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Deeply Scared
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Exclaimation  Posted: 5:55 PM, September 4th (Tuesday)

We will keep this thread as a 'sticky' thread for members to contribute abbreviations to and then we'll update the Abbreviation link in the HL after this has run its course.

PLEASE do not put abbreviations in here unless they are globally known as legitimate abbreviations in the infidelity/forum world.

Also, please read the current Abbreviation list in the Healing Library to make sure the abbreviation you're about to submit isn't already listed.

We will keep the first post of this thread updated, so please read the first post to avoid posting duplicate abbreviations

t/j = Thread Jack - taking a thread off topic.

FOO = Family of Origin

TT = Trickle Truth

HB = Hysterical Bonding

ETA = Edit To Add

RA = Revenge Affair

IDK = I Don't Know

KISA = Knight In Shinging Armor

ILYBINILWY = I love you but I'm not in love with you

JMO = Just My Opinion

NPD = narcissistic personality disorder

FWB = Friend With Benefits

B.O.B. = battery operated boyfriend

DD = Darling Daughter

DS = Darling Son

FWW/FWH = Former Wayward Wife/Husband

D-Day = Discovery Day

IRL = In Real Life

IMHO = In My Humble Opinion

PITA = Pain in the ass

FWIW= For what it's worth

COW = Co worker

LTA = Long Term Affair

SA = Sex Addict

MLC = Mid Life Crisis

IC = Individual Counseling

AP = Affair Partner

[This message edited by SI Staff at 6:27 PM, January 13th (Monday)]


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, September 4th (Tuesday)

"t/j" = ?

Could someone share that secret?

Thanks in advance.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, September 4th (Tuesday)

Thread Jack.

It's like hijacking the thread with a tangent-thought, leading it away from the original intent.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, September 4th (Tuesday)

FOO = Family of Origin


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, September 4th (Tuesday)

TT = Trickle Truth

Along with t/j, it took me forever to figure out what TT was.

Of course, then I realized, I already was intimately familiar.


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

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Pippy
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, September 4th (Tuesday)

HB = Hysterical Bonding
Sex with your WS after D-Day, often described as the best sex you ever had together. There are several theories as to why it happens. Maybe someone will expand on this.

[This message edited by Pippy at 6:29 PM, September 4th (Tuesday)]


I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.


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NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, September 4th (Tuesday)

ETA = Edited to Add


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, September 5th (Wednesday)

Apologies. Just re-read instructions. These definitions were already in the healing library.


WW = Wayward Wife (not just "wayward")

fWW = Former Wayward Wife (not to be confused with XWW = Ex Wayward Wife)

fWH = Former Wayward Husband (not to be confused with XWH = Ex Wayward Husband)

COW = does it stand for Coworker Other Woman or for Crazy Other Woman?

COM = Child of Marriage (the child/ren between the wife and husband, not the OP)

Question: in the HL, it says that MOP = maybe other person. I always thought it stood for "married other person"? Has the definition changed, or am I just behind?

[This message edited by silverhopes at 10:42 AM, September 5th (Wednesday)]


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, September 5th (Wednesday)

silverhopes...

Most of those are already posted on the Abbreviation list in the HL, please edit to leave only the ones that are not listed.

Thank you.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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stillhere09
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, September 5th (Wednesday)


RA - Revenge Affair

IDK - I Don't Know

b/c - Because (I often don't put b/c; I'm not sure it would be understood.

OBS - Other Betrayed Spouse


Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M


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2kidsandadog
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Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, September 6th (Thursday)

KISA?

There's another one I can't remember now; starts with a K also.


Divorced 05/11/11 -
2kids - 20 and 22 (Thank God for them)

Too many Ddays to count. Enough said!


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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, September 6th (Thursday)

SMH = shaking my head

What is YMMV?


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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avicarswife
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, September 6th (Thursday)

ILY - I love you


ILYBINILWY - I love you but I'm not in love with you

gf or GF - girlfriend

bf or BF - boyfriend

BTDT - been there done that

CS - child support - I think

OMG

CWOT - complete waste of time

YMMV - your mileage may vary

[This message edited by avicarswife at 11:58 PM, September 6th (Thursday)]


BS: 47 (me)
WH: 51
Married 26 yrs, 3 kids (16-24)
D-Days 2012: 23 - 24 May + TT
D-Day 2013: 12 Apr OW#3
mOW #1 EA yrs PA Feb 2009-end 2011
mOW #2 EA months PA 4 months 2010
OW #3 PA single time 2010
Status: Maybe 'R'

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, September 8th (Saturday)

KISA = Knight In Shining Armor

Mostly sarcastic.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, September 8th (Saturday)

Can anyone tell me what IIRC means? I've seen it a cew times and can't for the life of me figure it out. Thanks.


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:40 PM, September 9th (Sunday)

IIRC = If I recall correctly


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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PanicAttack53
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Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, September 10th (Monday)

JMO = Just My Opinion
KHYF = Know How You Feel
KNIM = Know What I Mean
SIL = Son in Law (or Sister in Law as in abrev. thread)


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, September 10th (Monday)

Thanks NIK.


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


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fyou143
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Default  Posted: 9:20 AM, September 11th (Tuesday)

What is KWIM? I can't figure that one out and been seeing it here on SI and another blog and can't figure it out


BS(me) - 26
WH - 34
DDay 6/24/12 at 2:04 p.m.
DDay 2 5/8/13-5/22/13 KIK App
2 Children ages 5 (boy) and 2 (girl)
I'm sorry is a statement I won't do it again is a promise how do i make it up to you is a responsibility

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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, September 11th (Tuesday)

KWIM= Know What I Mean?

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fyou143
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, September 11th (Tuesday)

how about CS? it isn't child support well in the way i'm reading it in this post can it mean something else

ETA - ok sounds like she is trying to say WH or SO but instead is saying CS maybe typo

[This message edited by fyou143 at 3:37 PM, September 11th (Tuesday)]


BS(me) - 26
WH - 34
DDay 6/24/12 at 2:04 p.m.
DDay 2 5/8/13-5/22/13 KIK App
2 Children ages 5 (boy) and 2 (girl)
I'm sorry is a statement I won't do it again is a promise how do i make it up to you is a responsibility

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, September 11th (Tuesday)

I think someone used it as Cheating Spouse on a thread I read recently, but that's the first time I've seen it used to mean something other than Child Support.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, September 11th (Tuesday)

FWB - Friends with benefits

I often read as 'Former Wayward Boyfriend' and it doesnt work


Indian wisdom says our lives are rivers. We are born somewhere small and quiet and we move toward a place we cannot see, but only imagine. From Tending Roses

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homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, September 11th (Tuesday)

NPD : What does it mean and what is it?


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

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scaredyKat
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, September 11th (Tuesday)

NPD = narcissistic personality disorder. It's a diagnosis, and means what it says. I think there is a whole thread in I Can Relate.


Me-BS-60
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

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kchip
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Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, September 12th (Wednesday)

whats DD?


Me: BH (42)
2 boys, age 10/7
D Day: July 15, 2012
Status: DIVORCING
You know that movie, Sleeping With the Enemy? Well I am Julia Roberts in that one......sighhhh
"When we hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change"

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, September 12th (Wednesday)

Dear Daughter or Darling Daughter.

ETA Many times people will say DD13 as in their daughter who is 13 years old. Or DD1 or DD2, for oldest daughter or second daughter. Most use the age though.

[This message edited by authenticnow at 6:14 PM, September 12th (Wednesday)]


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, September 15th (Saturday)

I've also seen DD used here for d-day, or discovery day. But what authenticnow said is the universal internet meaning for DD.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, September 16th (Sunday)

if the TMI ones are being included - BOB or B.O.B. - battery operated boyfriend


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


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fyou143
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Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, September 25th (Tuesday)

how about the fWW or fWH what does that f stand for f**king wayward ?


BS(me) - 26
WH - 34
DDay 6/24/12 at 2:04 p.m.
DDay 2 5/8/13-5/22/13 KIK App
2 Children ages 5 (boy) and 2 (girl)
I'm sorry is a statement I won't do it again is a promise how do i make it up to you is a responsibility

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, September 25th (Tuesday)

FWW/FWH = Former Wayward Wife/Husband.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, September 25th (Tuesday)

Yes; could we PLEASE stop using DD for d-day?? That makes me (more) crazy...


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

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stillhere09
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, September 26th (Wednesday)


I've been here long enough to understand most of the abbreviations, but there's one that's being used occasionally now that I don't remember seeing before...What does MO mean?


Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M


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GreenEyeGirl
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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, September 26th (Wednesday)

What is the abbrev for IRL? This one baffles me! as in something to do with friends??

[This message edited by GreenEyeGirl at 1:11 PM, September 26th (Wednesday)]


BW=45; WH=46 We have 2 kids DD/DS.
DDay 6-13-12 Married 23 years
He cheated on our marriage during year 14. Eight yrs after the A began is when I found out.
Going to try to reconcile, my heart is BROKEN

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, September 26th (Wednesday)

I don't know what MO is...Money Order?

IRL = In Real Life


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Lucky
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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, September 26th (Wednesday)

MO - make offer?


♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥


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GreenEyeGirl
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, September 26th (Wednesday)

MO: My opinion?
anyone: IRL?


BW=45; WH=46 We have 2 kids DD/DS.
DDay 6-13-12 Married 23 years
He cheated on our marriage during year 14. Eight yrs after the A began is when I found out.
Going to try to reconcile, my heart is BROKEN

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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, September 27th (Thursday)

IRL = "In Real Life"

IANAL = "I Am Not A Lawyer" (mainly Divorce forum)


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, September 27th (Thursday)

IMO - In My Opinion
IMHO - In My Humble Opinion
IMNSHO - In My Not So Humble Opinion


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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Tred
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, October 4th (Thursday)

I always thought MO was modus operandi, or mode (method) of operation.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:09 AM, October 6th (Saturday)

g2g
HTH (hope that helps)
NSFW (not suitable for work, although I don't know how often I see that here)
TIA (thanks in advance)
PITA (pain in the ass)
M/F/B/SIL (mother/father/brother/sister in law)
OTOH (on the other hand)

We abbreviate the forums a lot ... do people generally infer those? D/S, NB, OT...

[This message edited by Amazonia at 7:13 AM, October 6th (Saturday)]


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 6:46 AM, October 10th (Wednesday)

FWIW=For what it's worth


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
Finally, completely R'd
Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

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imaf
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Default  Posted: 4:12 AM, October 14th (Sunday)

[This message edited by imaf at 4:29 AM, October 14th (Sunday)]


Left him because I didn´t like his other girlfriend.

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NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, October 18th (Thursday)

I suggest adding OLD = On Line Dating


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

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WaryOptimist
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, October 22nd (Monday)

What does FTG stand for?


Me: The faithful one
Him: WS
4 great kids
Married 28 years, together 36
D-Day: April 1, 2006 (yep, April Fool's Day...)
Aaaaaas Yoooouuu Wiiiiiish...

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NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, October 22nd (Monday)

WaryOptimist:

Fuck That Guy!

tee-hee

I'm not sure which thread started it. Maybe Tesla's. It may need to be considered a 'non-standard acronym'.


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

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NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, October 22nd (Monday)

oopsie daisies. double post

[This message edited by NoTriangles at 7:50 PM, October 22nd (Monday)]


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

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karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, October 22nd (Monday)

Can someone tell me what crickets are??

I just don't get it

Thanks


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, October 22nd (Monday)

@karmanhappens ~You know when it is so quiet you can hear crickets chirping? That is what is meant by *crickets*..........silence!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, October 22nd (Monday)

Ahhhh Thanks SMS

Man that one was driving me nuts :)


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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stillhere09
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Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, October 28th (Sunday)


Thanks, Tred. I've paid attention to posts recently, and MO does seem to be used for Method of Operation.


Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M


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Blobette
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, October 28th (Sunday)

What about DBL?

Another one I've seen is FML = fuck my life

Oh, and I've also seen ITA = I totally agree

[This message edited by Blobette at 12:09 PM, October 28th (Sunday)]


BS (me): 50
WS: 50
Married: 26 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R

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sohowamI
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Default  Posted: 6:29 AM, November 7th (Wednesday)

Anyone know what HH means please?


WS had two LTAs of 10 years and 12 years; further 8/9 affairs; EAs, 2 OC. Looks horrific but he is fully immersed in trying to find the 'broken.' It's on-going and painful. If there's a blue sky and sunshine, then it's a good day.

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wwill73
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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, November 8th (Thursday)

Can anyone tell me what madhatter means? I see it alot but not sure what it refers to.

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HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, November 8th (Thursday)

What about DBL?

Pretty sure this one is DoucheBagLoser.

HH...not sure. What's the context?


Madhatter is someone who has been both a BS and a WS. There's been some discussion as to whether both hats have to be worn in the same relationship (ie both partners cheated) or if one could have been a BS in a previous M and then WS in current M (or vice versa).


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

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DWBH
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, November 9th (Friday)

How about COW...

C____ Other Woman?


Me: BH, 43
Her: FWW, 41 (ThornyRose)
M: 16 years, together 19
2 Daughters: 14 and 12
D Day: 9/25/2011; Lies & TT to 5/4/2012
~Double betrayal; caught them in the act~

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dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, November 24th (Saturday)

This one used to completely baffle me here: FOTY

FOTY = Father of the year


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, November 25th (Sunday)

COW = Co worker
MCOW = Married co worker


Indian wisdom says our lives are rivers. We are born somewhere small and quiet and we move toward a place we cannot see, but only imagine. From Tending Roses

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AnnieNielsen
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Default  Posted: 11:49 PM, December 8th (Saturday)

What is LTA?


ME: Madhatter (32) 6 mo sexting A(2011)
HIM: Madhatter (35) 6 mo EA leading to 3 mo PA (2012)
Together 14 years, Married 11
3 Children ages 10,6 and 1
Pregnant with baby #4
DDAy of EA July 28, 2012
DDay of PA Nov 13, 2012

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, December 9th (Sunday)

LTA = Long Term Affair


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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whensitover
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, December 11th (Tuesday)

And who can forget POS-

Piece of shit. Always one of my favorites.


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SecondHelping
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, December 17th (Monday)

What does SA stand for?


D-Day 1: Feb 1990
D-Day 2: 3 Sep 2012 (3 month EA/3 week PA)
BS 49, fWW 43 (Amibroken)
OP- Police Chief (Age 37)
M 25 Yrs, 3 Kids (17, 14, 11)
I initated the relationship at the Railway Tavern, she tried to end it at Scrap Tavern

Posts: 489 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Delmarva
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, January 1st (Tuesday)

SA=Sex Addict


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, January 17th (Thursday)


.. ..i've been using 'bff' to mean best forever friend, 25 years .. but i saw today the abbrev. bmf and bff to refer to best 'male' friend and best 'female' friend..

..so to clarify ..all my posts in the past 3 years stating that i hate my bff .. ya, he's a guy. NOT MUCH OF ONE THOUGH!..

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4129 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
MonsterBride
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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, January 22nd (Tuesday)

What does MLC mean?


Me: BW, 36
Him: WH, 39, serial disappointment
Crimes: secret girlfriends, strippers
Status: preparing for divorce

Posts: 86 | Registered: Dec 2012
Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, January 23rd (Wednesday)

SA can also mean sexual abuse depending on the context

MLC = Mid Life Crisis


Indian wisdom says our lives are rivers. We are born somewhere small and quiet and we move toward a place we cannot see, but only imagine. From Tending Roses

Posts: 6542 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
SAR681
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Member # 36285
Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, February 4th (Monday)

What is 2x4's?


BW – Me, 32 FWH - Him, 33
Married 9 years, together for 14
3 Kids: 5 yrs, 3 yrs, 18 months
MOW - my "friend"
DD#1 – July 2012, admitted to an EA
DD#2 – 1/14/13, finally admitted to PA

http://endureevolve.blogspot.com/


Posts: 122 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Somewhere in Middle America
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, February 4th (Monday)

It's figuratively hitting someone over the head with a 2x4, kind of like knocking sense into somebody.

It's being honest with advice, even if it feels like scolding.

Sometimes a person does a 'gentle 2x4' because they want to help but they don't want to be too tough in their response to the poster.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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Strengthtonotcry
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, February 8th (Friday)

What does IC mean?


Me: BF (betrayed fiancé)
Dday 2/6/2013

I must have the strength


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, February 8th (Friday)

IC = Individual Counseling


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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mentalmess
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, February 10th (Sunday)

CSA as in a type of affair? I cant find a definition anywhere.,


Me BS 50
Him WS 48
OW 57 Boiling bunnies non stop for months!
M 25 years
LTA 5 yr
R'ed, very happy and we are enjoying his early retirement!

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ellie1977
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Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, February 21st (Thursday)

What does AP mean?

I think it's affair patner but that didn't make sense in all the threads I've read.


Me: BW 35 ~ almost 36
Him: WH 33~ almost 34
Married: 04/08/02
3 Kids
DD: Of PA and EA 12/31/12 knew before he admitted for 5 months
A: PA lasted 8 months EA lasted about 1 yr
OW: my cousin who was living with us the entire time of PA.
Hoping for R

Posts: 23 | Registered: Jan 2013
Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, February 27th (Wednesday)

I have seen CSA used to mean Chid Sexual Abuse

AP - I've only seen it used as Affair Patner so not sure what other text you are referring to?


Indian wisdom says our lives are rivers. We are born somewhere small and quiet and we move toward a place we cannot see, but only imagine. From Tending Roses

Posts: 6542 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
Thomas45840
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Default  Posted: 6:16 AM, March 5th (Tuesday)

I have seen CSA used for Casual Sex Affair.


Me: BS 50
She: WS 49
D-Day: 7/19/2002
Married 24y
Kids: s20, s17
Status: R'd

Posts: 19 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: OH
hopefulmother
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Member # 38790
Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, March 25th (Monday)

Why do some posts have a heart next to them?


Me-BW 39
WH-39
D-day 9-4-12
Major TT 8-14
Friends for 20yrs dating since 2000
Married 10yrs with 2 toddlers
My wedding band is a symbol of hope, forgiveness, love, and grace.

Posts: 946 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: PA
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, March 25th (Monday)

The hearts indicate that there are new responses since you lasted visited that page.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52535 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
hopefulmother
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, March 29th (Friday)

How do I post others comments in my post with the block, like I have seen in so many replies? I use copy and paste right click.


Me-BW 39
WH-39
D-day 9-4-12
Major TT 8-14
Friends for 20yrs dating since 2000
Married 10yrs with 2 toddlers
My wedding band is a symbol of hope, forgiveness, love, and grace.

Posts: 946 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: PA
windowsnotwalls
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, March 29th (Friday)

How do I post others comments in my post with the block, like I have seen in so many replies? I use copy and paste right click.

Copy it. Paste it to the reply box, highlight it, click "quote" on the left of the box. Or just put [***quote]before it and [***/quote] after without the ***

[This message edited by windowsnotwalls at 12:49 PM, March 29th (Friday)]


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http://youtu.be/62oby83NtGw
Forever Conditionally Detached

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har2muvon
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, April 30th (Tuesday)

New to site and trying to understand abbreviations. What is D-Day: Discovery Day?


har2muvon

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, May 2nd (Thursday)

har2...

Yes d-day = Discovery Day


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, May 12th (Sunday)

I suggest putting the following into the list in sequence, because the 'SA' part is used in so may acronyms.

SA - sex addict
CSA - childhood sexual abuse
CSAT - certified sex addiction therapist(?)
SAH/SAHM/SAHD(?) - stay at home

JMO....


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10333 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, May 26th (Sunday)

What does t/j mean?


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2195 | Registered: Jan 2012
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, May 26th (Sunday)

t/j = Threadjack - meaning taking a thread off topic.

It's also listed on the first post of this thread.

[This message edited by Deeply Scared at 11:38 AM, May 26th (Sunday)]


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198215 | Registered: May 2002
movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 11:34 AM, June 9th (Sunday)

What' s FT


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 640 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)

movingforward13 -

FT = Fucktard. I don't know who thought it up.

[This message edited by jo2love at 5:37 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)]


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DoneWithLove
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

What about one for 7-year-itch? Maybe something like 7YI?


BW: Me (24)
FWH: Him (24) Jlaz1988ws
Together 11/12/06
2 sons, ages 5 and 1
Married 9/29/12
EA turned PA with OW/ coworker for 2- 4 weeks
D day 4/20/13
TT 4/20/13 - 7/30/13
"R" 5/3/13

Posts: 191 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The mitten state
Take2
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Default  Posted: 6:18 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Probably self-explanatory but then I was so new to forums it was all an education:

D = Divorce
S = Separated
M = Married
R = Reconciling/reconciled
MOM = Married Other Man
MOW = Married Other Woman
SOW = Single Other Woman

NB = New Beginning

PA = Physical Affair
EA = Emotional Affair
ONS = One night stand
OLA = Online Affair...?
CL = Craig's List

^^ = What is written above

[This message edited by Take2 at 6:21 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)]


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4127 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
naivewife
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Default  Posted: 5:49 AM, July 12th (Friday)

AFF? Anyone?


D-day #1 - 1/23/13
false R, then...
D-day #2 - 3/26/13
I will come for the benefit of the sick, remaining free of all intentional injustice, of all mischief and in particular of sexual relations with both female and male persons. - Hippocratic Oath

Posts: 342 | Registered: Feb 2013
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:50 AM, July 12th (Friday)

Adult Friend Finders

(a hook up site, I think)


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 37974 | Registered: Sep 2007
Thiscantbhapning
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, July 19th (Friday)

What is a g2g?


BS (Me)-48
WH-49
COW-28
PA-5 1/2 months
D-Day 5-8-11 (Happy Mother's Day to me)
Married 26 years
DS-24
DD-22
Trying to R
"Maybe this thing was a masterpiece till you tore it all up."

Posts: 20 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Texas
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, July 19th (Friday)

g2g is a get to together

F&G lists the g2gs for people to have fun.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 7:36 PM, July 19th (Friday)]


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Simple
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Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, September 20th (Friday)

What is POSER? Piece of Shit Loser? I know POSOM... basically POS OM. Just not sure what poser is.


Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


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SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, September 20th (Friday)

It stands for Piece of Shit Ensign Rivera.

There is a discussion on the evolution of POSER by Defiled Rage on Page 7 of the Betrayed Menz page (volume 14)

[This message edited by wonderboy at 6:07 PM, September 20th (Friday)]


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


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cannibal
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Default  Posted: 1:29 AM, September 27th (Friday)

Anyone know what an SGAS Day is?
I did a Google search and came up with nothing and couldn't find it in the abbreviation link either.


Me: BF 35 Her: FWF 35 dss: 17
D-day: 06/06/04. Ons
D-day: 02/28/13. length of A: 4+ months
Seperation after dday
Moved back in 6/20/13
Broke n/c: 07/24/13
Together since: 02/05/02

Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: cannibal
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, September 27th (Friday)

Anyone know what an SGAS Day is?

I don't know that one, maybe someone else will


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198215 | Registered: May 2002
SabbyKat
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Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, September 27th (Friday)

Is there more complete list of Abbreviations?

Posts: 32 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Michigan
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, September 27th (Friday)

In the Healing Library under the link Abbreviations


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198215 | Registered: May 2002
SabbyKat
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Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, September 27th (Friday)

THANK YOU

Posts: 32 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Michigan
Confused85
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Default  Posted: 11:19 PM, September 27th (Friday)

What is WS stand for


Before you give up, think about why you held on for so long

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Cally60
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Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, October 7th (Monday)

WS = Wayward Spouse.

If the couple get back together and move on, the abbreviation FWS (Former wayward spouse) is sometimes used, too.

[This message edited by Cally60 at 7:22 PM, October 7th (Monday)]


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Cally60
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, October 7th (Monday)

Anyone know what an SGAS Day is?

[Edited to change my mind. ]

I think that it was used by someone here for a "Stop Giving A Sh** Day" (ie a day when one made a conscious effort not to care.)

[This message edited by Cally60 at 7:56 PM, October 7th (Monday)]


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forlornheart
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, October 28th (Monday)

I saw the abbreviation BBC today and I just can't figure that one out.

Anyone?


Me: 48- BW
Him: 45-WH-chronic cheater, PA and EA
Current Her: Mid to late 30's fatassed, no necked, troglodyte
D Day: August 23, 2013
Separated: August 23, 2013


Posts: 52 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Michigan
Tred
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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, October 28th (Monday)

Forlorn,

Can I ask where you saw it and how it was used in context? I know one abbreviation that it stands for, but I doubt that it would be used that way on SI.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, October 28th (Monday)

Maybe British Broadcasting Company.

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Gumdropped
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, November 4th (Monday)

Can you tell me how I copy text from a member and then start my response with it? I don't know to do that.

Thanks


Me: 56
Him: 60
Together 2 1/2 years


Living together 14 months
D day May 13th 2013
R


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naivewife
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, November 14th (Thursday)

Not an abbreviation but "Hoover?" What is that?


D-day #1 - 1/23/13
false R, then...
D-day #2 - 3/26/13
I will come for the benefit of the sick, remaining free of all intentional injustice, of all mischief and in particular of sexual relations with both female and male persons. - Hippocratic Oath

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EvacuationRoute
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, November 28th (Thursday)

Can I ask what S is? Sex? Separation?

Thanks

ER


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MOTG
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, November 30th (Saturday)

Hoover may depend on the context but I think it refers to a type or vacuum cleaner which translates into a blow job or some who likes to give BJ's.


Me: 33 mother to 2 girls
Him: 1 PA and 2 EA
Us: together 9 years married 5 years. Trying to work through this.
I refuse to commemorate D-Day

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Camille87
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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, December 4th (Wednesday)

What is:
STBXWH or STBXWW?

Obviously WH and WW are wayward husband and wayward wife but the rest?


Me: BS--42
FWH--45 (recently diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder)
(Two kids: a teen & a tween)
Married 20 years
R in progress
D-day: Nov 17, 2012

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, December 5th (Thursday)


STBXWH or STBXWW = Soon To Be Ex-Wayward Husband or Wayward Wife.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, December 5th (Thursday)

Hoover or hoovering is when a spouse (reference is typically for a remorseless WS) emotionally manipulates you back into the fray when you were just starting to exert independence from the relationship. (ie sucks you back in)

Give or take.

[This message edited by Jrazz at 2:06 PM, December 5th (Thursday)]


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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ILINIA
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Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, December 6th (Friday)

How about this one? TL;DR


Entering R slowly and cautiously...

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BrokenHurtAngry
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, December 11th (Wednesday)

Anyone know what VAR means?


Me - 34
WH - 36
Married - 6 years
D-DAY: 11/11/13; PA: 18 months
No kids
Both in IC, plan to move to MC at a later date

Posts: 16 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Louisiana
BrokenHurtAngry
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, December 11th (Wednesday)

How about this one? TL;DR

Too Long; Didn't Read


Me - 34
WH - 36
Married - 6 years
D-DAY: 11/11/13; PA: 18 months
No kids
Both in IC, plan to move to MC at a later date

Posts: 16 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Louisiana
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, December 11th (Wednesday)

VAR - Voice Activated Recorder

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Senraba02
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Default  Posted: 1:16 AM, December 12th (Thursday)

whats R?

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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 1:18 AM, December 16th (Monday)

R - Reconciliation

[This message edited by Brandon808 at 1:21 AM, December 16th, 2013 (Monday)]


xBH
D final 8/2012

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BeyondBrokenInTN
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Member # 41507
Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, January 2nd (Thursday)

Thank you so much for post!!! Very helpful!


Me: BGF 38F
Him: WBF 33M
Together for 5.9 years (4/5/08)
PA - Oct. 16, 17, 18, 2013 (business training out of state)
EA - Oct. 14 - Nov. 22, 2013 (same Woman)
D-DAY ~ Nov 22, 2013 (I found emails & confronted).
Working toward Reconciliation

Posts: 61 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Tennessee
kmom2662
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Member # 41494
Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

What does LEO mean? I've seen it a few times but can't find a definition.


Me-- WW, 49
Him-- BH, 53 (bobf)
Married 22 years
OEA, chat/email with multiple people over an 8 week period, 8/2013-10/4/2013
D-day 10/4/13
Working on reconciliation

Posts: 69 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: United states
spond
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Member # 41686
Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

LEO=Law enforcement officer


BH(me) | fWW
2 Kids - Married 2002
D-Day TT & EA | D-Day #2 PA
Reconciling

Posts: 412 | Registered: Dec 2013
kmom2662
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Member # 41494
Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, January 8th (Wednesday)

Thanks-- i have one more - FFS?


Me-- WW, 49
Him-- BH, 53 (bobf)
Married 22 years
OEA, chat/email with multiple people over an 8 week period, 8/2013-10/4/2013
D-day 10/4/13
Working on reconciliation

Posts: 69 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: United states
SisterMilkshake
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Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, January 13th (Monday)

For Fuck's Sake


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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