcore 180 & separated for 1 year
R: 3 yrs in Jan

Posts: 46 | Registered: May 2012
Lola2kids
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Member # 32789
Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, September 20th (Thursday)

Had to get in on this one...

in my phone she is
Whora B**os
Her first name is the same as mine and Whora rhymes with it. The last name is her husband's.

I will consider next time calling her Mrs. B to the WS and see if he likes that.

Her other name is :
Gypsy C***
GC for short.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
WS: Him 49 (Together 12 years)
D-Day April 18, 2011, Him:out Sept. 11, 2011..moved June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1358 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
FutureChanged
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Member # 32965
Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, September 20th (Thursday)

Wheeewww, lots of terminolgy out there, read throught he first few pages, noticed no men (betrayed husbands) posted any terminology so I won't threadjack. Suffice it to say I used a fair number of these terms for my WW in the first few weeks....not sure how I feel about that.

I will however give inventive credit where inventive credit is due. Someone commented on the Y shaped coffin which is awesomely hilarious!


Dday: 12/21/2010
Wish I hadn't stayed......

Posts: 75 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Nor Cal
jo2love
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Red  Posted: 1:07 PM, September 20th (Thursday)

Reminder: The 4 letter C word and any variation of it, are not allowed on SI. Thank you for following this rule.

Posts: 34441 | Registered: Mar 2011
whatdoto
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Member # 28555
Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, September 20th (Thursday)

Monkeyface - WH even called her that


"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".

Posts: 1187 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Texas
TheTooGoodWife
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Member # 35973
Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, September 20th (Thursday)

Recently came up with a new name "udder" woman. WH says the first thought he had when he finally saw her naked breasts as she leaned over him is...they look like udders (he was fantasising about these really big porn star type ones as OW has big ones, so he was seriously disappointed...yeah okay...they were still good enough to play with and suck on )


Me-BW-46
WH-43
M-13 yrs together 15 yrs, 2 DS 11 & 8
D-Day 20 May '12 WH confessed, PA 4 months 06/2008-10/2008 cOW
His A says nothing about me but everything about him

Posts: 239 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: UK
pbjkiki
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Member # 35145
Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, September 20th (Thursday)

I logged into his google contacts and saved her number as Gutter. It syncs with his Android. That way if she contacted him, that would show up to his phone. (And she called that day).

She would drive from Phoenix to Scottsdale to go club hopping with her friends where the "rich old sugar daddies" are. So I called her Twatsdale.

She looks like a half melted Kelly Kapowski doll crossed with a swine.

His sext-buddy with mannish facial features, I called her:
"That Jewish guy who dressed like a sorority girl."

The third sexter I called The Grinch.

[This message edited by jo2love at 6:59 AM, September 21st (Friday)]


Posts: 333 | Registered: Mar 2012
jo2love
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Red  Posted: 4:46 PM, September 20th (Thursday)

pbjkiki -

You have a PM.

[This message edited by jo2love at 4:47 PM, September 20th (Thursday)]


Posts: 34441 | Registered: Mar 2011
Hrtbrken1
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Member # 33802
Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, September 20th (Thursday)

Doucheasaurus Rex or Your Girlfriend for MOW. Also the timeless classic: Whore.


Me-BW
Him-WH
Together 16 years, married 10.
DDay 07/26/2011, 8 month EA/PA with friend of our family. Months of TT.
DDay#2 Early spring 2012, confirmed EA with another woman.

Posts: 144 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Sunny South
cloudyskies
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Member # 36228
Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, September 20th (Thursday)

I call her Hood Bitch and Headspace but my favorite is Stupid Bitch.

Did she really think that he wasn't lying to her?!?!
He is a married man you stupid bitch!!


Me: BS 33
Him: WS 40
Married 6 yrs, together 8 yrs
1 child

2 drunken ONS, on-again/off-again 1 year Affair
D-day Feb 2012
OW co-worker (they still work together)
Status: He killed our marriage! Working on a new one...


Posts: 120 | Registered: Jul 2012
FaithStricken
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Member # 34080
Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, September 20th (Thursday)

Whotel skank
Psychowhore
Scumskank

My FWH hated the "girlfriend" label too.


Posts: 85 | Registered: Dec 2011
Keepbreathing5
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Member # 36534
Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, September 21st (Friday)

We call her "slort"

A combination of slut, whore and
(because she really did deserve that additional
added in)

[This message edited by jo2love at 8:11 PM, September 21st (Friday)]


BSO (me): 24
WSO (him): 27 (cheaterSteve05)
Engaged 1.5 years, Together 6 years
EA: ~4 months/ PA: ~2 months with MOW (coworker)

Posts: 64 | Registered: Aug 2012
Keepbreathing5
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Member # 36534
Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, September 21st (Friday)

[This message edited by Keepbreathing5 at 6:45 PM, September 21st (Friday)]


BSO (me): 24
WSO (him): 27 (cheaterSteve05)
Engaged 1.5 years, Together 6 years
EA: ~4 months/ PA: ~2 months with MOW (coworker)

Posts: 64 | Registered: Aug 2012
SI Staff
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Red  Posted: 8:09 PM, September 21st (Friday)

WARNING

This is the FINAL WARNING!!

The 4 LETTER C WORD AND ANY VARIATION OF IT (including using ***), are NOT allowed on SI. Follow the rule or do not post on this thread.

BREAKING OF THIS RULE CAN RESULT IN HAVING YOUR MEMBERSHIP CANCELLED.


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LostMyPrince
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Member # 29412
Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, March 3rd (Monday)

Just getting a few laughs reading through this topic and thought it deserved a bump...and a new one for hubby's latest "love"

I call her "The Troll"


Sometimes mascara is the only thing that keeps a girl from breaking down.

Posts: 88 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: New Jersey
shiloe
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Member # 1224
Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, March 3rd (Monday)

Lol, love this

Buck-tooth slut
(she could eat an ear of corn through a picket fence)

usually it is just:

his married whore.


But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 54
Cheater -54
Married 26 yrs
DD - 21 DD -19 DS-17
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA with married ho-worker. Kicked him out, he filed

Posts: 586 | Registered: Mar 2003
StrongerOne
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Member # 36915
Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, March 3rd (Monday)

Your Very Special Friend. In a voice dripping with sarcasm.

Because, you know, they were just friends.


DDay Feb 2011.
In R.

Posts: 846 | Registered: Sep 2012
SeeThingsNow1
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Member # 38241
Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, March 3rd (Monday)

you guys left out the best one i ever saw on here - Sausage Wallet LOL Yes, technically i guess it refers to her aperture but still...i think many of these women could be seen as that name LOL

Posts: 106 | Registered: Jan 2013
ruby44
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Member # 41135
Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, March 3rd (Monday)

When I talk to him, I say "your girlfriend", when I talk to my IC its HER
When I talk to my friends and sisters its the banned word minus the C prefaced with a SL.

[This message edited by ruby44 at 8:49 PM, March 3rd (Monday)]


Me BW 52, Him WH 48
Married 13 years,
2 DDs (12 and 10)
D-Day Confirmed 10/24/13 suspected before that but did not want to believe it.
WH filed for D 11/12/13
2/8/14 WH asked if he could come home.
Lies!

Posts: 276 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Midwest
womaninflux
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Member # 39667
Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, March 3rd (Monday)

When we are in MC, I refer to her by her first name. It takes the power away. Sometimes I refer to her as his former girlfriend.

With my friends, we refer to her as (the name we are not supposed to say on here)-faced whore (are we still allowed to say that?) or my SAfWH's former girlfriend.

Finally, my BFF I've known in good times and bad for 35 years said it all: "Every woman I know named - - - - is a hooker." It's funny, because other people have said the same thing. Lots of people have experience with women who have this name and they are not good ones.


BS - mid-40's
SAWH - mid 40's
Kids - 2 elementary school aged
Getting tons of therapy and trying to "work it out"

Posts: 864 | Registered: Jun 2013
BetrayalHurts
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Member # 34836
Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, March 3rd (Monday)

I call her "your friend".......he hates that


M 25 years
BW Me - 50's
WH Him - 60's
OW 25 years younger
D-Days too numerous to mention last D-day being 12-2-11 *OW went on fishing trip 5-21-13*

"A relationship is only made for two, but some bitches don't know how to count"


Posts: 353 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Colorado
stunnedin12
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Member # 38141
Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, March 3rd (Monday)

I call her the same name wh used to hide her in his phone. Bugs the hell out of him. He asked if I would use her real name once..... um, not a snowball's chance in hades that will happen.

Here and in my mind, she is chickie --- That equally annoys wh.

Should she ever have the opportunity to serve me (a very real possibility) I plan to look her in the eye and call her the nickname wh used. I mean we all know how precious those cute little nicknames are, the nickname was so special to them, shouldn't we all have the pleasure of using it?


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure, but trying I guess.

Posts: 450 | Registered: Jan 2013
joannie
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Member # 42486
Default  Posted: 6:57 AM, March 4th (Tuesday)

to him I too refer to her as your friend.....to me i call her bitch.I am for ever telling her to eff off in my head
cannot say her name to him..too french , too sweet a name although the name of a famous french prostitute !!!!!!that helps too......
to my friend she is called Gilbert.....i still love to call her bitch in my head , and worse...I used to be so nice once


me BS 56yr
Him WS 55yr
Married 34 years 2 sons 4 grandchildren

Posts: 126 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: France
Gemstone
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Member # 42000
Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, March 4th (Tuesday)

Started off as the Skank
Now we both refer to her as The Troll

Posts: 97 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: United Kindgdon
NikkiD
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Member # 38173
Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, March 4th (Tuesday)

I say "ya girl"...LOL!!


"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....

Posts: 668 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Midwest
BtraydWife
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Member # 42581
Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, March 4th (Tuesday)

Sausage Wallet


Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 1305 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
aero1122
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Member # 41575
Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, March 4th (Tuesday)

I usually call her douchebag, c*** or just the plain old whore.
She really is all three rolled up so I could call her the DCW?


Me-35
WH-36
Together 18 years
Married 7 years
2 kids
D-day 12-7-13
Both currently in counseling
Trying to R

I am a warrior!
I will survive and thrive!


Posts: 100 | Registered: Dec 2013
Dawn58
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Member # 37656
Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, March 4th (Tuesday)

Initially, called her the skank. Then skanky bitch. Now, she's the "next one he's gonna cheat on." I should call her his fiancee but we know how that's gonna end up.


I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

Posts: 467 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Southern California
SpecialK
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Member # 42372
Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, March 4th (Tuesday)

Wow! I think the thread had just about covered
ALL the bases.

When I do think about "it", and have to speak of "it", I use:

Ghetto ho

That is truly what "it" is.

But when I want to make a dig, I call "it" his "girlfriend". Never fails to get his blood boiling! :)


Posts: 211 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Florida
soloney
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Member # 42621
Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, March 4th (Tuesday)

"whore"
I gave her number that nickname in our ATT account, so if he ever has a phone conversation with her I will know right away.

Posts: 84 | Registered: Feb 2014
SadInNC
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Member # 42170
Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, March 4th (Tuesday)

UglyAss Bitch from Whoretown

Slutface

Desperate Dirtbag Ho



BS/Me WH/Him

"Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth." -Unknown Wise Person


Posts: 337 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: North Carolina, United States
1000eyes
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Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, March 4th (Tuesday)

Not really an OW per say but
This one escort my H used a lot, I call her the Klingon. Due to the insane amount of empty mountainous forehead she's got goin on. petaQ!


Me 33 Him 44
3yo DD, 3wko DD
A buttload of escorts for "massages" at
least 2 EAs, ACTIVELY dating on Match.com
Multiple Ddays most recent 12/13
Gonna hurt when it heals too

Posts: 14 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: The frozen north
LolaJean
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Member # 42669
Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, March 4th (Tuesday)

I refer to them as his whores. One of the OW gets the c word whore and I have heard a few refer to her by our old street name's street bicycle. She slept with 7 guys in a 2 block radius. Within less than a few months. We lived a couple doors down from her and at first he tried to make me not be friends, but be pleasant with her since we had the same group of friends. Thank goodness he put his head on straight, figured out that was ridiculous, we moved away, I'm hoping she went back to Whore Island.

Posts: 14 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Southern California
Flourgirl
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Member # 40937
Default  Posted: 12:31 AM, March 5th (Wednesday)

We call her Super Slut. She has a huge vagina tattoo of a superman icon. She is very proud of her Super Slut status. I'm all good with wearing your art but really???


BS me 39
WH him 40
Dd 7/1/13. TT 7/22/13
SAHM with 4 wonderful kids

Posts: 183 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Kansas City
lovehatelove
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Member # 42541
Default  Posted: 12:47 AM, March 5th (Wednesday)

Skank whore is used a lot...

What's her face...

Sometimes I just use the word "her"...

She had like 3 different names.... So I'm not even sure what WH called her when they were together...

[This message edited by lovehatelove at 1:40 AM, March 5th (Wednesday)]


DDay ~ 2/23/13

Posts: 163 | Registered: Feb 2014
william
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Member # 41986
Default  Posted: 1:56 AM, March 5th (Wednesday)

my WW is the one who prefers nicknames. "him" for instance. i call them by their names. i also refuse to use euphanisms for what was done, i call it what it was. why should i sugar coat it all?

[This message edited by william at 9:12 AM, March 5th (Wednesday)]


me - bh
her - lara01

from 09/11 - 05/13
2 ONS, 10 sexting partners, 1 LT EA/PA

??/06/13 DD/1 - admits to LT EA, begin false R.
01/13/14 DD/2 - LTA was PA.
01/18/14 DD/3 - sexting 5 guys.
01/19/14 DD/4 - 2 ONS with different guys


Posts: 527 | Registered: Jan 2014
Getting to Happy
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Member # 35200
Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, March 5th (Wednesday)

For a while the ho-worker was called his 'wife'. And I became his 'business partner'.


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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Posts: 1138 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
mainlyinpain
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Member # 39134
Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, March 5th (Wednesday)

Toilet scum

When I am nice--coke whore.


DD 1 - 7/7/2004
DD 2 - 10/31/2011
DD 3 - 4/30/2013(or continuation?)(Yes)
DD 4 - 9/25/2013
DD 5 - 2/15/2014 (found phone from 2009)

Posts: 485 | Registered: Apr 2013
brokengirl37
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Member # 42530
Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, March 5th (Wednesday)

old leathery twat


Me: 38
WH : 40
2 Boys Age 10, 13
D-Day Feb 16 2014
OW: My Co-worker

Posts: 65 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Canada
Mochagurl
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Member # 14660
Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, March 5th (Wednesday)

Home Wrecker Whore- HWW for short and when I text.


Me: BS-54
Him: WS-55
Married: 35 years
DD 36, DD 25, DS 21, DD 18
You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.

Posts: 150 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Ohio
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